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health – how so? people who make up halachos about woman not being alowed to drive are less religious than those who say women can drive. Im also a frum jew but im also pro feminism.
neville chaim berlin – wives should be about the same age as their husbands.
shopping 613 – the kinds of girls and guys on here are too diverse and i dont think anyone on here would be good for me. but nice try. i need someone pro feminism and most guys on here are anti feminism. but maybe i know a girl for one of the guys.
shopping613 – exactly. you should already be mature when you get married.
Joseph – can i please have a ride (being sarcastic)? i mean i cant drive because im a girl.
Health – can you please stop making fun of girls? Like grow up already.
yeshivish macher – people said that she is shomer torah and mitzvos plus i saw pictures of her doing religious things plus i know relatives of hers who are jewish and frum and said shes frum.
iacisrmma – in general in New York tutoring is EXPENSIVE.
jewishfeminist – and how am i trolling? just stating a fact. many people who are anti something may look up something and post on it and bump it so others can see it and post.
Pringles – how do you know the person will want the same person that they marry at such a young age in another 15 years when they mature much more?
health – please stop being against feminism its kinda of rude to us (girls).
shopping 613 – oh really i post like a teenager? i dont think so. im not a teenager. read up on my old post and then think if im a teenager and youll find out im not. I am not a high school girl. i am in college and in my lower 20. When did i say you need to watch movies, listen to not jewish music to get married? you must have badly understood me i was meaning to say that college is a great place to go to get yourself a good education to makes lots of $ which is what you need if you want lots of children. Teenagers may think 16 is an adult but adults know your not really an adult until your at least 21. You cant even drive and go to college at 16. (some people do but they only get their license when their 16 and usually only if they were homeschooled do they start college at 16.)
Health – excuse me. says you.
Joseph – please bring up the pasuk.
lilmod ulelamaid – then what is the reason? you need a guy that you like and love and think that you will have a good relationship with and that you can imagine living with for the rest of your live, etc… you need someone to be there for you, listen to you, etc…. and most importantly BUILD A BEYAT NEIMAN BIYISROEL!!
Its an excellent idea. I would do it until the child is in college. They need to be able to learn the same amount as a normal person their age at school. Make sure they have friends to hang out with after school. Just make sure the person learns more so that way they get the main benefit of homeschooling which is learning more than others the childs age.
health – i dont need a mentor im too old for that. maybe you need a mentor.
lilmod ulelamaid – right reason to get married would be to have someone care for you. There are people who got married at an older age and got divorced but less common than when young people get married and divorced.
Joseph – we all know your against feminism because of your other post.
joseph – wearing pants is an aveirah because of a lack of tznius. driving is 100% muttar. your a anti feminist and most people here arent so give up. There are plenty of rabbi wives who drive.
skald 89 – what type of guy are you? Maybe i know a girl for you.
lilmod ulelamaid – not every girl is like me. thats why its surprising that im dating mo guys. not every girl sits around learning halachos and going to shiurim after seminary.August 1, 2016 9:33 pm at 9:33 pm in reply to: Should religious girls learn halachot and mussar on a frequent basis? #1164468
jewish feminist – go you! finally another girl who likes learning gemara and mishna! how about science and math?
shopping 613 – being in a chasidish house and school and stuff your probably more likely to not know so enough about the open world.
wolfish musings – who finished college by 18? ctlawyer is 100% correct.
ct lawyer- which community are you referring to ? you sound like my community.
Joseph – women driving is so different than them wearing pants. pants is pritzus its clear cut not what a girl should be wearing. driving is not pritzus its very okay for a girl to drive. its an activity. how will i get to college if i dont drive? have my boy friend come get me since his in my school? i dont think so.
