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  • in reply to: Hats? #1039851
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    holtzichfest: it used to be that everyone wore talleisim before the chasuna the reason why most people today dont wear a talis till their chasuna is becaue they didnt have money to buy one and it became a chasuna gift from the kallah

    Not accurate. It is clear from the Gemarra that the minhag then was that unmarried men did not wear a talis, or at least not over their head.

    in reply to: Beard #1206755
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    the expression used is ???? ????, which means to remove completely.

    in reply to: Would This Be Mutar? #697587
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    It’s certainly muttar if the IV is inserted before Yom Kippur, but the Poskim who discuss the issue disapprove because if one is healthy they should fast properly and if not the Torah permits them to drink and one should not try to be smarter then the Torah.

    in reply to: Price of Psicha for Neila #697881
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    A simple compromise followed in many shuls is to sell SOME kibudim and distribute others at the discretion of the Rav/gabbai/board.

    in reply to: Beard #1206753
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    The Tur in OC 581 quotes a Medrash that approvingly states that Yidden shave their beards for Rosh HaShana.

    in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697806
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    pushut: Rav Elyashiv DID take a job some 60 years ago as a Dayan for the Rabbanut. He retired about 30 years ago.

    in reply to: Help Yedei Chesed win the Pepsi Refresh Project! #695831
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    I just voted from EY with no problem, so maybe try again.

    in reply to: Blech on a glasstop oven? #695061
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    It may be possible, but I know number of people who cracked theirs. Better to use a hot plate.

    in reply to: When did Avraham Fried become "Avremel?" #745315
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    His family has called him Avremel for decades

    in reply to: Summer Seed Programs #710871
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    Sefer Ahavas Chesed

    in reply to: Car Rental Insurance #693477
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    check your personal policy. If your auto insurance covers rentals the credit card will NOT, they are secondary insurance and when you file a claim they specifically ask if your personal insurance covers rentals

    in reply to: egged puts passengers convenience before their safety? #784232
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    mamash: they changed the law about a year or two ago and now only use mugan where they feel necessary.

    its me: The other bus companies have switched to the automatic Ravkav, Egged is from the last holdouts.

    in reply to: Car Rental Insurance #693475
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    I’ve had experience both with taking out the agency’s insurance and relying on the credit card. Both cases I didn’t have to pay a cent, but when I took out the rental agency’s insurance the process was hassle-free even though we were at fault and when I relied on the credit card I found the card company and the rental agency refuse to call each other and for each document I would need to call back and forth though the other side was clearly at fault. Depending on your circumstances decide if it worth the potential hassle. I rent close to 30 days a year and do NOT take out the additional insurance.

    in reply to: Letting Kids Eat OU-D #693280
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    Let’s break the issue down. Those who follow the (primarily Chassidishe) Poskim that CS is assur should not feed it to there children except as a medical necessity in consultation with their Rav. Those who take it as a chumra must weigh the pros against the cons of their specific circumstances.

    in reply to: Debate via Email with Rabbi A. Kraus of Neturei Karta #693738
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    I have to add that so far on the specific point of this debate whether the founding of the State of Israel was assur because of the 3 Oaths, I still find R’ Krauss’s arguments to be stronger.

    in reply to: Debate via Email with Rabbi A. Kraus of Neturei Karta #693737
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    popa: I don’t understand your objection. Why not have in intellectual debate, but even if R’ Krauss wins we can vehemently disagree with the way he expresses his opposition to the founding of the State of Israel.

    In fact the vast majority of Litvishe and Chasidishe Gedolim would agree with most of what R’ Krauss has written here, that l’chatchila the Zionists were wrong for establishing a State. Our issue with him is regarding how to deal with the b’dieved. On that topic there are a wide range of legitimate views, but I think (almost) everyone in the CR would agree that NK’s action are far outside the bounds of acceptable.

    in reply to: Cholov Yisroel / A Halachic Discussion #746110
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    There are different minhagim regarding butter made from Cholov Akum, which according to Rishonim cannot physically be churned when containing milk from a non-Kosher species. Some Poskim also consider milk powder to be in the same category as butter, since it too presumably cannot be made from non-Kosher milk. Shulchan Aruch YD 115:3 rules that one may follow a minhag to permit butter, but without a specific minhag to be lenient it should not be used without supervision. However, it is questionable if is these lenient opinions are relevant today, when modern advances in food science have enabled manufacturers to develop new methods and enzymes that could allow butter and powdered milk to be made from sources that were previously impossible.

