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  • in reply to: Breach in Tznius: Recent affliction attacking Klal Yisroel #1025694
    Ben Levi
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    Philosopher, You hit the nail on the head!

    Not “Judging” has become a password for “leave me alone I can do what I want and you should still think the same of me’.

    Real Ahavas Yisroel has nothing to do with not “Judging”, It is no secret that the Yeshiva World is fiercly “anti chabad” yet it has been the Yeshiva World that has rallied to support and defend Rubashkin lately while unfortunatley those that are extremley into “ahavas yisroel” and “not-judging” rushed to condemn and failed to support.

    Real Yiddishkeit is indeed to “judge” based upon Torah, to advocte for Torah and Halachic Observance and to make clear that full Halachic Observance is required At the same hand we must remember a “brother remains a brother no matter what. That is real Ahavas Yisroel.

    in reply to: Buying at a Jewish shop vs. a Non-Jewish shop #690918
    Ben Levi
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    I am sorry for what I stated about goyishe stores not accepting returns on sale items,I meant to write clearence items.

    As for clearence what Wolfish states is basically correct, I have a relative who has a store and takes credit card on everything but not sale items since it cuts into increases the loss by to much.

    Incidentally, I would posit that if more Jews would be makpid to purhase from Jewish stores then the profits would go up allowing stores to increase their profits and institute better return policies.

    in reply to: Buying at a Jewish shop vs. a Non-Jewish shop #690909
    Ben Levi
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    In regards to the poster who said store would not take back an item because it was on sale. You do know that most Goyishe stores do not allow returns on sale items as well?

    in reply to: Acappella "Music" During S'fira #682250
    Ben Levi
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    I personally have heard from Rav Yisroel BElsky shlita they are ossur and I believe that the Lakewood Poskim put out a Kol Koreh along those lines.

    in reply to: Is it Permissible for Women to Vote? #682213
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    CharlieHall, the hop was not that the women would civilize the men in the way implied. Rather there was a tremendous lack of women for Men to marry in the Western States (in the way of thousands of men per women) which resulted in obvious problems.

    There was many things done to try and attract women for the men to marry, voting was one of them “mail order wives” was another (I kid you not).

    in reply to: Pesach "Excuses" #866221
    Ben Levi
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    By the way the opinion of Rav Moshe zt’l on shabbos clocks is not “Mipi HaShmua”rather is written in Igros Moshe.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682111
    Ben Levi
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    hereorthere,Have no fear Tendler is not considered a competent Rabbi by to many (he’s the one who led the fight against the Gedolei Yisroel on metzia b’peh).

    CharlieHall

    Just wanted to let you know it seem the Dems messed up the bill and kids pre-existing conditions are only covered in 2014.

    Oh Well the competent dems got in their tax on tanning salons.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682106
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    CharlieHall,

    Would you bother giving a decent explanation as to how the constitutional clause allowing the Federal Government to regulate interstate commerce allows the Federal Government to force people to purchase insurance that is not allowed to be sold over state lines?

    Don’t worry so far 13 Attorney Generals (including A DEM) it’s unconstitutional.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682105
    Ben Levi
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    Chaliehall,

    You amaze me with your ability to cherry pick

    Sweethart deals to robber barons?

    In case you forgot it so happens that the Democrats resist all efforts to explore for oil on environmental grounds. Have you forgotten about the ban on offshore drilling.

    What you keep bring up from Dr Tendler is ridiculus. You already posted hi “shiur” I debunked it and you refused to reply.

    As for Private Property rights.

    As for Leket Shikcha and Peah. Have you forgotten those are derived from the Torah and are the obligations G-d placed on his people they are religous obligations. The USA is a secular goverment whose power is derived from the people.

    And the private property rights of the torah mean that even if someone sells his land he gets it back after fifty years among other halachos such as dinei d’bar metzra.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682101
    Ben Levi
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    Hereorthere,

    I do agree with you that it is impossible to be liberal and and a Torah Jew.

    Many of the “problems” the liberals set out to do are made greater by them.

    Example: Education

    Those who believe in G-d understand that children are A gift from G-d and therefore must be raised properly.

    For Torah Jews that means a Torah education.

    Liberals decided to care for everyone and creat a “public school” something that is impossible for us to allow our children to attend.

    However we must fund it.

    What doeqa that mean we pay thousands of dollars in taxes and fight to get a drop back.

    Cut the public school system free up the thousands of dollars, allow parents to raise their children. People will be able to pay tuition, Rabbeim will get decenent salaries and be able to affor HC ect..

