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  • in reply to: Tzniut Problems In The 5 Towns #1667729
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    Order delivery,
    Leave payment with company receptionist

    in reply to: I got married! The shidduch crisis is over #1667063
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    @DY
    Thank .you for asking
    B”H Mrs. CTL is improving slowly and is at home. We are trying to get her strength up, as she must have major surgery next month to bypass the problem organs.

    in reply to: I got married! The shidduch crisis is over #1667017
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    @Whitecar,
    Make sure you open and install it, not a handyman. There’s an envelope inside for the two of you

    in reply to: I got married! The shidduch crisis is over #1666446
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    Whitecar………………..
    Did you get the nice mailbox I sent as a wedding gift?

    in reply to: In Town versus Out of Town #1664212
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    Four generations of my family lived in NYC from 1868 until my parents decided to make a 75 mile move OOT in the early 1950s. They chose a city with a yeshiva, day school, mikveh, many shuls, kosher bakeries, butchers, delis and restaurants. My mother did remark that there was only one appetizing store. My older siblings were born in NYC, but I was born OOT.
    My parents found that NYC outer boroughs were becoming ghetto like with the settling of the remnants of frum European Jewry. Growing up they had lived in mixed ethnic neighborhoods and buildings and they wanted their children raised in a mixed American community. This was important as we were expected to be professionals who made our living from the populace as a whole. The family was proof that we could live the American dream, live outside an exclusively Jewish enclave and remain frum.
    My grandchildren (and my siblings’ grandchildren) are now 7th generation frum Jewish Americans. Our localities no longer have the plethora of shopping and dining choices as the Euro-Traditional Jews who supported them have died out and their non-Frum children no longer kept kosher out of habit (as opposed to belief) as their parents and grandparents did.
    All of our children and neices/nephews spent some time in Yeshiva or seminary in NYC. None wanted to settle there.
    Personally, I would not want to live in a high rise apartment of 5 or 6 rooms or a city house that is only 12 feet from my next door neighbor’s wall.
    I like being close enough to go into the city to shop or attend cultural events, but not have the hassle of living in a city of 8 million people.
    When I read the complaints in the CR about the school buses parking streets, or neighbors who have illegal curb cuts, fake garage doors, etc. I say who needs the hassle. If I never rode a subway again, I would not miss it.
    OOT we have a true feeling of community, all Jews make an effort to get along and respect each other’s differences.
    As a young married, I belonged to a shul that was composed of two shuls established in the late 1880s who merged in the 1950s. One was a Litvak misnagid shul, the other Lubavitch, but not chasidim (they were families who came from that town in Russia and davened Nusach HaAri. The shul put the Litvak name first and used the Lubavitch siddur and followed their calendar.
    I started attending minyan each morning and the shammos started asking me to daven for the amud. I explained that I did not daven that nusach. He said to me: I’ve watched and see you daven from a Tikun Meir nusach Ashkenaz…that’s frum. Go to the amud and daven from your siddur, no one will object. I refused the honor and said I’d check with my father and Zaideh. They both told me, in your own seat use your own siddur, but for the harmony of the kahal, from the amud daven with the shul’s siddur. You will not be betraying your minhag, but honoring the shul’s.

    OOT is not for everyone. My children’s spouses are all OOTers. I don’t know if a potential spouse who was dependent on picking up prepared food at will, and being a short walk to most of his/her relatives and friends would have wanted to make the change. I know that my children did not want to make their lives and raise their families in NYC.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1663739
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    @takes3
    I’ve been rather busy this week with Mrs CTL and a myriad of medical appointments, but your comment about Tikun Olam not being an orthodox concept irked me,
    …………………………………………………………………………
    The last Lubavitcher Rebbe, Menachem Mendel Schneerson had this to say about Tikun Olam:
    “Tikkun Olam (Repair of the World)

    If you see what needs to be repaired and how to repair it, then you have found a piece of the world that G-d has left for you to complete. But if you only see what is wrong and what is ugly in the world, then it is you yourself that needs repair”

    Rebbe Menachem Mendel Schneerson (Lubavitcher Rebbe).

