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  • in reply to: I don't understand… #793572
    Busy As A Bee
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    Aries I see smartness does really run in your family 😀

    Always here maybe you’re right about what happened. I dont knw since I wasnt on and didnt read the posts. And I try not to talk about things I have no clue about, it just makes me sound stupid.

    But is it really worth it? Why are u giving this random person whom you don’t even know (and dont even seem to like) power over you by caring? True maybe his comments were uncalled for (though again I am not stating that just referencing how you may feel) but think about it, if a 2 year old would call you a dolt would u really care? Or would you not care cuz what a 2 year old thinks of you is not important to your opinion of yourself?

    Now I’m not either calling anyone a 2 year old in their behaviors but to quote (chachma bagayim tamim) Eleanor Roosevelt ” Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent”

    I heard this on a shuir recently and it was saying how what is our responsibility in this world? Exactly that. Our response ability. How we are able to respond the proper way. We cannot change the OUTCOME of a situation, only Hashem can, but we can change how we COME OUT of it.

    I hope noone is getting upset about what I’m posting. I am not trying to give mussar or think that I am any way better than anyone else. It just hurts me to see so many Jews fighting in such a place that can do so much good.

    in reply to: Question about the "no prying" rule #794449
    Busy As A Bee
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    This convo is funny quark it looks like ur talking to urself..

    can i ask what a “troll” thread is?

    in reply to: Goodbye 2 all my CR "FRENZ"!!! #783484
    Busy As A Bee
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    Yossi

    Thanks for your advice and encouragement that was given.

    Good luck with life in general 😀

    You’ll be missed!

    in reply to: How to deal with pain #784472
    Busy As A Bee
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    Find a healthy outlet.

    Everyone needs something to let all their life frustrations out..

    Do you play an instrument/sing/dance/draw/write? etc etc etc.

    Take one of these talents or things you like to do and make it into your outlet, that you can use it to diffuse your anger and frustration.

    Also the thing about not having the tools to deal with a huge nisayon, you have to remember that Hashem doesnt give a nisayon to someone who can’t do it. So tell Him “Hashem you gave me this nisayon and You make no mistakes so its obviously ment for me.. Now I need you to give me the tools or at least a mentor or guide to help me get through it. “

    Hatzlacha Raba

    in reply to: I feel bad…. #778865
    Busy As A Bee
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    APushetaYid I knw how you feel. Its from having a big heart and knowing that even when things look perfect in the outside most people have Tzros of some kind.

    I try to do things about it so I feel like I’m making a difference. Like helping out Tomchei Shabbos or something to that affect..

    in reply to: SMILE CLUB :) #1100203
    Busy As A Bee
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    “Turn your frown upside down

    Don’t worry bout looking like a clown

    People wonder what you’re up toooooooooooooooooooooo

    SMILE it’s a great thing to do!

    😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀

    in reply to: Why is everyone obsessed with Joseph? #778802
    Busy As A Bee
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    No I’m not calling anyone in particular obsessed.

    Hey who knows maybe I’m Joseph?? JK 😀

    I was just curious why people spent so much time and energy into someone who obviously wants it.

    in reply to: Why is everyone obsessed with Joseph? #778799
    Busy As A Bee
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    Oh, I definitely met Joseph many times,

    back in the day when his screen name was Joseph and not some other random names, but I posted under a different name then (truthfully I don’t remember what I was even called then; hence the new name).

    I just feel like if people are really upset about his views then they should ignore him because he obviously likes the attention and the fireworks that he starts.

    And sometimes I think he’s just playing devil’s advocate to see what everyone will say in response.

    in reply to: A diff type of tznius issue #778701
    Busy As A Bee
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    Ok first of all its only Jewish Music,

    Mod – 80 if the windows are open half the sound waves jump outside instead of into my ears so its not so bad. Besides I dont have it blaring but my car is really not sound proof like some other cars and even when the window is closed if it’s on any volume above 4 you can hear it.

    If it’s a loud song I try to lower it by red lights but in general its not.

    in reply to: Do I confront them? #779566
    Busy As A Bee
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    Wow I didn’t knw I had so Many friends!!!

    Thanks guys 😀

    in reply to: Encryption A Simple But Practically Unbreakable Trick #792523
    Busy As A Bee
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    That made me laugh Dr. Pepper.

    Nice to see you posting again. I always enjoyed your stories 😀

    in reply to: Do I confront them? #779560
    Busy As A Bee
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    I doubt she’ll figure out who I am.. But your right I have no business taking away her privacy. I just thought it was so funny that she was also a CRer… Took me a few minutes to get my mind around it 😀

    in reply to: How can I … #778187
    Busy As A Bee
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    5 hours is a pretty long time to hold your breath!

