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  • in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2269228
    Menachem Shmei
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    Without a rebbe, chabad continues to fall into disarray even in its basic rabbinic functions. Recently, a bunch of rabbis broke off from the Crown Heights Beis Din and made their own kashrus agency, which now certifies Shor Habor, a meat company which i anyways avoided due to the possibility of god-in-a-body worshippers doing the shechitah.

    What do politics involving a Badatz have anything to do with the Rebbe? The Rebbe never ran the Crown Heights Beis Din!

    Even before gimmel Tammuz there were incidents of politics between Chabad mosdos, and the Rebbe refused to get involved in the nitty gritty fighting because he said it’s not his job. A Rebbe isn’t a rosh hakahal who gets involved in people’s arguments. That’s what a din torah is for.

    Are there no other kashrus politics or controversies happening right now besides for in Lubavitch!?

    Are there no controversies or politics in any other Jewish communities which HAVE “living rebbes/rabbanim”!?

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2269224
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The Chofetz Chaim demanded Mashiach?! Do you have a source for that?

    Sigh. It’s amazing how much Lubavitchers need to go in circles on this topic.

    Chofetz Chaim on siddur, סימן קסח:
    כמה פעמים ביום אנו מבקשים על הגאולה, אולם הבקשה בלבד אינה מספקת, יש לתבוע את הגאולה כפועל שכיר המבקש את שכרו, שהדין הוא שאם אינו תובע אין חיוב לתת את שכרו בו ביום. כן אנו צריכים לתבוע את גאולתנו

    (For more about the Chofetz Chaim himself doing this, open חפץ חיים על התורה to the index “Moshiach” or “Geula” (I don’t have it in front of me). You will find several stories written by his student of the Chofetz Chaim’s intense demanding of the Geula.)

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2267844
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    That’s not the reaction I get when I get accosted by Lubavichers who try to prove to me that the LR is Mashiach, and I’m not talking about infrequent cases.

    ARSo, I’m very curious. How exactly does this play out?

    Like you’re on the subway or in shul or walking down the street, and a Lubavitcher bochur/yungerman/woman/child approaches you, strikes up conversation, and says: “By the way, I assume you know that the Lubavitcher Rebbe is Moshiach, because the Rambam says….”

    Is that what happens?

    Or are you the one who usually brings it up, asking a Lubavitcher, “Are you one of those guys who believe that the Rebbe is Moshiach? Why? What’s your proof?”

    Because while I’ve seen the latter take place COUNTLESS times, I have never witnessed the former take place (and I’ve participated in MANY “hafatza” missions to non-Lubavitch shuls and yeshivos), and I wonder how common it really is in the last 20 years or so.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2267270
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    A third is a minority which means the majority are

    I meant to write “half/two thirds of Lubavitch”.

    Secondly the kovetz I saw was from Lubavitch headquarters

    Ha, someone wrote Lubavitch headquarters on their kovetz! Again, complete ignorance about regular life in Lubavitch.

    P.S. I am am NOT saying: (1) that there aren’t thousands of Lubavitchers with yechi yarmulkes, etc. (2) that majority of Lubavitchers don’t believe that the Rebbe is Moshiach.
    I AM saying: The statement that “Chabad in general is not obsessed with the Rebbe being Moshiach” is not wrong at all.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267203
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The issue with the OP is that he’s jumping into a huge ocean of arguments between gedolei yisroel that went on for a LONG time, and picking all of the arguments of one of the sides and showing how obvious it is that they are correct.

    My favorite line which demonstrates this point:
    Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan [ZTL, ZYA] wrote….
    This also refutes The Three Oaths.
    Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan was a GENIUS, and his words should be listened to.

    Aha, so we have all of these interesting arguments, but because “the genius of all time” implies a refutation of the three oaths, this must be the final ruling.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2267200
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    “Lubavitch in general is not obsessed with the idea that the Rebbe is Moshiach- were lucky if you learn it in school.“

    יחי אדוננו מורינו ורבינו מלך משיח לעולם ועד printed on everything from yarmulkes to booklets printed from 770 to any sign you see in ארץ ישראל with the rebbes image

    You can’t be serious

    By “Lubavitch in general”, CS probably meant the half/third of Lubavitch that isn’t meshichist (which does not mean they don’t believe the Rebbe is Moshiach, it means that they’re not obsessed with the idea). If anyone thinks that majority of Lubavitchers wear yechi yarmulkes or majority of Chabad kovtzim say yechi on them – they are plain ignorant.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2267198
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Avoiding the issue because she knows that Habadpedia is lying, and (being a Lubavicher) she can’t admit that a quasi-official Lubavich website would lie.

    Just gonna jump in quickly to clear up some completely misconstrued facts:

    Chabadpedia is in no way a quasi-official Lubavitch website. It is FULL of mistakes and inaccuracies.
    It has the same level of credibility as ANY wikipedia page.

    Arso, if you want, YOU YOURSELF can write things on chabadpedia and you will not be stopped! I have corrected mistakes every now and then and no qualifications were needed. I just pressed “edit” and made the changes.

