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November 16, 2023 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2240426Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant
PS it is indeed tricky to be at an event where you show unity with other people and people from other religions. So, if some of the “talmidei chachamim” “yodiim hilchos avoda zara” were there, they could have advised otheryidden when and when to to answer “amen”. When you were grasping your head in pain near your laptop, nobody noticed.
November 15, 2023 9:43 pm at 9:43 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2240121Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantso, those (8 or all 13) moetses members who said that rally will be useful are not gedolim?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantOh, so it is 8 to 5 in Moetses? This explains the “pareve” “joint statement”. Not sure then why minority issued a separate opinion right before the event. Were they pressured by their followers after the compromise? Maybe, majority can now take back the compromise statement and tell us what they really think?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThere is a singer in a black kippah singing shir hamaalot, are you guys happy now
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThose T’Ch who signed the Tuesday morning call are – Lakewood, Mir and a 92-student school from Brooklyn. Do we presume that the rest are for, or at least OK, with the rally given that Moetzes as an oganization were ok with it?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantyou can rest your case because ywn front page seemingly closed that article for comments and deleted the ones that were there.
So, maybe you can help me clarify:
1) how many members are in moetzes?2) as this was posted this morning when buses were on the way – did anyone see buses with lakewood registration turning around after receiving a lakewood alert?
3) can moetzes organize their own demonstration with 100,000 people in DC – let’s have a siyum of half-shas?
November 14, 2023 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2239580Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcommon, I respectfully produce arguments that would work according to your shita. I also added arguments from sevorah. As I generally follow beis Hille, I put your position first and mine second.
November 14, 2023 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2239579Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> The march on Washington during WW II was by Rabbis and was for a very different purpose. This rally is sponsored by secular organizations
Exactly, during WW2, those non-observant Jews were afraid to show up and even counseled FDR to disregard the march. Can you imagine how those Rabonim felt being abandoned by fellow Jews in trying to save Jewish lives. Now, those other Jews finally showed up and we are now nitpicking on the speaker lineup.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantspeakers include top house and senate leaders, as well as president of Israel. this is the goal – affect American politicians.
Maybe if you put a Rav, then you need to put someone reform, then noone O will come?November 13, 2023 10:41 pm at 10:41 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2239419Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantTo the question why the rally is needed
First, see the announcement from the collective daas Torah: they say it is beneficial. To the point: public opinion is one if the fronts of this war, not different from tunnels or sea or cyber. Public opinion in the west and in Arab countries will determine how much pressure will be on tzahal to avoid certain actions; whether other groups or countries will join. Etc. And each one battle may not be decisive but they are part of the whole.November 13, 2023 10:15 pm at 10:15 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2239422Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIn regards to women, we probably can’t demand of them to go, but should accommodate them if they come. Same as the husband I obligated to support the wife financially in return for her wages, but she can reject the offer and work and keep her wages. Same with learning, nobody kicked out Beruriah from a class.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantProBiden articles before 2020 election addressed unease of an Obama vp: the claim was that Biden was the mature member of the team. While others viewed Israel as the occupier, Biden allegedly remembered 1973 and understood that Israel feels vulnerable.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMaybe oil is where consumers can affect world politics. You can work all sides of it: reduce consumption- buy unfortunately Chinese solar panels or heat pumps that might be Japanese. Also, increase US production by voting R or pressing your reps, buying stock in oil and gas companies, especially lng exporters.
Organize anti government protests in Venezuela or Nigeria or any other corrupt oil producer.November 13, 2023 8:35 am at 8:35 am in reply to: Let us do something together for a Yeshua for Klal Yisroel #2239137Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDon’t worry. People are either not bragging about their kabolos not to lose zechyuos, or took a kabola not to post, or are on the bus to DC with a bad connection
November 12, 2023 10:26 pm at 10:26 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2239035Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIt is just 3 hours frm Lakewood to DC or maybe 2 with a typical driver
November 12, 2023 10:26 pm at 10:26 pm in reply to: The Israel Pogram of 2023 Jewish Massacre #2239036Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantLearnt, indeed. Just see how middle east treats other minorities: nothing, yazidis, kurds,. Sunnis v shias …iraq/ Iran war, syria…
.. I don’t think this is all zionist fault. So, without zionists, Sephardim would have gotten similar treatment by now.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMod, mate, it entails me not posting for the next 6 hours until rosh hodesh Sydney time. Cheers.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIf mods would be willing to share with me rejected posts (under an NDA), I can see if we can train an ai moderator for some obvious abuses.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIran, Russia, China 🇨🇳 are hamas enablers. So, oil, Persian carpets, Russian vodka and antivirus software and everything Chinese are good candidates for boycott. Also, any company or college that cooperate with them.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantTo show chesed to the moderator, I’ll take upon myself , bli never, to write posts that do not require moderator to edit anything till the end of the month, or at least I’ll put controversial ideas in invisible ink, white on white, for example,
Hope you agree.
