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  • in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073188

    Derech HaMelech I never said it was important aspect of Jewish life, just an acceptable one for those who wish to attend. There is a BIG difference.

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a Dog? Woof Woof! #1168842

    not to mention surving in the military

    in reply to: HAVE YOU NOTICED? #725051

    TMb is probably a female reformed rabbi:)

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073178

    TMB for the record I do support students who learn all day, but becasue of your comments I will double think the Yeshivas that I know give to and will direct my hard earned money to those Yeshivas that are more in line with my thinking

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073177

    for the record there is nothing wrong with the kollel system just like there isn’t anything wrong about college. Not all people are cut out to learn all day and not all people are cut out for college. but to call college an assur is just wrong. As for TMB, it is your judgemental hollier than thou attitude that shows your true colors. If it’s not your way it wrong and that is VERY VERY wrong. You are in no position to judge others. Remember Hashem will judge you like you judge others and be compasionate with you as you are to others.

    in reply to: HAVE YOU NOTICED? #725043

    TMB is an unmarried unemployed man who hates dogs and college. sounds like a great guy

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073173

    Trying my best, this comment will haunt you during your trial in olam haba. I suggest you appologize while I’m willing to accept it. Otherwise, I will consider this Loshn Horah against me and you know how big an avera that is….

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073170

    The next time someone rings my bell asking for tzedakah I’m going to ask more questions then ever. I’ll ask them their views on going to college. If they equate it with Apikorism I wont give them one penny. If they dont have a job, I’ll ask why. If it’s because they learn all day then I will tell them that they should go learn a trade or get a degree, get a job and earn their own money. That advise will be my Tzedakah…and if they think it’s an assur to have a dog, well forget about it. they wont get anything from me.

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a Dog? Woof Woof! #1168840

    sissel613, very well said. Not to mention Dogs are also used to sniff explosives and detect epilepsy. An animal that is able to help the blind see, sniff out drugs and explosives, as well as warn people before an epileptic seisure is a gift from Hashem . In a hospital I have seen the smiles they bring to the terminally ill.This much more than a “four legged, tail wagging, barking, pooper”.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073163

    I would hope the Yeshivas in Lakewood are producing strong enough Jews that won’t be tempted to go off the derech by taking a finance class at college…I should hope they would have enough strengh than that….And if they don’t well, we have a bigger problem on our hands then college.

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a Dog? Woof Woof! #1168834

    ” I now need to decide what kinda dog to get”

    Golden Retriever

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073161

    Again I urge people to go and listen to Rabbi Lawrence Keleman on torahanytime.org In his story about the near death of his son a group of Chasids who learnt with Rabbi Feur in yeshiva were instrumental in saving the life of his child…The reason I bring this up is because is Rabbi Feur insisted that all who learn with him must have an advanced university degree in engineering. Rabbi is a big BIG Rav…I advise people to research him before commenting further

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a Dog? Woof Woof! #1168832

    the Shulchan Arukh doesn’t mention any particular restrictions on having pets.(3) And the sages of the Talmud and the Talmudic era continue to acknowledge the unique connection that exists between an animal and its owner. In one place, the Talmud acknowledges the unique canine characteristic of loyalty to the master. (4) Elsewhere, we learn that animals can absorb the sensitivity to holiness displayed by a righteous master. For example, we learn that the donkey of the renowned saint Rabbi Pinchas ben Yair refused to eat untithed produce, leading the Talmud to comment “the Holy One blessed by He doesn’t make the animal of a righteous person an [ethical] obstacle.” The Midrash tells of a cow that became accustomed to resting on Shabbat and refused to work on that day even after being sold to a non-Jew, until its former owner gently explained that the new master was not obligated to provide a day of rest.

    At the end of the day, like everything else Some will say it’s fine others it’s not ideal. To clearly say it’s wrong is actually not true. True there are some considerations with Halacha, but if educated they are easy to work with. If you have a dog you know how gentle and loving they could be. They’re silliness provides smiles to the whole family. Children form a wonderful bond with them and they are very theraputic especially for the elderly who are often alone. Fot those of you who don’t have one that is fine, but to say it’s a sin is completly wrong and not founded on Halacha.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073143

    “Yes, but I don’t know what that has to do with this thread.”

    for some it will dismiss anything you have to say here, but not for me

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a Dog? Woof Woof! #1168810

    Who let the dogs out who who….

    in reply to: Keeping in touch with old friends, who are Non Jewish #723356

    mandy, i couldnt agree more. it’s very sad

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073134

    I am not related to CharlieHall, but from his posts I like his train of thought.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073133

    TMB…”charliehall: Haven’t you previously stated you are a congregant of Rabbi Avi Weiss’ synagogue?”