    [I wasn’t following the conversation so I have no idea which Chabadpedia page you’re referring to, but I just wanted to put the reality out there]

    in reply to: Mods? Mods? #2265212
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    please add a question mark to what I just posted in Gedolei Torah and Municipal Elections

    It should read:
    (from an earlier election?)

    Thanks

    in reply to: Gedolei Torah and Municipal Elections #2265208
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I loved the YWN headline:

    “HaGaon HaRav Landau: “Whoever doesn’t want to vote shouldn’t put on Tefillin””

    One of the best headlines yet!

    P.S. There is a great video of Rav Landau (from an earlier election?) where some askanim try to convince him to endorse the election, and he sternly sends them away with strong ridicule.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2265205
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    mod,

    If you must apologize to Satmar for someone writing (respectfully) that Satmar isn’t involved in engaging Jews from all walks of life, you have LOTS of apologies to make to Lubavitch about some slightly less respectful and less true comments made about them throughout this thread.

    sometimes there is a fine line between respectfully and ignorantly (as in lacking information). I do my best.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2264554
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    mod,

    Sorry for the let down. I’m actually impressed with myself that I managed to fool you for so long! 😃

    P.S. As an aside, I hope you noticed that I didn’t use the idea of “defenders” any less mockingly then I used the idea of “attackers”…
    There is a vort that’s said in the name of a great tzaddik who lived before the times of the Baal Shem Tov who was involved in heavy machlokes with another great tzaddik (I won’t say his name because I’m not sure if I’m quoting it correctly, but the point is definitely true in many cases): ‘Only on the first day our machlokes was לשם שמים, from after that it was personal’.
    I think this is definitely true in this machlokes. (–This is in response to the mod’s statement about “pretending it isn’t okay for people to defend Torah values”…)

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2264542
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Yankel Berel

    “When will the habad apologists understand and agree that criticism does not necessarily equal hate ?”

    1) See my correction/explanation in my response to the mod.

    2) Why did you mention nothing of the “modern orthodox apologists” who are calling out people for “hatred” a few posts later?

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2264541
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Mod, “Gosh, until you reverted to the beloved “haters” statement I actually valued your perspective and saw you as above the PR stuff. What a let down.”

    I should have said “same opponents expressing their opposition and defenders expressing their defense.”

    My point was that we pretty much know that some people here take strong issue with Lubavitch and they will probably continue their attacks no matter what, and others here are Lubavitchers (myself included), and they will probably continue their defense no matter what.

    attacks, hate, different versions of the same PR point. Pretending it isn’t okay for people to defend Torah values, on both “sides of the aisle”  is a PR stunt. 

    What a let down
    Nothing new from what has been going on in hundreds of pages of CR threads of rehashing this topic.

    ARSo,

    Menachem, welcome back!

    Thank you! Busy times, not sure how long often I can pop in.

    Regarding your points in response to my post, I guess we see different circles in Chabad.

    Now why would the LR stop someone identifying in a manner which would allow him to feel the part fully. The answer that I was given is, as I wrote, to attract others to Lubavich.

    The idea of changing levush is a bit more complicated. There were some whom the Rebbe permitted to change their levush and others whom he didn’t. I haven’t yet seen any places where the Rebbe addressed this idea outright (it’s mainly rumors), so I’m not so clear on this, but my understanding of the reasoning for not allowing to change was:

    1) Lubavitch was never very into the concept of levush, to an extent it was looked at as a chitzoniusdike idea, and the Rebbe didn’t want people to feel that the way you dress decides if you are Lubavitch or not (people shouldn’t feel that now that they wear a different kind of hat they are considered an official Lubavitcher and potur from avoda…)

    2) Often, similar to new baalei teshuva, the family of a new Lubavitcher was very nervous about the change and often something so blatant as changing one’s garments could set off bitter family strife.

    3) It is indeed possible that another reason was as ARSo wrote, that the Rebbe felt that by keeping the levush they would have an easier time relating to those from their previous sect, thus making it easier for that individual to do hafatzas hamaayanos, which has been a main focus of the Lubavitcher derech since the times of the Alter Rebbe (originating already from the Baal Shem Tov with chassidus haklolis).

    It’s interesting to note that when chassidim came from Russia, many of them were also instructed by the Rebbe not to change their levush from a kasket to a fedora (e.g. the iconic Reb Mendel Futerfas).

    Another related incident: Artist Boruch Nachshon joined Chabad from a modern Israeli family in the 50s. Before his chassuna, his mashpia advised him to begin wearing a hat and kapote, but his family (kippa seruga style) didn’t want him to. The Rebbe wrote to him (14 Tammuz 5722):
    פשוט שאין זה ענין כלל לעורר רוגז (ועל אחת כמה וכמה – מחלוקת) בדבר הלבוש בעת החופה והחתונה, ושנואה המחלוקת כו’ וגדול השלום.
    Since then he wore a french barrett instead of a classic Chabad hat.

    (Again, aside from the last story, I haven’t seen anything written about this, so they are just my theories or rumors that I’ve heard. I’ll try to do more research on the matter)

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2264421
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I’m quite busy these days, but just decided to take a peek and look through this thread. Unsurprisingly, I found nothing new. Same haters expressing their hate and loyalists expressing their loyalty.

