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I’ve experienced twice this year and was ready to have surgery when a friend told me to try “Stone Free” from the health food store. Each time I my doctor scared me that I must do surgery because its much too big to pass and nothing could work. But it did. I came back to the doc, took sono, and it was all gone. The doctor was totally shocked the first time around. The second time he said that now it definitely won’t work- But It Did!
And remember “Drink Lots of WATER”
so, she called me back and I didn’t have my phone with me then. So she’ll probably call me tonight. I’m gonna wish her a great year and I do forgive her, but won’t let her get away with pretending she never did anything at all.. yes, she she always had a disturbed life, however, she seems to be doing great she’s a big speaker and also high school teacher – so she has a job (although I wonder if they would only find out her true colors if she’d still be employed)
Now when she calls and again plays like nothing happened shouldn’t I bring up the subject at all?
ok… This is like many weeks after the story that I had regarding the girl that was sending me those harrassing texts. I never heard of it again, until 5 minutes ago….It happened. She calls me up to “shmooze” and I know she wants to ask me mechilah at random because she wants to wish me a G’mar Chasima Tova(she b”h had a beep and said she’ll call me right back). So now I need your help. I am really trying to forgive her, but It still bothers me how such a thing has happened and I know it was just child play or silly prank, and I cannot get myself to just say:” sure, what a question… while denying that she ever did anythibng to me. And if I’ll bring it up for discussion, she’ll just brush it off that c’mon it was just a joke. I’m not ready to accept such jokes. What do I do now? I need your advice how to go about this !
I have full notes and a perfect review with all info in it (It’s from a college professor). Not necessary to read any books. So if you can get hold of my email address through mods I’d be more than glad to give it to you.
In the grocery near my house there are twin brothers working there one’s name is Sasson, and the other Simcha! and they are the cutest twins ever always together and dress exactly alike! P.S. they are in their fifties!
Wow! That’s exactly what I needed! thanks a lot!
Thank you all, it was a friend that was going to go away for overnight and leave her kids home. I told her right away I don’t think it’s allowed halachically, just wanted to double check.
my question is if there are no ohter men in the house, the parents went away, sister and brother stayed home and sister has a friend sleeping over- and the door can be locked from inside the room does that pose a problem?
I have a neighbor Chaim Chaim and we call him L’chaim L’chaim
Any bad or actually wrong habit can be stopped only when you have an incentive to do so, which is usually not the case, so therefore you have to seek a way that would make you want to stop that habit because nobody can force you to stop besides yourself. I personally was struggling with a bad habit which i wanted to stop for years already but coudn’t get myself to do so, until it was a time when a family member was very sick, so I made this little promise to discontinue what I was doing for a zechus for the choileh and if he has a Refuah Shelaima, I will completely stop with the wrong thing I was doing. B”H he did have a refuah Sheleima and since that day (3 1/2 years ago) it hasn’t even occured to me once to slip back. Because, I know that I overcame it and how can I ever fall back.. it’s like being a loser. Wish you lots of Hatzlach you should have the binah yeseira to realize and be able do what’s right!August 4, 2011 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm in reply to: Where is it best to advertise a desirable 3 bdrm apt in BP? #794157
my sister with 2 kids is searching for 3 bedroom apt. details please!?
well, in my incident it wasn’t your sister except if your brother n’law is the the Rav of the shul there.
I guess it wasn’t because I myself attended the speech and lo and behold it was that woman and she really was AMAZING!
It was in Florida about 2 weeks ago. One older lady on my block asked me if i can tell all the heimish women that i see, that there will be a shiur on shabbos afternoon and it’s an amazing speaker so they should all come. I did my duties and told the ladies which I saw about the shiur. I met one woman on my block and told her about the shiur.. she was happy that I informed her and asked what time it is going to be. I told her the time and commented that “It’s supposed to be a great speaker” she said “wow, i’m really looking forward and i’ll try my best to come”- her daughter at her side burst out laughing while assuring me that her mother would attend. I was too curious and asked why she laughed. At first she ignored me and then said “that amazing speaker is gonna be my mom”July 27, 2011 8:22 pm at 8:22 pm in reply to: PLEASE HELP, ONLY RESPOND IF YOU ARE A MATURE HOMEOWNER> #790911
Did you ever try approaching the playgroup coordinator, as you’ve mentioned – talking to the home owner didn’t help a bit because for them its the money and nothing else matters, so perhaps if you discuss it with the tenant if they are considerate and erlich people they might be willing to work something out. Hatzlacha!
coffee, in bp
No, Coffee I’m not in Tower 41, but real close, actually we go there to visit on Pesach and Sukkos when I’m usually there! But now I’m back in good old NY! Might be back in couple of weeks.. Maybe then we’ll meet.
I’m afraid you’re hiding in Kastners! Are you also in that neighborhood?
coffee I’m afraid adorable is right, I’m 3 block away from 41- the bridge on Indian creek!
Can I get one too? Please!
