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  • in reply to: Sephardim minhag origin? #1743649
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    Rabbi Ben tzion Shaifer from “the shmuz” says in one of his lectures, quoting the Daas zekeinim mibaalei tosfos that it’s meant to be saying “hee Leah” she’s Leah. Commemorating Yaakov and Leah s wedding where people did tried using that sound to hint that it’s really Leah and not Rochell

    in reply to: Sephardim minhag origin? #1743650
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    Daas zekeinim says it’s from yaakov avinus wedding
    People we’re yelling “hee Leah hee Leah”

    in reply to: What is the Mekor in the Torah for Parades? #1734142
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    Dovid hamelch was mefazaz umecharker bechol oz at a parade

    in reply to: Who is RGP ? #1728547
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    Rebitzin golden is probably papa bar abba.

    in reply to: Sports #1725501
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    Which sport are you referring to that people worship the body?

    in reply to: Why do Chassidim seem happier. #1712410
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    I think because their lives are simple. They don’t offer complicate things for no reason they don’t hear a million different opinions on everything etc

    in reply to: Are the nazis really descendants of Amalek #1475684
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    The Gemara in megila 6a that גרממיא של אדום will destroy or at least try to destroy the entire world. Sounds pretty convincing.

    in reply to: band/singer for wedding #1189238
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    In New York

    in reply to: New square shabbos #1176820
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    And shabbos is in a couple hours

    in reply to: New square shabbos #1176819
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    Experience

    in reply to: dirshu upstate #1169773
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    What time in south falsburg?

    in reply to: Why do they teach girls to sound like Harrys? #1145010
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    Regarding though why girls do the “ow” sound probably cuz it would just sound weird if they did “oy” just try to picture it. Idk itd just weird me out if on a date a girl said “toyra hakdoysha”

    in reply to: Why do they teach girls to sound like Harrys? #1145009
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    The whole way Americans pronounce things makes no sense. The israelis kamatz is basically the same as an andrican cholam (the harry type) except that it sounds more American. If israelis did it the harry way they have to nkudos the same. So i just dont see how the harry way could ve right. I was however told that its a an actual machlo(i)kes in the po(i)skim

    . Ive never seem it inside and wouldnt know where to look but ive heard people say that.

    in reply to: Who's Worse – Trump or Clinton? #1190340
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    The difference between Trump and Clinton is like, if you have to get to your sisters wedding and your car broke down. You can either take a $150 car service and pay lots of money and its bad cuz you have to lose a lot of money. But you know it’s bad and how bad it is. Or you can hitchhike which could mean you get there for free and it’ll be awesome. But the amount of pontential disaster is unknown because you could find yourself at the end of the night in someone’s trunk tied up, or worse, in Baltimore. (And Bernie sanders is like taking your $150 for the cab and burning it then hitchhiking). Do I need to explain the nimshal??

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141905
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    Im not gonna keep arguing this. I’ve spoken to many rabeim already. I never said I’ve never seen an attractive girl. I said the girls i dated I didn’t find attractive. By the way is there a way to delete this whole thread? I’m not kidding I’m actually nervous a girl (or girls) I dated are gonna find out who I am and read this and be super offended.

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141897
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    I Have dated a girl for a long time. In that scenario the girl went from in my opinion gorgeous to, as time went on, the most beautiful person in the world. But that only happened because she was pretty to begin with. You can’t start from now where. Especially since I had that relationship I know what has potential to grow in to a relationship that is healthy from an attraction standpoint and what doesn’t.

    in reply to: Jewish music that sounds non jewish #1141551
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    Almost Sefardi music, like what’s sung at the shabbos table and during davening etc is taken directly from Arabic music down to the little nuances in the tunes.

    in reply to: Shidduchim- trying them all? #1141772
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    Technical You’re mistaken. If it was possible if explain but it’d be too long. I actually do hear where she’s coming from a little but I think my answer really solves the problem as long as there isn’t something that particularly bothers you about the person.

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141893
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    Sorry not years. But a long time. And copy machine and technical are both 100%right. I’m very against making looks the ikar but I do think it’s necessary for a healthy marriage. And about what copy machine said before the deep connection always comes with a physical attraction too. In other words the most beautiful girl on paper isn’t really gonna help if the deeper connection isn’t there. But there has to be a certain level of attraction for anything to get off the ground. And to Joseph no I don’t watch movies I stopped at about age 19/20. Why? Btw I don’t think Hollywood actresses are percentage wise more attractive than frum girls.( I don’t know if that helps or hurts people’s harsh judgment of my pickiness )

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141885
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    Technical there are plenty of frum attractive girls who I’ve seen in my life who I found attractive I just never got set up with them. Everyone finds different people attractive. Just because you found more doesn’t mean I’m unrealistic. And why would u mind if girls see a picture of me before hand? I in general don’t believe in pictures and I actually have had shadchanim ask me for pictures and I’d gladly give them. And yes obviously music has something to do with attraction but it’s not part of the basic attraction that builds the foundation for a healthy husband wife relationship. And it’s in my opinion a serious violation of proper hishtadlus to demand your husband can sing. I haven’t gotten one word of reasonable advice. All I’ve gotten is hate for being in an extremely hard situation. I’m not unrealistic. Ive been around and dated and seen girls who are attractive so obviously they exist…

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141879
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    Oomis are you serious? Having a good voice has nothing to do with attraction. That is so ridiculous. Honestly even being well put together isn’t so much a part of it. I’m taking about simply being pretty. Nothing to do with models or singers. I’m not asking for it as a replacement for being a mentch or a Baal midos. When something is necessary, even if it’s not important it’s still necessary.

    in reply to: age for marriage #1141588
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    The chofetz Chaim held you can wait till 24 provided you’re learning is going well (and is not disrupted by taiva) and by getting married you won’t be able to learn as much. I’m assuming this only applies to full time learners

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141871
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    Between 10 and 25*

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141869
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    I know many people that have 10 Years between them and and their spouse. Not the biggest deal

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141864
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    I’m sorry I didn’t understand why it wasn’t working so I kept doing it. I didn’t think you deleted it and I don’t understand what the reason to delete it is

    in reply to: Shidduchim- trying them all? #1141757
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    Having a man of dreams is ridiculous in the first place. If you build a relationship with someone you won’t feel the need to find someone better. Do you doubt yourself for who your close friends are because maybe you should go find better friends?

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141857
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    Lol. Does anyone have any real advice on how to go about shidduchim considering the situation. I’m not interested in marrying a supermodel. I’m interested in marrying someone who I find attractive.

    in reply to: Looks in shidduchim #1141851
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    I don’t knOw what that means to lower my standards. It’s ridiculous to marry someone you don’t find attractive. I was attracted to one or two of the people I dated but it didn’t work out for other reasons. You can’t decide to be attracted to someone who isn’t attractive to you. It’s not number anything on my list. It’s a basic aspect of dating that has to be there regardless of how you place it on your little list.

    in reply to: To people who shidduch dated someone and broke up after 10+ times #1140565
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    We really liked each other so I tried convincing myself that she was what I wanted ;(or felt was right) hashkafikaly but ultimately she wasn’t

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