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  • in reply to: Slicha and Mechila #972011

    I request mechila from anyone and everyone who I have hurt or wronged. This includes both those who post and those who only read posts. Whether I have been too harsh, angry, insulting, flippant, dismissive, thoughtless, wrongly suspicious, misleading, not helpful where I could have been, or guilty of any other action (or lack thereof) that caused pain, I ask for your forgiveness.

    Nobody on this site needs to ask for my mechila, because any offense toward me was minimal and I am mochel it.

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    Thank you.

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    Wishing a ksiva vachasima tova to all the fine people here and all Klal Yisroel.

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    in reply to: Shailos? #953015

    YehudahTzvi-

    There are well-known poskim in NY whose phone numbers are listed and/or easily available.

    They include Rav Yisroel Belsky, Rav Feivel Cohen, Rav Hillel David and many others.

    in reply to: Motion Sensors on Shabbos #953498

    I find this shaila interesting.

    If you Google “motion sensor toilet shabbos”, sans quotes, you will find discussions on this precise topic.

    “Psik raisha d’lo nicha lei” and “kavod habriyos” figure prominently in those discussions.

    in reply to: Oh, they just wanna be like men #954067

    OneOfMany

    A couple of observations:

    1) You sure can write.

    2) There are communities that disagree with you on a community basis, while on an individual basis there are several women who do have careers that lets them use their talents.

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086741

    SecularFrummy

    Guess so.

    But a series “W” still would’ve been nice.

    I may even have brought my 30 year old Sports Illustrated with Billy Smith and “Bring Fourth The Cup” on its cover out of storage.

    Thank you.

    Good luck to your Blackhawks.

    Last but not least, good luck to the Rangers in their game 7 tonight.

    in reply to: Random Thoughts #953060

    writersoul-

    Not a random thought – I wish you hatzlocha on your test today.

    in reply to: Shavuous Shiur and Schedule Info Central #1017629

    Please feel free to post Shavuous information here.

    (thank you to whoever reopened this thread).

    in reply to: Mods? Mods? #1108098

    Since it’s almost Shavuous, in light of the smashing success the thread below has had in past years, please consider reopening it:

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/shavuous-shiur-and-schedule-info-central

    in reply to: Random Thoughts #953058

    “He can dish it out, but he can’t take it” is a common way of saying someone who dispenses insults gets offended when one is directed at him.

    OTOH, “He can dish it out, and he can take it” means that he may make comments that can be perceived as insulting, but he will also receive such comments in good grace.

    A praiseworthy characteristic that is almost never commented on is “He doesn’t dish it out, but he can take it” – someone who is both careful not to insult others, yet overlooks and is mochel insults directed toward himself.

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    Although I’ve frequently rebuked others in my self-appointed position as CR scold, in almost every instance I’ve felt bad thinking about the hurt inflected on the recipient. Perhaps I should either stop doing so altogether, or at the most just phrase a “please stop” request in the most parave terms and then not follow up to avoid intensifying any possible disagreement or having a discussion degenerate.

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    Nothing like Shavuous in yeshiva. I miss it.

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    There aren’t enough hours in the day to do everything you’d like. There aren’t enough brain cells in one’s head to remember everything and everyone we’d like to, either.

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    Skype and the like are fantastic for far-flung families staying in touch, especially grandparents who otherwise wouldn’t see their grandkids more than once a year.

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    Of all the potential successors to Mayor Bloomberg, not a single one impresses me. Joe Lhota seems to be the most competent and least pandering of the bunch.

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    Despite some pretty heavy rainstorms over the last week, the weather since Pesach has been very temperate – not too cold, not too hot.

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    Nothing creates a need that you didn’t even know existed like reading the Best Buy circular.

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    Important things in life:

    1) Menuchas hanefesh.

    2) Happiness, success and yiras shomayim for the kids.

    3) Health.

    Beyond that, anything else is gravy.

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    I don’t know if legalized gambling is a tax on the poor, but it certainly adversely and disproportionately affects them.

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    $15 cash to cross the Verrazano? That’s just the most egregious example of the sky-high rates charged to those leaving and entering New York City.

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    Have a Chag Kasher V’Sameach

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086737

    🙁

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086735

    Win some, lose some.

