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  • in reply to: speeding tickets #1217247
    Joseph
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    Interested? Very much so. Was that an Israeli policeman?

    in reply to: Is a Boy Looking to Date a Girl or a Chavrusah? #1218066
    Joseph
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    Good points, Winnie. If someone actually knew a topic better than the CEO, would he dare try to overrule the CEO on that topic?

    in reply to: Charedi a Reaction to Haskalah #1218620
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    In 1892 the Netziv closed the Volozhin yeshiva rather than agree to the Russian government’s demand on implementing secular studies.

    in reply to: Halacha of Carrying Money #1216168
    Joseph
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    What did people do before Alexander Grahm Bell was around?

    in reply to: Halacha of Carrying Money #1216165
    Joseph
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    Who says you need to always carry a cellphone with you?

    in reply to: Looking for Affordable Housing in Warm(er) Jewish Community #1215977
    Joseph
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    So I gather pretty much all frum single Americans migrate to the NY, Lakewood, Monsey Trifecta.

    in reply to: Joseph's Valentine's Day Thread #1216224
    Joseph
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    Nope. I sometimes find these things out here in the CR.

    in reply to: Charedi a Reaction to Haskalah #1218593
    Joseph
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    I generally do not use the adjective “chareidi” because it is misleading. It originated in Eretz Yisroel as a way to describe those who followed the Eidah HaChareidis as opposed to the Rabanut. But it has evolved, and has come to mean basically anyone who is not Modern Orthodox/Religious Zionist. But then it is simply the generic, default, traditional manner of being frum. And by using a brand name for the generic you are giving the impression that it is not the generic.

    Chareidim do not follow any specific teachings of any specific Rebbi, nor do they believe in any specific values not already in the Torah. Chasidim follow the specific teachings of the Baal Shem Tov and his disciples; Telzers follow the teachings and Minhagim of the Telzer Yeshiva; the Mussar movement was started by Rav Yisroel Salanter – but “Chareidi”? There was no beginning to “Chareidism” except on Har Sinai; no particular person whose teachings they follow except Moshe Rabbeinu, and no particular Minhagim they perform.

    So there really is no such thing as a “Chareidi.” Those who people refer to as “Chareidim” have mostly never referred to themselves as such – in America you can go to Yeshiva from Kindergarten through Kollel and you will most probably never hear “we are Chareidi,” and you may even never hear the term used at all.

    And because words matter – it’s a strange thing but people often tend to form impressions of reality based on words and phrases rather than creating words and phrases that reflect reality – I do not use the term “Chareidi” because by giving generic, default Judaism a label it conceals the fact that this Judaism is in fact the generic and default.

    in reply to: Looking for Affordable Housing in Warm(er) Jewish Community #1215967
    Joseph
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    lb, are the young adults expelled from such communities?

    in reply to: Charedi a Reaction to Haskalah #1218592
    Joseph
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    Sounds like a Reform rabbi or a rabbi who calls himself Orthodox but wants to reform Orthodoxy and doesn’t like the traditional Orthodox Jews that are often referred to as chareidim.

    in reply to: Halacha of Carrying Money #1216158
    Joseph
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    Only when traveling internationally with undeclared cash in excess of the legal limit.

    in reply to: Regression to Past Life #1216005
    Joseph
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    Sounds apikorsus.

    in reply to: Simple Luxuries #1215947
    Joseph
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    Hot chocolate.

    in reply to: When did hats get so big? #1216880
    Joseph
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    huju, and when did Sephardic men stop wearing turbans? Shouldn’t they go back to turbans, being they’re cheaper than Borsalinos?

    in reply to: Looking for Affordable Housing in Warm(er) Jewish Community #1215961
    Joseph
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    Wouldn’t pretty much any frum community, other than a retirement community, have young adults?

    in reply to: 2 questions for the CR community #1224563
    Joseph
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    Shopping, nu, so what was her response?

    in reply to: What's a Bungalow Colony? #1219063
    Joseph
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    Google the Borscht Belt.

    in reply to: Customs re: 2nd wedding for halachic reasons #1215577
    Joseph
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    As far as Torah Judaism is concerned this is your first wedding and you do all halachic requirements that a first wedding has. The kesuba will be the same one used for a second wedding, though, because that’s applicable for any bride that’s previously been in a relationship with a guy, even if not married to him.

    in reply to: What do you tell your kids? #1215542
    Joseph
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    Your question is what do you tell them if they want to do something against the Torah.

    in reply to: Annoying Jewish Telemarketers #1215137
    Joseph
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    Or French Fries. Especially eaten outside of France.

    in reply to: How many Gaonim are there? #1215695
    Joseph
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    Less than Maran.

