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  • in reply to: Two Frum Community Problems Solved with One Approach #1945050
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    @Pekak I wouldn’t ever classify myself as “ehrlich”, not my type of thing to do. But yes, I think that if it was accepted that a bochur would have to go out with 5 girls (video is fine) then there is more of a chance that they will see past their wallet and the yichus that they may be counting on. I had never spoken to a girl in my life casually when I started in shidduchim. I just went with the first one i was set up with. She had money and yichus. I knew her for 2 weeks. I had a lousy marriage and I’m now divorced. I wish I had some better basis for knowledge when I was dating.

    in reply to: Two Frum Community Problems Solved with One Approach #1944826
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    Boys and girls should have to go on 5 first dates with different people before they go on a second date. Big, little, older, younger, richer, poorer. Maybe they will open their eyes to a little more than who their parents have been waiting to set up as the perfect shidduch. They should also have to go out with a girl they like, for more than a minute. It would be nice if a guy had to go through rigorous midos training until he gets the go ahead from someone certified. People could learn from covid to make weddings with 100 people in a pretty back yard. It’s too complex for anyone to get a grasp on. It is what it is and it will continue that way until Moshiach comes.

    in reply to: Two Frum Community Problems Solved with One Approach #1944825
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    It’s a broken system. They were talking about the shidduch crisis for many years now. It’s not going to change. It’s only getting worse. We have gen z bochurom who think the world is coming to them and who’s parents enable them. Many are entitled kids who need everything immediately. They aren’t taught the value of hard work and believe they deserve to be supported and stay in kollel. Then you have parents who act like children. The things people look for can be so fleeting and childish. The bottom line is leadership of which it seems we don’t have much of anymore. It’s a broken system.

    in reply to: Democrats are scared of trump! #1944137
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    Everyone got away from the initial question.
    Is it possible that they are impeaching Trump because it is the right thing to do? That for generations to come children should see that actions have ramifications? It has nothing to do with them being scared. That said, it’s a bad game plan. They should let him be tried and convicted for his crimes so that he’ll have to campaign from jail like shabsai Tzvi.

    in reply to: Democrats are scared of trump! #1944136
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    Health – It would be funny if YWN would put a block akin to Twitter on all the craziness posted here about the election. You’d never have a post published.

    in reply to: Trump to Jews, good, also complicated #1940834
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    He did not condemn any of the forces of evil and hate that had been growing quickly under his watch. I’m tact he stoked the flames.

    in reply to: Election fraud, how would we know? #1938983
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    Why would we assume there was only fraud on one side of the aisle? And why weren’t the fraudulent ballots democrat across the board? And why would republicans certify election results that didn’t favor their candidate? And why would republican appointed judges (many by DT)throw out any case presented to them? It all doesn’t make any sense to me?

    in reply to: Would Mike Pence pardon Trump? #1937695
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    I don’t believe Pence will ever make it through primaries. He has no charisma. Boring. There always will be better candidates. I’m sure he doesn’t think that. But my HO.
    Why didn’t Nixon pardon himself?

    in reply to: Are anti trumpers actual liberals? #1924256
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    smerel, I appreciate you using the idea of “cognitive dissonance” to describe your anti trump friend. Let’s be real though, there is cognitive dissonance on both sides. In fact, most republican politicians while they might not use those words exactly, will tell you that Mr. Trump is the king of cognitive dissonance and/or gas lighting if he in fact does have clarity of what he’s lying about. This does trickle down to the tumpers.

    in reply to: Are anti trumpers actual liberals? #1924223
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    As a general rule (outside of abortion), I don’t believe that Torah or religion should drive a politicians position. It would beg the question of where do we draw the line. Should we lobby shatnez being illegal to wear? Why can’t one argue against milah, that it should be a persons choice? Is it sheva mitzvos? Is it just what we consider foundations to Yiddishkeit? What dictates when we COULD impose the Torah’s views and/or when we SHOULD impose the Torah’s views.
    This is not a cynical question. I am actually interested in peoples thoughts about this.

