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  • in reply to: Dealing with confusing relationships #2147598
    Jewish12345
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    Just to make things clear. I’m talking about guys in their 20’s at an age that they were supposed to be mature many years beforehand. Thanks for the answers so far.

    in reply to: latest shidduch data #2144269
    Jewish12345
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    This is so stupid and a waste of time Meir seems to not have anything else important to do everyday

    in reply to: Moving to EY #2139829
    Jewish12345
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    What’s a Lakewood style community?

    What’s a Lakewood style community in Isreal??

    in reply to: Can we please fix the Coffee Room? #2137380
    Jewish12345
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    Can anyone explain the point of these coffee room conversations ?

    in reply to: Where is Moshe Kleinerman? Take on something!! #2127521
    Jewish12345
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    I’m here never vanished interesting that you think everyone just disappears all day

    in reply to: Shidduchem in 2022 #2127313
    Jewish12345
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    Why does the link work then at Yida post is the mod said no outside links?

    in reply to: Succos In Israel-whose money? #2127312
    Jewish12345
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    Commosaychel

    Stop with the criticism and bashing aboht people’s writing. We all understand perfectly what he wrote. His post can be as long as he wants given that the moderator lets it through. I also got tons of slack for now knowing how to write and that my post was too long. Simply just stop and say your comment and answer or just delete your account. We all can say our opinion in as many paragraphs as we want.

    in reply to: Succos In Israel-whose money? #2126934
    Jewish12345
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    Such a stupid conversation. How do you know if they give a lot or a little to poor families? Even though there is still many poor families in Isreal doesn’t mean this guy didn’t give more than enough. And even he didn’t give enough who said he can’t spend his money lent to him for 120 years in a way that helps his family grow and connect? Did you think they are just going to Isreal and spending money and there is no experience and connection involved!! This is disgusting I have personally went with my family and the amount we gained away together was amazing we would do it every year if we can. There is so much to gain together away it’s not just about spending the money and looking at why poor families still exist. There is also local families that need money and I thought you need to give money to a local family first??

    Basically you’re just jealous that you don’t go to Isreal for Sukkos or you think you can tell the world how to spend their money….. not going to happen

    in reply to: Shidduchem in 2022 #2124624
    Jewish12345
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    This is going off topic…..

    Thanks for all the answers so far. Seems that there is no solution to this problem other than just davening and knowing that doing what’s right for you under the guidance of your rabbi. Hope there can be some change or more awareness one day.

    in reply to: Apartment in Isreal for Sukkos ASAP! #2124484
    Jewish12345
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    Hope I got through to you but I can’t send my private info here.

    in reply to: Shidduchem in 2022 #2123651
    Jewish12345
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    Last time explained. Don’t mind me explained it pretty well. I wasn’t interested in giving full details about what I do or don’t do. I was just saying that a guy not leanring in a mainstream place doesn’t mean is a bad guy and should be put into a box when it comes to shiduchem. They can be following halacha and learning the same much or in many cases more than the guy in a mainstream yeshiva. I know guys that don’t do anything with their time in the mainstream yeshivas. It’s unbelievable that the world boxed us in to a certain category only because we are not in a mainstream yeshiva but they don’t even bother to know about the guy if he’s learning or following halacha. All that matters is if he is on paper in a mainstream place!!

    Ridiculous world!

    Wow let’s make fun now that I don’t know how to write and not agree that this system is corrupt!

    in reply to: Shidduchem in 2022 #2123581
    Jewish12345
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    Whoever can’t understand my English shouldn’t post anything and just continue to listen to ideas for your daughters only from mainstream yeshivas and who cares if they are actually leanring or following halacha as long you got your first check in your priority book. “Sitting in a mainstream yeshiva (not learing not following halacha)

    What a shame that the focus is on my literacy now

    in reply to: Best Cell Phone Service in Lakewood?? #2117528
    Jewish12345
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    I’m roaming and I have at and t good 5g service

    in reply to: A I Stone versus Tyrwhitt or Brooks Brothers #2116077
    Jewish12345
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    Who said I’m not a girl speaking. Assumption one that’s stupid. What does shirts have with middos and shidduchim. Assumption two that’s even stupider. You are responding to me and know what I’m saying but you seem to say I don’t have any grammar then how are you answering and knowing what I’m saying. Assumption three the stupidest of all. Usually leave the worst for the last!!!!

    in reply to: A I Stone versus Tyrwhitt or Brooks Brothers #2115602
    Jewish12345
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    Always ask questions

    Thanks for the comment about my spelling. Is it that you don’t wear shirts so you needed to say something so you picked my spelling? Or you’re just stam not sure how to respond? I feel like I’m dealing with a baby here…..

    in reply to: Where is Moshe Kleinerman? Take on something!! #2099733
    Jewish12345
    Participant

    Grow up this is not a joke either take on something or just stay quiet don’t play games when a Jewish soul is lost and parents have to go through all this.

    in reply to: Chutznik Leining in Yerushalayim until Matos-Masei #2088227
    Jewish12345
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    Better question which I can’t seem to find an answer to is why are we behind till the end of Bamidbar and not catching up in a week at the end of Vayikra????

    No one seems to know the answer so far….

    in reply to: Why isn’t Mashiach here yet? #2087281
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    YungermanS

    Wowow I see you have it all worked out to think and just say all that we all know what has to be done and fixed it disturbed me immensely to see that you are acting as if you know why Moshiach is not here I mean wow I have seen so much achdus and helping hands in my city and people always mean what they say when it comes to teshuva to just predict and say things anyone can do focus more on what you need to do instead of ripping the whole klal in this coffee room. I feel so disturbed that someone can even speak like this!

    in reply to: Movies and Noshim. #2087043
    Jewish12345
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    It’s a great story. You can’t argue with what happened you can argue that he doesn’t know what happened or was told over wrongily but a story is there it’s facts no way to change that.

    It’s possible to be ok and not have hung with women and watched movies bh be knew how to answer and was saved but even he didn’t know how to answer it is possible that he just didn’t get busy with girls and movies I know many people like that and this is these days in 2022!

    Jewish12345
    Participant

    Maybe try to accept all of your inner feelings and emotions and then be gentle and soft to them and tell it that you are there for them and understand what they are trying to do but you just feel that it’s not helping you at this point and then breathe and respond again like this when it comes up again. Let me know how you feel after this approach. Good luck.

    in reply to: Shidduchem vs real estate #2085515
    Jewish12345
    Participant

    Thanks for the encouragement and replies seems from here that we need to do hishtadlus but we won’t know if and when we will get married. It also seems that someone hates resumes which I think is just hishtadlus to get the name out and the information.

    But finding a good property will take as hard work as finding a good match.

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