OH, I guess I was tired as well when I read, South beach. I hear it’s like over 100 degrees back in New york, and I’m in the pool /indoors most of the day so don’t feel that it’s so terrible. Though, florida is called sunshine state for a reason won’t deny that.
Adorable: To tell you the truth.. In Miami its not so humid and the weather is a lot nicer than New York as it’s like 10-15 degrees lower. I didn’t leave coffee room but Hashem is all over, didn’t you learn that in preschool? What you mean if I saw the Shechina left when I left?
Thanks for your replies. We should always be healthy and strong to face the many challenges in life.
Hi from Miami
I’ll say 25-30
I’ll do 4-6 pm and most of all Daven as much as you can, every kapital Tehillim makes a difference! That’s the only thing we can do now
It breaks my heart to hear that you are going through such difficult situation. I just heard an inspirational beautiful speech on Shabbos from Mrs. Chana Werdyger and she brought out a very important point, that we all have to “live here and now” all/most of our nisyonos.. is a chain, something that happened in the past and continuing in the future that makes it difficult for us to live every second of the day, if we would think of just right now, to be happy at this very moment without carrying on our heads whatever happened and the unknown that will happen we will be a lot more at peace. Of course its hard to internalize it when we can’t even think straight, but with practice it works! And one more thing.. We have to remember that there are many business out there and we are only boss of what we do and not of others, Hashem has his ultimate business running with his own methods which we sometimes don’t understand, and whoever is causing u agmas nefesh has their own business – which you can not control, so left for you is to simply run your own business and don’t let the Yetzer Hora rob you of your work. Hatzlacha!
Thanks Dr. Pepper, I think I’m gonna do that! Hope It’ll work
The texting has stopped since I replied so harsh.. However, She’s trying to call and I don’t want to answer. What should I do next time I see the number?
If you are young and don’t mind a change and getting used to a new system then I agree with The Wold, just get out of there!
I really hope. Though, I wonder what the response will be and how things will turn out! I guess I’ll keep u posted.
I just replied quite harsh “stop harassing people for the sake of boredom. I’m not interested in your games, and I will not hesitate to take serious measures against ur acts”
Is that a bit too rude?
yes, but that’s my whole problem. How do I get this to STOP! I am ignoring throughout!!!
I had very similar story quite a while ago. You have to confront your boss and try to ask him straight out to give him what he has told you, he has to keep his word or else you’re gonna have to look for a new job!
I don’t want a response like “oh was just joking, what’s the big deal..” I don’t want that, I want an apology and it make a statement that it was very wrong!
OMG! Another new number texting me now, I’m afraid it’s a no-win situation.. HELP! what do I do? I have to stop this!
It’s a kid in my class.. though, not married and had very hard life needs lots of attention and recognition from others but this is not the way to do things..
I did block the number so that’s a bit of a relief, but instead i got phone calls from the number to my house and cell.. I ignored cuz couldn’t face to talk to such a stalker and all of a sudden its ringing to my work non-stop.. Again I ignored but they left a message how much they wanna tell me something very important…. what do I do now?
I’m gonna block the number, but still want to let em know that I totally don’t think of it as a joke.. and it should be below one’s dignity to play such an ugly prank for so long
anything from zeeslick!
I was on tour in Eastern Europe a few summers ago. Besides touring and davening at many Kivrei tzdikim, I went to the camps in Warsaw: Thereizenshtat, Treblinka, Dachau, Aushcwitz, Madenek.. I was exremely emotional that instead of crying I turned numb.. I couldn’t believe what I saw with my eyes no matter how much I’ve read about the holocaust in the past. If you are mature enough to handle the seriousness and intensity of the place where so many kedoshim were killed al kiddush Hashem then I think it really raises your spiritual self. It gave me a different outlook in life which I’m very grateful for! Go for it!
I’m next.. though wonder if we can get to 613 l’kovod shvuous with EVERYONE in it. Have an awesome Yom Tov! 🙂
Anyone know of a widely accredited online college for Special Education Masters program?
If your only seriously interested and looking for my type of position than you can contact me through the mods
I actually got 4 great job offers so I’m on my way out now.. though I’m in big trouble making my final decision. I was offered 3 jobs in the place where I live, and another one for much greater pay out of town – 30 minutes by car.. Is it worth it for me to travel every day
for more money?
All these acts are for a purpose to remind us that we are still live in Golus and as long as Moshiach isn’t here yetits “Eisav Soneh L’yakov”.
We have to make sure to only behave as we should and make a Kiddush Hashem wherever we go and with whatever we do. And that will bring the Geulah closer. Amen!
When we would all treat our spouse like a “friend” and not like a “spouse” than lots of trouble would be avoided
If it’s halacha to cover your hair, then who are you being tznius’dig for if noone around you can tell that your hair is covered besides for yourself?
Thank you WOLF and all others. I will think about it and approach him probably next week. Then Hashem has to help I should be happy in my new job!