    In other words the interest of the modern day liberal democratic party are squarley at odds with those of G-d fearing Jews.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682100
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Hereorthere, Id isagree

    Firstly from a historical perspective the Rockefeelr wing ( the liberl wing) of the Republican party when Reagen fought to get it back was stronger and more entrenched then the liberal wing is now that is a fact.

    Secondly there is no way to get around the fact that starting a third party at this time would cause Republicans to lose in November.

    Now is a time of crisis.

    First the Liberals running the show now who are a danger to both th country and those that have strong religious beliefs must be driven from power. After the present danger is stemmed then there is time to do an even more thourough house cleaning through the primaryt process.

    However if the Liberals are allowed to stay in power past Nowember them Hashem Yrachem on all of us.

    In any case we must all daven to the only one who is truly capable of protecting us from the athiests in power now.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682097
    Ben Levi
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    Charliehall,

    If conservative governments enact liberal policies they remain liberal policies,

    The duplicity of GOldman Sachs was simply that they allowed Greece to borrow money they did not enact the policy’s that required borrowing money.

    France’s unemployment rate is low artificially because of the public sector, the public sector is unaffected at times of recession (as we see in the USA) as such the unemployment caused by the recession has less of an effect.

    A better judge would be the acknowledgement that in good times France had an 8.5 % unemployment rate (roughly) when the USA was at 4% roughly.

    As per Norway’s gross domestic product. I fully agree as I wrote before I wish the dem’s would allow us to use our Natural Resources as does Norway.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682095
    Ben Levi
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    Greece is headed towards bankruptcy specifically because of the “social benefits” Sarkozy was brought to power because of the 18% unemployment in France as a result of the “social order” and England has high unemployment and a NHS(National Healthcare System) that makes it illegal to give Dialysis to people over the age of 70 to maintain solvency.

    Yes the E.U as a whole has lower unemployment because certain small countries such as the ones you mentioned bring down the average of all of them.

    However lets if you look at there economies it is possible to do what they do simply because they take advantage of their Natural Resources ( something we in the U.S.A do not do) and are extremly small countries, in fact the smaller then many States. The larger the population the higher the bill.

    Let me explain.

    Lets say Bill Gates is generates @ Billion dollar a year.

    You then tax that at 50% generating a 1 Billion dollar amount.

    That 1 Billion dollars can cover lets say 10 thousand peoples social benefits that they get from his work.

    IF the population is 10 thousand people they are completley covered.

    However the U.S.A has 300 million people ( not counting illegal immingrants) hence to compare it to Norway is foolish.

    Then again we do not need to compare.

    We have the begining of the end of the USA as we speak.

    California with a bigger economy then any you mentioned is insolvent followed by Michigan with a disaster rivaling the Great Depression and New York on its heals.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682092
    Ben Levi
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    I would add congratulation to Obama on fulfilling his campaign promise to bring more Bipartisanship to Washington.

    Look how admirably he’s pursued that goal.

    HE created a Bipartisan coalition against the centerpieace of his agenda. Why even Massachusetts elected a Republican.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682091
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    CharlieHall I agree with you healthcare saves lives.

    I also think jobs Save Lives, They allow people to put food on the table, they keep people occupied productivley instead of turning to crime. And really good jobs that are really well paying produce innovation that save lives like the great medical breakthroughs 95% percent of which just happen to occur in the USA.

    Producing a measure guaranteed to produce the double digit unemployment that is standard in Europe kills.

    Hence the HC bill in fact does kill.

    in reply to: Health Care Bill #682090
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Welcome back Charlie,

    FIrst off about the CBO score Congressman Paul Ryan is not calling the CBO “liars” he is simply stating the facts CBO must score bills based on what is put before them.

    Hence we have the CBO scoring a bill which states that Medicare comp will be cut by an excess of 20%.

    Reality?

    COngress has already stated they will pass a seperate “DOc FIx” to eliminate those cuts (as they should or no Doctor will treat MEdicare patients).

    The CBO is asked to score a bill based on Congress ebactings taxes years in the future. Will COngress do that? Fat chance considering the fact it does’tn take a rocket scientist to figure out what a 3% payroll tax will do for Jobs.

    The Cbo is asked to score a bill based on 500 Billion dollars in fraud and waste being cut from Medicare.

    Will it be cut?

    Good Questiion, if it can why was’nt it till now?