    in reply to: Chaloimos #1923715
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    Health, I never said that Biden was my idol. I voted for the republican president in every election except for one out of the last 6. (Doesn’t count this one).
    Right now Trump just wants to make sure that he and not Biden gets credit for the vaccine. If Biden were president, I truly believe that of my relatives and friends that died, some would still be around. The focus would have been on science and not hunches.

    in reply to: Chaloimos #1923376
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    John – The most current reason why trump is a rasha is because he hasn’t held a covid task force meeting in weeks. He plays golf and hangs out on twitter while 2,000 pepole are now dying a day and it will get worse. He doesn’t encourage any safety measures. He is a rasha.

    in reply to: How far is too far? #1923371
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    syag – unfortunately you are wrong, finding hypocrisy in our people is not a new “calling”. I’m not ashamed to say that my anger is a bit strong. I don’t apologize for it though. I think what I am saying needs to be said.
    I have no clue how you say that frum trump supporters haven’t been ‘kum v’aseh hen they have huge car rally’s for him throughout Brooklyn. When there are Trump-Pence signs all over the place. When R’ Shmuel Kamenetsky endorses him. When bein gavra l’gavra, by kiddush and shabbos meals, when our kids are around we sit and say what a king he is and even laugh at his latest insults to others. On and on… b’kum v’aseh

    in reply to: How far is too far? #1923378
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    Syag – just a quick observation. In many of your posts criticizing someone, you suggest that they need help. Like in your post suggesting I “work it out with someone else”. Wondering what is up with that.

    in reply to: How far is too far? #1923159
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    John – I’m not talking about taking Trump to be dan him over the sheva mitzvos. (You sound silly when you think you’re the only one who knows basic knowledge about the sheva mitzvos that every child knows). This is about perception. What Clinton did wasn’t gilui arayos either. It’s what the world and our children saw.
    And About even shlaima; it is again what people see and perceive.
    I dump on Trump because I hate hypocrisy. Especially in our world. As long as frum people will be praising him b’kum v’aseh, I will be making sure others know they are hypocrites. I’m not sure what me hating a rasha has to do with self hate Dr. Freud.

    in reply to: Jews are way too comfortable in America ! #1923049
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    ujm – and working on our midos and doing small acts of kindness to others. Being the best parent, sibling, spouse and child. Being honest. Focus on unity and not division etc… Love our neighbors.
    It’s not just learning Torah.

    in reply to: Jews are way too comfortable in America ! #1922963
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    I absolutely agree with you prophet. We are way too comfortable. We can definitely be turned on. It has started already with the rise of white supremacy. They are the number 1 cause of terrorism in the country right now.

    in reply to: Chaloimos #1922836
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    And like that, the president elect passes 80,000,000 votes. 6,130,000 more votes then the orange one. Taryag x 10,000. Love it.

    in reply to: Chaloimos #1922835
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    mizmor, if we critiqued everything not nice that health says, it would be a full time job. He has been created in the presidents image. This is his Twitter. 24 hours a day posting nonsense that is either not true or an attack. At least the president takes a few minutes to play golf here and there.

    in reply to: Tucker Carlson Election Fraud Evidence #1922589
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    Health – It’s over! Trump and the GSA has told Biden that he can start with the transition. It’s done. Stop being a child already. Whether or not you are right (which you are so ridiculously wrong), Biden is the president elect and will be signed in on 1/20.
    You’re fired!

    in reply to: Michigan just certified for Biden. What is the Presidents next move? #1922474
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    Does Moishe’s move people to Federal prison?

    in reply to: Election Fraud #1921368
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    Health, they debunked the claim that the republicans couldn’t see the count. That said, do you think 600,000 mail in ballots went to Biden simply because they couldn’t see it? There is no common sense in that and there are cameras all over the room? lol

    in reply to: Election Fraud #1921203
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    Jewish common sense –