    Although I come from a long line of Misnagdim, I contend that the Rebbe and his teaching/preaching met the definition of Orthodox Judaism. I had the honor to meet and speak with the Rebbe several times back in the 1970s. He was quite inspiring

    in reply to: How Close Are You To Your Cousins? #1662748
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    @Joseph
    I am the youngest child in my family, my parents were the youngest in their families as well.
    I have no first cousins left alive at this point
    There are a few second cousins surviving, the youngest of whom is more than 20 years older than I am and we were never close due to the age gap. I am close with some of their children.
    I have about a dozen third cousins on my paternal side who are within 5 years of my age and all live within a 90 minute drive. We are very close, talk every week and see each other many times each year.

    in reply to: How Close Are You To Your Cousins? #1662246
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    I am closer with my third cousins than first or second cousins
    Our grandchildren are all close with their first cousins because they spend the entire summer and almost every yuntif at our home…Camp CTL

    in reply to: Can president Trump save his presidency? #1661862
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    I hope not.
    He must not be a two term President, he has done enough destruction already. Putin’s Puppet needs to go

    in reply to: Yeshiva Fundrasing using Cigar Rolling and Wine Tasting #1661704
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    I think this sounds like an interesting evening.
    I haven’t smoked a cigar since 1982 when my doctor determined I was allergic to tobacco juice (i would bite off the end of a hand rolled cigar before lighting it).
    I come from a long line of cigar smokers, but it ended with me.
    My maternal great great Grandfather was brought to this country from Germany in 1868 to run a handmade cigar factory in NY. If you have never seen cigars being rolled/made by hand it is quite an artisanal skill.

    I do think there are other more Jewishly appropriate skills that could be highlighted at a Yeshiva fundraiser. I’d love to watch a good calligrapher/sofer craft Ketubot, or a silversmith craft kiddush cups or candle sticks.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1661551
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    @AviK
    I prefaced my remarks about voting laws/procedures being jurisdictional
    If someone attempted to write in a name not registered with the Secretary of the State as a ‘write-in’ candidate, the computerized tabulation reader/scanner would not recognize it or count it as a vote having been cast for that office.

    I do believe in school choice. Choose to send your children to public schools and all taxpayers share in the cost of the cost of the kids’ education. Choose to send your children to non-public school, then pay for it your self (or myself for 5 children).

    Competition has not forced public schools to get better. In our area they have opened many Charter Schools. They don’t take any special needs kids, and as soon as a child becomes a behavior problem, the kid is dumped back in the public schools. The public schools get stuck with the lowest achievers and those needing the most extra and expensive services.

    I have a deaf nephew. The local yeshiva day school refused to accept him (and he would not have been a scholarship kid). He went to public schools and the taxpayers paid for his additional services then on to university. He speaks, hears with hearing aids and can sign if need be. He is a public school principal in his mid 40s.
    In NYC there are yeshivas who accept some special needs kids, but out of town, it’s public schools that fill tyhe need. Way back in 1960, my late mother offered to teach special ed late afternoons at the local day school. She taught special ed in the public schools. The Principal refused, he didn’t want any of those children in is school, it would scare away parents of full tuition students.

    in reply to: 66% of Muslims in the US are Democrats #1661529
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    @Joseph
    I challenge what you wrote as the report of Pew Research.
    I would expect that Pew Research said that of those American citizens who Identify as Muslim and register to vote….66% are registered with the Democratic Party, 13% are registered with the Republican Party and 20% are unaffiliated.
    Here is CT, Independent is the name of a political party that has elected candidates, thus use of the word ‘unaffiliated is important’

    There are many Muslims, Jews and Christians in the USA who are not registered for vote.

    PEW Research is extrapolated from a sample. It’s reliability in this case is questionable, as your voter registration can not ask your religion. Many respondents to telephone polls lie when answering.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1661354
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    @klugeryid
    No problem.
    I retired as an elected official in 2017
    I don’t know any current Frum elected politicians in my state and have no connection to NY Politics. The last ‘frum” NY politician who caught my attention is the now disgraced and convict Sheldon Silver.

    Pandering to ‘Frum’ Jews in CT would be a waste of time and resources for any politician. there aren’t of us to swing an election.

    in reply to: A Serious Question for Jewish Democrats #1661307
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    @NevilleChaimBerlin

    I don’t see much difference from when the Republicans ran a Mormon (Romney).
    It is all about the candidate’s qualifications and abilities to execute the office of POTUS.

