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  • in reply to: Lighting Extra Shabbos Lichts #959195
    Sam2
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    RD: … Darchei Emori much?

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #959102
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    feminist: First of all, that story is brought down as an actual Ma’aseh with R’ Nachman of Breslov, not a Mashal. Second of all, there is no D’oraisa involved, only a D’rabannan. Third of all, he was a child.

    Look, if these were honestly women who honestly thought that the proper way of Davening was with Tallis and Tefillin and that was what they did, they would be wrong but righteous in their endeavor. I’m not disagreeing with you on that theoretical plane. These Women of the Wall, however, are not doing that. What they are doing is something very bad. And it’s honestly sad for those well-meaning women who put on Taleisos that you conflate the two.

    Oh, and Orthodocy existed back then. The distinctions of Reform and Conservative didn’t.

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #959095
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    rationalfrummie: There is nothing inherently wrong with putting on Tallis and Tefillin in public either. They did it for 20 years and no one bothered them. When they turned it from a religious pursuit to a political one (wanting to “liberate” the Kosel) then lots of people got very upset over it.

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #959044
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    PBA: By the way, to correct your statement: being Oveid Hashem is what brings Mashiach. HKBH brings Mashiach whenever His Cheshbon calls for it, but it is an absolute impossibility that doing His will delays it. That’s just not how it works.

    EDIT: (I should retract this statement because I have no Makor for it and don’t like to say anything without a Makor. This is just the only thing that makes sense. But it is just me saying it myself with no support.)

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #959042
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    PBA: It feels good to be right once in a while doesn’t it? 😛

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #959040
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    feminist: T’fillas R’shaim Toeivah. If your Tefillah comes from a Ma’aseh Aveirah then it is worse than worthless.

    in reply to: Reincarnation #959491
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    Derech Hamelech: To be fair, the Rambam would have dismissed all the Gedolei Kaballah and Chassidus as a lot less than just air…

    in reply to: Reincarnation #959477
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    HaLeiVi: The Rambam, as a starter, definitely didn’t believe in it. I’m not saying it’s not a Jewish concept. But I think saying that it’s on the level of a near-Ikkar Emunah like free will might be a little much.

    in reply to: Lamed Vav Tzaddikim #958407
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    HaLeiVi: By “even fewer” I assume you meant “only one in history”.

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #959003
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    Truthsharer: You’re just wrong in your history. This became an issue when they made it more public, not when the Chareidim started attacking them. For 20 years, they did it as (relatively) Tz’nuos and just Davened. It became an issue when they made it into a public protest. No one cared when they were just Davening. People care now.

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #958988
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    IC: We have women in the Gemara who put on Tefillin. Arguing that it’s Assur from history doesn’t work.

    Truthsharer: Look, the protests might not be the best way to go against them. But that doesn’t change the fact that they are *dead wrong*. It hasn’t been news for decades because they did it differently. They weren’t making a public statement. They were quietly Davening to themselves, in their own little corner, volunteering a Mitzvah at the holiest place they have access to. And no one cared. Because those women were being honest in what they wanted to do and just wanted to Daven. We can make a Sugya over whether or not Tefillin is a Mitzvah that women are allowed to volunteer, but when they weren’t trying to “liberate” the Kosel from its Mechitzah and attack Yiddishkeit, no one bothered them. The history until now and the difference now should show you that these women are trying to destroy our religion and that they are wrong. I’ll agree that there are better ways to fight than throwing diapers. But that doesn’t mean we can take this lying down.

    Oh, and the women who want no Mechitzah and/or to wear Tefillin are a much smaller minority than the men and women who just want to Daven like Jews always have.

    in reply to: Sleep Talking #958606
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    Haifagirl: I’ve done that before. I asked a Shaila about it because I would actually Bentsh and make Brachos while sleeping. My roommate once told me that one night I was saying Asher Yatzar over and over again. And no, I didn’t wet the bed.

