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  • in reply to: Is A Jew Permitted To Celebrate Halloween? #1392648
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    @nisht……….
    Pumpkins do not equal Halloween
    They are a fall gourd.
    We use them to decorate the Sukkah, as well as the front of our home
    We have a historic 200+ year old home in a small Connecticut town, There is a horse drawn carriage (no horse) on our front lawn. It is decorated with seasonal growth. This time of year there is dried Indian Corn and pumpkins………
    It will stay that way until after American Thanksgiving. Then we put the carriage in storage until the spring. It will be decorated with fresh flowers that vary by the season until the fall harvest from our veg patches

    in reply to: What does CRF stand for? #1392649
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    @Joseph
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    When Mrs. CTL was so ill last year and Tehillim were being said I posted and used the Hebrew name.
    WHY? Because I read it on the framed Ketubah that was hanging on the wall in my MIL’s den. That was from the second marriage.
    This morning, I had a late appointment in New Haven, where MIl was from and I went to her parents’ and brother’s graves. All three had Yiddish names inscribed, not Hebrew.

    So, Mrs. CTL and I discussed this at supper tonight and we’ll continue her family tradition and use the Yiddish name on the stone.
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    That still leaves the unanswered question of inscribing the stone where the first husband (Mrs. CTL’s father) is buried.

    I had a long talk with my BIL, who retired as a shul Rav after 40 years,
    He had an interesting take on the situation.
    He explained to me a similar occurrence in his shul that took place about 25 years ago. The female was buried with the second husband and the children also inscribed the firs husband’s stone, There were nieces and nephews on the first husband’s side who would come to pay respects to deceased husband #1 when visiting their parents and grandparents in the family plot. They would have no reason to travel to another cemetery to pay respects to their late uncle’s now deceased wife buried with husband #2. They would however make a Molei for her when reading the inscription on their uncle’s double stone.

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    @Golfer………..
    Therein lies the rub

    The first Ketubah was written while MIL’s parents were alive and has her Yiddish name. I assume her father told the Rabbi what to write. The second Ketubah (written after her parents were no longer alive) has the Hebrew name.

    As this is a no win situation, I’ll let Mrs. CTL decide, but she asked that I get some opinions

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    @Joseph
    Approximately 100 years ago a family foundation was incorporated in the State of NY for the purpose of buying a cemetery. It was named for my great-great grandfather on my father’s mother side.
    My Great Grandfather bought a large family plot in the cemetery (approx 400 graves) for his descendants. He had 4 daughters and no sons. When his wife died he erected the large Family Plot Stone with his last name inscribed in the center near the top.
    When each daughter married, her husband’s last name was inscribed on the next horizontal row.
    The same system occurred in my parents’ and my generation. Most men who married into the family know that their wives wanted to be buried in the family cemetery and they are also buried there. My parents made a decision when they moved to CT that they would be buried here, not back in NY. Half my siblings have decided we want to be buried in the family plot in NY, half elsewhere. The idea of being buried with the husband’s family did not come into play.

    Example of Family Plot Stone (made up names)

    WEISSMAN
    SCHWARTZMAN———GOLDMAN——————————BROWN—————–SILVERMAN
    COHEN——LEVY———–ISRAEL—————-GOLD———–BLACK—————WHITE———————-GRAY

    Here in CT, Jews are generally buried in cemeteries that belong to a synagogue, not association plots in supersized Jewish cemeteries as in NY or NJ and not in any for profit, privately owned cemeteries

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    @Nishtdayn………

    I tend to agree about double headstones erected while one spouse is still living.
    I asked my MIL about this and she told me that when she erected the stone for Husband #1 the cost was $2500 for a single headstone and $2700 for a double, so it made sense to buy the double.

    My paternal family has 2 family association cemeteries. We don’t erect headstones for individuals, instead there is a large stone for the family plot with the family name at top, and married last names below. Each individual has a foot-stone with their individual information.

    My parents are buried in a family cemetery on my mother’s side. They only have flat in ground individual bronze foot markers. This eliminates the vandalism of overturned stones and makes mowing the grass easier.

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    @Joseph
    “I think it would be unusual and confusing to put her name on husband #1’s matzeiva if she isn’t buried there.”
    I pondered this and discussed this with the shul Rav
    His take was that because she was the widow of Husband #1 (Mrs. CTL and her siblings father) it would honor their marriage. If she had been divorced from Husband #1, Rav for forbid it.

    There are 3 other stones in the shul cemetery (that I know of) where there is no one buried adjacent to match the description. The stone is a memorial marker in that case.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1391419
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    @AviK
    Goodman is not the be all to end all in legal decisions. His explanations are nice for the layman, but not the rule of law/bar standards, etc. that vary by jurisdiction.