    Just some thoughts on some factual claims that I noticed:

    Avira,
    “What about rav eliezer silver rescuing orphans from a christian compound after the Holocaust”

    Funny you mentioned this. This story is recounted countless times in Chabad Houses, it comes out of my ears.

    ARSo,
    What you don’t realise is that for many of us, what constitutes “kol minei nevoloh” is far different to what you consider it. I’ll give you two examples. Amongst other chassidim, chassanim meeting their kallos after the engagement is non-existent or at the very least kept to a VERY bare minimum. In Lubavich it is unfortunately common practice. In Lubavich bochurim eating at the same table as non-related girls is acceptable. Not in other chatzeiros.

    I was honestly wondering what you meant by “mixing of genders” in Crown Heights, which I have never seen. Thanks for giving more specific examples.

    I have never seen bochurim eating at the same table as non-related girls. Bochurim would not go to a friend’s house for Shabbos or for a meal if they have sisters in their age group at home.

    During the engagement (which is usually about 2 months), chosson and kalla usually meet once every 2-3 weeks (so about 4 times during engagement), the less the better. However, the Rebbe encouraged the chosson and kallah to stay be in different cities for the duration of the engagement, so, depending on the distance, the meetings are sometimes less frequent.

    Even the ones who can rattle off sichos keep to these very low standards, and virtually all (that I know of – you can correct me here if I’m wrong, but I don’t think I am) have smartphones which they access even in shule.

    Until about 21, pretty much all the chassidishe bochurim don’t have. Closer to marriage it does become more common (with strong filters obviously).

    Are we meant to “act on”, say, kemitzah, or on the planetary system the Rambam writes in his halachos?

    I don’t want to get into the whole Moshiach question, but it seems that CS was saying that the Rambam isn’t just giving us nice information on Jewish concepts, rather he is giving practical instructions for identifying Moshiach.
    ARSo seems to be countering that we find other parts of Rambam which are clearly just informative but not meant to be practical halacha.

    ARSo, correct me if I understood your point wrong, but your examples seem to hold very little water:
    Of course kemitza is meant to be acted upon, when we have a Beis Hamikdash.
    The planetary system is also meant to act upon, by:
    1) Using it to contemplate Hashem’s greatness, thus fulfilling the mitzvos of ahavas Hashem and yiras Hashem (which is why he brings it in הל’ יסוה”ת. See פ”ב ה”ב, פ”ד הי”ב)
    2) Beis Din using it to test the עדי ראיה for rosh chodesh (which is why he brings it in הל’ קידוש החודש. See פ”א ה”ז, ספי”ט).

    P.S. Again, I’m not getting into the argument whether the Rambam’s Moshiach qualifications apply in this case, rather the general discussion if the Rambam meant his sefer to be practical halacha (as he write in his hakdama) or general information.

    Gosh, until you reverted to the beloved “haters” statement I actually valued your perspective and saw you as above the PR stuff. What a let down.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2258141
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I think Moschiach will mint bitcoins.

    I completely agree.

    As a matter of fact, I will ONLY accept a Moshiach who mines bitcoins (to answer all those who have kept asking me who I would accept as Moshiach).

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2258140
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Qwerty, as I’m reading your posts, I keep thinking of great arguments and proofs to answer your questions.

    However, I keep stopping myself from answering, because I remember that every attack that you wrote here had PAGES of discussions in previous threads. I already wrote many posts proving that nevuah is possible nowadays (although I never tried to prove or convince you that the Rebbe is a novi – I don’t think that convincing someone of deep religious convictions is easy on public anonymous forums), proving that the Rebbe wasn’t the only one in history who said extreme-sounding statements about tzaddikim (although I never tried explaining you what the Rebbe’s statement actually meant – I don’t think that explaining deep ideas in Torah and mysticism is easy on public anonymous forums, though I did refer you to a shiur from YY Jacobson on the subject), and much much more.

    Despite my hundreds of posts to you, you would still insist that I always ignored your questions (and of course, you insisted on ending every question with “checkmate”.)

    Thus, rehashing all the proofs etc. would make me similar to the prisoners in the story that I mentioned above.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2257109
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    This thread (beginning with the tunnel incident and continuing with the perpetual discussion about the Rebbe being Moshiach) reminds me of this story that I recently read:

    In a certain country the government had to keep the prisoners busy, and therefore they would be put to work every day all day.

    On one floor, the job for the prisoners was to replace buttons on army uniforms, and on the other prisoners were in charge of removing buttons from old unusable uniforms to give to those putting buttons.

    After a couple weeks, there was no more work left to do for the army, and the warden was worried that riots would break out if the prisoners were bored, so he came up with a brilliant idea.

    Every day, the clothes would move from one floor to the other, some would put buttons and some would remove, on the same army suits… and that’s how they kept busy week after week, year after year….

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2256353
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I love how the YWNCR moderation system sometimes creates some very ironic posting.

    Notice how Sechel’s post comes right after DaMoshe’s:

    DaMoshe:“We see here what happens when you point out that they’re wrong – all you get is, “Learn Chassidus! You aren’t an expert, so you can’t have an opinion!””