    Hence you arrive at the conclusion the former head of the CBO stated openly (NYT op-ed I believe) The CBO is the best at what they do neaning they score what you give them give trhem a fraudelent bill and you get a fraudelent result.

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    in reply to: Health Care Reform Bill Got Passed, What's the CR's take on it? #681991
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    I would just point out that to that I believe Martin Luther King was a registered Republican (look it up to me) and Abe Linciln was definetley a Republican.

    in reply to: Designer Companies #682017
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    I could not agree more, and guess what?

    I just don’t do it the extra savings help pay tuition.

    in reply to: Designer Companies #682010
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Mrs, Ben Levi Here, While some brand names are nothing but paying more for the same thing in other cases you are actually getting a better product. I sell headgear for women and I know that while I sell both the cheaper pre-tied bandana’s and the more expensive ones I know that are generally a drop more expensive like DaCee Designs are made far better and will hold up better over time.

    in reply to: What Exactly Was Given On Har Sinai? #681398
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Please see the Gemara Brochos Daf Hey, Amed Aleph, concerning your question as it states openly that everything was given on Har Sinai.

    There is some question as to what form it was given it whether it was the actual words or the Clalim (rules and principals) as seems to be the case from the Medrash in Shmos Rabbah.

    The reason why these things are not taught in more specificity in school is probably because of the complexity as there many Gemora’s and Medroshim on the subject and it is something that does not allow for mistakes as a mistake can lead to Kefira please see the yud gimeel ikrim.

    in reply to: Drinking On Purim #675450
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    oomis Thats is one thing we can agree on

    in reply to: Giving Alcohol to Minors on Purim #1062914
    Ben Levi
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    Jothar first off you forgot the Rambam from your list of “mainstream” Poskim as well as the fact the Aruch HaShulchan seems to understand that the Shulchan Aruch learns Lmase that one must get drunk ( Aruch HaShulchan Siman Tuf Reish TZadik Hey Siman Hey.

    Regarding Chayei Adom, until the Mishna Berura came out chayei adom was cosidered the “Da’as Achron” the reason the Mishna Berura took its place is because it was more comprehensive as well as the indisputed status of the Chofetz Chaim as the Gadol HaDor.

    As to what my Rabbeim held, Exactly what they did , One is required to get Drunk to the point of complete inebriation.

    As an interesting aside it is noteworthy that the name of one of the senior Roshei Yeshivos in America is missing from the Kol Korei against drinkig beer, upon ivestigating the matter I was told that he held because in many Yeshivos including when he was a Bochur by Rav Aaron Bochrim drank whisky it was established as a Minhag Yeshivos “Kol Midi D’mishaker” ( in theory I would think the origins is of this would be because of the simple fact that in Europe they did not have wine, just speculating)consequently He did not feel Himself to be of a stature to sign against a minhag.

    I questioned a close Chaver of this Rosh Yeshiva (and Odam Gadol in his own right) as to whether it was true and he told me I did not see it as I don;t read the papers and did not ask him but I could’ve told you he would not sign such a staatement The Frediker Gedolim saw many of us drinking whisky on Purim to be mekayim the Mitzva and never said anything he will not open his mouth where hi Rabbeim did’nt.

    Again to say that Gedolai Oilam did not hold of getting Drunk is ridiculas to say that other Gedolei Olam did not hold of it is ridiculas as well.

    Each person must follow his Mesorah, his rabbeim and again I would highly recommend Rabbi Yossi Rosenbergs article in this weeks Yated to all those who think drinking was never a part of Purim and the act initself is a Chilul Hashem.

    in reply to: Giving Alcohol to Minors on Purim #1062911
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    To say categorically the Chayei Odam is not the Yeshiva Olams posek is simply a lack of Knowledge. Much of the litvishe Olams Mesorah is based on the Chayei Odam/Chochmas Odam (one and the same, ask anyone whoi has learnt Hilchos Niddah.

    Besides For the Seder Hayom that I have qouted before I would add the Ben YeHoYado (ben Ish Cjai) as one who learns the Gemora K’pshuto. Look it up ( Ben Yehoyada is perhaps the primary mefaresh of Aggadita)

    in reply to: Giving Alcohol to Minors on Purim #1062903
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    I unfortunatley do not have the patience to write a detailed rebuttal of the “list” of “mainstream” Poskim quoted earlier. however I would suggest that one looks up the actual Sfas Emes instead of relying on the Piskei Teshuvos’s quote of it (as recomended in numerous haskomos on the Piskei Teshuvos, secondly I would point out that the interpetation of the Maharsha to the Gemora in bava Metzia clearly implies a chiyuv shikrus to the extent we need a gemora that is matir a tzurva m’rabanun to claim he was mekayim this shiur even though he did not. Thirdly I would reiterate what I have already mentioned before The shita of Rabeinu Ephraim is questioned by numerous achronim amoong them the Pri Chadosh and perhaps that is why it was never accepted.