    Your constant pursuit of this topic may be entertaining to you and a teaching opportunity for me, but are probably boring and off topic for most CR readers,

    Please note: Mentally Defective does not equal criminally insane, and not everyone with a mental defect pleads an insanity defense. A potential 2-5 year sentence in prison, may be far more appealing than a possible lifetime in a mental institution.

    Lawyers don’t have to believe in the case they are presenting, they are not paid to do so. It helps, but is not a requirement of doing one’s job.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1391204
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    @AviK
    #1 It is not the lawyer’s place to determine the client’s best chance and force the client to accept a plea deal. The lawyer MUST represent the client’s wishes to the best of his ability.
    Usually a lawyer with a client who will not speak to the lawyer or aid in the defense, has been assigned the client by the court, not taken the client with a big fat retainer check. The client may be indigent or mentally defective (not politically correct but chosen to make a point). The judge will not let you off a case like that.

    #2 There is a big difference from erasing something from your memory and not taking it into consideration when deliberating a verdict. It can be accomplished. Most people want to be fair.

    The CT Supreme Court (our highest appeals court…unlike NY where it is a trial court) set down rules decades ago about these volunteer juror panels that generally restricts them to civil trials to assure criminal defendants get a true ‘Jury of their peers’ drawn from a cross section of society. That’s why CT does not only call registered voters, but also uses drivers license and registration lists to call potential jurors.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1391053
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    @AviK

    #1 Permission to withdraw is usually granted if the attorney is severely ill, becomes aware of a conflict of interest after taking the case (e.g. a late witness is added to the other side’s list and the attorney has represented this witness, or the witness is a current client, friend or relative), the client refuses to speak with or aid the attorney in the client’s defense. When my mother died the judge would not let me withdraw from a civil case under trial (there was no jury) he adjourned for 2 weeks.

    #2 Do I believe juries ignore everything they are told to ignore? NO, but small town educated juries are more apt to follow the judge’s instructions than large city, lower income, less educated juries.
    We have a pool of middle aged and senior citizen volunteer jurors in our district who actually enjoy serving on civil trials. They are on a volunteer list. Many are retired educators who take civic responsibility to heart. They tend to both understand boring expert testimony and to follow the judge’s instruction to a T

    #3 Jury nullification is a TV and high profile criminal case thing. Most of us practicing attorneys have never run into it.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1390775
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    @jj2020
    Witnesses give sworn testimony. They swear or affirm that they will tell the truth and are subject to criminal prosecution for perjury if they are found to lie under oath.
    Nothing the attorneys, bailiff, judge say is sworn testimony. it is peripheral and not to be considered by the jury when considering guilt.
    Please don’t confuse moral with legal or actual. They are different things.

    in reply to: Coin Collecting – Numismatics #1390776
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    @Joseph
    My collection has two distinct focal points.
    #1 US and colonial 18th and 19th Century coins in silver or gold specializing in rate dates and short lived mints such as Dahlonega and Charlotte.
    #2 Gold coinage of the minor European principalities, duchies, kingdoms before the amalgamation into modern countries such as Italy, Germany, Yugoslavia.

    I also have a small representation of ancient Roman and Judean coins.

    The value of my collection is not something I’d disclose to anyone except my insurance carrier.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1390713
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    @jj2020

    The only person in the courtroom who must tell the truth is a witness on the stand. The attorneys (plaintiff, prosecutor, defendant) are not given sworn testimony. In fact there opening and closing statements are not testimony, they are meant to sway the trier of fact (judge or jury) to decide in a given way.

    The judge when rendering decisions on objections, admissions of evidence; charging the jury and explaining the law is giving his/her interpretation, not issuing truths,

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1390711
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    @AviK
    I presented scenarios as an educational tool.
    As I’ve stated many tines I don’t practice Criminal Law.

    Contrary to your opinion, a lawyer can not just withdraw from a case at will. He needs the permission of the judge (which is not often granted for the reasons you state).

    Secondly, you may think something immoral…that’s by your or Judaism’s moral standards. Government courts deal with society’s morals, they are different. Attorneys must adhere to a Professional Code of Ethics or be subject to sanctions/penalties,consequences.

    An attorney is obligated to present plea offers to the client, but the attorney cannot make the client accept them.
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    If the defense attorney’s name is on the prosecutor’s witness list, the judge will excuse the defense attorney from the case. One of the major reasons is that witnesses are not generally allowed to enter the courtroom before being called to the stand (unless a party to the action) because their testimony might be colored by what has transpired in the trial before they are called. If the defense attorney is not in the courtroom, he can’t effectively defend the client.

    in reply to: Coin Collecting – Numismatics #1390056
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    @ZD
    Collecting coins is not just gashmius and the way of the goyim. It is a great way to teach a child world history and geography.
    It is also a possible investment
    Unlike paintings and other valuables that people may collect, coins are small and easily transportable. Many people have used them to bribe their way across borders and effect ransoms in times of danger

    in reply to: How long? #1390053
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    Things to check>>>>
    Calibration of oven
    Using dark colored metal baking pans not disposables
    Pyrex needs to bake at 25 degrees F lower temp
    Is the oven fully preheated
    Is the cake on the center rack and the ONLY item in the oven
    Did you make sure to use LARGE eggs in the mix….that is the size commercial recipes call for in the US, larger eggs in the batter require longer baking times.