    Do YOU really want to go down that road?

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073112

    by the way Rabbi Lawrence Keleman has a undergradute degree from UCLA and masters from Harvard 🙂

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073111

    thats it…

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073108

    Did anybody listen to the above mentioned shiur (the beginning of the thread) and cath the name of the Rabbi in Bnei Brak who insisted that all his students go to and get an advance university degree in engineering and related fields. Therfore having apart in saving the life of Lawrence Keleman’s new born child?

    in reply to: Dating & Giving In #727256

    Depends on the concessions, like you want Pizza for dinner and she wants chicken, making a concession to have chicken tonight is fine. If she wants you to learn all day and not work, while you prefer to work and learn in the mornings/eveings well that is a BIG difference and not one to take lightly

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073098

    “Mikehall, while I have a lot of respect for Rabbi Tendler, to the Yeshiva World, he is an extremely controversial figure”.

    too you, but not for me. Is he controversial because he supports Zionism and went to a secular university? For many ortho Jews that is not an issue at all…I assume Rav Moshe Feinstein had no issue with him as he allowed him to marry his daughter….the bottom line is we have the freedom to follow whom we wish, not everyone is going to agree on every issue, but just because it may be something you may not be comfortable with, does not make it wrong. As Jews we have enough problems with the outside world, the last thing we need is more problems and conflicts from within.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073093

    Dear Cedarhurst

    Not sure which University yoy went to , but my experience was very oposit then yours. As I mentioned above, lets contact Rabbi Moshe David Tendler, in Monsey. I would love to hear his opinion on the matter.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073091

    I think someone should contact Rabbi Moshe David Tendler. He is the rabbi of The Community Synagogue of Monsey. He is a senior Rosh Yeshiva at Yeshiva University’s RIETS and the Rabbi Isaac and Bella Tendler Professor of Jewish Medical Ethics and Professor of Biology at Yeshiva College. He has a Ph.D. in Microbiology and is noted as an expert on Jewish medical ethics and their relationship to Halakha.[1] [3]

    you can google him to find out more….something tells me he is OK with college as well

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073089

    Cedarhurst, “today are breeding grounds of atheism, secularism, militantism, anachorism, and rampant sexual immorality.”

    thats a big statement from someone who probably never stepped foot on a college campus or took any classes.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073083

    All these “gedolim” who went to college, did they go before they became gedolim, or after?

    Not knowing for sure I would venture to say that all Gedolim are special and are different than the average yid from the time of birth. That being said, I believe they knew exactly what they were doing and obviously saw nothing wrong with it, regardless if it was before or after.

    in reply to: kosher lamp #724906

    I find it funny that we have all these laws, then spend endless hours and money to work around them…This is not a jab at all, I think it’s funny how we find all these loopholes…

    in reply to: what do parents ask when…. #722859

    How your son plans on making a living

    in reply to: Keeping in touch with old friends, who are Non Jewish #723353

    I don’t see a problem with it. I have freinds from the past and present. While they don’t understand alot of what I do , they respect it. Interactions with non-jews provides endless opportunities to be make kidush hashem.

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a Dog? Woof Woof! #1168797

    My Ortho Rabbi said it was OK to have a dog. Although there is some considerations regarding Halacha and shabbos all in all it’s not as big a deal as many think. I had a dog growing up and I can’t wait to get one for my kids. I believe it will be a welcomed addition to our household and I know for a fact I won’t be the only ortho Yid in town with one. Yes, I know I am Modern othro, but believe it or not we still follow Halacha, despite what many think.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073075

    Derech HaMelech.

    “you have no proof that they didn’t regret their decisions and would tell someone else not to go|”

    AND you have no proof they DID regret their decision

    “Gedolim are the leaders of our nation, in whose footsteps we yearn to follow and whose guidance has sustained us for thousands of years”

    in my eyes Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan, Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz, Rabbi Noah Weinberg ARE Gedolim

    “We do not go to college because “Withought I would never be able to enjoy my lifestyle”.