    Lastly I would reiterate specifically because there most definiteley were Gedolim who held not to get shikur each person must follow his mesorah. I chose to folllow that of the Gedolim and Rabbanim I followed all of whom got drunk to the point of “ad di lo yudah”, One specifically happens to be makpid only to drink from a becher on Purim since he is being mekayim a mitzva.

    in reply to: Giving Alcohol to Minors on Purim #1062892
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    With all due repect R’ Yakov Horowitz is not a Rav or Rosh Yeshiva and there many chinuch approaches he advocates that are quite cotraversial.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675171
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    BombManiac since it seems you acknowledge the seriosness of the need to have filtered internet while at the same time your parnossa seems to require you to have unfiltered internet access, I would urge you to consult with a competen Rav who is knowledgeable in such matters he may tell you that even though you must have standard internet you still should have something such as Web Chaver.

    I hesitated to post this but seeing that from the tone of your posts you seem to acknowledge the dangers of the Internet and truly have it only for parnossa purposes I decided that indeed I should post it.

    in reply to: Giving Alcohol to Minors on Purim #1062884
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    When I was in Ninth Grade before Purim My Rebbi ( an established Posek) got up and gave a shiur on Drinking. Basically he was very firm it stating whether or not someone drinks at the age of thirteen is between him and his parets and all his talmidim should discuss the issue with thier Parents.

    He then went on to explain how even if one Drinks there is a “safe” way of drinking and a non-safe way and he gave a detailed guide as to what practices must be avoided at all costs (mixing, drinking on an empty stomach etc..) It is one shiur I have never forgotten and I still tell over many parts of it to others.

    (Rabbi Yossi Rosenberg happens to have an excellent article about drinking in this weeks Yated)

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675154
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Just-a-Guy, you raise a Halachid Shaila which must be asked of appropriate Rabbonim. However, I personally feel that the internet is certainly worse than passing women who are washing clothing in the river. In said case, the Rashbam says that if someone has a different path and still chooses to pass them by, then he is called a Rasho even if he closes his eyes.

    Similarly, if one does not need the Internet for business, meaning it is not a necessity, then the simple act of having it would be wrong. Of course if one must have it for business purposes then they should have the strongest possible filters in place, and then would be considered in the category of those that are “Leka Darko Achrina.”

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675147
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Kudos to you Volvie!

    Again it seems to boggle the mind that poeople are more worried over drinking on Purim then unrestrained access to the worst that is out there 24 hours a day availible to one and all.

    Pretty amazing.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675141
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    The Mesorah of many Jews for thousands of years has been to get drunk on purim.

    Another Mesorah has been not be in a situation which may lead to Arayos some of the sources and reasons have been stated above in my previous Post.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675138
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Aries,

    There is a biblical prohibition called Yichud which basically means it is prohibited for one man and one woman to be secluded together.

    The severity of this prohibition is such that there is considerable debate amonst Poskim as to whether it is Y’hurag V’al Yavor. (See Tzitz Eliezer, kuntrus on hilchos yichud)

    Now basically all agree that Yichud is not an issur atzmi meaning it is not an issur because it inteslf is prohibited rather because it is prohibited because it may lead to actual Gilui Ervah (See Sefer Dvar Halach Perek Aleph.

    The question then is why is Arayos different then all other issurim which do not have Biblical prohibition son that which may lead to it?

    The most simple ansewer given is because Gilui Ervah is different it is something which Nafshoi Shel Odum Michemed OSam (Gemora Makos) the very essence of a persons being desires it SEfer Chassidim an Rav Tzodok as weel as the Ohr Hachaim take this to mean that when someone is faced with the oppurtunity to sin in this manner it is virtually impossible to overcome accordingly it was this issur and this alone which the Torah made a prohibition stating one is not allowed to even be in such a situation that may cause him to have the temptation to sin.

    The Gemora in Sukka (HaChulil) says further Rabbah (if I remember correctly) saw a situation where one simple person actually overcame such a temptation. He began to cry stating if it would have been him he would not have been able to. A zaken ( perhaps Eliyahu HaNuvi) came and told him Don’t worry the reason you would have sinned is because Kol Hagodol M’Chavero Yitzro Gadol Himenu he who is greater then his friend has a greater yetzer hora.

