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January 28, 2013 1:10 am at 1:10 am in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182824
K I got the rabbis name not his number so I’ll google him…where is he located ??
Hoe did u hear of him?January 28, 2013 1:01 am at 1:01 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928402
There not working with me rather there disgusting to me. I know that he shouldn’t be a rav!!!!! And trees plant them i don’t knowbut this “rav” makingme think a lot bout god!!! Switch but I lovem y friends!! And rebel why you think that?January 28, 2013 12:58 am at 12:58 am in reply to: Needs advice #930554
Says me- yeh but don’t know he didn’t answer me who those people are…..
Rationalfrummie- hello to you to and thanks for the hatzalchaJanuary 28, 2013 12:07 am at 12:07 am in reply to: Getting lost #924396
Funnybone what was the end of the story?
Shiratobala I’m happy you understand me sorry if icame out to strogJanuary 28, 2013 12:06 am at 12:06 am in reply to: Getting the other to say no #972129
But normally after like 3/4 date you drop the shadchanJanuary 28, 2013 12:06 am at 12:06 am in reply to: Getting the other to say no #972128
That’s trueJanuary 28, 2013 12:05 am at 12:05 am in reply to: Needs advice #930551
So DY can you please give me a number to ask a shailahJanuary 27, 2013 11:57 pm at 11:57 pm in reply to: Negel Vasser #925750
Because you have to get the “shedim” to leave your hands by outing water all over them and the way they leave is out through the fingertipsJanuary 27, 2013 11:54 pm at 11:54 pm in reply to: What would you do…? #928400
Saysme- yes it’s been a really looooooong month!! And I thought I made it clear but I guess not it wasn’t just my friends who told me all 27 classmates some who I just say hi to nothing more and they were shocked that’s when I knew it was something bad!!!!! Parents really nt doing anything anymore I yelled at my parents for not sticking up for me and taking care f it etc I was and am very hurt by him amd even though my friends don’t believe him for what he said I still feel like I have to save my name what should isay?! I still cry myself to bed everynight bec of this I’m mortified and now I have a lot of questions about god who is he, how do we know we were the chosen nation, what does moshiach mean, how do we know that no other nation is true, etc a lot is because of this!!!! Do you have a rav I can call? I’m just not sure bout this rav who overheard I would get him in touch with a rav who I would talk to so he can hear his perspective…do you have a rav oleaseeeee?? Can’t cont like this losing my mind!!!!
Being that we were talkingbout stomach problems I have a question sorry if I’m ruining this thread..; I have bad stomach pains often I don’t have so much of an appetite any more, I’m constanly constipated or total opposite never normal, sometimes I bleed from using the bathroom went todoctors couple of times and kept giving mestuff for IBS like : Mirilax, something stool etc. I am also stressed. Is this possible that it’s gastritis?January 27, 2013 11:35 pm at 11:35 pm in reply to: Snow Snow Snow #925862
I don’t know what school you go to?? Can you tell me?
And good bec I dot want to shorten our short summer anymoreJanuary 27, 2013 11:34 pm at 11:34 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182819
Think purplicious asked me that question…January 27, 2013 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182818
Yes purplicios exactly and I think were inthe same situation and weird q what grade you in? um yeh that will be great if you can ask him if you can give number out or at least his name etc.
ST- no it’s nt smart to give names on here? But what happend to you u ave ur name over?? Um well who are you meaning a teen or adult?? And what is ncsy?
Um purplicious ok how should I give you the name and number? Willthe mods (who are the mods? What do they do?) let it go through?January 27, 2013 11:24 pm at 11:24 pm in reply to: Getting lost #924393
Shiratobala- not true!!!! Idk if your married but if not wat u x gna marry someone if they get lost?