    We have had Presidents who were Protestant (of assorted denominations) Roman Catholic and Quaker who have done the job without letting personal religious beliefs interfere with performance of the job,

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1661309
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    @Klugeryid

    I am a Democrat and am happy to support a number of yeshivas…by writing checks from my OWN funds.
    I would strongly oppose any funding for them from taxpayer dollars. I know many Republicans who feel the same way.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1661150
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    @Avram in Maryland
    Re: Party Name
    It gets confusing some time with Democrat/Democratic Party
    Our State Party is the Connecticut Democratic Party, members are those who registered to those and affiliated as Democrats.
    I am an officer in our local Democratic Town Committee. Our Charter and Rules, which date back more than 50 years give the name of the organization as the XXXXXXX Democrat Town Committee. Thus many local old timers refer to the Democrat Party (not as a derogatory term as used by some). We recently adopted revised Rules which will go into effect in March, 2019 and the Town Committee name will change to Democratic to be consistent with the current State Party name. We shall have to print new stationary and checks,

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1661148
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    Mrs. CTL is resting comfortably B”H and is now scheduled for major surgery in about 6 weeks. I”H she will not require any additional emergency procedures, hospital stays and life support.
    Thank you all for your best wishes and prayers.

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    I called the OP a troll and gave ‘1’ a single response stating I’d not reply to him/her further in this thread. That is my new policy, if I think a post is a troll, I’ll not engage in multiple responses. If any CR readers were offended by my response, I apologize and ask mechila.
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    @AviK
    Civics lesson time:
    Voting rules vary by jurisdiction. I functioned as Asst Registrar of Voters in the 2018 elections. Here in CT a voter may only write in the name of a candidate who registered with the Secretary of the State as a ‘write in candidate’ one who failed to get a party nomination or enough signatures to petition his/her way onto the ballot with a name printed position.
    Voters may not cast a vote for anyone else, including dead, non-citizen Stalin. This saves countless hours in tabulating votes at the end of the evening for non-legitimate names such as Mickey Mouse. It allowed out town to complete counts by 10:30 PM when it used to take until 2 or 3 am. Our rules require that all totals be read aloud in each polling place to the public and press before ballots and machines/tabulators can be transported to the Town Clerk’s office. Before this rule change, I remember an election where a group of 200 high school seniors all wrote in nonsense names for 20 positions. We were at the polling place until 4am,

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1661088
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    Sorry, I don’t have time for this narishkeit today. Mrs. CTL had unexpected surgery and I have been at hospital all day. I will try to respond to a few posts when I have time. Her attention is more important than this diversion

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1660742
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    @Ubiquitin

    I don’t know what could have been more straight than my only reply to the OP
    “There were no primaries in the USSR, there was one party.

    I would vote against any candidate for public office in a non-theocracy who promised yeshiva funding, or Catholic school funding or any other money for religious education at taxpayers expense, and YES, I oppose school vouchers.”

    The OP posed a physical impossibility To vote for a dead non-US citizen who was also a non-member of the Democrat Party in a primary. I pointed out the physical impossibility and clarified that I’d vote against politicians wanting to use public funds for religious education.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1660456
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    @NevilleChaimBerlin

    I have no commercial connection with YWN. In fact, I am an old school lawyer who does not advertise or have a website. I am winding down towards retirement and it children want to grow the firm it will be their decision.

    Yes I received an email from a Modrator a couple of years ago seeking assistance for someone in a CT hospital. It went to a blind e-mail address that does not have my real name attached to it and by the time I saw it the patient was no longer in CT

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1660164
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    @RebYidd23
    Social Security is a tax on most working people: Rich, Poor, White and non-White
    The difference is that most who reach the wage point where Social Security has met the maximum deduction for a given year are white.

    Not all working people are covered by or subject to Social Security Tax. Public School Teachers here in CT are not part of the system and pay into their own retirement scheme. My late mother collected her CT Teachers Retirement Board check for 31 years in retirement. Actyion by the Reagan regime made her ineligible to collect a spousal benefit on my father’s Social Security. Had she been a housewife she would have rec’d more than a quarter million dollars in Social Security Benefits in retirement.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1660013
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    @Mangoes
    “Tikkun olam is a non orthodox concept. There is no such concept in the Torah. Well, at least not how you mean it”
    Sorry, Chesed is a Torah concept, you don’t like the appellation I attached.
    The Republican party currently benefits the extremely rich and hurts the rest.