    Also, many varieties of butter have liquid milk added to them after the churning stage to give them a richer, milky flavor. There is no assurance that this milk could not come from some different species of animal. Additionally the exemption for butter only applies if the milk was intended from the start to be used only for butter and the issur of Cholov Akum was never relevant to this milk. However, if the cow was milked for drinking or unspecified purposes, that milk is immediately forbidden and does not lose its Cholov Akum status to become Kosher when it is churned into butter.

    in reply to: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim #694143
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    popa: you must be new around here. AZ is absolutely obsessed with closing the “age gap” and imposing close in age shidduchim. He is convinced that this is the panacea for all shidduch related issues and will not consider any alternatives.

    in reply to: Funny Shidduch Questions Asked About a Boy/Girl/Family #914022
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    helpful: the bochur became the Amshinover Rebbe shlita.

    in reply to: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim #694136
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    az: We’ve discussed this ad nauseum in other threads and it has been conclusively demonstrated that the “age gap” is NOT a significant factor n the “shiduch crisis”. The statistics do NOT support it, the shadchanim do NOT believe it, historical research precludes it,the older singles know it is NOT the issue.

    All this has been proven previously and why can’t you leave us alone.

    in reply to: Round Challah #968113
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    Doubling a challah recipe to freeze half does not necessarily allow you to say a bracha on hafrashas challah. Some Poskim hold that since the dough was made to be split up it does not all count together to the minimum quantity. Ask your Rav.

    in reply to: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim #694130
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    az: can you think of anything other then the “age gap” myth???

    in reply to: Beard #1206747
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    I looked up where Reb Chaim Kaneievsky quotes the Chazon Ish as nearly vomiting when he saw a clean-shaven bachur. He writes that the Chazon Ish had the same reaction when he saw a man with his payos behind his ears, and explains the revulsion to both of them was because they are embarrassed to openly look Jewish.

    This is obviously NOT a halachic issur but a personal sensitivity.

    The bottom line is, while there are numerous worthy reasons to grow a beard, it is certainly permitted according to Halacha to remove it with any shaver that leaves over k’chagiras tziporen.

    in reply to: Techeiles nowadays #793911
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    Furthermore the Gemara Menachos 44a writes that it rises from the sea every 70 years and therefore it is expensive. Rashi there explains that it is valuable because of its rarity and unavailability the other 69 years. This does not correspond with your un-sourced assertion that during the Beis HaMikdash when it did come every 70 years it was plentiful. I would like to hear a source for your assertion; I searched the DBS Torah Library and did not find it in any Medrash or other sefer.

    in reply to: Debate via Email with Rabbi A. Kraus of Neturei Karta #693731
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    where is part 2

    in reply to: Debate via Email with Rabbi A. Kraus of Neturei Karta #693720
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    We are still waiting for part two. I have to say that I would score part 1 as a victory for NK, his arguments were much more convincing. Of course there are many stronger arguments against their shita, I hope to see them raised in the later parts.

    in reply to: Techeiles nowadays #793905
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    HollyMoe: Your “proof” can be easily rejected.

