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Child tax credits are one thing. The same credit is offered to a couple making a quarter of a million a year as a couple making $40,000 a year. It is tax law as much as paying the income tax rate. But, on the other hand, the Earned Income Tax Credit is akin to welfare as someone who has a zero tax rate, and pays not a dime in taxes, is entitled to receive a check from the government via the EITC with his tax return. Same principal applies to government college aid. If someone is demanding that others not accept welfare they are legally entitled to accept, they themselves ought to forgo claiming the EITC or a PELL grant.
That being said, it isn’t contradictory for the same person to oppose government laws offering food stamps, welfare, WIC and Section 8 at the generous levels it is offered, and yet at the same time take advantage of those very laws he wishes to abolish by accepting those very entitlement programs at levels he opposes its existence. As long as its the law of the land and on the books he is fully legally and morally entitled to accept what’s offered, and what he and his family and friends are forced to pay taxes for. At the same time he advocates for its abolishment (from being so generous.)
January 6, 2016 9:53 pm at 9:53 pm in reply to: Will there be Sephardi Chareidim in the next generation?? #1132971JosephParticipantlovetorah12, the first step is to have two wives.
JosephParticipantakuperma makes a good point. Those opposed to people accepting legally entitled Section 8, food stamps, welfare, etc., should be just as opposed to accepting government PELL grants to pay for college, a subsidized subway system such as in NYC, the Earned Income Tax credit, etc.
Do those opposed to others accepting WIC themselves refuse to apply for PELL, don’t fill out for a EIC on their tax return, etc.?
JosephParticipantAny Torah source is referring to Jews unless indicated otherwise. What is the law for the Jews is not necessarily (and usually isn’t) the law regarding non-Jews.
JosephParticipantDorming is most certainly different than not dorming, any way, any how.
JosephParticipantJosephParticipantThey should go to local seminary, not seminary in Israel.
Or get married out of 12th grade.
JosephParticipantIs it really so hard to figure out how to put a shaitel on that a course is needed??
January 5, 2016 6:36 pm at 6:36 pm in reply to: Are Kollel Folks Better Jews Than The Rest Of us? #1174460JosephParticipantAvi, the Rambam defines a working baal haboss as someone who works three hours a day and learns Torah eight hours a day.
JosephParticipantYou weren’t attacked, so calm down. You asked me if I took a poll on my observation so I merely asked you the same. And I made the additional point that we are talking about a different demographic than each other.
JosephParticipantIn three days.
January 5, 2016 5:12 am at 5:12 am in reply to: Are Kollel Folks Better Jews Than The Rest Of us? #1174450JosephParticipantNewbee: Your summation, in a nutshell, is that the Gemora’s advice to Klal Yisroel was only for the olden days of “thousands of years ago”, but is today irrelevant in our modern enlightened American society of the 21st century.
January 5, 2016 4:36 am at 4:36 am in reply to: Are Kollel Folks Better Jews Than The Rest Of us? #1174440JosephParticipantNewbee: You have no answer to my last question?
It was deleted for being too blunt on a public website.
JosephParticipantlessc: You took a survey and census on your view? Was it done with Gallup? Additionally, you are forming your view based on the MO demographic whereas I am referencing the chareidi demographic.
January 5, 2016 3:10 am at 3:10 am in reply to: Are Kollel Folks Better Jews Than The Rest Of us? #1174432JosephParticipantNewbee: Please explain the Mishna in Horios 3:7, the Rambam on that Mishna, and Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 252:8.
January 4, 2016 10:53 pm at 10:53 pm in reply to: Will there be Sephardi Chareidim in the next generation?? #1132966JosephParticipantRestore polygamy, since stopping it was an Ashkenazic custom, not a Sephardic one.
JosephParticipantThat’s why you need to marry well in the first place. 😉
JosephParticipantIt’s you and some others I would assume. There isn’t one way that everyone does it. But the mother making the parental decisions regarding the sons shidduchim is not how most bochorim’s shidduchims are conducted.
Now this is a nuanced topic. Often it is true that the mother will be the “secretary” for her sons shidduch prospects. She’ll make the notes of what was redt, will relay information, will inform others what her son is looking for, etc. But her being the shidduch secretary in no way demonstrates that she is calling the shots. She is the messenger. Often the father and/or the bochor will advise the wife/mother what questions to ask, what points to tell the shadchanim, etc.
JosephParticipantThere is no other Yiddish word for black other than shvartz. It’s simply the word for that color just as roit means red.
JosephParticipantSo what is it?
JosephParticipantEngineers that you ask about are not notorious for having outrageous hours.
JosephParticipantFor the most part, no.
DY: So how did Rav Chaim, just the other day, offer a Yid a solution to his medical dilemma – which to boot was in contravention to his doctors opinion?