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214902
    Joseph
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    You have your first child at 18, she has a child when 18, you’re a grandparent at 36 and your grandchild is a teenager when you’re 49.

    in reply to: 2 questions for the CR community #1224516
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    lilmod, the other seminary teacher who held you were wrong was more to your right hashkafically?

    in reply to: Saying Tehillim after Sunset #1215709
    Joseph
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    What changed from previous generations?

    in reply to: The Frierdiker Rebbe #1216836
    Joseph
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    If the Chasidus has had three or more Rebbes, and the immediate previous one is the Frierdiker Rebbe, what are the earlier ones referred to as?

    in reply to: The Frierdiker Rebbe #1216831
    Joseph
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    Why does Lubavitch get to capitalize it whereas other Chasidus’ do not, in your opinion?

    in reply to: 2 questions for the CR community #1224507
    Joseph
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    *HRH Joseph, Duke of the CR*

    in reply to: 2 questions for the CR community #1224504
    Joseph
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    One of my comments about the inappropriateness of women congregating on the streets was once quoted in a news article. I think DY’s comment was also quoted. Another poster reported finding that CR citation a few months after the story was published.

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    in reply to: 2 questions for the CR community #1224502
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    Shopping, was it the thread about the Chazon Ish saying that if a woman wore pants in public, and refused to desist, in the times of the Beis HaMikdash the Sanhedrin would stone her?

    in reply to: Guy who knows everything here; ask me anything #1215239
    Joseph
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    Are bald women different than bald men in this regard, that you asked specifically about men?

    in reply to: 2 questions for the CR community #1224498
    Joseph
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    I’m internationally famous! I’m famous!!

    Lilmod, another example of the international effects in real life of my commentary.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214635
    Joseph
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    A bochor isn’t necessarily a boy. A bochor can be a man.

    “only if it’s done one way and not the other, but I find that usually people who do one, do the other.”

    What does that mean?

    And are you suggesting that married women not be referred to as girls? (As married men are not called a bochor.)

    The reason I find it highly problematic for males to call adult females as girls, is that the underlying reason it is used is as as a form of endearment.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214632
    Joseph
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    Seventy year old bochorim are called to the Torah as a bochor.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214629
    Joseph
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    I also believe the reason it is common, especially in non-frum society, to call adult women as girls is as a form of endearment. Like it’s cute to be called a girl instead of a woman (or even lady). Which is why I find it highly problematic for males to call adult females as girls.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214628
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, I find it exceedingly rare, especially in frum society, for adult males to be called boys.

    in reply to: IQ tests #1214217
    Joseph
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    People with Asperger’s often have very high IQs.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214625
    Joseph
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    CTL, can a woman your age call or refer to 30 and 40 year old males as “boys”?

    in reply to: Saying Tehillim after Sunset #1215707
    Joseph
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    There’s been some previous discussions on this topic you might care to search the CR for.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214620
    Joseph
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    Lilmod, why do you find being called a woman to be “offensive”?

    Do you think some men might similarly be offended to be referred to as a man?

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214881
    Joseph
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    Does a high school diploma change a stupid person into a non-stupid person?

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214616
    Joseph
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    “Single boys are called to the Torah differently than married men?”

    Yes.

    Single men also generally cannot daven as the shliach tzibbur on the Yomim Noraim.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214612
    Joseph
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    Mr. & Mrs. John Doe is how one formally addresses a couple.

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214611
    Joseph
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    Bochor would be more appropriate. That’s how they’re called to the Torah.

    in reply to: Do you recognize the 'State of Israel'? #1214169
    Joseph
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    Hitler, too, against all odds came into power in one of “civilizations” great countries, lasted as long as he did against the odds, military rebuilt Germany so shortly after they were disarmed following their loss of the Great War and committed the heinous quantity of destruction against normative human ability.

    in reply to: IQ tests #1214212
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    Lilmod, how can you “officially” be a NJ resident if you’ve lived overseas for years?

    in reply to: High school diplomas #1214877
    Joseph
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    YY, is there any reason a New Yorker couldn’t take the GED in another state?

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214606
    Joseph
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    All I know is when the speaker in shul is trying to speak, it’s necessary to call out towards the Ezras Noshim “women, quiet please!”

    in reply to: Why say "ladies and gentlemen"? #1214602
    Joseph
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    Maranan, V’Rabbanan V’Rabosai…

    in reply to: Do you recognize the 'State of Israel'? #1214166
    Joseph
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    assurnet, the non-chasidic gedolim and the Chasidish gedolim other than Satmar, including Rav Elchonon Wasserman, the Chofetz Chaim, Rav Aharon Kotler, the Brisker Rov, the Munkatcher Rebbe, etc., all held it as assur to create a state regardless of who created it.

    in reply to: Do you recognize the 'State of Israel'? #1214165
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    The Israeli government has tried to shmad the Jews numerous times.

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