That would be super helpful, thanks. You do realize what it entails, tho, right?
November 12, 2023 9:34 pm at 9:34 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2238995Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSo rabbonim who went to meet fdr, and he sneaked out, wasted their time from learning. Take your hevrusa and a sefer on the bus and learn at the rally. Maybe teach some of the other participants. Mitzvos related to eretz Israel.
November 12, 2023 9:34 pm at 9:34 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2238994Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> big rally for Soviet Jewry ended with Yeshiva bochurim & Bais Yaakov Maidlach mixed dancing
And it ended up with a million Yidden getting their freedom. Some gedolim didn’t approve these activities lehathila not because mixed dancing but because they were afraid of soviet response both towards the activists and increasing regressions inside ussr. At the same time, a friend of mine asked a Sheila in Baltimore whether open action is OK v. traditional shtadlanus and the answer was: we don’t have a preference for specific way of politics. If quiet ways worked in olden times, and demonstrations work in our times , we do what works.
November 12, 2023 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm in reply to: Why aren’t yeshiva’s and girl school’s going to the rally in Washington. #2238912Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWhat is the source for Yidden only sitting in beis midrash and davening. In 1943, there was a march of rabbis on Washington that lead to creation of war refugee board. The event was condemned by assimilated jews.
Chofetz Chaim talked to various Polish politicians. Tannaim went to Rome. Moshe rabbeinu went to Pharaoh. Even Yaakov did.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI am confused that people who usually follow aguda are now looking for tirutzim and yehidim who disagree. True aguda doesn’t call for everyone personally to go, just to increase numbers. So if you are not comfortable going, you can maybe sponsor free bus seats, encourage your students to go, substitute for a teacher or a doctor who are going, drive students to the bus meeting place…
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHere is a quote from aguda, as quoted by Lakewood alerts:
we feel it is important, midarchei ha’shtadlonus, that there be a large turnout at this event. Accordingly, and in consultation with our rabbinic leadership, we are circulating to our friends and constituents information about the rally. More information will be available here in the coming days.I would not call this “pareve”. It may be cautious maybe because it is organized by a different organization and maybe disagreements within aguda, but it is an endorsement. They are careful not to call directly to attend, possibly not to put in awkward position those who don’t want to.
So, if you are looking for their guidance, it is there. But if you want to be meikel and follow your own daas, you can do that also.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDuring ww2 there was a March of rabbonim on Washington before Yom Kippur and more Americans americanized jews were uncomfortable with getting entangled. The more things changed, the more they are the same
November 9, 2023 1:41 pm at 1:41 pm in reply to: Does Hashem approve of voting for a democrat #2238106Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantakuperna, your dismissal of “dead rabbonim” seems insufficently supported: as you yourself show, Dems positions are relatively the same as they were in the 70s, just way further down the slope. Those crazy students of the 70s are now party elders. Also, quoting international positions seem not relevant to local elections in the garden state.
So, it seems that Lakewood Rabbonim disagree w/ R Miller ZTzvKL, in this case at least. Maybe the gashmiyus that is required to support ruchniyus in their community is seen as more important that society-wide considerations that R Miller often advocated. Who knows, if R Miller were in charge of thousands of families requiring state assitance, maybe he would also have disregarded higher considerations.
Practically speaking, if Dems will have a slim majority, and a group of conservative Dems band together, they can lead the party to a more balanced place.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantShlomo,
either you are seeing extra billions of muslims under your bed or you are not consider most of the Jews Jews … That’s OK. Many French college students think that there are more Jews in France than Muslims – so visible we are.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> I never listened to Non-Jewish music, … They don’t take from Non-Jewish music, as far as I know.
Thank you for your honest opinion. The only reason I know this music is Jewish is because my children are listening to it. Heilike children can not be wrong.
November 8, 2023 7:51 pm at 7:51 pm in reply to: Zelensky is jewish and so is kamala harris’ stepdaughter #2238073Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantakuperma > movements towards intermarriage and people going OTD in large numbers began about 250 years ago.
this is true for Western Europe and US (Mr. Harris). For most of Eastern Europe and Russian Empire (Reb Zelinsky), intermarriage started in 1920s. Before that, Jews lived behind the “pale” and even those who were professionals and allowed to live in big towns, still married Jews. Even in Germany late 19th century, Jews that baptized would typically marry people with similar yichus.
November 8, 2023 1:35 pm at 1:35 pm in reply to: Ukraine is more important than israel to joe biden #2237854Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantkanoy > Biden has taken a strong stand in support of Israel
That is true. Still, he has an unfortunate record so far of following some complicated theories that are not supported by facts, trying to balance a fight of evil with liberal fantasies, leading to ineffective policies. Afghanistan .. slow flow of weapons to Ukraine .. are there indeed any military/foreign policy successes by Obana/Biden people? Reset w/ Russia. Agreement w/ Iran. “80s are calling back”. Disagreements with Israel and Saudis … Maybe I forgot some, please remind me.
