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Can I cheer you up? Cold compress and maybe some tylonol for the headache, and for the accessories, try giving and/or getting a good hug from someone. Here, let me start with what I can do, a virtual hug *big (nice) bear hug*
Deiyezooger!!!!! Hi!!!!!
Hey! Yeah where is smile e face, gumball, and all the other “kids” (please excuse me for using the term so loosely, I include myself in the category :))
HI! 🙂 sorry y’all I’ve been extremely busy lately what with settling in the new apartment, working on a couple projects, managing my divisions at work, etc, etc, etc. As much as I can, I have been keeping an eye on you guys though. You will see that my screen name has popped up here and there.
Thanks for the mention! Didn’t realize I was gone for so long (or that I really added THAT much)
As a note, yogibooboo (turns out was a neighbor of mine back (by my second) home), left never to come back. So yogibooboo told me. In person.
Paging gumball. We need some care freedness in here. It’s gotten quiet … Too quiet (wonder if anyone’ll get that)
As a music analyst, I look at a singers accuracy, lung capacity control (you can tell this by how they sing), accuracy and fluency of the instrumentals, flow of both the singer and instrumentals, compatibility of the lyrics to the instrumentals, and it goes on.
Are you comfortable with who you are and is she comfortable with who she is. Next, are the characters, goals, skills, and needs compatible to build a functioning home. That is for interpersonal. A basic matter necessary to all parties is a working basic floor plan of long term support (and no the laws don’t count except for certain circumstances).
Coming from someone who is “working his way back”, I would like to give my input as I feel all of you should hear from a current person on what you would call the other side. Calling kiruv coming back or any other term that creates a separation between the parent and the child’s choice of lifestyle, can actually be a lot more damaging than anybody can imagine (trust me, I know). Whether or not you actually call it that to the child’s face does not change one’s attitude and can still be told by the way you react or talk in general. Kiruv means to bring close not bring back. Being that this thread is for a specific child and not general kiruv, I will only say one general thing. I have personally found that the biggest matters when it comes to kiruv, is acceptance and attitude-of the caregiver and it has to be true and real, you can’t fake it because it won’t work.
Dunno where awarenessvaad (he? She?) Got it from but I will vouch based on personal experience of seeing others’ marriages (I do life coaching so unfortunately I get to see a lot).
Either way, awarenessvaad is correct on their point. Think about it.
ZM
Amen! Thank you 🙂
Epilogue: so my father calls …
And I would really like for you all to be able to wish me mazal tov too. In every joke there is a little seriousness
APRIL FOOLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
K I’m sorry I lead you guys on like that. I really didn’t realize how badly you all wanted such good for me. I feel loved. Thank you all!!!!! 🙂
I don’t exactly use those websites …
Let me put it like this. You’ll know if a new thread shows up k?
Just because I didn’t start a new thread means it isn’t clear? When I register what’s going on …
OMG!!!! I never thought I would see this day!!!! MAZAL TOV!!!!!!!! Siman tov umazal tov umazal tov usiman tov yehai lanu ulechol yisroel!!!!
I know for a fact that there are more people than will admit that know who I am IRL. The other direction, I know who a few people and lurkers are IRL.
Even by giving the circle a girl is part of, one can not answer such questions as each individual girl is different. Some look for middos, some look for character, some look for looks, some look for smarts, etc. All in the same circle.
Crazybrit: no, not me. (Why is everyone obsessed with me getting engaged/married anyways?) Look a couple posts up.
Coffee addict was giving a bracha for a child (I think)
MAZAL TOV!!!!!!
Hahaha lol =D yeah … I feel you.
Tell them I say hi. Then let me know how they reacted to you knowing me =D
yummy: it may be a pirush on the medrash of arbaim yom kodem haleida (not sure where that medrash is though)
You know, I love how I have been here for over two years and yet I still get referred to formally. Hello! I’m only 20. Ok no offense but i just sounded like my teenage sister lol.
Yummy: Yup! I was there for two years and even went to college for a semester there. If your cousins are part of the frummer/yeshivah community, I probably did. Apparently I am still a legend there (not exactly sure what it is I did though lol). Why not ask them if they know me?
Sobr *hic* Sobriet *hic* sobriety? *hic* wha … Whatsh that? *hic* heeheehee
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AMEN!
Welcome back RedNails19!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow. I’ve been promoted! This makes ICOT admiral. Lol
PE: If I am thinking what you are thinking, we may be talking about two different waitings. Can’t say more though …
PE: 🙂 GD willing not too much longer (though for some of us, every day is a long time to wait)
I think I’ve fallen off the wagon … Been extremely busy lately *cough* though I do still poke in my head here and there to take a look-see. How are y’all doing?
Should I? Or shouldn’t I? Yes or no? So hard to hold back but so hard not to …
It’s not what you think or are looking for
Please don’t be alarmed I’ll try not to bore
My rhyming and timing has come back in full
Like a fast charging rhino or galumphing bull
The news that is so complicated to share
Is something (or someone) that is not yet here
Now while I am here digressing
Please do not be sitting and stressing
No it is not a baby
Or is it a girl maybe?
Although it is very true
I sit here making you all so blue
Please do not worry, do not stress
GD will turn it out for the very best!
B’ezras Hashem, please GD, good news on the horizon! Good day 🙂
Missing In Action to Back In Action
You know, I would be curious to remember how, when, and why this rooting for me to get married, started.
Cool! Mod instructed to start a new thread for it! I feel special! 🙂
Yummy cupcake?! WOW! MIA-BIA!
I have a big family, what can I do that B”H there are so many simchot? B”H it will be my turn soon enough. I’ve been waiting three years already.
Sheesh! You don’t gotta make me any more nervous than I already am, k?
MAZAL TOV!!!!!!! MY NIECE IS A KALLAH!!!!!!!!