    Sechel:“my understanding of all these things are based on what i learned in niglah and chassidus. i dont write anything without a source.
    just to point out chassidus is unlimited. there are over 300 seforim of sifrai chabad. there are seforim of other chassidus too. (b”h Hashem gave me a good head, and i learned alot)”

    DaMoshe, now you can probably say ברוך שכיוונתי! 😅

    P.S. I don’t necessarily agree with what DaMoshe actually said, just enjoying the irony.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2255375
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    PS when you have people like @83 who think what was done was 100% ok is all the proof that you need a living breathing rebbe.

    common, no one has yet answered my question: What about other chassidusen that also have dumb people who do really dumb things like violence and fighting that makes it to the news etc. DESPITE having a living breathing rebbe? The only response I’ve gotten is “How dare you point out problems in any sect which is not Chabad.”

    In the Rebbe’s opening address on Yud Shevat 73 years ago, he said that Chabad chassidus doesn’t believe in the concept of relying on the rebbe to do all the work for you. Every chossid has bechira chofshis to work on refining himself and behaving properly, or ch”v the opposite.

    Here’s a free translation of that sicha (right after saying the first maamar, formally accepting the nesius):

    Fellow Jews, listen now!

    Traditionally, Chabad has demanded that every individual do his own avodah alone, instead of relying on the Rebbeim. This is the difference66 between the Polish school of Chassidus and the Chabad school of Chassidus. The former school has a non-literal interpretation of the verse,67 וצדיק באמונתו יחי-ה — “And a tzaddik lives with his faith”: “Do not read yichyeh but [in the causative mood] yechayeh.” I.e., it is the tzaddik who gives life to all those who are bound to him. We of Chabad, however, all have to do our own work alone, with all the 248 organs and 365 sinews of the body and with all the 248 organs and 365 sinews of the soul.

    The Sages teach:68 הכל בידי שמים חוץ מיראת שמים — “Everything is in the hands of Heaven except for the fear of Heaven.” I am not (G‑d forbid) withdrawing from giving help to the degree that one’s capabilities allow. However, since “Everything is in the hands of Heaven except for the fear of Heaven,” then if there is no independent individual avodah, what can be gained from giving out manuscripts [of Chassidus], singing niggunim, and saying LeChaim?

    The Rebbe [Rayatz] used to warn chassidim against self-delusion. Every individual chassid himself has to transform the folly of the Other Side [i.e., of the forces of evil] and the seething disposition of his animal soul — to kedushah.69

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2255145
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    What happened last week was a bunch of bucherim who took it into there own hands and based on their own interpretation of what the Rebbeh may or may have not said decided to go ahead a destroy a shul, something that would have unthinkable with a true chosid of the old.

    This is also unthinkable for a true chosid today, hence the outcry and outrage from all mashpiim, shluchim, rabbanim, balebatim and bochurim.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2254391
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Kuvult, I’m not sure what you mean or how it answers my point.
    If you’re trying to say that an outsider to chassidus doesn’t see anything special about it? That’s pretty much what I responded to you previously about the outsider historian’s claim to frum Jews.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2254390
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I grew up in the 70s and 80s and the zeknai lubabvich were simple g-d fearing people who would never never thought of breaking down walls in a shul because of some warped person decided to do so

    You seem to have no idea what happened last week. Or I completely misunderstood you.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2254150
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I’m not exactly sure where you saw in my response that I was offended

    I’m sorry for assuming that.

    your maligning a group of Jews on a public forum for selfish reasons was pretty disgusting.

    Question: Do you feel that YWN’s reporting on the 770 tunnels was also maligning a group of Jews on a public forum and therefore pretty disgusting?

    If not, why is reporting on the Ponevezh brawl in 5781 any different?
    If yes, why didn’t you comment on the entire YWN article instead of focusing on a single commenter?

    the article that was very clear that it didn’t have any issue with Lubavitch per se, and that those boys were in no way representative of the greater community, and despite that you felt a need, just in case it would somehow be misconstrued as a chillul Lubavitch, to immediately show how other Jews have the same problem.

    And it’s quite apparent from the existence of this thread that it was indeed seen as representative of issues in Lubavitch as a whole, which is why I feel that my comment was necessary, as I elaborated on in earlier posts (people find faults in others but not in themselves, etc.).

    I want to clarify again that I’m not ch”v looking to condemn other communities, rather point to a greater issue that we must all deal with together.

    when you were rightfully criticizing the editors description of these boys as terrorists, you decided to describe the yerushalmi protesters as animals

    My intention was not at all to start calling Jews names. It was purely a play on words from the nusach used by YWN:
    They compared the bochurim to “animals in Gaza” so I was saying (slightly sarcastically) that even if they want to use a derogatory term for these bochurim, it should be comparing them to other violent protestors in the Jewish community, not Hamas terrorists who killed Jews. My using the word “animals” about violent protestors was purely to emphasize how I was borrowing YWN’s nusach.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253554
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    kuvult,

    Telling your whole historical narrative to a chossid (at least a Chabad chossid – I can only talk for myself) is like a secular historian trying to convince a frum Yid about the “real way” that the Torah was composed by some random scholars…

    We see the concept of a Rebbe from a chassidus perspective, so it takes on a whole different meaning.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253553
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    So you agree that litvish Torah learning is the same as Lubavitch learning chassidus?

