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popa_bar_abbaParticipant
no.
you are getting married; we break a glass under the chuppah, but we don’t turn the whole thing into mourning
popa_bar_abbaParticipantNo, it just means I don’t rely on the Talmud for science or medical advice, but moral instruction and explanation of Halacha.
Good, that’s all I needed to hear.
And if you want, you might consider how it contradicts everything else you said in that post.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIn a similar vein, some of the information chazal used in establishing Halacha regarding women is based on goyish systems. For example, Hellenistic ideals of women and their role greatly influenced this halachic sphere.
I see. So you think that chazal’s values were based on the goyish values. So basically the Torah is that we take secular values and we call it Torah.
Ben: Now can I call it apikorsus?
May 8, 2013 1:45 am at 1:45 am in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071509popa_bar_abbaParticipantSeriously. You mean to tell me that a troll like me can be a rabbi, and not one single woman (or married woman) can?
May 8, 2013 12:30 am at 12:30 am in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071502popa_bar_abbaParticipantAh, the old “bechukosaihem” rationale. In a US court, it would be void for vagueness.
On that note:
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/will-you-marry-me#post-244271
May 8, 2013 12:27 am at 12:27 am in reply to: Why Can't Women Get Modern Smicha and Become Rabbis? #1071500popa_bar_abbaParticipantWell, my objection is that I have decided to become a chovevei-nik, and therefore I follow Conservative Judaism, and Saul Lieberman paskened it is assur.
I have read the teshuva. He says that it is assur to call a woman the title “rav” or “rabbi” because it denotes being kosher as a dayan and they are not.
What can I say? Benignuman convinced me on the other thread and now I’m convinced.
Lemme see if I can find it online. I did, the Hirhurim blog has it in english–google “saul lieberman women rabbi” and it will come up.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIf 50% of klal yisroel listened to you, and didn’t learn Torah, Yiddishkeit would be weak and deeply lacking.
That sounds perfect actually. And exactly what the gemara says.
Ask your wife to explain it to you.
popa_bar_abbaParticipant450 a year
(150 for first year after getting smicha, but I’m like 3 years)
popa_bar_abbaParticipantPopa,
I suspect that YCT will say that they are also getting their values from Chazal, but that those values are in conflict with some minhagim we have because of changes in the society around us.
You suspect that? I don’t suspect that at all.
Well, I don’t have anything more to add, so I guess I’ll leave it there.
If anyone wants to sponsor an RCA membership fee for me, I’d like to take my trolling to their forums. But it’s so expensive, and hard to justify the expense for a non-practicing rabbi.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantMe: You’re fat and ugly.
Her: Thanks! You’re the first person to notice that I gained weight; I’ve been trying so hard.
Alternatively: Thanks! You’re the first person to treat me normally since (insert terrible thing here).
Alternatively: Thanks! I’m rubber you’re glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you.
Alternatively: Thanks! I let myself eat an ice cream sundae for each person who insults me (hurries off to ice cream store).
Alternatively:
popa_bar_abbaParticipantMy son says he is going to have them sing arur hagever at his wedding.
My wife responds that she is going to date WIY if I don’t stop teaching the kids bad things.
My grandmother says
that’s it popa, you’re grounded for 5 minutes. I’m taking over the computer
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt is not bizui of the talmud chacham to opine that he was mistaken, if the tone is respectful. If he would have written “the Rambam was a bigot” then I would be maskim. If someone says that the Rambam was influenced by the mores of his time and those mores were sexist, that is not bizui.
For example: Aliyos for women. I don’t think there is any issur if a person says that the pashut pshat “kavod hatzibbur” referred to in the Gemara is based on the sexist mores at the time, and today that we are not as sexist there is no problem of kavod hatzibbur.
I’m sorry, but that stretches credibility and requires the most ridiculous contortions. You basically need to say that chazal really were not bigoted, but realized that everyone else was, and instead of trying to influence society’s values which is exactly the whole point of the Torah, they decided to build those bad values into the structure of halacha and minhag.
I think it’s being a bit too charitable, particularly given that their writings are pretty clear that they indict chazal under the same hammer (because they rightfully think your contortion is bizarre).
I get my morality and values from chazal. I don’t tell chazal what their morality and values should have been. Chochma b’amim, taamin; Torah b’amim al taamin.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhat issur
Mevazeh talmid chochom.
what ikkar?
Fine, I don’t know enough about apikorsus to answer that. So maybe it isn’t.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI discussed the article with a common friend I have with the author. (legislative history).
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSaying a minhag is wrong is not assur. Even saying that a common psak is wrong is not assur, so long as your are making a halachic argument.
I’m sorry, but saying a minhag of the rishonim and of the amoraim is wrong because it is based on bigotry is assur. And apikorsus.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantben:
I have an expansive view of step one. I reject your ambiguity because it is clear that he is tapping into allegations of bigotry by noting that chazal were male.
If you must go to step two, I note that if he thought that chazal’s meaning was not bigoted, he could simply have that meaning in mind and not be bigoted. There may be more than one interpretation, but yours is not one of the reasonable ones.
