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zahavasdadParticipant
In a democracy if you have a bad leader, he can be voted out or term limited out.
In a tyranny if you have a bad leader you are stuck with him until he dies or is overthrown in a coup
zahavasdadParticipantI think you are thinking of his ex-wife Winnie Mandela who was the real terrorist and “necklaced” her political enemies (Necklacing is the placement of a tire on someone and then setting them afire)
Mandela was forced to divorce Winnie which was actually very difficult as she had waited for him while him was in jail for 27 years
zahavasdadParticipantdepends on the Kid, use your best Judgement for your own kids. Some might be ok at 10 others not until they are teenagers
December 10, 2013 8:29 pm at 8:29 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992179zahavasdadParticipantIf you think its good parenting and good chinuch to YELL at a kid (I never saw physical force) to get over here (meaning next to the father) while the kid is screaming “I dont want to be fleshig” and then proceed to take a spoon and put it in the kids mouth there is nothing to discuss.
December 10, 2013 5:52 pm at 5:52 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992169zahavasdadParticipantIts a Mitzvah to give Rebuke
December 10, 2013 5:32 pm at 5:32 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992166zahavasdadParticipantLive in your bubble and think everything is perfect and ignore the results of the Pew Report.
December 10, 2013 5:05 pm at 5:05 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992164zahavasdadParticipantI have repeated the force feeding chulent story to quite a few people and many people have written back that they too were force fed chulent and some of them said, not only did they not learn to like the chulent, they began to hate Shabbos because of it and eventually went OTD.
There is a story I heard of a Rav ,once someone went to him and told him he HATED shabbos, the Rav asked why. The man told him back in Europe every week his family would spend the whole week preparing and finding the finiest foods for shabbos, His father would buy only the best fish in the market for shabbos and the Rav thought to himself what a beautiful way to teach about shabbos and then the man said, every shabbos his father forced him “LKavod Shabbos” to eat the fish, every week he would dread when his father would force him to eat that fish and he hated it more and more. Shabbos to him became associated with eating that Fish and he couldnt wait to get away.
December 10, 2013 4:08 pm at 4:08 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992155zahavasdadParticipantIve seen more than once a father FORCE his kids to eat chulent on shabbos, the kid didnt want to be Fleshig.
Exactly how is that supposed to make the kid like Shabbos if he is forced to eat something
December 9, 2013 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992133zahavasdadParticipantI bought it in the store.
December 9, 2013 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992099zahavasdadParticipantI have no problem with the concerts, I have no problem with the charities using the names to raise the money.
My issue is more money goes to expenses than the charity
I have heard for example that Fried charges $10,000 for a concert. Im sure he gives places like HASC a discount, but he might very well make more money on the event than HASC does. it would be better if he just did for-profit events and the charities try to do events that get a higher take.
December 9, 2013 8:26 pm at 8:26 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992130zahavasdadParticipantI was at a close family friend recently as they invited me for Shabbos and they served me a nice serving of Liver. Its rude not to eat what you are served so I ate it chasing it booze to minimize the taste, I have no idea how I got it down.
My grandmother was a great cook she , the typical jewish grandmother and even she could not make Ptcha taste good
December 9, 2013 8:06 pm at 8:06 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992097zahavasdadParticipantIt actually was a real event . It was not a Parlor meeting in someones house.
Someone rented a Simcha room for an event, Had about 100 people , charged $20 a person and had a singer (Nobody I heard of). They also had some donuts , Fruit and drinks (Professionally carved and served)
December 9, 2013 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992093zahavasdadParticipantI rarely see jewish entertainers Like MBD or Fried do soley for-profit open venue. They almost always do Benefits and their for-profit venues are private events like weddings and Bar-Mitzvahs.
So if you want to see MBD or Fried you have to go to the charity event.
December 9, 2013 6:21 pm at 6:21 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992089zahavasdadParticipantI dont go to Dinners, but I do go to Chinese Auctions and I get letters from the Chinese Auctions for the FULL amount of what I paid to get in. So if I paid $36 to get in , they send me a letter for the IRS for my $36 donation
December 9, 2013 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992125zahavasdadParticipantI grew up being served Herring and Chopped Liver.
And they taste just as bad on Tuesday as they do on Shabbos
I never heard of Ptcha until recently, so I asked some of the older generation and they told me why, they HATED it and refused to eat it, even my father who will eat almost anything wont eat Ptcha.
I found it in the store and it did look nasty, Didnt taste that good either unless I heated it up and sopped it up with bread
December 9, 2013 12:35 am at 12:35 am in reply to: What To Serve Shabbos Lunch Besides Chulent #992119zahavasdadParticipantNot everyone likes the same food,telling someone “its Mesorah”to eat something they dont like isnt very helpful.