    If they found “hundreds of millions” of trunculus shells they obviously were not rare enough to even fit a “figurative” interpretation of the Gemara that they only surface every 70 years. Furthermore equating kala ilan with indigo is pure speculation. Additionally, the trunculus extract is NOT naturally blue, it is RED. Only after exposure to numerous chemicals and extended sunlight does it turn blue, and this is NOT mentioned in the (halacha not aggadata) Gemara that describes the process of producing techeiles.

    in reply to: Beard #1206730
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    fabie: as I pointed out, even if the outcome is the important factor the shaver must cut as close as a razor or at least significantly less then chagiras tziporen. An electric shaver doesn’t do that, I don’t know how the metzius was explained to Rav Elyashiv. Re the Chazon Ish as well, the blade of an electric shaver could NEVER scrape ink off ones skin, the guard would prevent it.

    in reply to: Beard #1206729
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    maxwell: The Chofetz Chaim may have preferred a beard, but he did NOT hold it is assur to shave. The Gemara, Shulchan Aruch etc who permit plucking with a tweezers obviously hold there is NO issue of lo silbash, and Igros Moshe explicitly permits it.

    My “understanding” is based on documented historical facts. The electric shaver was invented after the printing of Likutei Halachos.

    Reb Yaakov Kamentzky did NOT print Emes L’Yaakov nor was it printed in his lifetime. Someone collected recollections of things he said, and some of the recollection were inaccurate according to his son.

    in reply to: Beard #1206726
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    The Chofetz Chaim when he referred to scissors was not discussing an issur l’halacha, because he would not argue on the Gemara and Shulchan Aruch. He NEVER discussed an electric shaver, as it was not yet invented when he wrote Likutei Halachos. More likely he meant the safety razor which was the newest innovation in shaving in his days. This is what your wife uses to shave her legs and it is certainly a ta’ar. He “frequently admonished about shaving the beard year after year” yes, with a razor.

    Reb Elyashiv’s issur is based on the misunderstanding that the Likutei Halachos refers to an electric shaver.

    Reb Yaakov Kaminetzky is not true according to his son.

    The Chazon Ish equates a shaver with powder, which is not a halachic issue. Reb Chaim Kanievsky is quoting this and is obviously also not discussing a problem in halacha as is obvious from the context where he writes that it was learned from goyim. The story about ink is very questionable, because the guard would scrape off ink but have no significance to hair.

    Just a few examples to show this cut-and-past list is totally irrelevant.

    in reply to: Beard #1206721
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    helpful: I can’t fathom why you think the majority of Poskim asser shaving with an electric shaver. Igros Moshe EH 2:12 and YD 2:61 explicitly permit it as does Har Tzvi YD 143 and Rav Heinemann on the Star-K website and Rav Shmuel Kaminetzky in personal conversations I have had with him and he said the same in the name of his father. I haven’t seen anyone bring ANY reliable mareh mekomos of ossrim, maybe they were buried in the unreadable avalanche of copy-and-paste. Quoting numerous times a story that the Chazon Ish felt sick is NOT a mareh makom.

    in reply to: Beard #1206715
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    Lets try to avoid the trap of making this issue into a personal fight and return it to a rational discussion of the halachic issues involved.

    The conclusion of the Gemarra in Makkos is that the only prohibition on shaving the beard is when it involves both giluach (shaving in the normal manner) and hashchasa (destroying the hairs to below the skin level). The Gemara writes that pulling out hairs with a tweezers is permitted because it is hashchasa without giluach and cutting with a scissors is permitted because it is giluach without hashchasa. The Beis Yosef writes that misparaim kein ta’ar (a scissors close like a razor) is permitted l’chatchila because it similar to a regular scissor involves giluach w/o hashchasa and the Rema Shach Taz Chasam Sofer etc concur.

    It is clear from all the above mentioned Poskim that there is NO problem of lo silbash or “looking Goyish”, as they all permit removing all the hair with a tweezers or powder. The Chasam Sofer brings a number of Gemaros that a beard was NEVER considered a defining factor in “looking Jewish” and writes that wearing black shoes is much more problematic. He adds that since the Crusades it has been customary that only outstanding Talmidei Chachomim would grow beards.

    Regarding Kabbalistic motives, the Chasam Sofer who was a talmid muvhak of the Hafla’ah and Reb Nosson Adler writes that there is no problem at all, as is evident from the MaHaRah miPano who was the “Father of Mekubalim” and was clean shaven. However there is admittedly much debate on this issue and it seems that different talmidim of the Arizal had various understandings on the matter. Since I am not personally versed in Kabbalah, I prefer not to comment.