    You have no right to say that, if that is my own experience

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073066

    Derech HaMelech

    I never said going to college was necessart especially for gedolim. I just wanted to stress a point that on the flip side, their are many great Rabbis who did go…like I said before it may not be right for you, but for others it is

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073061

    Trying my best “mike: Just because someone went to college in the folly of their youth”

    I would disagree Rabbis like Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan, Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz, Rabbi Noah Weinberg would call their University education Follies.

    TMB, Just becasue it is something you don’t agree with it doesn’t make it wrong. Wrong for you, YES, but not for others with different values then yours. Im proud of the University I went to and the education it provided me. Withought I would never be able to enjoy my lifestyle, which includes sending my Kids to a Yeshiva School and costly Jewish Summer Camps.

    in reply to: Pets & Halacha #1152800
    in reply to: Pets & Halacha #1152795

    what about seeing eye dogs…

    in reply to: Pets & Halacha #1152789

    mike: I spoke to an ORTHO Rav who did research. The answer was no

    so did I, his answer was YES

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073053

    Some well known Rabbis who felt it was OK to go to University….

    Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan he earned a master’s degree in physics

    Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz Steinsaltz studied mathematics,[2] physics, and chemistry at the Hebrew University

    Rabbi Motty Berger is a graduate of Loyola University and received his rabbinical ordination from Ner Israel Rabbinical College, Baltimore Md. He worked in anti-missionary activity, founding, Jews For Judaism prior to moving to Israel. A world renowned speaker, he is currently Senior Lecturer at Aish’s Discovery, Essentials, Fellowships Programs and the Executive Learning Center

    Rabbi Noah Weinberg founder of AISH HATORAH completed his undergraduate studies at Johns Hopkins University and post-graduate studies at Loyola Graduate School

    Please feel free to add more!

    in reply to: Pets & Halacha #1152782

    the above article proves that you can be both Frum and have a pet. Before, speaking out against it, please speak to a ORTHO Rav and do some research

    in reply to: Pets & Halacha #1152781

    from chabad.org

    Shabbat presents certain challenges for pet owners, but many, many pet owners are also Shabbat-observant Jews, and becoming familiar with a few basic rules and concepts is all that is needed.

    There are four primary areas affected by the Shabbat laws:

    1) Feeding

    2) “Trapping”

    3) Walking your pet

    4) Touching and petting

    Feeding

    Feeding pets on Shabbat is permitted.1 In fact we are required by the Torah to feed dependant animals every day before we eat ourselves. This is derived from the verse (Deuteronomy 11:15): “I will give grass in your fields for your animal, and you shall eat and be satisfied”–food for the animal is mentioned before food for oneself!2

    Trapping

    Trapping, defined as any act which restricts the freedom of an animal, is forbidden on Shabbat.3

    This prohibition is not relevant to many pets, because the prohibition against “trapping” only applies to animals which occasionally escape and are difficult to catch, not to domesticated animals which do not normally run away, since these are considered to be “trapped” already — due to their nature and/or training.4

    If your pet is prone to running away, the following rules apply: 1) It is forbidden to put a leash on the pet in a public area, or any place where it would take more than one lunge to catch it; leash the pet before you leave the house. 2) One may not close a window (through which the pet can feasibly escape) or door while the pet is in the home.5 This problem can be circumvented by securing your pet every time you open and close the door or by bodily blocking the doorway when you open the door so that there is never enough space for the pet to fit through.

    Walking a Pet

    Walking a pet on Shabbat is not problematic per se, as long as you avoid carrying the animal or any pet accessories in the “public domain” (See The Shabbat Laws).

    While the pet may be collared and leashed, it must be clear that you are walking an animal, not carrying a leash. The pet must therefore remain close to you at all times, and the length of the leash should remain taut; never sagging within a handbreadth of the ground, and no more than a handbreadth of extra leash should dangle from your hand.6

    Touching and Petting

    Any object which offers no immediate practical use is called muktzah, and may not be handled on Shabbat. According to conventional Jewish law, animals, too, fall into this category. While household pets may be an exception — as will be explained shortly — let us first discuss conventional halachah with regards to handling animals.