Personally Ill eat chulent ,but dont really care for it and its not eaten in my house,but I cant stand Herring, Gefiltle Fish or Chopped Liver (The worst YUCH!!!) Ill pass on the chicken as well
December 9, 2013 12:21 am at 12:21 am in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991847zahavasdadParticipantBelgium is requiring core curriculum because they pay the tutions, If the government gives money they have the right to dictate what is taught for that money.
If vouchers ever been the norm in the US, expect the same.They will not pay for religious education,but might pay for secular studies
December 8, 2013 3:33 pm at 3:33 pm in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991844zahavasdadParticipantI know people who worked for HR in frum companies and they told me many insurance companies did not want their business because of the large familes and likelyhood of larger payouts due to larger families.
Before you claim Anti-Semitism, A pregnancy costs about $7000 and a C-section $15,000, and thats before all the kids getting sick and having to go to the doctor. Why would a For-Profit company want to have a customer who costs them money.
Under the new laws that would be illegal
December 8, 2013 2:42 pm at 2:42 pm in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991842zahavasdadParticipantFYI Europe might actually be cheaper to live as a frum jew. They pay the tutitions there and depending on the country housing might be cheaper as well with incomes being higher.
I dont know the exact cost of living in Belgium or France which would probably be the best ones to live
December 8, 2013 2:40 pm at 2:40 pm in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991841zahavasdadParticipantObamacare is actually going to make it cheaper for Frum people to get insurance
If You were an insruance company, whose main goal is to make money.Would you want to insurance a family of 10 kids where the women is getting pregnant every year or every other year.The Pregnancy costs and the costs of insuraing the children is not worth the premiums you will collect. They are undesireable clients. (From strictly a business point of view,you want healthy young (meaning 20’s-40’s) with small or no families for maximum profit.
December 8, 2013 1:40 pm at 1:40 pm in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991838zahavasdadParticipantI think Israel might actually be worse than NY. In NY we have tution,but the salaries are generally higher.
Jerusalem was ranked as the most expensive city in the world to live (based on Median incomes vs real estate costs) And other major Israeli cities like Tel Aviv or Haifa werent much better.
Basically an apartment in Jerusalem costs as much or more than NY AND you make a lot less money.
December 6, 2013 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992083zahavasdadParticipantPersonally I am not offended by what people say or think about me here as I say NISCHTgafelach. its the internet blog and thats how it goes.
You have to be foolish to think a charity can run on 100% donations. Many halls depend on the income for Charity dinners and events and many entertainers especially keyboardists also depends on these fundraisers for parnassah.
I dont know what a fair split is, Obviously its not 100-0 and obviously its not 0-100.
And I do stand by my statement that people seeing MBD and Fried for Hasc do think they are giving Tzedakah
December 6, 2013 5:11 pm at 5:11 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992075zahavasdadParticipantThere are many charities and just because someone is charity doesnt mean you are required to give to it, you are allowed to choose where to give the money. Charities must dangle carrots to fight for that ever harder to get dollar.
Would you give your Tzdekah money to a charity that you know the money goes to pay the Con Ed Bill or would you donate another Shas (When they already have enough copies of it)
December 6, 2013 4:33 pm at 4:33 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992069zahavasdadParticipantCharitynavigator does not rate some well known frum charities well.
Certainly there is value is running an event that makes no money , but gets your name out as the bigger money might give..
Asking people to just write checks doesnt work otherwise Ooorah would not see a need to run a Million Dollar Raffle
December 6, 2013 4:14 pm at 4:14 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992067zahavasdadParticipantThey were not Random numbers, I have knowledge what room rentals , food and cleanup costs are.
You can check them out yourself, I may even have estimated on the low side.
December 6, 2013 3:37 pm at 3:37 pm in reply to: Giving Tzedkah to a Charity that uses Money for Expenses #992064zahavasdadParticipantI didnt say ALL the money was used for expenses. However I dont expect the room rental to be free (They are about $500 for a decent place) You usually cant make your own food so you must use the caterer for the hall which proably costs $5-$10 a person. Most entertainers also need to make some money, everyone asks them to do benefits and its impossible. and you also need to pay to clean up the room (Usually $200-$300)
If you are going to charge $20 a person for admission and lets say you get 100 people thats $2000 minus $500 for room, Minus $500 for refreshments Minus $300 for entertainment Minus $200 for room clean up. leaving you with $500. And people worked really hard to get people to go
zahavasdadParticipantPower Corrupts, Absoulute Power Corrupts absolutely
zahavasdadParticipantIs that what happend in the fight against the Haskallah and the reform?
zahavasdadParticipantSometimes people need to lighten up,Its ok to laugh and make jokes once in a while
November 27, 2013 4:06 pm at 4:06 pm in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991833zahavasdadParticipantBlaine amendments were passed in the 1880’s. Im sure they were fought against and lost.
