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Your question is no different than the previous way you asked it. It is, of course, d’rabbanan, but we keep d’rabbanans. As far as the fact that some may abuse it,
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Simcha613, I don’t think the line between chumra and hiddur is quite as clearly defined as that.
For example, the Mishnah B’rurah says that keeping chumros in esrog (not necessarily in beauty, but in kashrus) is a kiyum of hidur mitzvah.
LC, are you assuming that neshamos rest from Gehennom from the time Shabbos begins in the earliest time zone until when Shabbos ends in the latest time zone?
Newbee, I think he said he was using the Fire Paperwhite. Isn’t that different?
See Rema.
http://beta.hebrewbooks.org/tursa.aspx?a=oc_x3075
See also Shaarei Teshuvah there, who holds of getting drunk kip’shuto, but brings a raya that when difficult, he is patur.
Health, no, you need the wine to make you sleepy.
He can follow what it says in Bais Yosef.
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Also you have to know what exactly happened there — she did not want him to drink at all or just not go with machmiring shittos.
Since the story isn’t real, let’s go with a reasonable story.
A man is used to getting quite drunk on Purim, as per many shittos, and the minhag of many segments of klal Yisroel. However, his wife (like many) doesn’t want this, and in fact, is extremely upset about it.
So they go to their rav who says he should follow the Rema’s shittah, as recommended by Mishnah B’rurah, to drink more than usual and go to sleep.
The reactions here on either side are misguided.
Some feel that based on the wife’s wishes, halachah should be disregarded, and/or that it’s childish to ask a rav. Chas V’shalom! We don’t throw away the Torah based on how it makes us feel.
Others seem to think the rav is not following halachah. This is also not true. He is, after all, paskening like the Mishnah B’rurah! If the wife was amenable, maybe for this man, getting very drunk is the proper way to do the mitzvah. However, under the circumstances, he can certainly rely on the Rema’s shittah, which is, after all, what the Mishnah B’rurah holds l’chatchilah.
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People who don’t keep that (or any other) halachah need to do TESHUVA.
CTLAWYER, that’s because we both are registered Democrats, and in a general election, since Trump will be the nominee, I will not vote Republican.
The difference between us is that if Cruz or Kasich (or almost anyone else) were nominated, I would vote for them against Hilary in a heartbeat.
Then I guess I’m with CTLAWYER and HaDonald.
Yes
There is a machlokes what level of drunkenness ad d’lo yoda bein arur Haman l’varuch Mordechai means.
One shittah holds that it means ad d’lo yoda bein arur Haman l’varuch Mordechai.
I do not see how squeak’s joke denigrates the issue.
Geder to prevent it? They made drinking a mitzvah!
If someone doesn’t perceive tefillin as a mitzvah, does that make it not a mitzvah?
None of the above.
Why do some posters insist on not appreciating a good joke?
I think for me, it would be like walking through blindfolded.
I don’t get the complaint. Why should there be ‘drinking on purim’ ads?
Pirsumei nisa.
It’s easier to pour when you’re upright.
Unsteady feet
Oh, and yes, it’s a safek chiyuv, but also a ssfek issur. It’s not a win-win like the others (except perhaps money and time, but shalom bayis is even more important, wouldn’t you agree?).
L’chaim!
I wasn’t talking about you. Get wasted gezunter heit if that’s your minhag and your wife is okay with it.
A freilichin Purim!
Excellent troll job.
A freilichin Purim!
It’s very sad how people who are machmir on so few things throughout the year are all of a sudden machmir when it comes to getting drunk, at the expense of shalom bayis.
Do you get the most expensive esrog? Do you use a sukka kosher according to the Chazon Ish? Do you eat matza that you baked in a chaburah according to shitas hoRosh?
Mishna Berurah says the Rema’s way is the best way.
Yeah, these people who follow the Rema are hopeless.
Refuah Sheleimah.
That’s very presumptuous of you. Meiheicha teisi I was planning on giving you.
Again?
That doesn’t mean they enforce it.
72 is at 8:24.
Then let him put a stamp on you.
What zman do you use?
You should have capitalized the S.
The DY
He means he doesn’t physically enjoy eating matzah, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Before today’s world, when we were told to multi-task. I was kidding.
I don’t listen to audio books, but personally, looking inside a sefer is much more effective than listening to a shiur, live or taped.
There are plenty of gedolim who shuckled who obviously felt it’s not disrespectful.
It should start on Purim, as the basis is probably shloshim Yom kodem hachag… http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=916&st=&pgnum=273
It should also only apply to matza you can be yotzei with, as ubiquitin and flatbusher said.
It is because in today’s world, we are taught to multi-task which means that it is harder to focus on one thing. Reading inside takes more active participation which increases focus and makes you more immersed. Listening is a passive act in which you can be doing other things or spacing out while doing it so you aren’t as focused and immersed.
In the olden days, however, audiobooks were preferred.
Bump (Trump)
Which part was I wrong about, that you should care about chillul Hashem, that you should care about people learning incorrect behavior, or that you shouldn’t be haughty?
I don’t think the two of you are really disagreeing. I think you both realize that you should care about others’ perceptions so that there should not be chillul Hashem, and so that people will not learn incorrect behavior, and that one shouldn’t care for personal haughtiness.
I guess you wish to be machmir in this inyan and drink scotch or bourbon
Actually, as I posted, I drink wine. I just wish to be accurate.
Queen, the first Miami Choir Boys’ record was used earlier. You need to pick something new.
The machmirim use the Huawei MediaPad X1.
Absolutely not true. It is well known that there were gedolim who drank whiskey for the mitzvah.
In fact, I have yet to see a compelling source that it needs to davka be wine.
Halachically Speaking brings sources both ways, but I didn’t look at all of them inside.
He brings Rashi who says ???????. ?????? ????, but that is not a strong diyuk to me. I’d need to see someone say straight out that ??? ??? doesn’t work to be convinced.
I personally use wine.
If Someone had A Nisayon to eat Pork
Or Twizzlers without a sticker. 😉