    Can’t complain, and besides, it isn’t over yet.

    in reply to: Cute Quotes #1046940

    Here are a few related quotes.

    (from a calendar)

    -Milton Berle

    -Peter De Vries

    -Calvin Trillin

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086733

    Well, I guess that means I’m no True Scotsman, er, Real Fan.

    And it wasn’t a walk, which implies a deliberate decision. It was more of a drift; just slowly losing interest over the years and decades without even noticing its diminution.

    Good luck to the Rangers & their fans tonight.

    in reply to: Nice Places for Sheva Brochos in Brooklyn #951595

    Spoons in Boro Park is a very nice milchig place with a separate room in back. Excellent food. They’re on 50th St. and 13th Ave.

    718-633-5555

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086731

    Congratulations, Islander fans.

    in reply to: Nice Places for Sheva Brochos in Brooklyn #951593

    commonsense-

    The hall has its own caterer, so you can get the complete cost (hall, food, waiters, etc) from them.

    Their listed number is 718-758-9700.

    in reply to: Nice Places for Sheva Brochos in Brooklyn #951586

    commonsense-

    I don’t have a restaurant recommendation (sorry!), but here are a few suggestions/ideas:

    -Owners and employees of kosher restaurants read these threads. So…

    1) How many people (approximately) do you have in mind?

    2) Does “Brooklyn” include Williamsburg, Crown Heights, etc. – i.e. all of Brooklyn, or only the Flatbush / Boro Park area?

    3) What price range do you have in mind (approximately – it’ll vary based on service, course choice, desserts and other factors).

    4) What other requirements do you have (private room, mechitza, etc).

    Good luck.

    Oh, and Mazel tov!

    in reply to: The Riddle Thread…. #1069924

    SaysMe-

    Thank you.

    Deleting letters 1(isle), 5(isl), 3(il) works if you pronounce isl as “isle”, which it is a legitimate abbreviation of. Pronounced as spelled, it would probably be “izzel”, which doesn’t quite make it 😛

    in reply to: The Riddle Thread…. #1069922

    squeak

    The judges gave me credit for 1.5

    Shticky Guy

    Aisle.

    in reply to: The Riddle Thread…. #1069915

    Shticky Guy-

    in reply to: The Riddle Thread…. #1069914

    squeak-

    Good hint.

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    in reply to: Mazel Tov! #1224166

    Mazel tov to “Midwood Yid” on his engagement!

    source: http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/romantic-restaurant#post-461712

    in reply to: Where Is Everybody? #997156

    Syag Lchochma

    Halevai! and IY”H

    OneOfMany

    You got it.

    Believe it or not, that famous score by Marius Constant wasn’t used until later episodes. The series was able to attain a high creepiness quotient even with the original theme.

    in reply to: Where Is Everybody? #997152

    Just push the “WALK” button and all will be answered.

    (Google “where is everybody” + “first episode” with the quotes and plus sign) ?

    in reply to: Do any charedim wear straw fedoras? #950364

    yytz-

    Thank you.

    in reply to: Do any charedim wear straw fedoras? #950361

    Perfection

    Do chareidies wear straw

    Why should that stick in your craw?

    Why should prying eyes

    Is it all a show?

    Yes, I act so pious

    Then you have no moral heft

    You refuse to see the light

    I like myself just so

    Moderator-

    If the title of this thread could be changed to “MUST READ and PASS ALONG – Spina Bifida, Pregnancy and Nutrition”, or something else that was indicative of this thread’s topic it would probably get more attention from its intended audience.

    Choosing a thread title that’s generic and/or not indicative of the thread’s content causes the thread to be missed and overlooked by people who may have been interested.

    right you are

    in reply to: Friends Figuring Out Your Identity #955820
    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183227

    write or wrong-

    That was amazing. If more people had that approach, they’d be far happier.

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086729

    Bah

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086727

    Correction:

    The Montreal Canadiens were 10-1 in overtime in 1993, not 10-0. (See what happens when you rely on memory instead of Google?)

    They lost their first OT game, then won ten straight.

