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  • in reply to: I got a subtitle, but… #1023486
    Shanifirst
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    yw – moderator : I REALLY want a subtitle. Can I please have one? How about “amazing frum girl B’H”?!:)

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183326
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    I almost went to a mixed school. Everyone before would call me OTD and the place i live there more layed back then some other frum communities. The reason I stopped was because I wanted to marry a Rabbi and i still do “OTD” things just not in public like go swimminng in mixed pools, listen to not jewish music, go to the theatre, wear shorter skirts when i’m only with girls, etc… without people knowing because it’s not within the frum community and i eventually plan on stopping when H’H i’m married.

    in reply to: What is the Ner Yisroel college program #1159531
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    I think that Ner is an amazing yeshiva for amazing guys and I think that if you want to go to yeshiva and go to college at the same time Ner is the best yeshiva for you! Talk to the Rabbis there and for the class at Ner request Rabbi Frand i heard how much the boys love him and i listen to all his speeches and read all his books and go to his shiurim. His a really amazing person and amazing Rabbi B’H – that if i wore a boy and went to Ner i would TOTALLY want him and request him:)

    in reply to: What to do after high school? #977794
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    I didn’t go but a bunch of my sisters did and my sister is going there next year! And from what there saying that’s how i feel about Peninim and BJJ and my sister said the same thing like you but they LOVED it there:) I just chose BJJ over Peninim cause i want to learn FULL day:)

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183319
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    Do you know any way that I can start doing kiruv and where? (as a teen girl)

    in reply to: Which sins carry eternal punishment? #977601
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    Wish you much Hatzlacha:)

    in reply to: It's seminary application time, so… #995207
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    Go to Peninim if you want to tour all over Israel and want to learn half day and learn how to do sheitels and cut hair.

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183317
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    Before now, I was even MORE frum and i use to learn 24/7 and then somehow i ended up with the WRONG people and now i’m davening for them to go back on the Derech and there out in MO or mixed schools now and it’s VERY sad:( I almost stopped keeping shomer and wore very inappropriate clothes.

    in reply to: Will I get a shidduch? #978000
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    Redleg – Don’t scare the poor girl! She will H’H soon find the right person at the right time for her:)

    in reply to: Song Lyrics #1155232
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    Thanks:)

    in reply to: I got a subtitle, but… #1023482
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    How about me? Where’s my subtitle? How about “amazing frum girl B’H”:)

    in reply to: Song Lyrics #1155230
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    Where do i get the cd from?

    in reply to: Is it right to suggest a shidduch for yourself? #977967
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    The best shidduchim is made by the person themselves or a family member:) Just make sure that someone you trust is also involved in the shidduch that’s a close friend and not a family member so that way they can make the shidduch and that way it will be tznius because your friend made it and it’s the same as a shadchan doing it just better because your friends with the shadchan.

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183315
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    When i was OTD I davened 3 times per day and perek shira everyday and tehillim and things it just had to do with the people i hung out with and skirts and pants and things. But, now I;m VERY interested in kiruv which i wasn’t before.

    in reply to: Will I get a shidduch? #977998
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    Sam 2 – The thing with YGW is that Silver Spring is modern orthodox community and the people that go there that are yeshivish go there because it’s the only school in Silver Spring

    in reply to: What to do after high school? #977791
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    Do you want to come back as the following:

    1. I love to learn and I want to marry someone learning in Kollel and I want to learn right now:) – go to BJJ

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    2. I love going on trips! I love talking to friends! I love having a new skill to cut hair and do shaitels! I love making new friends and having time to do things with them! I want to marry someone who is in Kollel or learns and works!:) – go to Peninim

    in reply to: What to do after high school? #977790
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    It’s claimed to be modern but its really a bais yaakov type – mixed – not everyone that goes there is modern especially not the girl i know is going with her best friend the same year as you to there she wants to marry a kollel guy! I know girls that went there that are married to kollel guys! It has trips ALL THE TIME!!! It has half day learning.They also have a course where they teach you how to give haircuts and do sheitels and so that way when you go home you can make $!

    in reply to: Will I get a shidduch? #977991
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    How about you check with the Yeshiva of Greater Washington Guys? It’s an only boys MO school.

    in reply to: Will I get a shidduch? #977986
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    Are you looking into the Silver Spring Men because I think that would be an excellent match for you!

    in reply to: What to do after high school? #977786
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    I think you should go to Peninim because they go on trips all the time and only learn half day and from the posts you wrote you sound like a perfect fit! Would you be interested in Peninim?

    in reply to: It's so hard #1001502
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    Your soo luck to have a chance to do Kiruv:) Be happy:) Mitzvah girl:)

    in reply to: Will I get a shidduch? #977975
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    Depends which school you want to. Did you go to a mixed school? A school with OTD girls? Did you talk to boys? Were you the most frumest at the school that was only for girls but they were MO? Don’t expect to get a boy that has been more frumer than you his WHOLE life. Especially if your a girl if your a boy – maybe because of the shiduch crisis. But, definitely not if your a girl! Look at the Silver Spring, Maryland boys they have a lot of boys that type that you sound like would be right for you and don’t expect him to come from a very frum background either. I know someone that was in your situation and now she’s married.

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183305
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    Daven for him and he will later in life regret it and i still don’t understand why someone would go OTD completely even when i use to be “OTD” i was only modern orthodox i ALWAYS wanted to keep Shabbos, Kosher and Tznius because i love it:)

    in reply to: Telling parents about lifestyle changes #977297
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    Tell the WHOLE story from the beginning to the end and don’t make up anything. If you do make something up you may be caught in a lie. I love being frum:) 🙂

    in reply to: Today Is My Yahrtzeit� #976190
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    That it’s a very good hashgacha pratis story! Good for you!

    in reply to: Friends being a bad influence #976924
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    You should try to be mekarv her and i wish you much hatzlacha in doing so!

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1183302
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    Has your son gone back on the Derech? Wish you much Hatzlacha and an easy way to get him back on the Derech!

    in reply to: How to find a friend/rabbi? #996183
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    There is a chabad online and don’t look in the past just keep moving on with life and don’t worry i’m sure if you REALLY want a husband you’ll find one H’H just talk to shadchanim and i’m sure they’ll be more then happy to help:)

    in reply to: Friends being a bad influence #976918
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    You should be makarav her. Don’t tell her that you want to make her frum but just be like “I love long skirts”! “What would i do without Shabbos”?! “Why do i need to go to a mixed swimming pool when there’s an amazing JCC where it’s only for girls”?! “What do i need boys for”?

    in reply to: Tznius or Shalom Bayis #977134
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    I read in the Mishpacha and Ami not to get divorced but to go to a therapist with your wife or husband to work on it so that way you keep both shalom bayis and tznius.

    in reply to: Anyone went to college in Lakewood? And sem question. #976016
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    I don’t think it’s appropriate for a Bas Melech to go to a not Jewish college. So, I wouldn’t go.

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