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Everyone has different wants and needs. You cannot take an entire society and force them to be the same actually Conformity sometimes in some scenarios leads to horrid behaviour. It’s not about the value of the person but how much he fits into your mold or the mold you believe he should fit into. It’s ok to disagree with people but it’s not ok to dehumanize them because they aren’t like you. Sorry Conformity sounds nice on paper but imagine I told you we all have to have the same hair color. Ridiculous. Oh also our wallets arent the same too

That’s the thing I think they are overcharging us for the quality they put out sometimes I think some of these appliances should be 50 bucks everything is overpriced. I think a Jewish company should open and sell things by the actual price it should be or make quality products for same price

It’s not really about living _below_ your means or struggling. I agree not to take frugality to a state of suffering but it’s about spending your money as wisely as possible which actually gives a person a sense of control. When I have ten dollers in my pocket and I have a few things I need to get when I condenas all those needs into the amount I have I feel good about myself. This is about control not about suffering. It’s about learning responsibility not only about comfort. Yes a person can pay someone to clean their house but if the whole family chips in each person can be _proud_ of what they accomplish.

Buy everything bulk amazon returns. Open box. Try to make a list every week of what you need and try to check as many things off that list so you get down to basic basic

Get everything you would generally buy new, get second hand. People throw out or give away decent items and you can find sometimes nicer things from people who once bought for themselves then what you can afford for yourself. And less quantity

It’s very easy to spend money if you have it. Very hard to keep the money you have. Money is a tool. To get what you need. It’s not who you are. It’s not what you are. But spent wisely it can get you the things you need. I would say put away a certain amount every week for groceries to cap the amount you spend. Don’t take a credit card. This way you will spend frugally.

Always ask questions nobody takes “go to therapy” as an invitation for correction it’s usually used by condescending parties who are “out of touch” and think there will fix everything. Again a person’s root issues isn’t usually psychological but can be his _circumsrances_ _lifstyle_. And a host of other things. Telling him _he_ needs help is the rudest cruelest vile self centered thing to say to someone. Stop being condescending

Just visiting….um what?

For a second maccabi j thought by your name you were making a biblical reference but now I understand your making fun of me lol. These are _biblical_ values not Christian values.

Also I want to say something. The whole entire idea that everything is truan and talk therapy heals trauma is wrong. Talk therapy tends to retramitize people. Reliving something you went through isn’t something people should want to do. Or it’s not the root cause of the problem but just a byproduct of a different issue. Actually you don’t have to do talk therapy at all to get rid of a traumatic situation. A lot of times it can be healed by giving the person what they need. Anxiety let’s say isn’t always an internal issue sometimes it’s because a person is living in an unsafe area. Eating the wrong foods. Like for example if you eat too much sugar your heart is going to race and your going to have more anxiety. Actually that’s not true but if your vegan yes your more prone to anxiety. Extreme ways of thinking actually also prob has an impact on anxiety. Lack of safety anxiety. The point is if you take the root cause away and give the person what they need. Like the fat and minerals that they are missing from their diet which cushion the cells and heal the nervous system. And put them in an environment where they arent alone….it will heal their anxiety. Depression what is depression. Lack of motivation. A need for rest. Even food defeciencies or like shown above something as simple as antibiotics lack of exercise. The root cause needs to be found as every person has a different root cause. Giving them what they need will heal the underlying root issue.

In the olden days a person had to work hard to have what he needs which actually keeps a person humble. I’m not talking about going to the office and making a living cuz that’s still disconnected from actual work. Work itself creates a level of humbleness when you see how your bread is grown and you need to wring out your clothes to make it dry. Nowadays we don’t even do half of all that. And we have everything we need through the illusion of money. This is a blessing and a curse. Because we are now all elites. Living like elites and also acting like elites.

Well I guess it depends who. But mataralism definitely has created an elitist attitude in many ways. And other things. It’s just food for thought. A perspective and an understanding

Oh come on. AI has a point 😉

I can say the same for you gadol hadofi this makes you so upset and you “have” to throw it in my face because your the one who can’t handle being held accountable for something your doing that’s perhaps wrong. If I was a “hypocrite” which I try not to be itd make you feel so much better would it not. You can call anyone a hypocrite and pivot from accountability if you want in any conversation. Your obviously hiding something