    The Gemora at the end of Kiddushin states the Rebi Akiva ( a Tanna compared to Moshe Rabbeinu!) would have sinned if not for a Bas Kol warning the Yetzer Hora “Hizharu B’rabi Akiva V’toraso”.

    In light of all that Chazal have taught us of the dangers of this particular Yetzer Hora in my view it is particularly foolish for someone to say that ” I can Have it and I will not Sin” are they Greater the Rabi Akiva?

    How can one say on the one hand it is prohibited to be alone with a strange woman for ten minutes because we are afraid he may sin. Even if he is the Gadol HaDor ( who usually has “learnt” a great deal but on the other hand is permitted to allow access to the worse temptations in his house in his very own living room.

    One who feels that is akin to what the Mesilas Yeshorim says is a blind man walking on the edge of a cliff. For despite the numerous warnings of Chazal he has no idea what the Yetzer Hora is.

    At the very least I would beg that person go ask Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky or Rav Aron Shechter or Rav Feivel Cohen or Rav Chaim Stein or any Gadol what is causing the single biggest churban in Klal Yisroel today unfettered access to the internet or Drinking on Purim? How much do you wish to bet on the ansewer?

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675130
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Mod80 great moshul but may I point out that in respect to nisyonos of arayos there is an issur yichud however in repect to tarfus there is no such issur.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675129
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Jphone’ when I wrote you are wrong I meant in regard to Rav Shmuels view on the Internet secondly yeshivos can teach children how to learnd and certain aspects of hashkofa but will never be able to teach them how to be “people” that must come from the home period.

    Tomim Tihye; you can not be more right about teaching my wife taught for several years and wishes she still could but ass our family grew k’h she could no longer afford to “volunteer” and had to start a buisness.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675124
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Well if you have unfiltered access to the internet then in effect you have bought something that’s unkosher.

    in reply to: Drinking On Purim #675422
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Aries, please see Otzer Midrashim Chelek Beis the first or second Medrash.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675117
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    It is my understanding that it is basically computer programs or whitelists if you want more details call YeshivaNet. (718-Yeshiva)

    in reply to: To Drink or Not to Drink? #674769
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Mod-80 thanks I read it over and seems I did miss something.

    in reply to: To Drink or Not to Drink? #674766
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Jphone; Am i missing something I thought you wrote some members of that group were not Jewish I would assume if thats the case it was not “simchas purim” they had in mind as for the Jews if they were going around with non-jews i don’t think they had Simchas Purim in mind either.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675112
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Jphone, you are wrong.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675108
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Jphone you don’t fin it slightly hypocritical to decide that you may ignore the psak of Rav Shmuel Kamentetsky on one thing but declare fealty to his wise understanding on antother?

    in reply to: Drinking On Purim #675414
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    I am chas v’sholom not saying those who do not drink on Purim because they have gone through the sugya and come out that we are not mchuyov to do so are making a chilul hashem quite the contrary.

    What I am saying is those who do not know the sugya or halachos involved and do not come from a health/Pikuach Nefesh point in saying that it is not advisable to drink.

    Rather speak out against the very act of drunkenness because the “goyim” think drinking is bad are mechallel sheim shomayim for in essence they are subjecting basic pshat in chazal to the morals of the goyim around them.

    May i point out Chazal obviously did not feel that the act of drunkenness in it’s own right was a bad thing.

    Instead of people foolishly bashing that which they do not understand how about trying to understand Chazal you might learn something.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675093
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Why has this turned into another discussion of drinking?

    Can’t people ansewer the question that this discussion was aimed at?

    in reply to: Drinking On Purim #675408
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Talmid Lo Chacham: to your last statement I will heartily agree.

    If one learns through the sugya and comes out they are not supposed to drink and they have no mesora otherwise then they must follow the way they learn.

    It is the statements from those who don’t even know what mesechta the sugya is found in that have no place in the discussion.

    in reply to: Drinking On Purim #675405
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Or you can hold with the Seder Hayom who writes one should bring himself to the point where he is rolling on the floor throwing up.

    By the way I believe we pasken that if someone does not fulfill a mitzva then he there is a chilul Hashem involved. Meaning in everything there is potential chilul or kiddush Hashem just the degrees vary.

    That is why there are shittos that if one does one of the gimmel chamuros b’ones he is only over chilul hashem but not the actual aveira, it is the tremendous chilul hashem that causes the chiyuv mesiras nefesh.