    1) There was no state at 99% that turned for Biden.
    2) There were states that did that for Trump as well.
    3) Explain how PA went from 600,000 up by Trump to losing. What happened at midnight, that the counters randomly found hundreds of thousands of votes for Biden. Wouldn’t it have been smarter for democrats to somehow mix them all up in the beginning then doing such obvious fraud?
    4) Are you saying that there was this concerted effort between numerous states to somehow go democrat all of a sudden. Somehow they all did it at the same time.
    5) Why wouldn’t they vote democrat for all candidates? Why did republicans win so many other races that everyone thought democrats would win?
    6) You don’t even have to be a gemara kup to answer this. It is the same answer for all these states. What did they count first? Election day votes or mail in and absentee ballots? In all traditionally blue states that they counted election day votes first, Biden gained on Trump later and vice versa.
    Do you realize that all these states traditionally go blue and they were won by peanuts for Trump in 2016? This time it went the other more common way.
    Is this too logical for you? Are you going to come back with some new wacky theory?

    in reply to: State Legislatures Should Give Trump Reelection Win #1918767
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    gadolha, tell me that one about eating ballots is a joke. Please. I can’t stop laughing.

    Everyone forgets that it’s like a casino, it has cameras all throughout the room.

    “They’ve been doing it with observation, the press is here to watch it, there’s cameras everywhere. So this is a very, very transparent process,” Fitzgerald (Allegheny County Executive) had said. Honestly, it’s the red necks and a good portion of frum Jews that seem to go for this nonsense. People don’t realize that Fox News is just like the rest of the media, they create stories so they can jack up interest and keep people watching. It’s fake news just the same.
    People eating ballots. I love it.

    in reply to: State Legislatures Should Give Trump Reelection Win #1918383
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    jewish common sense, I so agree with you. Trump was up by 600,000 votes and there was a 2 hour break and the democrats went out and gathered seven hundred thousand fake votes that no one noticed. Even though there were cameras in the room, they were probably covered. It wasn’t because they first counted election day votes which was predominantly republican and then went to absentee and early voting which was predominantly democrat. That makes no sense at all.
    There was only one state that claimed the issue with republican pollwatchers not seeing the voting. That was debunked that night. Do a google search. Oops, the entire internet is liberal. That won’t work.

    in reply to: State Legislatures Should Give Trump Reelection Win #1918014
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    ujm, you still haven’t explained why in the battleground states that went to Biden, most of the statewide voting went in favor of republicans. That as well as the house gaining republican seats and retaining it’s repubican reps. There’s only one explanation, republicans turned on Trump. They didn’t turn on their party.
    Your primary accusation about the poll watchers in PA was debunked the next day by Trumps own attorneys and reporters on Fox News. Just do a quick google search. I don’t need to explain.

    in reply to: State Legislatures Should Give Trump Reelection Win #1918011
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    It was funny when Trumpers in Michigan were yelling “Stop the Count” and at the same exact time, Trump supporters in Arizona were screaming “Count every vote”. lol

    You’re all so silly.

    in reply to: character vs policy Which is more important? #1917995
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    @smerel “If everything about Trump as a person was the same but he was on the Democratic side of the equation and Mike Pence (from the most moral of all people in American politics today) was on the Republican side , the media and the people lecturing to us about how terrible Trump is now would all be enthusiastically supporting him instead.”

    I can’t speak for everyone, but for me and many of my associates, this is absolutely false. To explain and also respond to the idea that it’s the media making Trump look bad; no one has to say anything. He demonstrates all of his bad behavior himself! He’s a bully. A liar. A pervert. Self serving. Does not admit wrong. Doesn’t apologize. He mocks anyone that disagrees. He has little or no empathy. He has fired people for doing their job. Just about all his friends have been put in jail. Over 100,000 new cases of Covid have hit this country daily this past week. He is playing golf. Again, he has no empathy at all. So to answer your question, if he was a democrat (which arguably he was when he donated a ton of money to the Clintons and other democratic candidates), I would never ever vote for someone like him. I have voted both democrat and republican over the last 8 elections that I have been able to vote. I would reverse your logic and say that it is you who have been influenced by the media.