    Not exactly, but specifically in this context of sometimes one can learn and learn but it doesn’t have the desired effect on him – I think this does apply to both. Maybe on different levels, I’m not sure

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253439
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    ujm, thanks!

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253437
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    coffee addict,

    But don’t we claim the same thing about Yiddishkeit? Don’t we say that Torah makes a person more eidel, that a proper Jewish education should give someone better midos?

    Respectfully, your taana sounds quite similar to the taana of the “chilonim” when something happens in the frum community at large: “The chreidim paint themselves as holier than thou because they learn Torah and keep mitzvos, yet…”

    Of course, the answer to both taanos is: Our learning is supposed to affect us, and hopefully it does for many people. Is that to say that we don’t have a yetzer hara? Does Hashem take away our bechira chofshis to do something wrong?

    Unfortunately, the media doesn’t have a shortage of times where someone who was considered a holy yerei shamayim committed terrible wrongdoings which are completely unbefitting of a ben Torah.

    This is especially relevant in a case when many bochurim involved in such acts are indeed people who haven’t spent much of their time in yeshiva learning Torah, so it’s even more understandable that it didn’t have much of an effect on them.

    And again, I wasn’t ch”v trying to JUSTIFY what happened by pointing out others who did it, two wrongs don’t make a right. I was trying to make two important points which I elaborated on above.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253329
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    mod,

    Not emesdik. Watch the video.

    Indeed, I thought you were commenting on my mentioning that YWN posted “SEVERAL articles” (i.e. three articles). There were indeed more than three bochurim involved.

    “People” weren’t offended.

    I was referring to these commenters from the news articles:
    My voice – “to attack another group in Klal Yisroel for no reason other then to make yourself look not so bad is absolutely despicable.”
    Guteyid – @MenachemShmei It wasn’t 3 yrs ago and thats a disgusting thing to say.

    These people seem quite offended. I don’t understand why it’s DISGUSTING or DESPICABLE to compare one horrific act by some violent youths to some other horrific acts by some violent youths which are actually quite similar in the nature of the events (other than that one was on a much larger scale and involving many more bochurim than the other…)

    shlepped in a past event of intense controversy to you as if there’s a connection/to make a connection.

    The OP tried to make a claim that these are unique problems of “a Chasidus without a present rebbe”.

    The point of my response was:
    1) To show that this is not necessarily unique to groups perceived as “chasidus without a present rebbe”.
    2) To help give perspective to those who have a easy time finding חסרונות in others but not in themselves.

    As I have explained at greater length in my previous post.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253195
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    mod,

    How many is several? Just asking

    Dictionary definition: “More than two but not many.”

    In this case: Three.

    Not emesdik. Watch the video. 

    your intent was something else I don’texpect from you.

    My intent in bringing up Ponevezh is not chas v’shalom just for the sake of bashing other Jews or saying lashon hara.

    Unfortunately, human nature is that we are quick to notice faults in others while ignoring faults in ourselves. Therefore, many will rush to say that the entire Lubavitch movement is problematic due to the wild actions of some young people who consider themselves Lubavitch but don’t represent Lubavitch, while they completely ignore that their own community may suffer from the very same issue of the existence of wild, radical, violent groups of extremist young people.

    The very fact that so many people were perfectly fine with the Lubavitch coverage, yet were so offended by my mentioning what happened in Ponevezh really proves this point.

    Incorrect conclusion. “People” weren’t offended. You took a comment about something current and, instead of responding to it, shlepped in a past event of intense controversy to you as if there’s a connection/to make a connection. When there is current coverage of animalistic behavior of others, r”l, it is expected as it is current coverage.

    This also answers the claim of the OP that this issue is specific to Lubavitch due to the “chasidus without a present rebbe”-status (so to speak), by pointing out that communities that don’t necessarily fit this narrative can suffer from the same issues.

    I still don’t fully understand why people are so shocked by my insinuating that YWN would cover brawls in other Jewish sects, but covering Lubavitch doesn’t bother them.

    P.S. I’m not necessarily pro publicizing these things. I’m just not understanding the seeming double standard.

    Im not pro publicizing much at all – 

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253046
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    mod, You seem to be keyed in to Ponevezh

    Yup, I think it’s a great example that the litvisher posters can relate to.

    (Interesting that you don’t point out how many people seem keyed in to Lubavitch)

    people ask because they have questions, your intent was something else I don’texpect from you.

    P.S. I’m honestly curious as to the rationale why YWN didn’t cover the terrible fights in Ponevezh, Gur, etc. which were much much worse (and were anyways covered widely by the media), but fully covered this 770 story with several articles and dozens of videos, when it was just a case of vandalism by several bochurim and an altercation with police.

    How many is several? Just asking

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2252909
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    It’s become the wild West.

    Becoming the wild west? Or something wild happened there a few days ago when about a dozen wild boys tried breaking a wall?

    How many yeshivos did this not happen with?
    Just look at YWN, and you’ll find many cases of vandalism by wild yeshiva bochurim in all kinds of yeshivos. And there are many more not reported by YWN (such as the riots in Ponevezh in 5781).