    Stripping the guts out of the Affordable Care Act is not Chesed.
    Threatening to Cut Social Security and Medicare is not Chesed
    Separating children from parents and incarcerating them in camps is not chesed (ask any shoah survivor).
    Doing away with or loosening clean water regulations so that we can’t eat domestic lettuce farmed with filthy water doesn’t help the populace.

    Forcing people to have back alley abortions doesn’t help anyone. Better not to abort, but if it is done it should be done ion a safe and clean medical center. As the parent of an adopted child I am not pro-abortion, but would not put my religious beliefs into secular law.
    There is a big difference between enabling legislation than forcing someone to do something by law.
    The fact that abortion and same sex marriage is legal doesn’t mean anyone in the CR will partake; which is why I don’t see these things as a threat.
    I am more likely to suffer a gunshot than be affected by a legal abortion, so I support gun controls.

    @lakewhut
    The NY politicians you mentioned are an issue only for NY residents until they choose to run for a nationwide office.
    We must separate local parties and their platforms from national parties and their platforms,
    I live in a Town that has been run by Republicans for many decades, I was a minority elected local official. About 10 years ago a dozen members of the local Republican Party got fed up with the mean spirited way their local party was running the town and jumped ship to the Democrats. They are observant Catholics, pro-life, conservative etc. That said, in order to have a say in the way the town was run they had to join the opposition party and run for office as Dems. They don’t have to support the state or national platform. They receive no campaign financing from those entities.
    The USA is not a Parliamentary system country. We don’t vote for party lists, Americans are not card carrying members of political parties, don’t day party dues and don’t read party affiliated newspapers

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1659220
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    @MDG
    If you have read my many posts over the years you will find that Mrs. CTL and I do not come from privilege, but the middle class.
    My parents afforded themselves of the free excellent college education offered by City and Hunter Colleges in the 1930s and bettered their lives. Yes, I went to an Ivy League University and Law School and paid for my education by working full time while in college.
    We bought a 200 year old fixer upper and continually remodeled and added on, doing most of the labor ourselves. I built a successful private law practice, but still cut my own lawn, take out the trash, paint and do hone repairs and do virtually all the cooking and laundry (Mrs. CTL has been ill for a number of years).
    The money we make is used for both tzedaka and ensuring our family is with us. All of our grandchildren are here for the summer, not away at expensive camps, as well as Pesach and all the Yomin Tovom, The amenities of the compound (as we call it, as MIL lived in the house adjoining us, and SIl a few doors down, and not married daughter and family there) cost far less than than camp and expensive vacations.
    I drive a car that I bought new 15 years ago, My suits are made to measure, I’m not an off the rack size, but I am as likely to wear a suit made 12 years ago as this year. Good is good, buy the best you can afford and nothing that is a fad and it will last, sage words from my OMA.
    To put it simply, we don’t waste or squander money. Mrs CTL and I having started and sold a number of successful businesses (and we had a few failures as well) has enabled us to contribute to Jewish and secular institutions for the betterment of the community.
    As for being a Democrat, I find that political party is far more in accord with the concept of Tikun Olam than the Republicans. I vote candidate, not party. This past November I voted for 4 Republican candidates as well as 9 Democrats when I filled out my ballot.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1659093
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    @Anon
    To quote you from this morning:
    “it’s called sarcasm.”

    If you (or anyone else) don’t like your elected officials, get involved in politics. Join your Town Party Committee, attend Board and Commission meetings, run for elected office. Become a delegate top state and/or national conventions and have a vote on the platform.
    You may win or lose, but this is the only way to effect change when you are not happy with the local politics.
    Democracy (even a republican model) is a participatory form of government.

    I have done all of the above for more than 45 years.
    I am far from elitist, my social circles cross economic and ethnic divides.
    I have had townspeople call me elitist because my children attended ‘private schools’. I dare say most CR readers/posters who raised children in the USA also did not send them to public schools., but that does not make us elitist.
    Mrs. CTL and I worked hard for what we have amassed, it was not inherited. The compound grew with the sweat of our brows. Don’t ask how many nails I hammered, how many sheets of dry wall we both hung, etc.