This type of reaction is what the boy won’t like!!!!!!! This will guarantee a negative..January 27, 2013 11:07 pm at 11:07 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182813
Yes my friend is a teen. The girls she found were very very negative and not understanding. It’s a known thing that girlswork better with boys and vice versa….now I’m really curious to know who your male person is. The last female person she spoke to lied to her and caused her somemore problems. So now after 3 bad female stories I finally got her to agree to talk to a man but that’s iy if this guy is not good then she won’t see anyoneelse do youget why I’m so scaredand “pushing you” purplicious? Someone did give me a rebbetzien who you can call privately but she doesn’t want a women so idk maye she’s good for u…January 27, 2013 11:02 pm at 11:02 pm in reply to: Snow Snow Snow #925859
Why is everyone cheering for snow if we have off for snow anymore then tere going to push off the regents that means more school they already took so vacationdays awayfrom public school one snow day and things will be Ouse off!!!!!January 27, 2013 10:47 pm at 10:47 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182808
Okay purplicious and yes she is my friend an inside your friend might really want someone to talk to but is scared of different things…it took a while but this is what got out of her and yes it’s still a whole fighting match to get her to talk to someone. The only problem woth rabbi wallerstein is he’s very busy but if this person is comfortable woth a person shell need them available often at least for now. Okay I see you really don’t want to give me the name I’m going to try searching for someone but quick question is your person male or female?January 27, 2013 10:31 pm at 10:31 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182805
Yossi613- do you also mentor teenage girls? This girl had 3 bad experiences talking to 3 different lady therapists. I need a man for her.
Adams- what are some good books that you recommend from rabbi twerski for teenage girls starting/ drifting to OTD?January 27, 2013 10:18 pm at 10:18 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182804
Purplicious- one thing that I stand by when I try to deal with the person I know is “she comes to me because she trusts me and needs my help he doesn’t open up to anyone else let’s c what I can do”
Aries2756- aren’t hatzalah obligated to rush a person to hatzalah of they hear te person say they want to commit suicide ort die?! Another thing what do these 2 websites do? Does anyone know if rabbi Zechariah Wallerstein is good?
Purplicious- how did u find your person? Will you be able togive meth name so icangoogle it or ask him if ou can give it out? Sorry to pressure you but he needs help!!January 27, 2013 10:07 pm at 10:07 pm in reply to: NEW CR RULE: Typing Words In Normal English #928479
I in w/ u purplicious!!!!!
Oneofmany- yeh it does no?!January 27, 2013 8:38 pm at 8:38 pm in reply to: What do you drink, if you have a cold on motzaei shabbos? #924831
Purplicious- wat type of school you go to I may be looking to switch before next year and notsp great that teachers don’t care but at least ur principals do mine are worse then the teachers!!January 27, 2013 8:35 pm at 8:35 pm in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182798
Okay first of all to purplicious can you at least give me his name so I can research him? Or if you feel comfortable to ask him if you can give his name and number to someone….
.arues2756- what exactly does rabbi goldwasser deal with? Will he do It over the phone without anyone giving names? (she will not let if she has to give name) what is his number? the questions are all about how do we know we arethe chosen nation and what do you mean a creatorthat we can’t see etc. Is there also a book I can get for these type of question. And to both of you, yes suicide is something not to be taken lightly but what will hatzalah do lock a person in te hospital? Purplicious- you might want toget her to a therapist if you think she might have depression!! That might be able to solve a lot f things. Depression is something that can’t be left untreated!January 27, 2013 8:22 pm at 8:22 pm in reply to: What would you do…? #928397
Saysme- Its ok :). And I apologized 2X once a week after the incident and one a month after. My parents even got involved nothing is working. And halevivi I can’t just forget about it he won’t let me into his classes but is making me pass them (which he considers a pass 85%) he’s murder even if you in his class let alone out of it. My thing is even of he was insecure or had a bad day like says me said, then if things happen that you will blow up like this my theory is don’t be in chinuch your ruining a child!!!! I’m ruined from it my toughts are how cam a rav ever do such a thing? Then he give speeches on treating everyone nicely, anger etc and this is what he does it’s inexceptible I don’t think he should be a rav at all even if he’s smart etc first comes first “PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH” am I wrong for this? Halevivi off it was just about being thrown out then fine but I was BASHED!! I’m really hurt whenever I think about it I cry and ask Hashem how such a thing can happen HE’S A RAV?!?! I don’t think I’m wrong for thinking this it’s true he’s a rav!!!! I wouldn’t bash someone infront f people or give a class on not to turn out like her, she’s bad, don’t be yer friend etc?! Hope I made things clearer in here
Dy- sorry hope this is better?January 27, 2013 8:09 pm at 8:09 pm in reply to: Needs advice #930549January 27, 2013 7:27 pm at 7:27 pm in reply to: NEW CR RULE: Typing Words In Normal English #928472
No abbreviating?January 27, 2013 6:57 pm at 6:57 pm in reply to: Getting lost #924388
I think that getting lost is a real test for both the guyt and the girl. The girl can see what the boys reaction is I.e if e goes crazy or just calmy turns around and same to the guy I.e if the girl gets annoyed or edgy. This is a test to see how the person will react in a stressful or pressured time. It’s a normal thing to get lost remember that!January 27, 2013 3:57 pm at 3:57 pm in reply to: This may sound like a crazy question but I'm serious… #941866
We will all see very soon by moshiach!!!!!!! Let it be a surpriseJanuary 27, 2013 3:55 pm at 3:55 pm in reply to: Needs advice #930544
Dy- thnk you I really appreciate it. Can I ask who are these people who answer?