    You seem to be keyed in to Ponevezh

    The unfortunate thing is that for סיבות שונות ומשונות, this story made an uproar in the news.

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2252654
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Indeed, there are no radical extremists in the groups who have living Rebbes, there are no fights among those chassidim, police are never called to stop wild young bochurim from those sects.

    There are never fights in Ponevezh where they have living gedolim and roshei yeshiva.

    These things only happen in sects without a rebbe living physically.

    lol

    in reply to: Is it assur to wish a goy a “Happy New Year”? #2250981
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    do yidden have nothing else to worry about in 2024 except saying “happy holidays”? Gosh, too much time on your hands.

    I missed the part where someone said that we have “nothing else to worry about” except this interesting and relevant question about what is halachically permissible at this time of year, and if there is an issue of עבודה זרה or אביזרייהו (based on the halachos in שלחן ערוך יורה דעה סי’ קמח ס”ט).

    in reply to: Is it assur to wish a goy a “Happy New Year”? #2250795
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    most of the material appears to be not Alter Rebbe

    As for the link above. I can’t open it with my filter and there is no siman 148 in the SA Harav (what is the summary?)

    The link is a bit misleading, I should have clarified:
    Shulchanaruchharav. com is a website with thousands of halacha articles on various subjects, not necessarily based on Shulchan Aruch Harav.

    This is what it says there (there are also lengthy references in the footnotes which I didn’t bring):

    May one wish a merry Chris-mas, or happy holidays, to a gentile acquaintance or neighbor?

    Merry chris-mass:[6] The term Chris-mas is not to be mentioned, due to the prohibition against mentioning the name of idols.

    Other greetings: If the gentile does not believe in the religious connotations behind the holiday, then there is no prohibition to mention to him “Happy Holidays.”[7] If, however, the gentile believes in the idolatry related content behind Christmas, seemingly, one may only do so in a pressing situation, to avoid enmity.[8] Certainly one should not go out of one’s way to greet him and send him Holiday wishes, such as through social media, unless lack of doing so will cause enmity. In all cases that one meets a gentile acquaintance outside who is a practicing Christian, he is to greet him with a low voice, as stated above.

    May one wish others a happy New Years on the 1st of January?[9]

    There is no prohibition involved in wishing a happy New Years to a gentile who does not affiliate the day with any Christian connotations or worship of a deity.[10] One is to avoid wishing a happy New Years to a practicing Christian [particularly Catholics, and Lutherans] who believes in the Christian doctrine behind the New Year’s Holiday.[11] However, even in such a case, one may do so in a pressing situation, in order to avoid causing enmity and anti-Semitism.[12] Certainly one should not go out of one’s way to greet him and send him Holiday wishes, such as through social media, unless lack of doing so will cause enmity. In all cases that one meets a gentile acquaintance outside who is a practicing Christian and believes in the holiday of New Years, he is to greet him with a low voice, as stated above. [In general, it is not customary of Jews to wish other Jews a Happy new year on the first of January.[13] However, it is related, that Rebbe Levi Yitzchak of Berditchiv would wish others a Happy new year on the 1st of January. Likewise, the Rebbe once wished a Chassid a happy new years on the morning of January first, in continuation of the tradition from Rebbe Levi Yitzchak.[14] This is based on the verse in psalms 87:6 ““Hashem Yispor Bichsov Amim..”]

    in reply to: Is it assur to wish a goy a “Happy New Year”? #2250797
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Story of Berdichiver and L Rebbe wishing Yidden new year is interesting, do you know more of their motivation?

    Not exactly sure.
    Though I feel it’s necessary to point out an incident pointing in the other direction:

    Someone once ended a December letter with “We hope that the coming year will be a successful and fruitful one!”

    The Rebbe circled “coming year” and wrote (you can find a picture in his handwriting online):
    !?
    התחיל כבר בר”ה

    in reply to: Is it assur to wish a goy a “Happy New Year”? #2250564
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    It was actually a day of death destruction of jews in ‘honor’ of the god january is named after. See Rabbi L. Keleman’s lecture on TorahAnytime

    I was gonna point this out.

    It’s a shiur worth listening to

    in reply to: Is it assur to wish a goy a “Happy New Year”? #2250565
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Great halachic overview regarding wishes on Kratzmach and New Years here:

    https://shulchanaruchharav. com/halacha/may-one-wish-holiday-greetings-to-gentiles-merry-chris-mass-happy-holidays/

    in reply to: Chofetz Chaim says bless those you don’t love, pray they see moshioch #2249836
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Bava Kama discusses the right height for skilah to make it most comfortable – given the circumstances. so, ahava applies to everyone

    אָמַר רַב נַחְמָן אָמַר רַבָּה בַּר אֲבוּהּ, אָמַר קְרָא: ״וְאָהַבְתָּ לְרֵעֲךָ כָּמוֹךָ״ – בְּרוֹר לוֹ מִיתָה יָפָה.

    See יד רמ”ה סנהדרין נב,ב:
    אמר קרא ואהבת לרעך כמוך וכל היכא דכתיב רעך משמע ישראל ואפי’ רשע שנתחייב מיתה אתה חייב לחזר אחר זכותו לברור לו מיתה יפה

    For halachic sources on the matter, see here, note 17:
    https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=16025&st=&pgnum=230

    in reply to: If You Were a Goy #2249743
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Exactly, so you are not going to take advantage of the nonJew in any way, even when it is possible al pi din – say, he makes a mistake.