    That said I’d gladly pay higher taxes to provide for the greater good in our society. America welcomed my forebears when they escaped the anti-semitism in mid 19th century Germany and Russia, and I believe in giving back and extending opportunities to newcomers.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1658809
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    @anon

    I know what sarcasm is. #1 is but a right wing troll looking to stir the pot and I give him one response per thread at this point.

    If he doesn’t like the Dems in control in the northeast move to the flyover zone. I ‘m sure he’ll find the red necks very tolerant of his ilk.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1658720
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    @AviK
    You may interpret #1 the trolls post as you wish, but he did not ask the question you state. He was specific about 3 people, totally inaccurate about a dead Soviet and asked about acceptable levels of radical leftists. He NEVER mentioned anti-semitism. That is not acceptable from left or the right including Republicans inclusing Nixox (as long as were posting names of dead leaders).

    in reply to: Frum Jews Should NOT Fly On Thursday! #1658610
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    @Cessna172
    Flights FROM Israel to USA on Thursday are not a big problem. The clock is with you as you fly west.
    El AL leaves Ben Gurion Airport at 12:30 AM and Arrives non-stop JFK 5:25 AM EST. Even a 10 hour delay would not affect Shabbos if you were not making a connecting flight but staying in Metro NY.

    My 30 Year old just flew in from business in Shanghai. With the time changes, she left Shanghai Monday Jan 7 at 8:20PM C(china)ST and landed JFK after 14 hours in the air Monday Jan 7 at 9:30PM EST.

    in reply to: Question for Jewish Democrats #1658560
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    There were no primaries in the USSR, there was one party.

    I would vote against any candidate for public office in a non-theocracy who promised yeshiva funding, or Catholic school funding or any other money for religious education at taxpayers expense, and YES, I oppose school vouchers.

    Neither Omar or Ocasio-Cortez ran in my district or state, so I did not have to choose to acceot or reject them. BTW, get Congresswoman’s Ocasio-Cortez’s name correct, otherwise I’ll start referring to you as One-Half.

    What you may consider radical others might not. Since you are not a registered Democrat it is none of your business who the members of that party choose to run for office, you only get to vote for or not for the candidate on the ballot.
    I would not have voted for either one. I am fine with Congressman Jim Himes, reelected in the Connecticut 4th district.
    Here in New England there is not a single Republican representing our 6 states in the House of Representatives. No one will call most New Englanders radical we are far too traditional for that,.

    I suggest you troll somewhere else. This is you one response in this new thread

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    in reply to: How Will The New Minimum Wage Laws Affect “Cleaning Help” #1656050
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    Winnie,
    The cleaner is an employee because you set the terms and conditions of employment and give direction.
    You tell the cleaner that you will work Wednesdays from 9-1. Y, clean bedrooms, bathroom, kitchen. On alternate weeks clean inside of refrigerator or oven, etc. You supply the cleaning products you want used.

    The plumber responds to your call about the leaking toilet and says I can be there on Tuesday between 11 and 4. he brings his own tools and supplies.

    in reply to: How Will The New Minimum Wage Laws Affect “Cleaning Help” #1655919
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    Why would performing basic life duties be offensive?
    I mow the lawn, shovel snow, do painting and home repairs.

    That said, Mrs. CTL is not well enough to do housework. She has been in ICU since Friday and has had 10 surgeries in the past year.
    Until three years ago and the onset of ill health she cleaned our house.
    I do the kUndry and cook

    in reply to: How Will The New Minimum Wage Laws Affect “Cleaning Help” #1655881
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    Must be nice to live in an area where cleaning help is only $15 per hour. In our area the going rate is $30 per hour with a three hour minimum visit. Homeowner supplies all cleaning supplies and equipment

    in reply to: Why do people get nervous when they fly? #1653466
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    @Chatzer
    “Which would you rather fly with.
    A licensed pilot who flies small planes who only learned in a real plane, or a pilot who is flying a plane for the very first time, who only trained on a very realistic computer game?”