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #958984
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    Truthsharer: If what you said about WOW was true then there would be a lot fewer problems with them. Unfortunately, the exact opposite of what you said it true. They are M’sisim Um’dichim and deserve nothing but scorn and mocking from us. (Throwing dirty diapers is Assur, by the way, because you are Machshil many people by having dirty diapers in a Makom Tefilah.)

    in reply to: Reincarnation #959473
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    Twisted: Some people pulled the Rashash out of their Gemaros for saying that…

    in reply to: Women of the Wall (WoW) #958982
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    Playtime: Their admitted goal is to “liberate” the Kosel from its Mechitzah (the leaders, at least). Unfortunately, there are some women who think like you (and just want to wear Tefillin to volunteer an extra Mitzvah, but which isn’t entirely unproblematic) and have been swept in together with these M’sisim Um’dichim (M’sisos Um’dichos?). The act is not inherently evil. The goal is. If they would have their Davening farther down the wall where it wasn’t meant to antagonize, no one would care (well, some people would, but a lot less). But they won’t do that because their goal is to make a public show and to still the Kosel from everyone else who wants it to stay as it was.

    in reply to: Who does V'ahavtah L'reiacha Kamochah Apply to? #958074
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    The Gemara brings down the Passuk several times in Sanhedrin when trying to figure out how we do each type of Misah. V’ahavta… is Darshened for “Barrer Lo Misah Yafa”. It is also used in Kiddushin 42a (I think) to say not to marry a wife that you find unattractive.

    I just want to point out that the death penalty is not a contradiction with “Oseh Ma’aseh Am’cha” because Harugei Beis Din get a Kapparah with their deaths.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035025
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    E-O-M: The Poskim say there is no Chiyuv of a Kli (Rav Ovadiah’s son has a fairly long bit on this in the Yalkut Yosef) and it’s an incredible (possibly nonexistent) minority who says you do. Into a Kli yes just because it’s convenient to throw it out. In theory I’m Makpid to put salt on bread at all meals that I eat at home but in reality it’s not Shayach for me yet (and the Rama says that our bread has salt in it anyway). I’m not Makpid on the dipping in salt that’s brought down Al Pi Sod, if that’s what you’re asking.

    RD: I read Urbach and I greatly enjoyed his work. That in no way changes what I said there.

    in reply to: Do Animals Have Personality? #957851
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    WIY: You can domesticate any animal. Wild cows and bulls are quite violent.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035022
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    HaLeiVi: It’s funny you say that. Rav Schachter always mentions a certain Shittah of Tosfos that the Chazon Ish just couldn’t find feasible, so he says that Tosfos never said it.

    in reply to: Techeiles 🔵❎🐌☑️🐟 #1057746
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    PAA: Who says you need a specific color? Maybe any dye from the Chilazon will do?

    in reply to: Jewish Students Off Plane #957720
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    RD: What I think is that you’ve had several bad experiences and are therefore quite jaded in regards to several groups of Jews who, for whatever reason, do not treat Geirim the way you feel they need to be treated. I would think of recusing yourself from such conversations in the future as you are obviously a bit Nogeia B’davar.

    in reply to: Techeiles 🔵❎🐌☑️🐟 #1057744
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    PAV: Or they use an ambiguous color because many colors can come from the Chilazon. For example, depending on when you halt the dyeing progress, the murex trunculus can produce a yellow, green, blue, indigo, purple, or even blackish dye.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035020
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    E-O-M: The Gemara itself says that the Melach S’domis is exceedingly rare. The point is that it’s not worth the Sakanah for something as simple as washing your hands. You don’t necessarily need to bring Sod into it. The point is that when being safe requires so little effort why wouldn’t you?

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035018
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    E-O-M: Be careful. Saying something like that (depending on the tone, which is obviously not so easy to convey via the internet) is very, very close to one of the Gemara’s definitions of Apikorsus: Saying “Mai Ahanu Lan Rabannan”.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035017
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    I’m just saying, you can’t pin Conservative Judaism on Tosfos here. They knew the rules too. They’re a Rishon. So instead of just saying that they bucked the system, why not try figuring out how they actually fit into the system?

    in reply to: Struggles with guys #957568
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    I think this is silly. Yes, there will always be some tension there when boys and girls are together. That’s how we’re made. It doesn’t mean that every interest of guys when talking to girls is that. I’m not claiming it’s Muttar, but these are terrible reasons to avoid it.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035012
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    rd: I won’t argue with you entirely on this (because you’re not completely wrong but are very, very misguided), but I do need to point out that the Rema didn’t give a Limud Z’chus on drinking Stam Yeinam. He just gave a reason why they don’t have a Din of Hechashud Al HaDavar…

    in reply to: Tattoo eyeliner #959276
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    I only know of one person who was permitted to have a tattoo. He was a survivor and had his number removed. He was so haunted by it that it was literally driving him crazy, so he got a Heter from a few major Poskim to have the number tattooed back on.

