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  • in reply to: Is there a Shidduch Crisis? #1137154
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    Just like generalizing any group of people is racist, so too, saying that men or whoever are animals is generalizing and not necessarily true for all. I agree half and half. Some men can be animals, but some are definitely not. It goes for anything and everything in the world. No one should make assumptions and say all ___ are ____, because it’s never the case. There are always exceptions.

    in reply to: Shiduchim, what else? #947533
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    @ WIY

    You said guys are visual and so if they see a girl they will make assumptions from what she looks like. Girls, I guess, are visual too but personality is a big thing. Also, girls can really notice if a guy is rude or haughty by how he acts with his friends. A girl can notice a guy just from seeing him, but not necessarily notice notice. Makes sense?

    in reply to: Teenage hangouts #910508
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    I’m a little confused.

    1. If you’re going alone or with your family to eat, then who will think you are hanging out with the crowd that happens to be there?

    2. If your with your friends, but you plan on going to eat, and not talk with them, then people will still assume your hanging out with them, cuz you are.

    If you are doing #2, obviously people will assume you’re there with the rest of the people, cuz you are.

    If you do not want to be part of it, but you’re hungry, go to a non-hangy place or with one friend or sister. (Sadly, most people will not give you the benefit of the doubt.)

    in reply to: Halacha: Dressing Under Covers #908754
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    Wait. I don’t understand the difference between a bathroom with a lock and a bedroom with a lock. Why the need for hiding under your blankets?

    in reply to: maachon raya?? #909631
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    My sister is in Machon Raya now. She’s from California. She is having an amazing time there. She is smart, but she is still able to have tons of fun.

    in reply to: Is she right for me? #898277
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    Spend an entire day with her and see if either of you get bored a couple hours in.

    If you can picture living the rest of your life with her then she could be the right one.

    If you are already sick of her, forget it.

    in reply to: Why Are Men More Intelligent Than Women? #1138493
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    Think about it this way: if someone were to raise 30 boys and 30 girls and teach them the exact same things (in the same way) for their entire life, give them tests and find out their IQ…. Could you really say that the boys are smarter? I think not!

    One may only be able to say that guys know physics or calculus or whatever because they (wanted to and) learned it, but a girl has the same brain capabilities and can learn/retain as much knowledge as any man. (if not more.) No matter how many studies are done, no one can actually generalize and say for sure that one gender is smarter or dumber than another.

    And even if some men were smarter in one area, woman are smarter in the other.

    BTW the professors were male. Find me a female proffesor that will prove her gender is dumb!

    in reply to: Bad Drivers #897063
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    You are not supposed to stop at a yellow light because usually the person behind you will want to go through and crash right into you. So it is even dangerous to stop. Also, sometimes you are going to fast to stop in that short distance. You should also not get a ticket for going through a yellow.

    Recently, this girl told me that she did not even have her permit and she got in the car and drove. I was totally shocked and she was just saying thank G-d nothing happened to me, when she almost ran over this man. It’s just really scary to think about. There have been countless stories of people walking on a green and someone running the red and killing them. You always just have to make sure every car stops.

    in reply to: "Better Boys Than Girls??" #922844
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    It’s quite the opposite: there are so many amazing girls out there but not enough decent guys, therefore there are extra girls and no guys. Also, some guys just dont want to get married, while most girls do want to start a family already.

    I hate to generalize, but in my humble opinion it’s the truth.

    in reply to: Ask the opposite gender #989483
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    Ok it doesnt go both ways. If the woman has to change the diapers, feed the baby, and dress the baby… then she gets to buy her husband’s clothes and decide that pink and purple does NOT work with guys. She also gets to buy the socks and not cologne. And demand showers!

    Any man who wants to pick what his wife should wear needs to take care of the kids. Then i give him permission to wear a pink dress.

    🙂 I am so not kidding!

    in reply to: Help! Book Dilemma — Appropriate or not? #906352
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    classics/novels may be “boring” but they do have a message to be learnt and they are usually 100% appropriate.

    some books i recommend: tom sawyer, huckleberry finn, a tale of two cities, the tragedy of pudd’nhead wilson, david copperfield, oliver twist, agatha christie mysteries… i have not read all but the ones i did were well written.

    hope i was helpful!

    in reply to: Who are the Quiet Girls Supposed To Marry? #897419
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    Quiet shouldnt necessarily marry quiet and vise versa. With my parents my dad is quieter and my mom is more outgoing and they like it that way. When two outgoing people talk they fight over ruling the conversation. So sometimes guys might think they like loud girls, but realy they dont. Also there is a big difference between being shy, quiet, and not talking.

    in reply to: What's Your Pet Peeve? #982842
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    i have the same pet peeves as some people have mentioned but im gona repeat them cuz they are just sooo true.

    smoking and burping in public

    standing ever so close to you you can practically kiss.

    people who cant drive driving

    people who walk around with their pants down to their knees

    people who read over your shoulder while you read or type

    in reply to: VOTE FOR EON #894341
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    mewho can you please change the title because you spelled eDons name wrong. It’s not Eon.

    Thanx!

    in reply to: Pranks I wouldn't do on my worst enemy #988849
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    visene isnt good to use cuz its for eye irritation, redness caused by colds, pollen, and swimming. and you goto put it in the person’s eye.

    try milk of magnesia in someones coffee. instant results! 🙂

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892885
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    I dont get you guys. Nothing happens when you say good shabbos.

    you dont suddenly fall in love with someone cuz you wished them good shabbos. it just doensnt happen. at least in my opinion.

    in reply to: Going off the Derech #1182088
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    I would suggest putting a “filter” on your computer. My computers have k-9 protection on it. I’ts very good and you can choose what you want to be done on your computer and what you want a password on.

    Also, i would try and focus on things that SHOULDN’T be done before the things that SHOULD be done.

    For example: Don’t push him go to school, learn or daven before he stops with the music or movies or being michalel shabbos. Cuz it won’t happen that way.

    If he doesn’t like talking to adults, have him speak with people his age. But don’t tell him they are gona help him…

    Maybe he would like to play/help with a little kid. Or take care of someone’s pet…

    I think the first step, if possible, would be to get him away from his harmful friends and find some better ones.

    Good luck!

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