    Your scenario is false…………………….
    The licensed pilot who flies the small plane is likely the only pilot (unlike the TWO pilots on the Citation X I flew back and forth to Boca Raton Airport yesterday).

    The licensed pilot flying the first time with passengers in that B787 is not in the captain’s seat. In the captain’s seat doing the training is a licensed pilot with many thousands of hours in large commercial jets. To be perfectly honest, I’d rather fly with that 55 year old captain with 20,000+ hours commercial jet experience and 10 years military flying than someone with your limited hours.

    in reply to: Is Joseph Unemployed Again? #1653035
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    Joseph has claimed to work for the NYC Public Schools. It’s winter vacation so he has lots of time on his hands

    in reply to: Corporal punishment must remain an option for teachers #1652390
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    It’s a good thing Joseph works in the NYC Public Schools and can’t legally hit students.

    For those concerned about his children, don’t be. Joseph is all talk and no action.
    His daughter has spent the past two summers with us and he is a loving and gentle father. His bark is worse than his bite

    in reply to: Why do people get nervous when they fly? #1652275
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    @Avram
    Tomorrow I’ll be flying private, with professional pilots to take Mrs. CTL to Florida. She had more surgery last Friday and its time for her to recuperate in warmer weather. I’m flying right back as year end is busy at the office.
    I cannot spare the time it would take to fly r/t commercial with holiday period delays and crowds, and she needs the comfort.

    in reply to: Why do people get nervous when they fly? #1652221
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    @akuperma
    The reason I asked is that I know a number of people/businesses who employ a private chauffeur for their vehicle(s). These have a full time career driving but don’t hold a public service or hack license.
    They are privately employed professionals. Same with boat captains and plane pilots.

    I think a better term for one who only flies his/her own plane might be a recreational pilot (even if he/she flies on business).

    in reply to: Why do people get nervous when they fly? #1652176
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    @Akuperma
    I believe you may be conflating ‘private’ and ‘professional’ in regards to pilots.
    I regularly fly private (NetJets or charter). The Pilots are definitely professional, but operate private planes. This is different form the recreational pilot who pilots small prop planes for joy.
    Most of the charter pilots I’ve encountered in the USA have many years of experience and like the pay scale compared to those of the regional jets used by many airlines.

    As for maintenance, many airlines cut corners and outsource maintenance to 3rd world providers. The US charter fleet is well maintained, many by the mfg (such as Embraer in Florida).

    in reply to: Why do people get nervous when they fly? #1652169
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    @chatzerstrauss

    And what type of plane are you rated for and what do you fly?

    I wouldn’t be interested in flying a Piper Cherokee with you at the controls, but if you had the rating and a G3, G4, G5 or G6 or a Phenom 300 I might consider it.

    My Key-man life insurance policy held by my form prohibits my flying in single engine private aircraft or private/charter jets without 2 pilots.

    in reply to: We need a new inyan for Nittel Nacht #1651576
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    Living in small town Connecticut, where Jews are the minority, I spend Nittel Nacht (on non-Friday nights) performing community service for the safety of all the townspeople.

    For the last 20 years, the CTL adults man the 911 dispatch center. We take calls and dispatch police, EMS and Volunteer Fire Companies. There is a group of Russian Orthodox (they celebrate on January 6th) who takes over at 6AM. When the 24th falls on a Friday they also cover the night shift.

    B”H last night there were no fires. Police were dispatched as backup for an automobile accident on a state highway. We dispatched 4 ambulance calls, 3 to senior housing locations and one to take a woman in labor to the hospital, but she was so far along that the EMS personnel delivered the baby en route.

    While not sharing the same beliefs as our non-Jewish neighbors, it greatly contributes to harmonious living to give of our time so they can be home with their families on their special night.

    in reply to: Trump will not be re-elected. Sorry #1651444
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    @AviK
    Engel v. Vitale
    said that the schools/government could not compose or have an official prayer to be said in public school. It did not ban organized prayer. I did not forget about it, It was not on point.

    Furthermore, it doesn’t matter who file amicus briefs, only the court could have banned the organized prayer in response to the suits, not organized Jewish secular groups.
    Rockstar gets an F.
    It would be far more likely that organized secular groups could influence legislatures to change laws, than the court to rule something unconstitutional.

    in reply to: Trump will not be re-elected. Sorry #1651262
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    @yeshivishrockstar

    You may be a star in Yeshiva, but when it comes to American history you have rocks in your head.