    Basically my point is volvie is write.

    I would add in my view it is an even greater Kiddush Hashem to drink nowadays and show that not all Jews views are dictated by outside influences.

    in reply to: To Drink or Not to Drink? #674759
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Oomis I fail to see what you want from the Yeshiva in question your right that yes a Yeshiva has achrayus and canceling a Purim Mesiba (a majot event)Ithe se would would impress upon people the sense of achrayus the Yeshiva has.

    Then again it seems that what you really want is for the Yeshiva to rewrite the Gemora something that any Yeshiva would be unwilling to do.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675087
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Jphone: Seder Hayom states that one is to become inebriated on Purim to the point that they are rolling on the floor throwing up.

    Oomis: I do not have a wireless chip and access that I do have is through YeshivaNet which I highly recommend for their excellent support.

    As to the point of choosing to do the right thing.

    The Rashbam in Bava Basra makes clear that if someone walks in a non-tznius place when there was an alternative is considered a rasha, even if he closes his eyes.

    I find it interesting that those who are so quick to site one Rosh Yeshiva’s position that one should not drink to excess on Purim are quite willing to ignore that same rosh Yeshiva’s repeated calls both privatley and publicly that one should not have unfiltered internet in their homes under any circumstances.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675086
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Jphone: Seder Hayom states that one is to become inebriated on Purim to the point that they are rolling on the floor throwing up.

    Oomis: I do not have a wireless chip and access that I do have is through YeshivaNet which I highly recommend for their excellent support.

    As to the point of choosing to do the right thing.

    The Rashbam in Bava Basra makes clear that if someone walks in a non-tznius place when there was an alternative is considered a rasha, even if he closes his eyes.

    I find it interesting that those who are so quick to site one Rosh Yeshiva’s position that one should not drink to excess on Purim are quite willing to ignore that same rosh Yeshiva’s repeated calls both privatley and publicly that one should not have unfiltered internet in their homes under any circumstances.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675073
    Ben Levi
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    hereorthere; there’s is quite a difference between seeing untznius people and being in a situation of Yichud. The Hakacha I qouted is in regard to Yichud not seeing untznius people.

    No less a personage then Rav Matusyahu Salamon (another Rabbi who gets drunk on Purim) has stated that being alone with unfiltered access to the internet is a question of Yichud.

    Not having unfiltered access to the internet may not shield someone from seen an untznius women but it may shield him from interacting with her in some way. (v’dai l’chakima brimizah)

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675072
    Ben Levi
    Participant

    Oomis Why is it that you ignore the central question of this thread?

    Why is it that you seem to feel it necassary to scream from the rooftops over drinking on Purim but are silent regarding the clear unanimus threat of the internet that is growing by leaps and bounds and threating to undermine the very fabric of our society?

    We know your views on Drinking that why this question was posed.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Access to the Internet allowed? #675064
    Ben Levi
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    Oomis think you will will agree that making a parnosa is a very good thing yet the Rambam followed by the Shulchan Aruch all the way down to the Aruch HaShulachan pasken if one’s job forces them to be in a situation of Yichud they are required to give their job and find another.

    I personally was present when one of the greatest Poskim in America whos seforim are basic texts for those studying for semicha (incidentally one who gets drunk on Purim) stated that the internet is destroying homes, families and children left and right and it is prohibited to have unfiltered access in ones home. As an aside he mentioned “And even if one needs it for their parnosa who says it’s mutar?

    It was some years ago so I can not say for sure if my memory serves me correct by I think he went on to say that he will not go into it because people will not loisten to him.

    I B”H was zoche to learn by Gedolim as well talmidim of Gedolim all of whom advocated “drunkeness” on Purim and all of whom prohibited unfiltered access to the Internet.

    When I was a bochur I needed a cell phone because I was dating I am quite proud to be able to say I got a personal Heter from my Rosh Yeshiva zt’l who when I have been told in his youger years used to give a shmuess on Purim holding a Bottle of wine.

    It is people like that who’s every action and decision was dictated by Halacha and soley by Halacha who must serve as the Leaders of the present generation.

    If it would only be so then I am quite firm in the belief unrestricted access to the internet would be as common in the holmes of Bnei Torah as TV and all would be drunk on Purim and Moshiach wopuld come sooner because of it.

    As the song from MBD goes “there will be singing dancig laughing” an apt description of a drunken yeshiva bochurs Purim.

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