    It is forbidden to pet, hold, or stroke an animal on Shabbat.7 An exception to the no-handling rule is if the animal is in pain or discomfort; in such an instance it is permitted to touch it in order to ease its pain. For example, one is allowed to apply oil or an ointment8 to a wound,9 or help an animal which is having difficulty walking.10

    This exception only applies to the rules of muktzah. The laws of muktzah are of rabbinic origin, and were waived by the rabbis in an instance of animal pain or discomfort. However, in a case when the animal’s life may be in danger,11 it is permitted to ask a non-Jew to do any activity which is ordinarily forbidden on Shabbat.12

    All of the above, as we said, is the conventional law pertaining to handling animals on Shabbat. It has been argued by certain prominent halachic authorities13 that household pets are not included in the category of muktzah at all, because they have an “immediate practical use” — namely, providing people with pleasure and companionship. There are others who disagree, maintaining that the rabbinic prohibition against handling animals on Shabbat was imposed across the board. As there are differing opinions in this matter, speak to your rabbi, who will advise you regarding your particular situation.

    [Animal litter is also muktzah. But you may clean it up if it is in your home and disturbing you.14]

    Note: All these rules apply to major Jewish holidays too, with the exception of the rules regarding carrying in the Public Domain, which are not applicable on Jewish holidays.

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    FOOTNOTES

    1. It is forbidden to force-feed geese, calves, or other animals (for fattening purposes) on Shabbat (Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 324:6).

    2. Talmud, Brachot 40a; Gittin 62a. On the other hand, it is forbidden to feed wild animals, or any animal whose upkeep is not your responsibility, on Shabbat (Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 324:7). The exception to this rule is wild dogs (Talmud, Shabbat 155b).

    3. Mishnah, Shabbat 73a.

    4. Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 316:25.

    5. Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 316:7.

    6. Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 305:19. Incidentally, though accessories such as leashes are not a problem, one may not take an animal into a public domain if the animal is bearing a load.

    7. Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 308:78.

    8. This is provided that that the ointment is liquified. A cream may only be dabbed on to a wound, not smeared and spread.

    9. Interestingly, although many non-critical medicines and cures are forbidden on Shabbat for humans, for animals they are permitted.

    10. Two caveats to this rule: 1) One may not lift the animal entirely. For that reason a bird’s feet may not be moved because that will cause it to automatically lift off from the ground. 2) This is only permitted in a “Private Domain” (See The Shabbat Laws).

    11. Similarly, while a Jew may not deliver an animal’s baby on Shabbat, a non-Jew may do so on the Jew’s behalf.

    12. Shulchan Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 332.

    13. Including Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (Responsa Igrot Moshe, Orach Chaim vol. 5, responsa 22)

    14. Shulchah Aruch Harav Orach Chaim 308:72.

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073043

    “And a non-frum person should be denied the great benefit of giving tzedaka, since he isn’t Shomer Shabbos?”

    if that was the case, CHABAD would be out of business a long time ago 🙂

    in reply to: Frum Jews and College #1073039

    when I give Tzedakah, no one ever seems to turn it down even though the money I’m giving was earned because I went to such an unholy place like a University…seems to be a bit of a double standard on that one.

    in reply to: Should a Yid own a sports car? #724411

    as long as it is not German, it fine….

    in reply to: Misplaced priorities #723163

    let not forget about child molestation, sometimes the law of the land is a better avenue. As far as I know no Beis Din can send you to prison

    in reply to: Do you have a TV at home #722618

    Trying my best, I like TV, my Kids and wife like it to. are we all doomed?

    in reply to: kosher websites for kids #722365

    Cedarhurst, thanks for the warning, but i dont need it

    in reply to: Boys Who Learn & Go To College At Night #724342

    If my child asks, I’ll tell him he’s better of being an electrician or a plumber…college is great if you want to become a lawyer, CPA, or DR. Other than that you can do much better using your hands for a living

    in reply to: Should The Wife Have Total Control Of The Home Internet? #973303

    why not, she controls everthing else in the house 🙂

    in reply to: Do you have a TV at home #722614

    TV, like the internet and books is what you make of them. They can be used for both good and bad. Banning things outright, is never a great idea…

    in reply to: kosher websites for kids #722363

    always here… My children are 3 and 5. Some of the “games” are very educatinal and helps the kids witrh their motor development. I will check out the other sites and see if they are a good fit for us…

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