    Remember: cooking is an art, baking is a science. It requires accurate measurements, time and temperature

    in reply to: Food question #1390051
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    My Vegan/Celiac Niece-in-law makes this and it is quite good. She does not remember where she got the recipe (it is not her own).

    10 potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks
    ½ cup (1 stick) margarine
    ¼ cup non-dairy creamer
    1 teaspoon salt
    2 onions, sliced
    2 tablespoons oil
    ½ teaspoon sugar
    Place potatoes in a large pot and cover with water. Bring to a boil and reduce heat. Simmer until potatoes are soft – about 20 to 30 minutes. Drain and mash with margarine, non-dairy creamer and salt. Spread potatoes in a greased 9 x 13-inch pan and smooth top.
    Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Sauté onions over low to medium heat until lightly browned – about 10 minutes. Add sugar and sauté 5 minutes more. Lay across top of the potatoes. Bake for 30 to 45 minutes.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1389949
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    @AviK
    One of the first things law students are taught in their first Criminal law class is don’t ask your client of he did the act for which he/she is charged.

    Again, I don’t practice criminal law, but I do teach as an adjunct professor at a law school and have taught Legal Ethics/Professional Responsibility.

    If your client admits to having committed the act with which he/she is charged. The lawyer is required to enter a non-guilty plea if that is the wish of the client.
    This plea is often entered at the arraignment and/or bail hearing. It is useful in negotiating a plea bargain with the prosecutor. The client may never go to trial to decide guilt, only before the judge for the acceptance of the plea bargain and for sentencing.
    If the client goes to trial for the crime charged, the lawyer must defend the client to the best of his ability. This is usually done by presenting alternative theories of the crime: who else, had motive, opportunity, access, etc. This is not the lawyer making a statement that the client is not guilty, but presenting scenarios that could raise doubt in the eyes of the trier of fact (judge and/or jury). What the lawyer may not do is put the client ion the stand if he knows the client will be lying. I have discussed this in an earlier reply.

    Example> my client John Doe is arrested and charged with shoplifting under $200 worth of merchandise. This would be a misdemeanor charge of larceny in the sixth degree in CT. Client tells me he took the goods from the store without paying. I go with client to arraignment, enter the plea of not guilty and he is released on a promise to appear. If he entered a plea of guilty, he would immediately be taken into custody and could be held in jail for up to two business days until he went before a judge for sentencing. He would then on a first offence be offered accelerated rehabilitation. Make restitution, stay clean for a year, pay court costs and all records would be wiped out in one year. If it was a 2nd or 3rd offense, then he’d probably get ordered to pay restitution, a fine, 90 day sentence, suspended and probation for a year.

    If he pleads not guilty and has no appreciable record, the prosecuting attorney will want to clear the workload and will offer a small fine, no jail time or probation. No need to be held in jail awaiting a trial. If no previous record, accelerated rehabilitation will be offered. In both these cases with no trial, the client will not be made to pay court costs.

    Felonies are different, but pleading your client not guilty may allow him to be out on bail while awaiting trial. A guilty plea usually means instant incarceration

    in reply to: Coin Collecting – Numismatics #1389946
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    Me, since 1960
    Has given me countless hours of pleasure and education, and much profit over the decades.
    I bought my first house with the profitable sale of coins from my collection back in the mid 1970s.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1389088
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    @Gadolhadorah

    90% of civil disputes are resolved without a trial. This includes arbitration. Most Americans don’t realize how often they waive their right to a trial and have agreed to binding arbitration with banks, retailers, etc. Read your credit card agreements and you will find you can’t go to court. Most people agree to terms of use on the internet without ever reading the terms.
    Many of the 10% that go to trial are resolved before a verdict is rendered.

    Most attorneys never litigate a case. In the British legal system there are Solicitors who do the bulk of legal work and Barristers who only appear in court hired by the solicitors.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in Shul Only #1389046
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    The shul I grew up in had the custom that hats were not worn in davening, only yarmulkes. Some members who wore caps all day at work would arrive in shul, remove their caps, don a yarmulke from the box and daven. After davening they’d reverse the process.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1388892
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    @Avi
    A lawyers job is to advocate for the interests of the client to the best of the lawyer’s ability. It is NOT against the Code of Ethics top enter a not-guilty plea for a client the lawyer “knows’ to be guilty. The attorney cannot allow that client to take the stand and testify falsely. If the client insists on taking the stand, the lawyer is obligated to meet with the judge and prosecutor in chambers and say that he is opposed to the client testifying and expects it will not be truthful.
    Because the standard of criminal doubt is beyond a reasonable doubt, a lawyer with a ‘guilty’ client who pleads not guilty may present alternative theories of the crime which raise doubt.

