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WIY: You are being unfair and a bit offensive here. She asked a question because she saw something potentially offensive. She didn’t attack anyone or anything. She just wanted an explanation. We believe that HKBH is good and fair and that the Torah is perfect because He is perfect. Thus, nothing in it should be offensive. If there is, the proper thing to do would be to ask how something seemingly offensive makes sense, which is exactly what this person did. We are not the Catholic Church. We don’t attack anyone for asking any questions (with 4 exceptions; see Chagigah 12b, I think). We answer those questions honestly because all of the Torah is D’vash V’chalav Tachas L’shoneich. Thus, when a girl (or a boy, but it’s more common among girls) just learning new things sees something that seems troublesome, we explain the Amittah Shel Torah and they will realize on their own how it is all actually perfect and fair. Responses like yours would make us no different than the Catholics. It is our openness to all questions that has served as a strong proof throughout the years that our religion is correct. You don’t just tell the person asking questions, “learn more”. You actually give the context and answer the question and explain everything. That is the Chiyuv of L’lamed.
Sam2ParticipantToi: No it’s not.
Torah: All of these happen to be things that cause one to forget there Torah learning (Horiyos 13b, I believe). They are not being compared. They just happen to be three things that walking between causes learning to be forgotten. I believe that palm trees are also something a man shouldn’t walk between. Also,
Sam2ParticipantPeople blasting this really need to learn some Shulchan Aruch. Nihugei Aveilus of Sefirah are taken from, guess where, the Halachos of Aveilus. Included in the Halachos are Aveilus is the Halachah that some Aveilus is overriden for a Davar Ha’aveid. Thus, any loss of income (probably) is enough to shave during Sefirah. Certainly the loss of a job is. Look up the Halachos in Yoreh De’ah for the actual nitty-gritties.
Sam2ParticipantHaKatan: That is another Joseph alias, once again lifting unsourced lies directly from the Frumteens moderator.
April 19, 2013 2:22 am at 2:22 am in reply to: Obama is crying because his gun law didn't get passed #947906Sam2ParticipantWhile I feel that it was idiotic not to pass this gun law, Obama’s comments afterwards were a clear attempt at subverting the checks and balances that our constitution is based off of.
Sam2ParticipantHaKatan: After doing a bit of research, it seems obvious that the Kook Shmook story isn’t true. Why do you persist in forwarded lies invented by the Frumteens moderaor? (Google Kook Shmook or look at the Hirhurim article about it if you actually want proof that it isn’t true.)
Sam2ParticipantNo scientists say that this world is only 6000 years old. I’m saying that they are billions of light-years away but were only created thousands of years ago. An All-powerful Creator can do things like that, you know.
Sam2ParticipantLearn somewhere where you won’t be distracted.
Also, confirmation bias and self-rationalization for wasting time.
Sam2ParticipantI once met a person so offended by this question that he declared it “a secular lie devised by scientists to break out Emunah”. He said that we see everything as it happens and that light takes no time to travel. That was a stupid answer.
The simple answer is that old things don’t necessarily go against creationist beliefs. We believe that God created rocks that look like they’re millions of years old. So too He created stars that look like they’re millions or billions of years old. At the time of B’raishis He created it so that their light was only a few thousand light-years from Earth and now we’re seeing them.
April 17, 2013 9:52 pm at 9:52 pm in reply to: All Children Who Leave Our Community Should Pain Us Equally #947384Sam2ParticipantTorah: I thought we should feel more guilty if they’re more successful (well, different type of guilt). We should feel more responsible for the kids in trouble because we let them go off more. The successful ones are more independent and can choose to go off more on their own.
Sam2ParticipantDY: By the way, I asked around. Can you provide some sort of source for this alleged statement that Rav Druckman had to meet quotas of a minimum number of people to convert?
Sam2ParticipantPBA: The “to the exclusion of all others” was a Chumra of R’ Soloveitchik (his Lashon too). All of his Talmidim do that.