    Montreal came back to win the next four games, the series, and eventually, the cup.

    in reply to: To all those Isles fans out there… #1086724

    Tonight, the New York Islanders and Pittsburgh Penguins face each other in the playoffs for the fourth time. If this series is anything like the first three, hockey fans are in for a treat. The first three times these two teams faced each other, we had the all of the following:

    – Every series going to a deciding double elimination game.

    – Every double elimination game being decided by one goal.

    – Two of the three double elimination games being decided in overtime.

    – One best-of-seven series featured a comeback from a 3-0 deficit.

    – Two series featured a two-time defending Stanley Cup Champion facing elimination in a huge upset.

    Here are synopses of the prior three meetings between these two teams:

    1975

    The Islanders were the new kids on the block in this one. Only two years earlier, in their inaugural season, they had set a NHL record for futility, winning only twelve games over a full season. This year, they were actually a pretty decent team, although their defeat of the New York Rangers in an earlier round of the playoffs, just eleven seconds into sudden death double elimination, was regarded as luck or a fluke.

    The Islanders nearly did it again that year, coming back from 0-3 to tie the two-time defending champion Philadelphia Flyers at 3-3 before losing in game 7.

    1982

    1993

    That was the last series the Islanders ever won. They lost the next round to the Montreal Canadiens, despite the return of a diminished Pierre Turgeon. The Canadiens won games two and three in overtime as part of their amazing 10-0 record in OT games that playoff year.

    The Penguins have had their ups and downs, including bankruptcies, the first ever player/owner in NHL history, and a return to glory with their third Stanley Cup a few years ago.

    2013

    Will the Islanders win their first playoff series in twenty years?

    Will Pittsburgh finally defeat the Islanders in the playoffs?

    Who knows?

    in reply to: Capital Punishment #951533

    nfgo3

    The defilement of Jewish war casualties and captives by Arabs outrages us, but doesn’t cause us to reconsider anything. Even in cases where there is nothing left of the physical body, such as Holocaust victims R”L, the neshoma remains and the olam ha’emes and techiyas ha’maisim will be forthcoming.

    The defilement of terrorists’ bodies is morally repugnant to our sense of decency. Simply to abuse the bodies of one’s enemies to degrade them instead of giving postmortem respect goes against our humanity. But that isn’t what “oomis” is suggesting.

    Terrorists, especially suicide bombers, are largely inspired (or if you prefer, brainwashed) to act based on the premise that after they die committing their action they will find themselves in whatever their version of heaven and the afterlife are. AFAIK, they also believe that being buried with a pig’s carcass will prevent their heavenly ascension. I wonder myself what Israel’s reason is for not threatening to bury every suicide bomber or other terrorist who dies in an attack with a pig carcass. It actually seems more fair to me than demolishing the houses of relatives.

    Are there factors I’m not considering? Definitely. I’m sure Israel, which must actually contend with terrorism, has considered this and rejected it for a reason.

    daniela

    My post to “nfgo3” applies to you as well.

    in reply to: Computer just died, need replacement advice #948478

    Vogue-

    I’m afraid I know nothing about chromebooks.

    Some really quick research on the $249 Samsung Chromebook shows:

    -It’s not a PC at all. It isn’t even comparable to a PC. It uses its own operating system, and it’s primarily intended to be used with both apps and data residing on the web. (It can be used while offline, too.)

    -It gets good reviews from technical sites.

    -It seems quite capable of handling your requirements.

    I strongly recommend that you read reviews – both professional and man-on-the-street – to help decide if this is something you’re interested in. Even better would be if you can get your hands on one (perhaps a friend’s?) to try things out for yourself.

    Also, if you will be accessing documents you create on your Chromebook from a different machine, will there be any compatibility or conversion issues?

    Wish I could be more helpful.

    in reply to: Computer just died, need replacement advice #948476

    Vogue-

    word processing: any PC should be fine.

    school: assumption: this means note-taking, report writing, homework, etc. any PC should be fine.

    excel: unless working with huge files and complicated formulas, any PC should be fine.

    web browsing: any PC should be fine.

    Do you have a specific model you’d like an opinion on?

    Taking a step back, are you sure it doesn’t pay to repair your macbook?

    in reply to: What did you think was cool… #1002587

    Interesting thread idea.