You are correct about NJ, It does not have a blaine amendment. Its one of 11 states that don’t have it.
In the 1960’s they tried to repeal New Yorks Blaine amenement and it had something to do with the wording forcing an entire re-write of New Yorks constiotution.
That’s why New York actually provides a lot of indirect aid to parochial schools like bussing and books and computers that was found to be legal.
November 27, 2013 3:58 am at 3:58 am in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991829zahavasdadParticipantThe whole voucher discussions is basically pointless anyway
New York, NJ and most other states have Blaine amendments to their constitutions which forbid vouchers to parochial schools (They were written against catholic schools not jewish) and because of the way they were written , it would take a entire re-writing of the New York Constituton to undo it.
zahavasdadParticipantFroggie
The Gedolim put the Ukraine in Cherem The Ukraine after Tat V tat in the 17th Century, and see how that worked out
November 26, 2013 8:29 pm at 8:29 pm in reply to: Yated article about barely making it financially #991817zahavasdadParticipantIf you have School Vouchers the government has the right to require certain things taught, They are not going to give vouchers to support torah education, they are going to give vouchers for secular education taught at jewish schools
zahavasdadParticipantPeople are so ungratful . We are lucky to live in a country that lets us live in peace instead of such customs as making the Rabbi of the Community bend over on a “Holiday” so he can be kicked in the rear to show how low we are (This was the custom in the roman ghetto)
zahavasdadParticipantI have found this thread to be very disturbing
People are focusing on one minor issue (Some here call it Major, but its really not) instead of the bigger picture. People are trying to micromanage someones life. Not everyone likes the same things accept that. Sometimes when you micromanage someone the whole house collapses.
zahavasdadParticipantSpain I didnt really feel anything, Felt like Italy or France to me
zahavasdadParticipantIve been in Germany , Austria and Spain aint no big deal. Most of the people who committed the atrocities are dead and the few that are left are old and senile.
Ill admit I did feel creeped out the first time I was in Germany and I was a bit creeped out in Vienna and Vienna is an awesome city to visit if it didnt have a past , it would have been one of my favorites
zahavasdadParticipantI dont know anything about this particular sidur, but here are things that could be differnt
The English translation,It might be meaningful to many if the english translation was more in contemporary english as opposed to formal english.
The Print, Due to the way your eyes read the siddur different size prints are needed for different prayers, not because one is more imprtant that another.
The little commentaries about the meanings of particular prayers like at the bottom of Art Scroll
zahavasdadParticipantIn general Thanksgiving is the worst time to travel and one of the most expensive I would not travel this weekend if you could avoid it.
Even driving is awful everyone is trying to get somewhere
zahavasdadParticipantI will actually agree with you, People need to find things out for themselves.While I dont know specifics, I have found out that I knew some things and my parents knew somethings and sometimes they were right and sometimes they were wrong. Everyones life is different and everyone needs a different path.
zahavasdadParticipantI missed the $299 deal 🙁
zahavasdadParticipantI dont think its the white shirt itself, its more individuality, He wants to be able to choose his own clothes
zahavasdadParticipantThats too bad. You might have enjoyed it.
I would have also recommended Prague. Its one of the most jewish places you can go and they are very welcoming to jews there.
zahavasdadParticipantThere is a huge difference between “Ben Sorrer OMorrer” and normal teenage angst.
Hanging out with girls is not the same as being a Juevenile Deliquent
zahavasdadParticipantIts on Youtube
Search for
Wallerstein Agudah 2013 and it comes up
Its also been posted on various blogs
zahavasdadParticipantThey changed it from Thanksgiving weekend when it normally is because of Chanukah
zahavasdadParticipantMy family has been speaking English for over 100 years (My family predates WW I in the US) . They have eaten and breathed English since around the year 1900.
Frankly the fact of the matter is the world is getting smaller , people need to comunicate with each other especially from other countries. Languages are disappearing as people need more world languages.
Very few peope speak Yiddish anymore, its a hinderance instead of a help. And if you want to tell me its the Jewish Langua Franca, Actually its Hebrew not Yiddish today. I speak Hebrew and have used it to speak to jews from other countries many of whom werent even Ashkenazic
zahavasdadParticipantThe Rabbi Pinkas Wallerstein Speech is online
zahavasdadParticipantYou are not missing much, Yiddish is just a Pidgeon German. If you like to hear German Spoken, you will like to hear Yiddish spoken
November 19, 2013 4:48 pm at 4:48 pm in reply to: ERROR: Could not establish a database connection #997612zahavasdadParticipantIts because too many people are trying to access the website
It could very well be someone is trying to Hack the Website with a denial of Serivice (DOS) Hack
When someone sends lots of requests to a website overloading the system and dening the website to others
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