No one holds like R’ Henkin nowadays. We don’t assume that all reform people are Safek Mamzerim. Even those Batei Dinim that won’t deal with a situation of a reform person (because they’re scared to go against R’ Henkin) will always accept a marriage and children that were Kosher according to R’ Moshe in this.
Akuperma: No. The Kiddushin is only done with Kesef. The Badeken, Chuppah, and Yichud room are all for Nisuin. And the Nisuin was all done Al Da’as the initial Kiddushin. If there is no initial Kiddushin, there is no marriage.
Sam2ParticipantDY: You’re right, of course. I forgot that depression was an extrapolation from L’zarez Bim’lachah and not explicit, but it is an extrapolation mentioned in the Poskim. By the way, we are more Machmir on music during Sefirah than the Mechaber is all year round, because we aren’t Meikil on Shiros V’tishbachos. I’m not sure why though. (I also seem to remember the SHM”Bon the Kitzur bring down that if it will reinforce your Emunah it’s Muttar as well.)
April 17, 2013 1:16 am at 1:16 am in reply to: What Blessing to make upon Seeing President Obama #948383Sam2ParticipantTorah: Because Obama doesn’t quite have the power to execute any American citizen without due process of law. Also, it could be that because he can’t extend his reign forever that the Brachah wouldn’t be made.
Sam2ParticipantIntro to Peirus Hamishnayos, I think.
Sam2ParticipantDY: I’ll look again, I guess. I thought all the later Mekoros quoted the B”Y. Check the Shearim Metzuyanim Behalachah on the Kitzur too.
Sam2ParticipantDY: I don’t know about instruments, but there was definitely dancing. I think YU put a video of it online.
Sam2ParticipantPopa: Honestly, I’m actually inclined to believe that the thing about not attending due to there being girls in the gym is correct. Apparently, at the Seudas Hoda’ah today (which the boys had in the gym and the girls in another building), almost every single Rosh Yeshivah attended.
Sam2ParticipantWolf, Ubiquitin, etc.: Just replace the words “Sinai” with “Arvos Moav” (which everyone, except the Rambam, agrees to). Then the question still stands.
Talmud: In short, he held that it was a Busha to say like the Geonim and that Chas V’shalom that we could forget so much. He says that Pratei Dinim weren’t given to Moshe Rabbeinu. What was given was the text of the Chumash, a few Halachos L’Moshe MiSinai and Peirushim Hamekubalim Misinai, and all of the Klalim (I think if you count them you get like 365 or something). Then it was up to the Chachamim in every generation to Darshan out according to the rules and vote. Thus, the lack of Machlokes before Hillel and Shamai wasn’t due to there being Nevi’im who could Pasken, it was due to the fact that we had a Sanhedrin and thus could reject certain Shittos with finality. Once we lost that, we could no longer resolve disputes as both ways of Darshening are equally valid. Thus, every Machlokes in Drashah is Eilu V’eilu and we lost the way to reject minority Shittos, thus the Mishnah and Gemara and Midrishei Halchah are full of disputes.
Sam2ParticipantR.T.: It doesn’t fly in the face of anything. There are separate Midrashim. Chazal had a right to argue on each other. Both opinions are equally valid.
Sam2ParticipantDY: I believe the Beis Yosef says that to calm nerves is okay. Check him out in 560. In general, I think the assumption is that we are Meikil during Sefirah on those cases in which the earlier Poskim were Meikel all year round (I think the Shearim Metzuyanim Behalachah on the Kitzur mentions this but I don’t remember for sure). Also, I think the Nitei Gavriel quotes sources that there is a difference between recorded and live music, but I do agree that it is quite a minority opinion. (Then again, he also brings down the even more minority opinion that slow music, which would not inspire dancing, is Muttar Lechatchilah and he brings that down as the normative P’sak. Then again, he’s a Chassidish Posek. Maybe that is normative custom in Chassidic circles and I just don’t know about it; I should probably ask someone about that.)