    in reply to: character vs policy Which is more important? #1917589
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    I just heard Biden speak. What a mentsch. He has gratitude. Grace. Empathy. Love and care. He is a religious man who has maintained his faith through tragedy. I have a lot of hope for our communities and country. I look forward to the future Mishebairach for our new president.

    in reply to: character vs policy Which is more important? #1917577
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    The fraudulent voters did magic. They lied and stole votes from president Trump but for senators and congressman they were ok voting republican. lol
    Even republican politicians are on Fox News saying that there is no evidence of fraud that can overturn the election. McConnell and Graham are some of them.
    He will not be president. He has no hold over anyone anymore. They finally feel like the chokehold is gone. Every day more and more will turn against him. His base isn’t even out protesting. They know what nonsense this is.
    As for the uneducated and blind YWN Trump supporters, have fun wasting the next few months following the nonsense that will come of nothing.

    in reply to: Esav and Trump, Red and Orange #1916518
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    Firstly, while the pandemic was not started by Trump, there is no question that he has been the cause of the disease being spread. He still “doesn’t remember” if he took a test the day of the first primary. Or after Hope Hicks tested positive, he doesn’t remember if he tested that day when he went to an indoor event celebrating servicemen. It is evident that knowing he had Covid or was in contact with someone that did, he didn’t quarantine. That to me is murder.

    in reply to: Esav and Trump, Red and Orange #1916241
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    @coffee addict You’re a Child.

    Beesalel, maybe if its some random idea that a candidate is like achashverosh, who started something positive , wouldn’t the logic be that it would be biden? Anyway, I don’t think achasverosh was a shade of red.

    in reply to: character vs policy Which is more important? #1916242
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    At everyone, if you know Halacha, what Clinton did , is not adultery. Not that it matters in this argument. I didn’t vote for him.

    @health
    its ironic you call yourself ‘health’, overcoming addiction is one of the greatest accomplishments a person can have. Same with George w bush.
    I also never said I’m voting for Biden. I’m certainly not using the Torah to tell us to do so.
    I truly believe that Trump is Fanning the flames of Amalek and it will get more intense if he gets voted in.
    By the way he just essentially opened the door to violence in PA he’s sick.

    in reply to: Esav and Trump, Red and Orange #1916171
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    It’s the same response to all those posts. People say the same stuff in different words over and over in a million posts and sometimes in the same thread. i just didn’t bother changing it up.

    in reply to: Esav and Trump, Red and Orange #1916133
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    @ coffee addict – It’s easy to name call and then run away… Someone is learning from our president. Next response is to deflect. And then play the victim and you will be literally be living in Trumps image.

    in reply to: Daati Leumi/RZ Rabbonim call on public to vote for Donald Trump #1916101
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    They are all blind.

    in reply to: character vs policy Which is more important? #1916053
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    It’s ironic how these current parshiyos are about this red man who was void of every positive attribute except for Kibud Av. He tried to look like a tzaadik, and according to many seforim fooled Yitzchok. In truth he was entirely self serving and steeped in gashmiyus. He became the one who bore amalek and haman and quite possibly the nazi’s and white supremicists.

    Well my friends. Sound familiar? There is a message for us. Trump is the Esav. We are supposed to be the Yaakov that can see past this, but it appears that we (and gedolim) are blind and being fooled yibadel like he fooled Yitzchak.

    The only difference I can see is that this evil man is orange, not red.

    in reply to: Daati Leumi/RZ Rabbonim call on public to vote for Donald Trump #1916052
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    It’s ironic how these current parshiyos are about this red man who was void of every positive attribute except for Kibud Av. He tried to look like a tzaadik, and according to many seforim fooled Yitzchok. In truth he was entirely self serving and steeped in gashmiyus. He became the one who bore amalek and haman and quite possibly the nazi’s and white supremicists.

    Well my friends. Sound familiar? There is a message for us. Trump is the Esav. We are supposed to be the Yaakov that can see past this, but it appears that we (and gedolim) are blind and being fooled yibadel like he fooled Yitzchak.