    It is also clear from the above that the mainstream, accepted Poskim are matir a misparaim kein ta’ar, the halachic category under which shavers fall. That is why I have quoted them as permitting electric shavers even though they did not address them directly, because part of the job of a Posek is to determine which existing category new technological innovation are most similar and the Poskim I listed permit l’chatchila the category of misparaim kein ta’ar.

    Regarding the possibility that a shaver is a ta’ar, the Terumas HaDeshen brought in Darkei Moshe clearly defines the difference between a true ta’ar which is assur and a misparaim kein ta’ar which is mutar as whether the moving cutting blade makes direct contact with the skin. An electric shaver (other then possibly the lift-and-cut) certainly does not and would be mutar. Reb Tzvi Pesach Frank zatzal YD 143 clearly learns this way and therefore sees no issue with electric shavers, as does Rav Shmuel Kaminetzky based on personal conversations I have had with him on this issue. However Rav Vozner shlita in a number of teshuvos proposes an original understanding that the reason misparaim kein ta’ar is mutar is simply because it is not as close of a shave as a true ta’ar, but if it would create identical results it would also be considered hashchasa and be assur miD’Oraisa. Based on the assumtion that an electric shaver is in fact just as close as a razor he writes that they should be assur. He says he discussed this with the Chazon Ish who he understood to agree with his chiddish, but is disturbed that the Chazon Ish makes no mention of any issur in his sefer and seems to be uncertain if this indicates that he did not agree. It is evident from the teshuvos of the Nodah b’Yehuda and Chasam Sofer that one may cut the hairs of the beard with a scissors shorter then k’dei chagiras tziporen (what can be felt with the edge of the fingernail, for example when a shochet checks the schita knife) and this is NOT considered a ta’ar. They apparently either disagree with the understanding of the Shevet HaLevi or they define the closeness of a true ta’ar as leaving a PERFECTLY smooth face. This is something an electric shaver can not deliver.

    While there are certainly grounds to be machmir, this pshat is not generally accepted. Furthermore, it is not an accurate depiction of the metzius as an electric shaver is NOT nearly as close as a razor, and it is not likely that even Rav Vozner would forbid shaving if he were aware of this.

    in reply to: Beard #1206713
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    un-Helpful: I’ve already pointed out that most of your list of ossrim is a figment of your imagination. The Chazon Ish equated shavers with powder which is unanimously muttar, The Chofetz Chaim did not have electric shavers he assered the safety razor which is certainly a ta’ar, Reb Yaakov Kamintzky also never assered a shaver according to his son Reb Shmuel yblc. None of your other “sources” are any more then hearsay, which is not reliable.

    However Reb Moshe Feinstein, Rav Shmuel Kaminetzky, Rav Heineman, Rav Tzvi Pesach Frank, and all Litvishe Rabbonim and Roshei Yeshivos have consistantly permitted shaving with an electric shaver.

    in reply to: Beard #1206700
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    helpful: “Time to rid yourself of that Norelco and start looking like a Yid. :-)”

    Personal insults are not “helpful” to a constructive discussion of the topic. Actually I have a long, full beard and my sons do not shave either, but I do not hold it is assur to shave.

    I have already quotes Shulchan Aruch, Rema, Shach Taz, Chasam Sofer, and Rab Moshe is matir a number of places in Igros Moshe as well as by oral testimony of numerous talmidim.

    On the other hand you have only quoted hearsay evidence to the Poskim you quote. Nothing from the Chazon Ish’s seforim, in fact he was only “disgusted” with shaving, but he equated it l’halacha with powder which is muttar. The Chofetz Chaim is a misquote, as he did not refer to electric shavers which did not exist when he wrote Likutei Halachos. When I learned in Philly many decades ago, Rav Shmuel Kaminetzky shlita insisted that the bachurim shave and said that the quote in Emes l’Yaakov is untrue.