As long as that doesn’t mean that the halachos are invalid, how does it damage the mesorah.
First, because it is being used to disqualify very old minhagim, which is bad enough.
Second, because it inherently undermines the validity of the mesorah. The fact that they think there is apparently some other reason to observe hardly makes up for that.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI hope your friend goes out of business very soon. I do not encourage creating a need in our community for 90 dollar denim skirts.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSam, I don’t think I’m exaggerating what they say.
I think the only thing I can be accused of is extrapolating from the writings of the talmidim what the rebbeim hold. But I think that is fair, since they are in a large way using the talmidim to say the things they are afraid to say.
I also have significant exposure to their ideologies by way of personal relationships and facebook. Which is stuff that is not in the public eye completely, but I think my conclusions are sound even just on the basis of op-eds, blog posts, and other public writings.
You might also read a piece published last week or so titled “Should I Thank God for Not Making Me a Woman?” by another of their clowns who also happens to be a founder of Uri l’tzedek. The latter piece is somewhat more subtle about the allegation, but it is clear if you know what to look for.
So for example, the latter piece’s thesis is to substitute a different meaning for shelo asani isha; specifically, that the bracha is because practically he thinks being a woman stinks. He writes that he insists on saying the bracha even if it needs a different meaning because “As a committed Orthodox Jew, I have accepted the entirety of halacha — the Jewish path of law and tradition — upon myself.”
But then in the next paragraph he writes: “Written by male rabbis nearly 2,000 years ago, these words evoke for me the sexism too prevalent in the Orthodox world and beyond… Do I want any part of that sexism? No.”
I don’t think this is ambiguous. Chevron Step one, for the win.
Please, I would very much like to be wrong about them.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantEveryone else: Once most rebbeim at YCT renounce torah mi-sinai and tell their students they can drive on shabbos I’ll agree with you.
Right, so in my opinion, they have already done that. By saying that halachos and minhagim stated in chazal can be attributed to bigotry against women, the entire concept of mesorah falls. Thus, I think it is quite accurate that they have renounced torah sh’baal peh misinai.
And I look forward to the day when they will just drive on shabbos and stop trying to be meisis umeidiach.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantThere are plenty. If you are asking to try to find one, you’ll obviously have to say which city and neighborhood you are in. If you are asking to make a point, you have not succeeded.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI got a pair in the beta group.
They’re pretty awesome for dates. My friends and I all date the same girl; one of us goes out with her wearing the glasses, and just asks questions for all of us. They send me texts saying “ask her about which seminary she went to; ask her about her job; ask her about school; ask her about the weather; ask her if she’s been to this lounge before; ask her if she thinks the couple over there is engaged or on a date also; etc”.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantno, that 2 on the bottom is there by mistake.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWomen are part of klal yisroel, why shouldn’t they have a chelek in Talmud Torah? It’s everyone’s yerushah.
Well, since that squarely conflicts with chazal, it is wrong. However, your logic is compelling so you are left with several options:
1. They aren’t part of klal yisroel
2. Only some people in klal yisroel get the torah
3. They get their chelek through some other means (the men in their lives).
I suppose if you think choice 3 (which the gemara says) is impossible, you are left with only choices one or two. So you pick.
2.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantMy wife stays up all night cleaning the house to make sure there is no milchigs at all. Milchigs is assur on yontiff even if only a ????.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantThanks for letting us know. I’ll be sure to check it out next time I need a flight.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantwritersoul: You may read the article if you wish. But as long as you don’t, you’ll have to trust me that I’m representing it accurately.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantbenign:
Also, the reason he wouldn’t say what you are saying is that I don’t think it makes any sense.
Women always had a yetzer hara, and always were given the tools by Hashem to deal with it, and that never included the mitzva of limud hatorah.
It makes some sense to claim that the yetzer hara is now stronger. But it doesn’t make sense to say that it is now the mens’ yetzer hara. It doesn’t make sense to say that the stronger yetzer hara now needs an entirely different thing to address it, and that coincidentally happens to be the thing that addresses a man’s yetzer hara.
But in any event, as I note above, that isn’t the argument he is making. The argument he is making is that they always needed limud hatorah. And it is mufrach as I note.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantbenign: on the women point, we aren’t disagreeing (nor agreeing). The argument you are making is not what he says.
I don’t care what Rav Shachter says about daas torah, because l’shitaso I don’t have to care what he says. lol
popa_bar_abbaParticipantrational:
I never said they aren’t jewish. What are you talking about?
Also, it is a play. It was a play before it was a movie. Now who’s cultured.
popa_bar_abbaParticipant“As popa demonstrated, the modern orthodox are not following the middle path.”
I did not claim that. I might, but I didn’t.
Ok, I’ll claim it now. MO are the left; I am the center. If they want to be the center, they need to tell me who is on their left.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantCorrect. The reason is called “politics”.
Politics? Now we’re calling religion politics? Usually we just call it bigotry, so I suppose politics is a step up.