    Hmmmm……

    -Learning that the United States was the most powerful country in the world.

    -Finding out an acquaintance’s father drove a taxi (infinitely cooler than a boring office job).

    -Learning Moshiach is coming by the year 6000 (practically around the corner!)

    -Seeing postage stamps from Israel! With Hebrew lettering!

    -Xerox machines (much better than mimeographs). And they don’t even destroy the original!

    -Electric pencil sharpeners. (who hasn’t sharpened a pencil down to a nub when first trying out an electric sharpener?)

    -A shul that had a Candy Lady as well as a Candy Man (really!)

    -Koirim on RH and YC. Al Chait on YC.

    -The Entebbe raid and rescue.

    -Watching the milkman deliver in the predawn hours. They really didn’t have a driver’s seat in those trucks.

    -Seeing trains on McDonald Avenue. Not on the elevated line, but on the street itself.

    -President Ford coming to Yeshiva of Flatbush to speak.

    -Rabeim actually playing baseball with us on Lag B’Omer.

    -Heavier-than-air flight. (just checking if you read this far.)

    in reply to: Computer just died, need replacement advice #948474

    Vogue

    Not sure what type of info you’re looking for. Would you like feedback on a specific model that you have in mind, or recommendations for laptops in that price range?

    Also, to give meaningful feedback to that type of question, we need to know what type of applications you will be running.

    Thanks for the recommendation.

    For those who haven’t yet seen my disclaimer, I’m not a PC professional, nor a serious hobbyist. I potchke with – er, repair – PCs for myself and family using info gathered from the internet.

    yentingyenta

    I realize that it’s a done deal at this point, but I’ve had laptop keyboards destroyed by spilled drinks, and was able to replace the keyboard and restore the PC to full functionality. Even if you don’t do the repair yourself, it can still be far cheaper than replacing the entire PC.

    oomis

    Without examining the PC there’s no way of knowing what the problem is.

    It may be that a component (such as the hard drive) has jolted loose, a component may be broken, or the PC may be damaged beyond repair (e.g. cracked motherboard).

    If there’s someone available to take a quick look at the PC, I recommend that they go into the BIOS setup and see if the hard disk is recognized – if it isn’t, it’s likely damaged or disconnected. Memory is another thing that may have been damaged or loosened.

    The fact that the splash screen is showing means at least the LCD isn’t broken and is functioning.

    in reply to: Capital Punishment #951503

    oomis-

    “This is a mass murderer, and the only way to get rid of the vermin that commit such atrocities, is to take them out of this world. Immediately. Our enemies should see this is the result when they are caught, that they are not left alive to be bargaining chips for Americans who are captured by them.”

    Once they are killed, a la Yassin and Rantisi, kidnapping an Israeli for a hostage / prisoner exchange becomes pointless.

    “I am actually not fond of the idea of capital punishment, but I am also not so naive as to believe people who commit such horrific deeds deserve to live. The people they murdered also had lives. These remorseless monsters cannot be rehabilitated, and justice demands that they pay with their own lives for the ones they took. Unfortunately they can only die once. I can live with that. I certainly do not want my tax dollars spent on their incarceration. I am not a violent person by any means. But I am tired of tiptoeing around terrorists, not calling a spade a spade, and allowing them to literally get away with murder. Daniel Pearl’s blood cries out for justice, and now so do all the victims in Boston, in the Twin Towers, and in E”Y.”

    I can’t (and don’t) disagree with that at all.

    My question is about the age of legally executing a perpetrator of such acts.

    in reply to: Helpful Jewish Websites #948145

    talmud-

    Here are a couple of past threads on the subject:

    Good Jewish Torah Links

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/good-websites

    in reply to: Capital Punishment #951501

    Correction to my previous post:

    In the first sentence, “before his nineteenth birthday” should be “before his twentieth birthday”.

    in reply to: Capital Punishment #951499

    We currently have a high-profile case where a murderer who committed his crime before his nineteenth birthday is being considered for the death penalty.

    As everyone is undoubtedly aware, the murderer is Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, and his crimes are:

    -the bombing of the Boston Marathon, in which three innocents were killed, dozens maimed, and over 200 injured.