    Secular Jewish organizations didn’t ban religion in public schools. The US Supreme Court found prayer in public school to be unconstitutional in the case brought by Madeline Murray O’Hare and the US atheists, not Jews.

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    @coffeeaddict
    My initial response was because you used the word all, which I know to be false……………………

    I know many white males who voted in 2016 and did not vote for Trump.

    You can not use absolutes and paint them as accurate, they are too easy to refute

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    @freddyfish,
    90% of Jews did NOT vote for Trump
    the percentage you mention might apply to frum Jews, not unobservant Jews

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    @NevilleChaimBerlin

    We don’t know that the 2020 election will be about Trump. It;s likely, but many things could occur that change the focus of an election.

    Who knows, he might be out of office by then………………

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    @Coffeeaddict
    Youguys? Who?
    I have never said all Trump voters are white males,
    I live in a little Republican dominated town. I know many females who voted Republican in 2016

    Your logic is warped

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    I am not sorry, I am thrilled that there is little chance of Trump having 8 years in office.
    I laugh at most of the comments in this thread.
    The majority of posters live in the northeast where the 2016 vote had nothing to do with Trump. WE, the voters of these districts, continued to elect and reelect Democrats as we have done for many years.
    Our civil rights and protections in the USA have been brought to us by Democrats (Civil Rights Act of 64-LBJ and a Dem Congress).
    Post WWII Republican administrations have brought us economic downturns.

    Changing the plaque on a consulate to read embassy is meaningless when we harm Israel by removing US forces from Syria.

    The sooner Trump is gone from the White House the better off the country will be.

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    @Coffeeaddict

    “ALL” the libs would say…………

    NONSENSE,this lib is a white male who voted against Trump, as did his sons, brothers and sons-in-law

    Don’t use absolutes that are FAKE NEWS and ALTERNATIVE FACTS, that’s Trumpian…open your mouth and spew lies

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    @Redleg

    You are not totally accurate in your comments.
    The 13th and 14th amendments superseded the Dred Scott decision of 1857,

    BUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The Supreme Court overruled it in part in Kieppe V. New Mexico (1976)
    This was about state ordered protection of wild horses on federal lands within a state.
    “the Court said that Congress may enact legislation governing federal lands pursuant to the property clause and “when Congress so acts, federal legislation necessarily overrides conflicting state laws under the supremacy clause.”
    This writing by Justice Marshall in the decision overruled part of Scott. States could not rule what happens on federal land in their boundaries. Sometimes something that is moot can still be overruled

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    @Coffeeaddict
    Charity is tax deductible….up to a limit.
    “Wages mean more money to pay to taxes” ????????????????????????
    Wages are a direct expense and the higher the wages a business pays the lower the taxable profit will be.
    Yes, the recipient may have to pay taxes on the wages, BUT if frum with 8 kids, he probably doesn’t have to pay income tax. There is a cap on Social Security Tax and Unemployment tax, it is not on every dollar earned. Again the employers Social Security Tax and Unemployment taxes are direct business expenses lowering the net taxable profit of the business.

    That said, many frum Baalei Batim pay salaries through their businesses (as I do) but give Tzedaka from personal funds, so it is not a choice to have the business expenses go up so the personal expenses go down.

    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
    Non union wages are individually negotiated and a business can pay different employees different wages for similar jobs as long as the reason to do so isn’t discriminatory to a protected class. I can’t pay Chaim more than Susan because she’s a woman, but can if it’s because I think he has better knowledge of the business and my needs,

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    #1
    Why do you always choose to start an argument?
    You asked if I hated Football because it’s an American game, not if I played football or anything about salaries.

    I gave you an honest answer and you should learn to accept the fact that opinions are personal preferences, not subject to your rebuttal.

    I din’t like playing football as a child, I don’t think it is a safe sport.
    For every professional player being paid millions, there are thousands of college and high school players being paid nothing, but still exposed to injury.
    It has nothing to do with being an American Game, I don’t like Rugby for the same reasons.

    Go pick a fight with someone who’s interested, I shall be ignoring you in the future.

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