April 16, 2013 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946085Sam2ParticipantWIY: Ah. Thanks.
Sam2ParticipantDY: You could be a “real” Zionist and have a barbecue. 😛
Sam2ParticipantTalmud: The Geonim assume that because we were persecuted and because Beis Hillel and Beis Shammai couldn’t properly learn everything, we lost our Mesorah and disputes arose as to what the Halachah that was given at Sinai was. The Rambam has a drastically, drastically different Shittah on this.
Sam2ParticipantDY: In Eretz Yisrael they have lamb Shawarma a lot because lamb is much cheaper there than in the States.
April 16, 2013 2:51 pm at 2:51 pm in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946081Sam2ParticipantWIY: Nakba is Yom Yerushalayim and not Yom Ha’atma’ut? My bad. Thanks.
Sam2ParticipantPBA: I don’t know the YU hock, but I can ask people who do. I have been Zoche to attend the Chagigah a few times (there really is little like it; I always wish that there were Chareidim there so that they can see what Yom Ha’atzma’ut means to religious Zionists and maybe it would help foster a lot of peace and understanding). I know that very few go. Then again, most don’t live in the Heights and it is a pain for them to either stay away from their family/wife all day or go and then come back (for the same reason not all of them attend the Channukah Chagigah). I would guess that a few (Rav Twersky and Rav Yitzchak Cohen come to mind) don’t really hold of Zionism. I think Rav Schachter doesn’t like that both the day is changed and I think he doesn’t hold of dancing during Sefirah. I can ask around, but there are a few Rosh Yeshivah who do attend. It could be because of the girls (even though there is a good Mechitzah). It could be because they’re not so Zionistic. It could be because of the music during Sefirah. Or it could be a combination of those and more reasons.
April 15, 2013 11:02 pm at 11:02 pm in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946056Sam2ParticipantI think he just wants to be sure. You can’t prove it’s a terrorist until you know that it was an organization and not just one nutjob with access to materials he shouldn’t have access to.
Then again, the fact that it occurred “Naqba” should be more than enough for us to know who did it.
Sam2ParticipantApparently Bieber’s manager is a Conservadox Jew or something like that.
Sam2ParticipantROB: Check the Hakdamah to Perek Chelek, I think.
April 15, 2013 10:18 pm at 10:18 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945897Sam2ParticipantTKND: It might be different nowadays because the whole world has been mixed up and a Mara D’asra might no longer exist as a concept, but yes. It is Yuhara to be Machmir in an ostentatious public way against Minhag/P’sak Hamakom and it is Assur to be Meikel in public against Minhag/P’sak Hamakom.
Sam2ParticipantROB: The Rambam explicitly states that he does not believe in direct Hashgachah Pratis for anyone but the highest of Tzadikim. Everyone else gets their life mapped out in general terms, but not specific events.
Sam2ParticipantROB: That’s not at all what the first Ani Ma’amin means. The Rambam did not hold of the Artscroll Chassidishization of Hashgachah Pratis in the slightest.
April 15, 2013 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945894Sam2ParticipantTKND: If one has a legitimate Posek that says it, then I can’t question him. I can, however, question whether or not said Posek has a Din of Mara D’asra where this person is and therefore shouldn’t be followed because of making Halachah look like a joke.
Sam2ParticipantDaMoshe: Cutting off the Peyos was the least of the crimes committed against the Teimanim. I don’t know or care whether they did it. I actually doubt that they did. Kidnapping babies was the real crime there. In fact, those who harp on the cutting of the Peyos do a massive disservice to the wronged in the Yemenite community.
April 15, 2013 3:39 pm at 3:39 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945886Sam2ParticipantTKND: Also, doing something that no one else does in a public manner (and nowadays, because of the internet, most weird-looking things are public) is a serious Shaila of Mechze K’yuhara (or, to quote Rav Schachter, Yuhara Mamash).