    -the attacks and shootouts with Massachusetts police officers, in which one officer was killed and another grievously wounded.

    -the construction of several additional explosive devices, presumably to be used for future attacks (in New York?)

    He expressed no remorse for his horrific attack, no sympathy for the dead and injured, and actually bragged to his carjacking victim about being the perpetrator.

    However, we are a country of laws. This requires that monsters like Timothy McVeigh and his ilk receive the same rights as anyone else.

    In the case of Martin Grossman, I argued against capital punishment because of a) his age and b) his borderline-retarded mental state.

    Grossman: one victim.

    Tsarnaev: multiple victims.

    Grossman: not premedited, committed in panic.

    Tsarnaev: premeditated mass murder of innocents was his plan.

    Grossman: borderline retarded.

    Tsarnaev: average or above average intelligence.

    Grossman: knew what he did was wrong.

    Tsarnaev: probably believed that was he did was heroic (although he obviously knew it was wrong per U.S. law)..

    Grossman: guilty beyond doubt (confession and other evidence)

    Tsarnaev: guilty beyond doubt (confession and other evidence)

    What are your thoughts about executing Tsarnaev?

    -What cases, if any, make you rethink your position re: capital punishment?

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    in reply to: Good Shabbos! #1135908

    Gut Shabbos.

    in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947927

    charliehall

    Are you saying that putting someone on a watch list should a) require that the subjects be informed they are on the list, and b) require that they should have the opportunity to remove themselves from that list and c) require being restricted on gun purchases and perhaps other things?

    If I misunderstood your point, please correct me.

    in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947926

    sw33t

    After the WTC and Oklahoma City bombings, there were many proposed measures to make it less likely to recur.

    Among them:

    -Creating nitrogen-based fertilizer that would be unsuitable for bomb-building.

    -Adding identifying characteristics to fertilizer to help identify where it was from in case of a bomb.

    -Protecting vulnerable buildings by placing barriers around them.

    in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947925

    big deal

    The high-capacity magazines that Lanza used allowed him to shoot a huge number of bullets before the police arrived at the scene. Each of his victims had at least three gunshot wounds. This type of magazine would be prohibited under the new law. While there still would have been victims even if seven-bullet magazines were used, there probably would have been many less.

    What are you unsure of? The other two shootings were committed by known mentally ill individuals who bought their own guns. Background checks, which the new law would mandate together with reporting, should have stopped those sales.

    As far as inconvenience, a one-time background check when buying weapons is far less inconvenient than the screening we must undergo when flying, when going to a stadium (e.g. for the siyum hashas), when going into a mall in Israel and many more examples. BTW, you are aware that this inconvenience already exists whenever buying from a gun store?

    in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947924

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    in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947923

    Yserbius123

    “Confession: The Second Amendment is a little out of date and should be taken out of the Constitution altogether. “

    in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947910

    -The laws, as they exist, allowed Adam Lanza to use an assault weapon with large-capacity magazines to slaughter twenty-six innocents – twenty children and six adults – including heroic school staffers who died trying to protect the children they were responsible for.

    -The laws, as they exist, allowed Jared Lee Loughner to shoot eighteen people, murdering six, with a pistol that had a high capacity magazine.

    -The laws, as they exist, allowed Seung-Hui Cho to shoot forty nine people at Virginia Tech, murdering thirty two, including a Jewish professor who heroically died while saving many of his students’ lives.

    The vetting done by any hiring company, credit card issuer, insurer, or the like is far more extensive than what’s proposed for prospective gun owners.

    charliehall

    It is not legal to sell guns to violent felons (or any felons) or mentally ill people. What is missing is the ability to detect that the buyer is a felon and/or insane due to the lack of compulsory background checks in all sales.

    in reply to: Looking for a verizon Droid Phone #956672

    just my hapence-

    The Galaxy SIII mini looks like a nice phone and seems a good option for people who don’t want the massive tablet-like phones that are so popular nowadays.

    But…

    The Galaxy SIII mini apparently isn’t officially sold in the U.S.

    While it will work on Sprint, AT&T and other GSM networks, it won’t work on Verizon’s CDMA network 🙁

    info from Amazon’s q&a section from the Galaxy SIII mini page

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