    Very true and important message.

    Interesting to note from today’s Rambam (הלכות גניבה פ”ז ה”ח):
    אֶחָד הַנּוֹשֵׂא וְהַנּוֹתֵן עִם יִשְׂרָאֵל אוֹ עִם עַכּוּ”ם אִם מָדַד אוֹ שָׁקַל בְּחָסֵר עוֹבֵר עַל לֹא תַּעֲשֶׂה וְחַיָּב לְהַחְזִיר. וְכֵן אָסוּר לְהַטְעוֹת אֶת הָעַכּוּ”ם בְּחֶשְׁבּוֹן אֶלָּא יְדַקְדֵּק עִמּוֹ שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ויקרא כה נ) “וְחִשַּׁב עִם קֹנֵהוּ” אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהוּא כָּבוּשׁ תַּחַת יָדֶיךָ. קַל וָחֹמֶר לְעַכּוּ”ם שֶׁאֵינוֹ כָּבוּשׁ תַּחַת יָדֶיךָ. וַהֲרֵי הוּא בִּכְלַל (דברים כה טז) “כִּי תוֹעֲבַת ה’ אֱלֹהֶיךָ כָּל עשֵֹׁה אֵלֶּה כּל עשֵֹׁה עָוֶל” מִכָּל מָקוֹם:

    in reply to: If You Were a Goy #2249581
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    I wonder how all of these theories affect our behavior.

    Hopefully, the idea that we are the purpose of creation should cause us to realize that as Jews our every single מחשבה דיבור ומעשה has infinite value and affects the entire cosmos. This is a tremendous privilege and responsibility, which is why we must try to put lots of thought into everything that we do: Is this really appropriate from someone who is the purpose of creation and the entire universe is being created for him to behave this way right now?

    in reply to: If You Were a Goy #2249586
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    On the topic of a goy’s value in serving Hashem:

    The Gemara says (Sanhedrin 3a): אפילו נכרי ועוסק בתורה שהוא ככהן גדול
    A goy who learns Torah (referring to Torah about Sheva Mitzvos) is like a kohen gadol!
    Meiri: מכבדין אותו אפילו ככהן גדול

    (However, a Jew who learns Torah is GREATER than a kohen gadol -Tosfos)

    When Moshiach comes, the Rambam writes (הלכות מלכים ספי”ב): לא יהי’ עסק כל העולם אלא לדעת את השם בלבד ולפיכך יהיו ישראל חכמים גדולים.
    The occupation of the ENTIRE WORLD (goyim) will only be the knowledge of Hashem, and the Yidden will have a deeper understanding.

    in reply to: If You Were a Goy #2249591
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    the Mishna in Sanhedrin disagrees with you [that every Jew will merit Olam Habah]. It lists the people who don’t get a portion in Olam Habah.

    This is a complex and lengthy topic that deserves its own thread.

    But see this letter which proves this idea with many sources, and answers regarding the mishna Sanhedrin:
    https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=15875&st=&pgnum=174

    in reply to: Why the Hostage Posters Are So Terrible #2249262
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    myvoice: If a fellow lit your house on fire, and then had a change of heart and tried to extinguish it, and in the process his life is endangered and your survival is dependent on his, you would pray for him or just for yourself?

    yankel: If a fellow’s grandfather lit your house on fire, and then his grandson had a change of heart and tried to extinguish it, and in the process the grandsons life is endangered and your survival is dependent on his, you would pray for him or just for yourself?

    Yankel, you took the words out of my mouth.

    Honestly, I think that myvoice admits this at the end of his post:
    Understandably, this only refers to the Zionist army as an institution, if one knows a soldier and would like to pray for him, such behavior is definitely warranted.

    Myvoice, I possibly agree with you on this. The more generalized institution of the “state” may be deeply flawed, which is why I wouldn’t hang the Zionist flag or sing their anthem.
    However, the Jewish soldiers, Jewish teens straight out of school or yeshiva, who are currently giving their lives for protection of fellow Jews deserve our greatest admiration, respect, gratitude, and tefillos.
    What difference does it make what was the ideology of the people who created the government which organized these troops?

    in reply to: Why the Hostage Posters Are So Terrible #2249261
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    The Zionist army, its shmad, and all the rest, are all against the Shulchan Aruch. Obviously, for Jews to defend themselves as per Shulchan Aruch is not in question. But the Zionist army is a non-starter.

    Hakatan, stop throwing around these buzzwords and explain yourself.
    Are you saying that you have ideological problems with most people in the army? (I do too)
    Are you saying that you feel that the general approach of the government in the “state of Israel” is antithetical to Yiddishkeit? (I do too)

    But what does that mean practically in relevance to the soldiers fighting?
    What you mean that Jews must “defend themselves as per Shulchan Aruch… but the Zionist army is a non-starter”?
    Are you suggesting that we should establish some sort of shomrim brigade to enter Gaza and fight in competition to the army?
    Similar to how the arabs (l’havdil) have Hamas and Islamic Jihad competing with each other?

    in reply to: Why the Hostage Posters Are So Terrible #2249260
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Over here the regular citizens are at risk. as well… So why would you question a Psak of the Godol HaDor to pray for the welfare of the entire Klal Yisroel in Eretz Yisroel?