Sam2ParticipantBen: And Carolyn Keene
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Sam2ParticipantTKND: Actually, the Sefardim were kicked out of just about every country at one point or another (as were the Ashkenazim).
April 15, 2013 2:55 pm at 2:55 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945885Sam2ParticipantTKND: Of course not. I said there are very limited cases where Yatza S’charo B’hefsedo because he makes the Torah look like a joke. I’m not saying that this is one of them even. I’m just saying that there’s precedent for such a concept.
Sam2ParticipantSam4: The Sh’arim Metzuyanim B’Halachah on the Kitzur brings down a list of such Mekoros. I think he also quotes a Bach and another Rishon or two, but I don’t precisely remember.
Sam2ParticipantThe mistreatment of the Yemenites and what was done to them is the blackest stain that the Medinah has on its history. Denying that is denying history. However, that doesn’t turn everyone and everything related to the state into dangerous Mashmidim. No one (at least, no one non-delusional) claims that the state is perfect. Some people just think that we need to be Makir Tov to the RBSO for what we have now because it will eventually lead to the Geulah.
(I’ve quoted this before, but R’ Schachter quotes R’ Herzog who quotes a Ramban that we have a Havtacha from HKBH that we won’t lose Eretz Yisrael three times. Thus, the Medinah is the start of a Jewish sovereignty that will last L’Olam Va’ed. That is why I feel that Yom Ha’atzma’ut is a day on which to give Shevach V’hoda’ah LaHKBH.)
April 15, 2013 3:53 am at 3:53 am in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945874Sam2ParticipantHaLeiVi: That should be a B’feirush Machlokes Tannaim, and we Pasken against R’ Meir (I believe). I’m pretty sure we hold by Rov, not Ma’amid. Also, planes are made of earth metals like aluminum because they are much lighter. Iron and steel are to heavy to fly efficiently.
April 14, 2013 11:21 pm at 11:21 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945870Sam2ParticipantHaLeiVi: Rav Schachter quotes that the airplane is Chotztetz because it’s not Mekabel Tumah because the metals they are made out of are lightweight alloys and aren’t any of the 6 metals mentioned in the Torah (which the Gra says are the only ones that can be Mekabel Tumah).
Sam2ParticipantNifterah is a passive verb. She died. Nifteres is a noun meaning she is the deceased.
April 14, 2013 9:46 pm at 9:46 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945867Sam2ParticipantDY: I think because it doesn’t do anything. I’m not holding more in Taharos so I’ll have to look into it more.
WIY: I have no idea. A poster here gave a name earlier, for whatever that’s worth.
Sam2ParticipantShalomToYou: Umm… why isn’t Nifteres a feminine form of Niftar? Or Oheves Yisrael being a woman who loves/loved Jews? Seudah Shlishis/Shlishit is Hebrew. Shalosh Seudos is the Yiddish nickname for it. They’re the same thing. If you say a Cholam as an O instead of an OI, then Chazon Ish sounds kind of close to Chazzan. And if you have a Litvish A sound for the Cholam it’s even closer.
Sam2Participantmz: Beitzah 4b
April 14, 2013 7:19 pm at 7:19 pm in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945864Sam2ParticipantTKND: There are several times in Gemara and Poskim where Chumros are to be avoided because it looks like Kucha V’hitula. (The first one that comes to mind is a Sha’ar Hatziyun that says that one should keep all 5 Inuyim on a minor fast if it’s not a Sha’as Shalom in the world, but to still wear shoes because that looks like a mockery.)
Sam2ParticipantRebdoniel: You don’t believe in making a Brachah on a minhag? Wow. Who are you to say such a thing? That’s ridiculous. I hope you didn’t make an Al Achilas Matzah at the second Seder either.
April 14, 2013 3:07 pm at 3:07 pm in reply to: How would you respond to Savage on Metzitzah #1028045Sam2ParticipantDY: This whole situation came up again because last week a Mohel did two MBPs with an open sore.
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