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bym, u r saying that their cottage cheese is good? I personally did not like it…

thank you brooklyn, I wouldnt say my mother is spoiled, but doesnt want me to be deprived, and I am a kallah maidel so thats also a reason…

I think the reason I dont feel spoiled is because I live in brooklyn where the things i receive are normal and nothing out of the ordinary.

wow its confessions now, I guess Raninu is that type of camp people pass threw in their years. Bym, are you your second year out of hs?

intellegent, ok may think what you want, I wont deny I get what I want but i would not call it spoiled but just living life, I dunno. k, so I really think I will be able to lower my standards because in some ways I am cheap (when it is my money) like when my parents go away and give me and my brothers money we keep the change, so we switch off taking eachother out to eat, theyll go to a fancy place and il make them come to pizza or fast food. ( most of the expenses I would charge to my parents card so i get to keep the money) but really I do know how to be cheap, even enough that my mother screams at me that I am crazy cuz she is the one paying anyway. I think I know how to cut corner and just do with less.

tzippi, my mother picks up those things so I dont know… clothing that is a hard one, I started looking at sale saks and bloomingdales as opposed to a personal shopper or having outfits, so marshalls and target might be alil hard, my mother would never go for the idea either, but thanks

brooklyn, that is why I date the guy to find out, and I wont do a b’sho so its all good, but thanks…

squeak, you are more than correct, and its sad how sometimes my mind does think that way but that is not my type…

Chatty, I understand that I will but I know I am doing the right thing so it will make it easier, in life I gave up alot of things for yiddishkiet, so I dont c why this should be different, although i do understand it is my life and its forever, b’h i was blessed with these things throught my life but doest mean I was in need of them…

no not this past summer, as a camper…

I try to leave it off of me just to have some free time, and I do not bring it on dates, I just bring money but thats it

lol my shadow ill ask them, but enjoy florida cuz it looks like i wont be going…

brooklyn, between me and my friends, family where i come from I am not spoiled, i just get what i want because that is the way it just always worked, the same with everyone else i think, but where does that come in now? your saying it will be hard to go on a kollel salary after living a life that i now live?

intellegent,

thanks, that is a good idea, so I will a’h cut out that trip, but with clothing the more i accumilate now the more I will have when i get married to live with?

what else do you say I should try cutting out on in my life, because its not like i am buying anything for myself its realy all coming from my parents so I am trying to take it in.

Joseph,

no i do understand I will have to lower my standars (florida only once a yr, and I wll be living in israel…jk)

intellegent,

yes that is what I am saying, I do know that I have to lower my standards, and I am willing to do that because its learning and I dont want to get into a whole cr fight but its the right thing and i should give up stupidities for it.

brooklyn19,

I understand with the whole economy it is difficult, and my parents will not be able to give me all i have now for that many years, a’h when i get married I understand I will not have cleaning help, I do not need my manicures, its only my clothing but i guess i will already have so its good that they were expensive so that they last a long time? I know it will be hard but life is all about struggle.

tzippi,

I never said it must be eight, as long as possible but it would be amazing if thats what it turns out to be.

enlightenedjew,

the more i search and be in touch with my soul the more I know this is what I want to and I know is right, so I will just have to work hard and forget about all these material things that I was given all my life.

omg omg that is very funny, oomis1105 you missed the whole thread… and yes lexus does has a car which parks itself

Joseph was making a joke,

Not everyone is incapable of using a phoen responsibly, but it does make it easier for pp to do something wrong when they have it.

lol, she probably is busy its not her type to be shy… at least I hope I didnt scare her away.

surfer, I am still trying to figure out who you are, between two pp, if you want to help me narrow it down

tzippi, Oorah is in Gilboa which is not the catskills,

intellegent, I am planning on being supported because I barely work, 8 hours a week or less, so not much income exactly. I am so nervous like can you tell me how to plan now, and like I am idealistic but thats becaue I dont have married sibligs so dont know anything more! I want my husband learning as long as possible, pp ask if 8 years will be good, I will be so happy if that works out, but I really dont know what it means to live a real kollel lifestyle… I am scared…

Bottom line is that cell phones do make things more accessible for kids. Some kids rather than going out to do bad things have it in their hands, during school or at home. Lets say even if it does not make kids go “off the d” it does cause kids to do bad things that they would not have done. there is a difference between talking and texting, so years ago girls would not think of talking on the phone to a boy, but now its like come on its just a text message. number one it seems in your head smaller than an actual call, secondly, noone will ever know and thirdly, you come to saying things that are crossing the line that even if spoken to on a phone you would not feel right saying.

yes brooklyn, it does depend on the height, but prob a/t over 130 no matter how tall is not to be written…

I think it is sadly enough but time to close this topic now 🙁

lol! so it will be limited to under 120 for single girls

Thanks Mrs. Beautiful…

Joseph, its not the vain singles, its the parents! I in no way need my nails done and want a husband who would not mind if they are not. he is doing it for his parents and I am doing it for mine.

asdfghjkl, do you not live in brooklyn? $60 is not crazy to pay?!

dunno, prob c u there…

will hill, sorry my fingers must have typed that without thinking, I meant by shemtobs pizza.

but lets think of a meeting place in israel!!

I agree with keepingentertained, I also worked in a kiruv camp for three summers!also they have to learn some sort of responsability that they cannot rely and you, you cannot become their cructh, which alot seem to do.

brooklyn, I am assuming you have a computer job, maybe we are even in college together at night, cute

anon for this, it was not going to be displayed to people, I do understand privacy you want, although I would have no problem I have nothing to hide from anyone.

myshadow, I also charge my phone next to my bed where there is an outlet, and I do kiruv so I know what you are talking about with the children, but it is not under my pillow but rather on the floor.

Josh31, they were not planning on using them, but you are saying if I let my friend use my cell phone because Im not paying it is stealing?! If u go to a young married couple hu dont pay their home phone u cannot use it?

rebetzin, you are right, but at the same time the mothers of the kollel boys are looking for a gorgeous, skinny, put together, smart and e/t girl, the girl has to try and be that to make the mother of the boy happy to get a date or go further than that. once they are married their lifestyle can change. I am talking from personal experience. My mother makes me get my hair and nails done, doesnt mean I want it, so I am listening to my mother, making my potential to be mother in law happy, when I am married a’h living a kollel lifestyle these things wont continue, not only because we will be living on a smaller budjet ( well in that case I can go from $20 manicures to 6.25) but rather because I really dont need these things or want them, just following what my mother wants me to do. thats it

this is too funy surfer and dont have internet, I was not there this past summer but 3 or 4 ago, for Rina, so I doubt I know who you are… unles u were staff then as well.