Or is Rav Chaim just not Yeshivish?
JosephParticipantoomis: The Yeshivish shidduch system is much closer to the Chasidish shidduch system (as different as they may be) than to the MO dating system, that you oh so strongly advocate, if you must do a comparison between the three.
And both the Chasidish couples and the yeshivish couples most certainly are ready for marriage. It is the MO couples who are long overdue and way past the time they should have gotten married, by time they do.
JosephParticipantI haven’t heard shadchanim voice this idea much. It for the most part is derived on its own. The experiences of shadchanim were taken into account but I’m not familiar with them necessarily sharing the above comments.
JosephParticipantYour inference is incorrect and does not logically follow what I said.
JosephParticipantWelcome back for your annual post here!
JosephParticipantAnd if she’ll likely drown herself if she goes in to pull him?
JosephParticipantFNY: Yes. Jaywalking on Shabbos in Boro Park’s empty streets is not a violation of DDDina even though it’s technically violating the law, though police ignore it.
January 3, 2016 9:49 pm at 9:49 pm in reply to: Why is there so much pressure to be "in style" #1121452JosephParticipantMsP: You went from eighth grade straight to college?
JosephParticipantComlink: Which information?
Goq: From being involved in this inyan and dealing with numerous families.
sdd: They need someone to scapegoat. And the bulk of the complainings tends to come from the girls side.
technical: You seriously overestimate the mothers influence and involvement in the boys shidduchim compared to his father.
January 3, 2016 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm in reply to: Why do working people tend to not be as ruchniyus as Kollel people? #1176980JosephParticipantPoll: How many of the above posters don’t understand the term “tend”
JosephParticipantI thought this was squeak’s line.
January 3, 2016 8:30 pm at 8:30 pm in reply to: Why is there so much pressure to be "in style" #1121448JosephParticipantsdd, you’ve been to seminary?
January 3, 2016 12:16 pm at 12:16 pm in reply to: Are Kollel Folks Better Jews Than The Rest Of us? #1174390JosephParticipantCategorizing some people as talmidei chachomim and categorizing other people as not being talmidei chachomim is ranking them, needs to be done and we do that ranking and it makes a practical difference how we treat each category. So ranking has a basis.
JosephParticipantWithin the past 10-12 years or so.
January 3, 2016 2:21 am at 2:21 am in reply to: Are the girls causing their own shidduch crisis?? #1120693JosephParticipantWhy would a 20 year old girl agree to marry a 40 year old guy? She’s still in the same parsha as guys in their 20s.
JosephParticipantThat they’re not chasidish.
January 1, 2016 6:32 pm at 6:32 pm in reply to: Why is there so much pressure to be "in style" #1121440JosephParticipantRY, why does the style change less by men?
January 1, 2016 3:31 pm at 3:31 pm in reply to: Do You Allow Your Spouse To Read All Your E-Mails? #1120080JosephParticipantTrust, Barry? I don’t trust myself. Do you trust yourself? Did you read what Hillel said in Pirkei Avos that I quoted? Does it not resonate? Do you have a filter on your internet?
January 1, 2016 1:24 pm at 1:24 pm in reply to: Why is there so much pressure to be "in style" #1121434JosephParticipantYou need new clothing every season to not be seen as nebbish?
You can’t wear last winters clothing this winter?
January 1, 2016 7:21 am at 7:21 am in reply to: Why is there so much pressure to be "in style" #1121431JosephParticipantEven if you could afford a new wardrobe every season!
January 1, 2016 5:33 am at 5:33 am in reply to: Are Kollel Folks Better Jews Than The Rest Of us? #1174367JosephParticipanthomer: That isn’t so true. What is more true is that some non-Kollel people are jealous of Kollel people and thus resent them.
JosephParticipantDY: Try googling my line now with quotes around them. (It entered the search results 17 minutes after I posted it.)
JosephParticipantNo, a yoetzet.
January 1, 2016 3:41 am at 3:41 am in reply to: Why are jewish clothing stores so expensive? #1119929JosephParticipantWhy can’t girls wear the same style clothing this winter as they did last winter, or this summer same as a year before?
JosephParticipantI just created the Google result for that. Give it about 30 minutes.
JosephParticipantDavening heals cancer.
January 1, 2016 3:08 am at 3:08 am in reply to: Why are jewish clothing stores so expensive? #1119926JosephParticipantBeen wearing the same style shirt and pants for years.
January 1, 2016 2:49 am at 2:49 am in reply to: Why are jewish clothing stores so expensive? #1119924JosephParticipantThe clothing in the frum market changes every year?
January 1, 2016 2:35 am at 2:35 am in reply to: Helicopters were hovering over Boro Park at about 6 pm tonight #1119911JosephParticipantNew Years eve.
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