YCT is not allowed in the RCA for the same reason Catholic priests aren’t. Because they aren’t practicing Judaism.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantFollowing the middle path — being a centrist — is brought down by Rambam as binding halachah in Hilchot Deot.
Read the essay. He explains what he thinks the value of centrism is, and IIRC he says that cannot be it because it makes no sense to always be between whatever the extremes of the day happen to be. It would imply that if some sect arose which was even more extreme (let’s say the RBS taliban women) that you should adjust to still be in the center.
He really does present his ideas very intelligently and impressively. (Even if sometimes over my head.)
popa_bar_abbaParticipantbenign:
Of course, you can make rational arguments in that vein. I’m commenting on the fact that he seems to attempt to prove it from the gemara, which is just astounding.
GAW: Yes, it is a bit hard to understand much of it. I try to interpret it by assuming that he must be adding some point over what is obviously part of any Judaism.
So for example in the first point, I am curious what he is adding–everyone thinks that halacha dictates our actions in every facet of life. It’s a bit unclear where he’s going.
Re number 2. Yes, I also agree that there is chochma b’amim, but I don’t agree on the need to seek it out, especially given the additional risks inherent in doing so.
Re number 3. So again, you need to define what he is adding. Everyone knows that lev l’achim is a chareidi enterprise, as is I think most of all kiruv work in America. Many if not most MO friends of mine think kiruv work is inherently arrogant since you purport to speak the one truth. So it sounds like he is adding an appreciation of their society itself.
Re number 5. I haven’t a clue what he means by that. Mussar and machshava are certainly mainstream in the chareidi world. I suppose tanakh as an independent study is not, but any serious talmid chochom has learned plenty of tanach.
Re number 6. I’m not convinced the zionist differences have as much to do with an understanding of history, as much to an ideological difference. It’s a bit insulting to say that if the chazon ish, or the Brisker Rav, or the Satmar Rav had understood history they’d have been zionists.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantTo say that he doesn’t speak English well is a massive slander at a major talmid chacham; an apology is in order.
Really? Is that where you want to make your stand? Why don’t you just say what everybody knows which is that it is hyperbole intended to make it sound better. Which isn’t the weirdest thing ever.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAnd popa, great movie. You’re clearly a kofer for watching movies.
That’s a movie? I watched a play that had that line, in an outdoor theater in Door County, WI.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAlso, what’s the deal with your constant digs at YCT? I disagree with their hashkafos as well- that doesn’t mean I create entire threads devoted to ridiculing their piskei Halacha, maliciously edit their Wikipedia page to make them look bad, or find every opportunity to criticize/insult them.
I’m on the front lines dude.
Son, we live in a world that has walls, and those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. You don’t want the truth because deep down in places you don’t talk about at parties, you want me on that wall, you need me on that wall.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantYCT people can call themselves centrist (frei Jews on their left, YU/RCA on their right).
You’re forgetting that the term centrist is being used as a qualifier for the term orthodox.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantHe was better than Joseph, I say.
What an interesting riddle.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSam, yes but the MB there in 24 brings another shittah which he thinks is more correct that it is only if you eat the amount one eats a ????? ????? ????? ???? ?? ??? ????, which seems to be a lot more. Perhaps 3 slices of pizza.
The MB says it is appropriate to be machmir like the first mentioned shittos, and to avoid eating more than 3-4 beitzim unless one is anyway eating bread. But he would seem to hold that if you eat 3-4 beitzim, that you should not make hamotzi or bentch.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’d also like to point out that this conversation is apparently only guys and vogue. lolol
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI thought it was harder in sem bec there were boys everywhere.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAzah shvach!
Thanks WIY, that gave me nachas.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAre you a girl?
Are you kidding? It’s bad enough I have to talk to girls–you want me to be one too?????
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI talk to boys all the time and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantThey should make seminaries for those girls with some sort of rehab.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSee OC 168:17 says that “pashtida” (meat pie) is hamotzi. It is not obvious though that SA is talking even where you did not eat it as a kevias seduah.
MB 94 explains that it is even if you are eating it as snack. Beur Halacha ad locum distinguishes the case of the taz to argue that everyone agrees with this halacha, and says the taz is talking about hors d’oeuvres. I cite to the beur halacha because that’s where he explains it good.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI only eat it as a meal, but that’s only because I wash on it. So now what.
Also, I hold like that beur halacha which says it isn’t pas kisnim at all. (to my reading)
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt’s also Oiver Dina D’malchusa Dina by smoking Pot.
dina d’malchusah only applies to laws that liberals like
popa_bar_abbaParticipantRight now. No.
When I wrote this? Perhaps.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantOh, I really was mistaken about a lot of them. Maybe that’s why my wife keeps getting mad at me when I use them.
Here’s what I thought they meant
🙂 = food in bowl
🙁 = fallen bowl of food
😀 = D
:3 = divided by three
:C = horseshoe face
:/ = not divided by
😐 = food straight on table
😉 = wink
:'( = lots of food in bowl
;_; = broken kkkkkeybord
;( = sad wink
^_^ = hungry. See http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/the-starving-thread#post-442198
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