Again, this does not exclude gratitude for Biden’s declared pro-Israel position (balanced by leaked articles that he is pressuring Israel to stop military action in private)
November 8, 2023 1:35 pm at 1:35 pm in reply to: Ukraine is more important than israel to joe biden #2237853Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantakuperma > . Eretz Yisrael is a front in a war that includes Ukraine, and threatens to expand to all of Eastern Europe, Taiwan, the Philippines and Korea.
I agree. I don’t think many people disagree, despite Chinese/Russian propaganda trying to exploit all friction points.
One unfortunate thing is that Israel waited until being attacked to take the stand … whatever their realpolitik considerations were ..
November 8, 2023 1:34 pm at 1:34 pm in reply to: More Torah being Learned than ever, yet more Troubles #2237852Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantn0 > I know of too many Baal Habatim that learn less than their wives.
And I know may baalos batim who learn even more than their husbands!
My kos is hetzi-maleh
November 2, 2023 11:51 pm at 11:51 pm in reply to: Kollel Couple Moving to Israel. What BANK to use? #2236972Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcan they open an account with one of the Israeli branches in US before going? Or use an American bank with a branch in Israel and credit cards as described above?
November 2, 2023 8:03 pm at 8:03 pm in reply to: Egyptian leader Abdel Fattah El-Sisi is Jewish #2236914Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> information is from 2014
Then by chazoka he is still Jewish
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHow was Avraham able to defend reshoyim of some? R Moshe says that he was interested in truth and ficing the wrings, and not focused on destroying the evildoers. I am not at the level to apply this to those who are trying to destroy us, but at least we need to apply this to each other.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAbility, a da Raba, schools and shuls should be giving discounts to those who are ready to protect the kehilla. Should count as part of chesed and written off as tzedokah. This is not farfetched: halachik thinking about serving in the tzahal includes an idea that even if one feels protected by his learning, there is a tzad of chesed to protect others.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantFanatic, I think that people tend to focus on someone who they often disagree with, and these are often their neighbors with whom they disagree on a particular point. We see it in Israel, among different Jewish groups in US, in politics… maybe this is what sinas hinam is about.
So, when someone focuses on the enemy, then enemy of my enemy is my friend… avoid falling into this psychological trap, don’t be a fanatic.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGedol, I needled you for a reason (: I do not consider modernishe such a bad word, I just want to make sure that people who think they are not be more realistic. Avraham was modernishe as he (literally) fought wars of his time, not of Noach’s times, and everyone else was similarly modernishe addressing issues of their time, as the Torah says -go to the judge in your gates …
With erusin, you, similarly to n0, take an example of a social practice with a halachik basis. Same with, kesuba or schools – they changed over time, gemora itself is telling us the history of those changes and social reasons: Rabbis experimented until they found a solution. DT is a fundamental principle of relating to life. If you want to say that this is a new practice that did not exist during gemora because we now need it, ok, I’ll listen to the argument why. But, instead, it is usually presented that “Yaakov was wearing the hat” mebeersheva. Not accusing you personally.
> I don’t see anything for מפרשים to get excited about.
So, the student rejects Rav’s advice and halachik argument out of hand without even uttering a word and this is OK? if you come to your ruv and ask his advice for a shidduch, is it OK to reject his advice, especially if it questions Ruv’s yichus? Or is it OK to not even ask? I am trying to put myself in DT shoes, but maybe I am missing the boat (while mixing metaphors)
October 31, 2023 1:05 am at 1:05 am in reply to: moving from Jerusalem to Cleveland – TIPS please! #2235875Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI think OH has vouchers, so that should have positive impact on school cost and, hopefully, quality.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantn0,
you are comparing DT with philosophical categories. I thought DT is a halachik imperative, thus it needs to have halachik parameters.As to your questions – of course, people can and should ask for advice. And Torah scholars should be first on the list.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWhile I agree with all caveats ^, we should value all the tools we have. Studious students were at risk of not having children as they could not go to the bathroom and miss part of the class. Chofetz Chaim write that we should thank Hashem for all conveniences, such as inventing trains that made travel fast & comfortable, kal vehomer tools that help learn Torah, from book printing to online search to YWN.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantakuperma, what would have happened with those Yidden in the Jewish autonomy and the other Jews in Arab countries? You might argue that we should disregard their later hate of Jews as it was a response to zionists. Shoin. But simply look at how other minorities, and majorities also, are treated in the surrounding countries. At best, we could hope for a Jordan-type government, where only those Jews who create trouble would be killed. Or, we could have been under a government a la Saddam, Assads, ISIS … At best, most Jews would have left EY for now (like most christians did) and millions would have assimilated by now the way Jews in America did.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThis does sound like a good shidduch. It is not late for him to start learning and for her to get off social media. Let her use CR instead. Show them this thread.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGedol,
on chulin – hope you realize how modernishe your argument is. So, R Yehuda’s DT is not same as ours. How about chesed? shabbos? At minimum, we would need a good source to claim that we can easily reject R Yehuda and inject new meaning into it. Any glosses from the Gaon saying “my DT is different”?