Daniela- I’m over bas mitzvah………..Thnks for really caring ad yeh I feel wether Halacha or not that the 50$ must make up!!!! But I’m upset that school is not being so nice about it thayer I want to ask a rav bec I can look at cameras only if school let’s!!!January 27, 2013 3:51 pm at 3:51 pm in reply to: What do you drink, if you have a cold on motzaei shabbos? #924827
Purplelicious- no it’s only like two teachers otherise there awful and hate the guts out of us!!! Do not switch to my school they treat you like dirt only if you donate a lot to the school do they love you. We don’t bec of the way they treat me! Hate my school!!!!January 27, 2013 3:48 pm at 3:48 pm in reply to: WHO was right in this situation? #1105452
Mercury- “at the right time” keep us postedJanuary 27, 2013 6:01 am at 6:01 am in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182790
I really need someone who is good because if and only if (it might be hard) I get her to go toa rav that’s it if he’s not good then forget it shell never go to someone thts y I wnt a person you have..January 27, 2013 5:59 am at 5:59 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928392
Talmud- no he is a know rabbi so hes not building himself up and suffering the one trying to build myself up but with him it’s impossible. Andagain I need a number ofa rav to talk with I dot know who I should talkwithJanuary 27, 2013 5:56 am at 5:56 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928391
Okay he told my parents that “I agree I was being a little more for somereason watching your daughter and wat she did was nothing specific…” oh youean that way dy yes he was kind of stuttering then e realized maybe he was wrong. Oomis I reallydont know what to do I was so well behaved I promise I never behaved so well in his class before this time u really didn’t move a muscle amd he yelled at me “you have to sit and tremble and have fear in myclass” who does he think he is god?!January 27, 2013 5:34 am at 5:34 am in reply to: Getting the other to say no #972125
One of many- I 100% agree with youJanuary 27, 2013 5:33 am at 5:33 am in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182788
Purplicious- I don’t know a rav to call who did you speak with please give me a name and numbe R thmksJanuary 27, 2013 5:31 am at 5:31 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928387
I’m stuck because I’m upset and hurt I don’t know what I should doJanuary 27, 2013 5:21 am at 5:21 am in reply to: What do you drink, if you have a cold on motzaei shabbos? #924820
One of my mechancim told me and my friends that after shabbos if you get a headache or stomachache or justdont feel well after havdalah you should make another bracha on besomim and take3 long breaths feel better!January 27, 2013 5:18 am at 5:18 am in reply to: Needs advice #930541
Dass yochid- I dont know if itwas so clear but in () I said that I only found out that things were stolen from peoples lockers after my story happend. Also, as I wrote above, we were told not to have locks so I kept it under like four sefarim hidden not even my best friend knew it seems a little weird that someone did this to y locker on this particular night.