    Maybe setting a world record here Zeeskite 😀

    in reply to: Barnes and Nobles #778659
    Busy As A Bee
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    Zeeskite I agree with part of what you said but is there really harm in letting your 5 year old read a book like curious George?

    in reply to: How can I … #778185
    Busy As A Bee
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    Sorry Zeeskite I was just using your name as an example 😀

    Hope that ok :)))

    in reply to: who do u think has 2 names in cr and wat r they? #780281
    Busy As A Bee
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    I just forgot my old user name since I rarely used it, and the email address was also old so I started a new one… 😀

    Whew! I feel so much better now getting that off my chest 😛

    in reply to: Are you allowed to buy cut up fruits in a non jewish store? #778536
    Busy As A Bee
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    What about fruit on a platter in a nonjewish location, are you allowed to eat the grapes and blueberries (fruit that is not cut) if its on the decorative platter with the rest of the fruit?

    in reply to: Lunar eclipse – bracha? (time sensitive, eclipse is tonight!) #776903
    Busy As A Bee
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    I dont know a source, maybe my fellow CRers can help me here, but I’ve heard a few times that a lunar eclipse is a bad sign for the Jews, for the simple reason that we are compared to the moon, and a time when the moon is covered up by the earth, the gashmi is not a good time for Klal Yisroel.

    Anyone else hear this before?

    in reply to: Bachman for President? #777060
    Busy As A Bee
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    Thank you Mods for switching it 🙂

    in reply to: Would you vote for a woman? #777087
    Busy As A Bee
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    Being that I started the other post that got Pac-man so disturbed, Yes I would vote for a woman. There have been many times in history where women did positive things for the world and for Jews in general.

    Especially if the choice was a woman who knew what she was doing and a man who just thought he did.

    in reply to: Bachman for President? #777059
    Busy As A Bee
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    Still waiting for facts….

    I’m sitting in my Research class, and everything is backed by numbers and facts….

    Pac-man??

    in reply to: Bachman for President? #777054
    Busy As A Bee
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    Pac-Man I wont argue that she’s a woman.

    That’s pretty clear.

    But you cant just say she’s a dolt without backing up your opinion. Otherwise its just your personal opinion and holds no weight with anyone else.

    in reply to: Bachman for President? #777050
    Busy As A Bee
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    Mods can u fix the title please, sorry made a typo.

    And Pac-Man, while Romeny has alot of good things, his health care plan is not great for most of us.

    in reply to: Feeling like a dead end… #776874
    Busy As A Bee
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    Just wanted to thank you all for your encouragement 🙂

    Especially the poem by APusheteYid.

    It really pulled me back on my feet.

    in reply to: Bachman for President? #777037
    Busy As A Bee
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    Sorry Bachman, not Blachman.

    And Pac-man /Joseph while that may be true in the jewish world, its not in the outside world. You’d rather a dumb antisemetic man than this women?

    in reply to: Why do people lie? #777160
    Busy As A Bee
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    DovidM that’s a very interesting point that I never thought of before. Maybe I will help her work on her Yiras Shamayim.

    Thanks…

    Anyone else?

    in reply to: Why do people lie? #777156
    Busy As A Bee
    Participant

    Maybe,

    She needs to learn why its a bad thing, and sort of exercises to stop her from doing it in the future..

    in reply to: Why do people lie? #777152
    Busy As A Bee
    Participant

    ICOT I like what u said.

    The problem is when she told the truth the punishment was much worse then if she didnt so she kept lying.

    Any ideas or seforim that can help?

    in reply to: Why do people lie? #777149
    Busy As A Bee
    Participant

    As a positive thing. She idolizes me…

    in reply to: What's YOUR opinion?? #774446
    Busy As A Bee
    Participant

    Im going for my masters in therapy now… social work to be exact.

    Hence the question…

    in reply to: Home Schooling #773880
    Busy As A Bee
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    Im not sure if you mean Jewish Home schooling or general studies.

    maybe check these out

    http://jewishhomeschool.blogspot.com/

    http://www.time4learning.com/homeschool-curriculum.html

    http://www.homeschool.com/

    in reply to: dating – drinking with women #773967
    Busy As A Bee
    Participant

    When there is wine on womens tables its usually not “REAL” wine. Just a bartenura blue bottle… As we call it in my house, Wine Soda.

    in reply to: drinking out of a bottle #774264
    Busy As A Bee
    Participant

    there is a certain refinement in only drinking out of a cup or at least with a straw, but its not always practical… gotta remember that.

    in reply to: Talking about dates #774297
    Busy As A Bee
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    I’ve had this debate with my brother considering we’re both in shidduchim, and it came down to it that while girls are usually more talk a tive, in regards to dating boys talk more for the simple reason that majority of them are in some form of dorm setting. If girls were leaving in a dorm, and not at home forget it we’d totally talk more. Since at this stage most girls are at home, less people know when we’re dating and only the ones we want to knw… while boys since they’re in a dorm, their roommates know, their chavrussas etc etc etc.

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