    The only difference I can see is that this evil man is orange, not red.

    in reply to: ADVOCATING FOR TRUMP #1916054
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    It’s ironic how these current parshiyos are about this red man who was void of every positive attribute except for Kibud Av. He tried to look like a tzaadik, and according to many seforim fooled Yitzchok. In truth he was entirely self serving and steeped in gashmiyus. He became the one who bore amalek and haman and quite possibly the nazi’s and white supremicists.

    Well my friends. Sound familiar? There is a message for us. Trump is the Esav. We are supposed to be the Yaakov that can see past this, but it appears that we (and gedolim) are blind and being fooled yibadel like he fooled Yitzchak.

    The only difference I can see is that this evil man is orange, not red.

    in reply to: Trump, Boro Park and our children #1915351
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    smerel – there is a contant deflection when it comes to this question. This is actually a Donald Trump methodology. Don’t focus on the issue at hand, deflect to another party that is wrong. You don’t even know if I have children altogether. Again, this is being brought up because we are in an election and coming down to the wire. I am not listing everyone I think is a lowlife in this thread.

    in reply to: Trump, Boro Park and our children #1915157
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    Syag. I was commenting about the idea that you mentioned emotions as if that were the opposite of facts. I read it now and I see what you were talking about Trump being the disgusting one, yet seeing it as ok to vote for him. My bad.
    The same way some are saying that they choose to vote for policy even though someone is disgusting, I can have the opinion that sometimes you have to over look policy and vote for the mentsch,
    Ted – There’s a fine line betweene being makir tov and having Schweky redo one of his songs saynig how amazing Trump is and having 70,000 people watch it on youtube. That and having rallys and signs in frum communities.

    in reply to: Trump, Boro Park and our children #1915142
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    Common, you lost your argument when you suggested that someone who overcame addiction, as a negative trait. That is one of the greatest strengths a person can have no matter what the addiction. (Please don’t ever say that out loud). Obama not having a job before? I didn’t vote for him, but not because of that reason. I couldn’t care less if he was employed. Yes, Clinton was a philanderer and I didn’t vote for him. I didn’t vote for any democrat. And that’s not even the point here, taavahs nashim is one aspect which is probably the least of my issues with him.

    Syag – Why is Biden disgusting? As an aside, he lost his wife and child in a car crash and had to raise 2 children through that. He lost another son just a few years back. He brings people who are down up. That’s strength to me.

    Smerel and Syag – Of course there’s emotions involved here. But as a result of facts. What did I write that isn’t true. No comment has yet bothered to say. And to suggest that the viewers of TYW and “the more frum” know less; please, how many are listening to Rush Limbaugh every day at work or peeking at a streaming Fox News. The kids pick up on it just the same.

    Syag – yes, religious hypocrisy is one of the main reasons why kids go off. Of course there are other means of hypocrisy. And duh as to why I used Trump as an example. That’s who I was talking about and that’s the topic of 75% of the coffee room.

    Always ask… thank you for your honest post and lol on the math. 🙂

    Reb Eliezer – thank you.

    in reply to: Mentioning a person “dies of Covid” in headline #1915039
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    Syag, your quote of Gedolah is almost literally what Trump has said.

    Google “seven deadly sins” (of which roots are probably in the Torah) and each one has Trumps name all over it. You could say he’s the best policy president ever but he is a mushcis. A liar. A bully. Count on your fingers how many times he’s apologized or admitted he made a mistake over the last 4 years and probably his whole life. He has no empathy at all. He is everything that I would have gotten my mouth washed out with soap, hit by my Rebbe and parents and kicked out of yeshiva. He stands for everything the Torah doesn’t. It’s one thing to vote for him b’shev v’al taaseh. It’s another b’kum v’aseh. Go ahead Boro park teach your children that he’s a role model. See how they turn out as teenagers. It is a chillul Hashem of the greatest magnitude. There will be din v’cheshbon one day for this madness.

    in reply to: Mentioning a person “dies of Covid” in headline #1912620
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    I’m the opposite of denial. I don’t want them to get credit for dying of Covid. As if they’re hero’s.

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