Yes, I do babysit etc and I know that people won’t be happy so o do haveto fond a way for the $50 that’s why I wanted to look at cameras in school but they said no so I feel like oddity said no, then they shld pay methe $50? Second of all does anyone have a rav I can call anonymously and find out what to do? Thnk uJanuary 27, 2013 5:13 am at 5:13 am in reply to: Devora, Chana, and Miriam #924984
T613t- let me get back to you I’m going to try to find the source for youJanuary 27, 2013 5:08 am at 5:08 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928385
Das yochid- yes I will but this rabbi teach me next year so I don’t know if I want to gethim so much involved I don’t wat him to know this bout me before he even has me as a student. I’m very upset about all this and don’t knowbwhere to go with this. I get soupset at everyone because noone sticks up for me not even my parent so well. He basically said that I didn’t do anything (c my last post) and my parents shld of pressed him further but no instead I hav to go through. So much argus nefesh! Ive been davening to Hashem to help me with this but I’m afraid he hasn’t 🙁January 27, 2013 5:05 am at 5:05 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928384
Thnk you just having fun. My parents got involved ad afte my parents pressing him he said oh i don’t exactly know wat she did wrong but….” I was so mad and right now I’m really stuck and yes , I hold Avery bad grudge and I curse him out (in my head) and I rly don’t know wts gna be but I want an apology infront of my classmates I’m so embarrassed !!! Even though they all told me don’t worry we know were right and te stuf he was saying wasn’t true, I’m still hurt and want an apology this is what Ili get when was being good I’m hurt and cinfused!January 27, 2013 4:44 am at 4:44 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928381
Daas yochid-I am trying to but this rav 1) teaches all over so he’s very busy and 2) he doesn’t either know the whole story he just saw that happen and he doesn’t knowwat to say about that…I’m telling you I’m really stuck on this situation!!! Dont know wat to do!!!January 27, 2013 4:23 am at 4:23 am in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182786
A question also: I know someone who is going through a lot in school she is being hurt and torn apart. She doesn’t know what to do with her self her questions about Hashem and who is he r we the true nation etc r tough and not getting answers from anyone. She was suspended now back in school and keeps getting physically sick bec she’s stressed out. I have to admit that theschool treats her like dirt. What shouldbedone?January 27, 2013 4:18 am at 4:18 am in reply to: Needs advice #930538
Anyone have any advice not on the spelling or grammar?!?!January 27, 2013 4:13 am at 4:13 am in reply to: What would you do…? #928378
Says me- first of all all my classmates said it to me after I pulled It out of them what happens I mean they walked outof theclass red eyed crying second of all principals said tree not doin anything bout it and I have to dealwith it. Third ofall even if rabbi wasn’t getting the respect he shld of (I’m not saying he did rdidnt def from me he got respect) it doesntake a difference you don’t bash student I’m extremely hurt from him. And I did go over an apologize and he told me “I’m helpless,hopeless,…etc” there was another rav if the room at that time. That rav didn’t know wat to say he was shocked!! So basically I didn’t do anything wrong and I’m tortured from him!!!!!! People likethis should not be in chinuch you ruin a child like this!!!!January 27, 2013 3:57 am at 3:57 am in reply to: Negel Vasser #925746
1) I think I recall learning like 3/4 steps– don’t take a detour anywhere I.e to get the baby or turn on the lights
2) a. Well you might wantto wash your hands in middle of the night bec just invade you touch your eyes nose or mouth, which aren’t supposed to be touched before you wash
B. If you are going to say Asher yatzar then you must wash negel vasser first.
I just wash nagel vasser whenever I wake up even in middle of night it doesn’t hurt to so why not be “safe”.January 27, 2013 3:52 am at 3:52 am in reply to: WHO was right in this situation? #1105449
Mercury – lol hope everyone was!!
Morahrach- just anytime someone said something you were ready to “battle” itJanuary 27, 2013 3:49 am at 3:49 am in reply to: Devora, Chana, and Miriam #924978
With Miriam all the males also sang so they couldn’t hear each other.
Chana- she cried and sang to Hashem privately in the ?????January 27, 2013 3:45 am at 3:45 am in reply to: "A Jewish Star"�Not Very Jewish #957763
Jewishness- I agree with you!! Hashem made s special in our own ways why to we have to “kiss up” to the goyim? They don’t even appreciate it! That’s how we get ourselves into trouble I.e Jews goig to te thwarted and gymnasiums like Greeks and look at what happens…!!January 27, 2013 3:32 am at 3:32 am in reply to: Getting the other to say no #972122
One of many- no that’s not the reason but that is one reason to be careful. There are many more and peoplewere all talking bout other people talking about it so thats why I said that but there are many other reasons to if u want I can tell you..