    So I think it is clear that the vast majority of Poskim have always and still do permit shaving, as long as it is not done with a razor.

    in reply to: Beard #1206690
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    It’s intriguing that buried in maxwell’s copy-and-paste is the assertion that according to the Chazon Ish a shaver is equivalent to powder. NOONE would asser powder as giluach.

    in reply to: Brachos on Pizza #984745
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    feif un: if most people usually eat it as a meal it has the status of pas gamur and your situation is irrelevant.

    in reply to: Beard #1206657
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    I beleive they asser for reasons of Halacha, but not powders. They either consider an electric shaver a ta’ar or they forbid misparaim kein ta’ar not like Shulchan Aruch and the vast majority of Poskim.

    in reply to: Brachos on Pizza #984740
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    Assuming most people usually eat pizza as a meal and not a snack, it is always hamotzi. The cheese and tomato sauce is irrelevant as the Magen Avraham writes in the end of OC 168 (don’t remember the seif katan) that only sweet fillings that make something desert-like render a pastry pas haba’ah b’kisnin and not cheese etc. Even if the dough is made with fruit juice instead of water, it doesn’t help unless the dough becomes too sweet to eat as a meal, which is certainly NOT the case with pizza.

    in reply to: Beard #1206654
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    helpful: The opposite. The Chasam Sofer paskens LIKE Shulchan Aruch et al permitting misparaim kein ta’ar, a close cutting non-razor. An electric shaver is generally accepted to fall into this category.

    The Chofetz Chaim does NOT asser shaving for halachic reasons, though he does disapprove for Kabbalistic ones. The misconception that he assered them is based on Likutei Halachos where he forbids shaving with a “machinka”, however simple research demonstrates that he is NOT referring to an electric shaver as they were first invented after the printing of this sefer.

    The Chazon Ish may be machmir for the Teshuvas HaRashba who forbids misparaim kein ta’ar, however the Shulchan Aruch Shach Taz Chasam Sofer etc do NOT pasken this way.

    in reply to: Beard #1206651
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    The Chasam Sofer also writes there that there is no reason to keep a beard based on Kabbalah either.

    Is that better, mod?

    in reply to: Beard #1206650
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    Also Teshuvos Chasam Sofer OC 159 permits a close scissor action.

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    in reply to: Beard #1206649
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    maxwell: not true, Shulchan Aruch permits ??????? ???? ??? which completely removes all hair. The Poskim who asser either pasken not like Shulchan Aruch Shach Taz etc, or they assume an electric shaver is a ta’ar mamash.

    in reply to: Beard #1206643
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    maxwell: “Please do the reverse”

    I did, Shulchan Aruch YD 181:11

    in reply to: Beard #1206608
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    maxwell: Shulchan Aruch there DOES permit shaving the body other then the armpits and pubic hair as long as a razor is not used. In YD 181:11 Shulchan Aruch writes that the beard may not be shaved with a razor, anything other then a razor is permitted.

    in reply to: Beard #1206605
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    Shulchan Aruch writes it is muttar to shave, as long as one does not use a razor.

    in reply to: Worms In Fish #771468
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    The Eida HaChareidis came out with a policy statement that herring must be checked.

    in reply to: Worms In Fish #771467
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    Rav Padawa can quote Rav Vozner’s son in his father’s name as much as he wants, but the teshuva in Rav Vozner’s sefer he writes they are assur.

    in reply to: Worms In Fish #771466
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    apushatayid: “Is that a psak that the worms are assur or a statement that says, we are not sure what the halacha is, so better safe then sorry”

    Maybe you ddn’t notice that I renamed the list “should not eat” rather than “assur”. Rav Heineman certainly belongs on that list.

    in reply to: Worms In Fish #771461
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    “Rabbi Moshe Heinemann has instructed Star-K establishments and mashgichim that only the non-problematic fish be used”

    Sure sounds like Star-K policy to me.

    “Rabbi Heinemann recommends that consumers follow the same policy”

    Doesn’t sound like a “business decision” to me.

    in reply to: Cleaning Talleisim #972787
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    I’ve never had good experiences dry-cleaning a talis. Instead I wash it by hand with Woolite and iron on medium heat. Comes out great.

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