    in reply to: What problems can you think of in this sticky Halachic case? #957509
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    Playtime: It has been disputed, but a biographer proved pretty clearly in the book Elvis and Gladys that Elvis’s mother was Jewish.

    in reply to: What problems can you think of in this sticky Halachic case? #957506
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    Wolf: Israeli Chareidi is correct.

    Tzaddik: Elvis Aaron Presley’s mother was Jewish.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035010
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    Also, the AH”SH is very strange soon because he presumably knew that there were Ba’alei Hatosfos all over Europe and that they didn’t only live in mountainous regions.

    in reply to: Mayim Acharonim in our times #1035005
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    Tosfos’s Shittah makes the most sense. However, he brings up an issue the Gemara seemingly already addressed. The Gemara says that Melach S’domis is incredibly rare and yet we still have to do Mayim Achronim.

    in reply to: What problems can you think of in this sticky Halachic case? #957499
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    Ask Rabbi Fruchter what he did when he found out that his Shabbos Goy (Elvis Presley) was actually Jewish.

    in reply to: Jewish Students Off Plane #957665
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    From all reports I heard (aside from the “official” one from the airline) the kids weren’t rowdy at all and they were treated quite unfairly. Being treated unfairly isn’t a Chillul Hashem, regardless of what the media does with it.

    in reply to: What problems can you think of in this sticky Halachic case? #957491
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    There are many Mekilim for giving a food to someone who won’t make a B’rachah. First and foremost is the Netzi”v in Meishiv Davar Y”D 42 (maybe 52). If the person eating has a Din of a Tinok Shenishbah then there really is no reason to Asser here because they aren’t being Over any Issur so there’s no Issur M’sayeiya (there’s no Lifnei Iveir anyway even according to the Osrim).

    in reply to: Pictures before or after the chuppah #957101
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    Ah. Thank you for reminding me about this thread. Mods, please allow the link. It’s from the OU website.

    http://www.ou.org/torah/article/tzarich_iyun_before_the_wedding#.URlOvqUzMrU

    in reply to: Akuperma re: "mere annoyance" #957163
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    Leyzer: That one’s easy. It was just a pogrom. Pogroms happen in Galus and we shrug it off and move on. That doesn’t mean that the Goyim hate us. It’s just a normal part of daily Galus life.

    /takes tongue out of cheek/

    in reply to: Practical Kol Diparush Shailah #957254
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    WIY: Interesting. Davar SheYeish Lo Matirim is a good point. I guess it depends if Kol D’parish is a Din in Bittul B’rov (which I think B’pashtus it is).

    in reply to: Mind-blowing statement from the Iben Ezra #977674
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    WIY: I think I actually said something like that the first time I said this over here (I definitely did the first time I ever said in public in part of a Shiur). But, as HaLeiVi said, it’s long, cumbersome, and feels arrogant because it feels like fake humility. I have nothing wrong with being wrong about this. It’s just that from what I’ve seen I don’t think I am.

    in reply to: Practical Kol Diparush Shailah #957251
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    WIY: That’s for sure not right. Toi is correct. This is Parush MeiRuba and it should be Muttar for everyone to eat all of it. (Maybe we would be Machmir to only allow Fleishig people to have as much Pareve as we know was served; that’s a Machlokes.)

    in reply to: Mind-blowing statement from the Iben Ezra #977671
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    Son of Man: I never once claimed that it was acceptable to believe in any form of corporealism. In fact, I explicitly stated the oposite several times on this thread. My only point was that Rashi apparently didn’t see things that way. Which is fine.

    in reply to: Affair with Apikursus #956316
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    (I want to be clear. I would be protesting certain aspects of the parade, not Israel. The parade does very good things for Israel and Jews worldwide, but there are aspects of it that we should point out are bad.

    in reply to: Affair with Apikursus #956312
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    147: Protesting an Israel Day Parade does not shaking hands with Arafat make. (I am probably more pro-Israel than most and I have serious issues with the Parade. I ignore it, but if I was forced to do one I’d probably be more likely to protest than to march.)

    in reply to: Mind-blowing statement from the Iben Ezra #977664
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    HaLeiVi: I’m not sure what you mean by “the researchers”. I found these Rashis, they seemed confusing, so I kept an eye out for similar things over the years. I’m not saying Rashi went nearly as far as R’ Moshe Taku in saying that HKBH could have an actual physical body if He wanted/needed to. I think Rashi thinks that He has a perceptible form, whether or not that form has any practical application.