Joseph – but at 18 people arent smart enough to choose the person that they will be living with for the rest of their live. They think so differently and would marry such a different person.
health – maybe they met when they were teens and had no idea what they were doing. but im referring to the ones who met at a normal age and got married at a normal age.
lilmod ulelamaid – you are absolutely correct when i was yeshivish i learnt gemara and you cant learn it with guys which gets REALLY hard because then you dont have anyone to teach it to you and no girls really learn gemara so i had to quit. now since im mo i learn it with guys which makes it MUCH easier.
health – im not trying to make up assumptions about you and your marriage im just trying to think why youd talk the way you talk. (once again this is posting since its not a one on one conversation i cant be certain im understanding you right.) Just when i hear someone didnt spend too much time with their wive and got divorced it makes it sound like empty nest syndrome or you werent in it for her only your children. (which is why im a little against shidduchim since i will be marrying a guy who i know WELL and i love while in shidduchim you got out on a few dates barely know the person and get married. i mean im not THAT desperate to get married.)
health – it really doesnt matter if i am married or not. i have taken psychology classes and i have life experience.
they had a great video on this on asap science where it tells you this.
charlie hall – knowing science is beautiful you know the world Hashem created and how it works it has nothing to do with being mo. in fact its the exact opposite.
charlie hall – i hope you heard the plan with education that clinton has and how that will destroy jewish schools. until you hear about that please DONT vote for her. you will destroy us.
popa bar abba – if you learnt that in gemara many guys do.
Very good explanation of what a troll is from wiki ” is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory,extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroup, forum, chat room, or blog) with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion, often for their own amusement”.
yeshiveshmacher – so im assuming your voting for Trump?
abba -s – this is true and nothing can stop that person from marrying that person.
daas yochid – both my parents switch off and ill probably do the same.
Joseph – why is that?
Joseph – times have changed. now girls drive.
daas yochid – yes it does.
charlie hall – are you mo? i thought yeshivish girls dont learn gemara?
yw moderator 29 – what is a benghazi?
popa bar abba – i asked guys that i hang out with if they learnt nidda in gemara and they said yes.July 31, 2016 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm in reply to: Does a reform rabbi do anything other than attend funerals? #1161038
huju – this is true.
lilmod ulelamaid – i meant i dont learn bymyself like gemara, you dont need to learn gemara. i go to shiurim and learn parsha and halacha. all the guys i know think that its totally okay to learn gemara and my rabbi also does.
coffee addict – most do ive asked guys.
miami lawyer – touching is wrong no matter how it is. i may marry someone who doesnt keep shomer but i do and he wont be touching me the closet well get is me sitting next to him but nothing else not literally touching.
yeshivishmacher1 – who did her conversion? im pretty sure it was a rabbi who makes kosher conversions.July 31, 2016 3:19 pm at 3:19 pm in reply to: Does a reform rabbi do anything other than attend funerals? #1161034
brisker 26 – you should be nice to goyim. there people too. its a huge kiddush Hashem. imagine if their was a non jew who was anti semitic and you and a number of other jews were being nice to them slowly and surely maybe theyll start liking jews and change their mind!! basically rashi is stating do be nice to non jews so that way you cause a kiddush Hashem and have less anti semites.
brisker 26 – you are 100% correct mixed dancing and schmoozing are totally different. most mo people know that. most people who wouldnt agree with that statement would be people who for example use to be chasidish and goes off the derech. they think once you do one thing you must go all the way.
wolfish musings – believe it or not many mo people would not use the eiruv. the eiruv in new york is not an eiruv that we can use. the people who would use it are the people who are OTD. for me i consider it breaking shabbos.
health – i didnt see where you posted that you got divorced. i may not know your story but it sounds like thats the reason why its called empty nest syndrome. you probably married off most or all of your children and didnt have a good enough relationship with your wife and you got divorced since you were in it for the kids not the spouse.
sparkled out – you are definitely a troll. most people dont respond the way you do unless their a troll. also dont you think it would be weird if someone wrote on their paper in college “sparkled out” youd probably be at least made fun of if not kicked out. i mean their are strange people but not THAT strange that they change their name to a weird one. i use to be “friends” with a jw witness and her father was jewish (so sad i know.) i actually was trying to do kiruv on him and she kept on asking us about our religion and then comparing ours to hers and finally i got up the nerve to tell her no more talking about religion if you want to know more about our religion go to speak to the rabbi and thats the last time i spoke to her baruch Hashem. i tried stopping to be her friend much earlier but didnt know how to she kept following me in college and then she finally told me she was a jw and thats when i realized i wanted nothing to do with her.
coffe addict – its in the gemara.
health – if someone says i used to means they probably dont have that thing anymore in your situation you got divorced is what it sounded like. also everyone knows if your all in it for the kids and not for the spouse likely theyll be a divorce.
abba-s – thats okay i know many really good guys that h’h ill end up with one of them and their all good frum boys and the rest i can set up with my friends.