    Again, I didn’t see the video. I’m am just wondering about the reasoning for a psak din that you quoted.

    I think we should definitely pray for the welfare of the entire Klal Yisroel in Eretz Yisroel.
    The very fact that you specified “in Eretz Yisroel” is because you recognize that they are currently in a more obvious state of danger than other parts of Klal Yisroel around the world, which is why we should do extra tefillos for them.
    Similarly, the soldiers are currently in a more obvious and imminent danger than regular civilians in Eretz Yisroel (to claim otherwise would be ludicrous), which is why we should especially have them in mind in our tefillos.

    And the fact that they are putting their lives on the line to protect millions of other Jewish lives (in accordance with Shulchan Aruch) is all the more of a reason to daven extra for them.

    in reply to: If You Were a Goy #2249155
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    One of my rebbeim sent a letter to the last Lubavitcher rebbe, asking him about good goyim who keep the 7 mitzvos; if their neshoma is still from klipos tamaeos (שאין להם צד טוב כלל), like the tanya says in perek 1.
    He who wrote back to him quoting a sefer in chabad as saying that the neshomos of chasidei umos haolam have the same shoresh as that of yidden, though the neshoma itself is vastly different.

    Is this the letter that you’re referring to?
    https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=15875&st=&pgnum=56

    (Also discussed in the Rebbe’s notes on שיעורים בספר התניא:
    https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=19841&st=&pgnum=53&hilite=)

    in reply to: Joseph vs squeak Nittul Nacht Chess #2249154
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    what do shluchim do in Russia or Muslim countries or in EY?

    Shluchim in Russia do Julian, if I’m not mistaken.

    EY does Gregorian.

    Muslim countries: Not sure what their minhag is l’poel.
    From here it’s implied that they don’t do nittel at all:
    https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=4615&st=&pgnum=360

    in reply to: Why the Hostage Posters Are So Terrible #2249128
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Hakatan,

    I’m still wondering: Do you believe that it’s a halachic obligation for soldiers to go out with weapons and fight to defend cities where Jews live?

    If not, how do you explain שלחן ערוך או”ח הלכות שבת סי’ שכט where it says that even on SHABBOS, even in CHUTZ L’ARETZ, even if the enemies only come to STEAL STRAW & HAY (in a border city) – we are obligated to take arms and fight?

    in reply to: Why the Hostage Posters Are So Terrible #2249102
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Did everyone see the video of HaGaon HaRav Aharon Feldman shlit”a asking a shaila to Maran HaGaon HaRav Moshe Shternbuch shlit”a whether Yidden should pray for the soldiers? Rav Shternbuch paskened that we should rather pray for the welfare of all of Klal Yisroel.

    I didn’t see it. What was the rationale for this psak halacha? What’s the source in Shulchan Aruch?

    UJM, If I was at home with my family and we had a burglar in the basement, and you went downstairs with a knife to confront him and protect my family, I would DEFINITELY add extra tefillos for you – regardless of your ideology.

    This is in addition to the simple fact that tefillos seem to be more necessary for someone who is in greater danger than for one who’s in lesser danger, and the soldiers are obviously in greater danger than other citizens.

    in reply to: Joseph vs squeak Nittul Nacht Chess #2249002
    Menachem Shmei
    Participant

    Unless you are lubavich or belorussian litvish.

    In any case, the Lubavitcher shita is to follow Nittel Nacht based on where one currently resides, so most Lubavitchers do Gregorian.

    Excerpt from Rebbe’s letter:
    ב) נ’ לפענ”ד שזמנו ע”פ הלוח היוליאני, שהוא ע”פ חשבון תקופת שמואל [ולא ע”פ הלוח הגריגוריאני, שהוא ע”פ תקופת ר’ אדא (אף שהוא מדויק יותר)], כיון שעפ”ז הוא חשבון התקופה בברכת החמה ועוד. – אבל י”ל שכיון שיוצא מהכלל ענין ניטל שקביעותו לא ע”פ מנין בנ”י אלא ע”פ מנין או”ה, א”כ יש להתחשב עם מנין או”ה הנוהג במקום דוקא, וכן אומרים בשם כ”ק מו”ח אדמו”ר שבארצה”ב אמר לנהוג הנ”ל ע”פ מנין המדינה כאן.

    From another letter:
    ע”פ מה שכתבתי ל… נראה לי שבכל מדינה יש לנהוג בהנ”ל ע”פ לוח האינם יהודים שבמדינתם, ואם יש ביניהם מנהגים שונים בזה, לנהוג בהנ”ל בלילה שאז חוגגים רוב האינם יהודים, ז. א. באותה הלילה שנתקבלה על רוב האינם יהודים, כי הרי ענין דאזלינן בתר רובא שייך גם באינם יהודים, וכדמוכח בסוגיא דאזלינן בתר רובא, ועוד ראיות ואכ”מ.

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