But I agree that this is a secondary argument just showing shifting positions.As to R’ Yohanan, again, they are way more polite than we are and not saying offensive thing to each other’s face (clearly, from silence of RZ). The way I see it – under some of modern views of DT , R’Y’s suggestion should be binding. So, ideally, RZ should come on his own to RY and say, I am looking for shidduch, I don’t trust yichus of Israelis, should I marry a daughter of another student from Bavel or should I go back home? RY would tell him that his concerns about yichus are misplaced and I have perfect shidduch for you, I checked the yichus myself when I was getting married.. Under more extreme versions of DT, RY would not even explain the halocha but say – don’t worry, my daughter is the best for you. Trust me, this is min hashamayim, and you can also inherit the yeshiva.
This is clearly not happening.
According to your reading of RY words, he is not even raising his DT rights. According to my reading, he is raising it in a polite indirect way, and supports it by (invalid) halachik argument, and RZ reject it out of hand. In both cases, (lack of) outrage from meforshim is the issue. But maybe I am just not looking at the right places.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcommon > When someone starts a thread by writing “I stand corrected”
I stand corrected that I thought gemora does not discuss DT, turns out it does (as it seems to me at this point). Now, what gemora says does not seem to contradict my views, as I see so far- r Zeiri politely refusing the shidduch, even after Rosh Yeshiva demolishes student’s unspoken position. And meforshim have simple explanation for this insubordination – not a rav muvhak. I hope I can find more on this.
October 29, 2023 4:59 pm at 4:59 pm in reply to: More Torah being Learned than ever, yet more Troubles #2235439Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> fighting was done overseas
except many of us or our families were “overseas”.
While we see a lot of learning, we may be fooling ourselves. When we look at problem of pre-war communities, we see a lot of movement form religion. Nowadays, we might not see it – because some of those who moved away are not even associated with us … During the time of crisis like now, we see some of them – some coming to join, others, R’L – to oppose ..
October 29, 2023 4:58 pm at 4:58 pm in reply to: 7,000 pro-Palestinian protesters take over Brooklyn Bridge, call for elimination #2235437Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantlook for a Yid who sold them the bridge location
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantN0, so the first issue this discussion seems to reveal that we do not have same, or clear, definitions here. This is strange. People who keep kosher are able to define what it means. Same with shabbos, each opinion is defined to a minute. So, people who follow DT (and it seems to be the majority here) are not united in what it means. That is, they might be repeating the party line “DT is good, 2 legs are bad” without actually practicing it.
One article that shocked, shocked, me was a simple YWN news story about R Edelstein emerging from a year of covid isolation and giving a shiur separated by a plastic mehitza from the listeners. Somehow, thru the year of controversy nobody mentioned, or learnt from, the gadol. And no articles about his way of learning during that year (by himself? self-isolating hevrusa? zoom? did not see anything about it). So much for DT.
PS Rav Yehuda in Chullin had his definition of DT, but nobody seems to care about it. Rav Yehuda founded yeshiva in Pumbedita, taking over from Nehardeya, and most successful and long-serving yeshiva in history – so probably Rav Yehuda knew something about DT …
October 29, 2023 1:25 pm at 1:25 pm in reply to: More Torah being Learned than ever, yet more Troubles #2235353Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantR Salanter used to say that when someone is not paying attention while learning in Lita, it leads to a professor in Paris going OTD. So, it makes sense to look at quality of learning.
First, a simple question of measuring that quality. It was always an issue. During BM2, first attempt at public education was for fathers to teach and that did not have consistent quality (2nd to go to Yerushalaim had logistics problems), 3rd – to teach teenagers in regional centers did not work because teenagers did not listen [quality of teachers, I presume, as it was not an issue in Yerushalaim], what worked – teaching small kids locally, maybe not high quality but giving them information before they are capable of rebelling.
Som with early yeshivos – I presume Netziv was able to know and lead his 400 students. But in our days, with so many yeshivos, the standards are uneven and are known word-of-mouth among locals. We here inCR are sometimes shocked that some of us are bakiim in certain things and have
no idea of others. We need some sort of TSAT, Torah SAT with scores in different areas. It is OK to have 800 on tosfos, but 0 on chassidus. This score will accurately describe the student and the school, and then we can start thinking on what can be improved. The fact that we do not have such measurements tells something about the state of learning. -
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