    What do you mean by us presently not giving such things a second thought (in reference to Shiur Komah)? Do you mean we learn it or we don’t?

    Who knows? Maybe if Rashi had seen the Zohar he would have explained these Gemaros differently? I don’t know. But the fact is that Rashi says what he says.

    in reply to: Practical Kol Diparush Shailah #957240
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    DY: No, but that doesn’t matter. We are Noheg not to allow T’imas Yisrael. Have a Pareve person taste them all.

    in reply to: Affair with Apikursus #956307
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    147: Really? What Ikkar did they violate? Even assuming that doing so what distasteful and was being Poresh Midarchei Hatzibbor, why would that Passul you for a Minyan?

    in reply to: Mind-blowing statement from the Iben Ezra #977662
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    HaLeiVi: Torah is Torah. I don’t think there’s a reason to hide Shittos. It’s a Shittah that’s been rejected. There’s no reason not to learn it. We don’t wipe R’ Hillel out of our Gemaros in Sanhedrin. It was a Shittah, they were allowed to have it, and we hold that they were mistaken. Rav Moshe Taku (who is quoted in Tosfos) says it explicitly. One would think that if a relatively early Ba’al Hatosfos held of a Shittah that the rest thought was K’firah that someone would mention it. They don’t. It took the Rambam to mention it. There are many Tosfosim that seem to go against our current conceptions of Ikkarei Emunah (see Niddah 16b and Yevamos 66a, I think). That is because our Ikkarim are based on the Rambam and the other Rishonim weren’t Meshubad to them. I think it is dishonest to make anachronistic assumptions about the Rishonim that they clearly didn’t have themselves and one cannot properly learn P’shat in these Rishonim here if you refuse to accept what they’re saying.

    That aside, I think Rashi is very, very clear on this. Even if you want to Kabbalistically explain away Rashi in Avos (where he seems to explicitly be coming to argue on the total noncorporealistic Shittah), Rashi to B’reishis (which is clearly based on Bava Basra 58a) and Rashi on “Lo Sa’asun Iti” in Avodah Zarah there are more than clear. This is his Shittah and we have rejected it.

    in reply to: Practical Kol Diparush Shailah #957238
    Sam2
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    You can tell which is which.

    in reply to: Mind-blowing statement from the Iben Ezra #977658
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    Son of Man: I’ll try and find the Mekoros from the Moreh about making requests from angels.

    The “nebach an Apikores…” phrase is what R’ Chaim Brisker said explaining this Rambam (and it’s M’vuar from the explanation the Rambam gives in the Moreh of why an Apikores loses his Chelek).

    I think that Pashtus is that Rashi held of a corporealism that the Rambam would call Apikorsus (we’ve been over this here; see Rashi on B’reishis “Na’aseh Adam B’tzalmeinu Kidmuseinu”; see Rashi to Avos 3:14; see Rashbam to Bava Basra 58a; see Rashi to Avodah Zarah where the Gemara Darshens the Passuk “Lo Sa’asun Iti”; and I think there’s a Machzor Vitry that quotes this also but I don’t recall where. Rav Moshe Taku (a seldom-quoted Ba’al Hatosfos) says it B’fierush that he holds that way and the Rambam attacked his Shittah explicitly in a letter. But it would be a tremendous insult to the Rambam that “Gedolim V’tovim Mimenu” that the Ra’avad refers to is R’ Moshe Taku. And I agree that we very much hold they are mistaken. Agreeing with them would be Apikorsus. But there are Rishonim who said it.

    in reply to: Mind-blowing statement from the Iben Ezra #977655
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    Son of Man: The Rambam does say that requesting something of angels is Apikorsus as it is attributing a solely Divine purpose to any being other than Hakadosh Baruch Hu.

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