    Here in OOT America a Beis Din usually has to be brought in from the big city at a great expense and non-frum people are not interested. Unlike in Israel, judge here refer to secular mediation venues.

    in reply to: Jew becoming a lawyer or judge -halachic problems ✡️⚖️ #1388861
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    @chabadgal

    I am old enough and wise enough to avoid being baited.
    This thread was started by Joseph ion what appears to be a troll mode.
    When the Shakespeare quote was posted, my decision was reinforced.

    As I have posted in the past:
    I don’t practice criminal law
    The vast majority of my clients are not Jewish
    I insist Jewish Divorce clients go through the Get process.
    In CT, the family court judges will (not must) include the requirements of obtaining a Get and who pays for it in the civil divorce decree. I achieved this about 20 years ago.

    I encourage Jews seeking to sue a Jew to use the services of a Beis Din, but the few Jews I represent are usually not frum and that idea means nothing to them.
    The typical Jew I represent is dealing with Probate Court (Surrogate’s Court for you NYers)>wills, adoptions, name changes, not suing other people.

    As others have said there is much work a Jewish lawyer can do without violating halacha. We have to pick and choose what we do, as in any other profession.

    in reply to: I am superior to you because of the coffee I drink. #1388185
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    @uncleBen
    I spend less than 30 minutes per day on the CR
    Usually while on placed on hold during a telephone call
    This is actually the case as I type. It’s 6:21 AM here in CT I’m on hold with a client’s bank in Europe, where they are seeking confirmation of some transactions.

    in reply to: I am superior to you because of the coffee I drink. #1388186
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    @UncleBen
    B”H I’m quite healthy. Coffee has a calming effect on me, not a stimulant. I have a mug before bed each night to relax me and I sleep a deep and comfortable sleep.
    My parents also slept only 4 hours per night and neither one drank coffee

    in reply to: I am superior to you because of the coffee I drink. #1388184
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    @DovidBT
    Eating coffee grounds stains the teeth.Here in the country they go in the compost pile and areused in next year’s vegetable patch

    in reply to: I am superior to you because of the coffee I drink. #1388068
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    @Reb Yidd23
    Was the brewing system comment directed at me?

    If so, most of the time I use a French Press, otherwise a stove top percolator.
    I do not care for most drip brew systems……………………………..
    No reason to reinvent the wheel…I’m a Lawyer not an engineer

    For large crowds, we use 60 cup Farberware samovar style urns.

    in reply to: I am superior to you because of the coffee I drink. #1388062
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    Lightbrite…………..
    I am awake (up dressed, out of bed) 20 hours a day.
    I drink about 8 cups of coffee each day
    I drink about one gallon of spring water each day as well
    6 ounces juice with breakfast
    maybe 8 ounces of milk in any given week
    Ice Tea in the summer
    Hot tea only for a cold or sore throat

    in reply to: I am superior to you because of the coffee I drink. #1388047
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    I must disagree with the premise of home made wine being superior to purchased wine.
    I love a good Red.
    1961 was a great year (vintage). My father laid down quite a few cases. ( I was far too young to have made my own in that year) we drank some at our daughter’s chasunah this summer.

    As for coffee, I do buy already brewed outside the house. In the house we roast and grind our own beans. Since I drink about 8 cups a day it’s worth the effort for great coffee

    in reply to: Seasoning Your Meat #1387783
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    If cooking steaks, chops or burgers on the outdoor grill a sprinkling of salt on both sides will help develop a wonderful crust. This keeps the meat juicy at high heat.
    The only time I salt meat before cooking indoors is if I’m making hamburgers in a cast iron pan. It would have to be a blizzard or hurricane for me not to be grilling them outdoors.

    in reply to: What should the Second Amendment say? #1386922
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    @akuperma
    I understand the British legal system that existed in the colonies.
    Your post did not refer to that but the ‘original language of the Constitution in 1775’ which is why I called you out.
    I know all about the Articles of Confederation and other documents that predated the Constitution. They contained no 2nd Amendment.

    There were Jews in New Haven Colony….my birth town from the 1600s, the same in the Colony of New York.
    No Colony was owned by a Quaker. The Colonies were owned by the Crown, Charters were issued to individuals, such as the Quaker in PA.,

    in reply to: New York city brown garbage cans #1386909
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    I grew up in New Haven. Back in the 1950s and early 60s each house had a concrete liner in the ground with a removable waste pail for food garbage (it had a step on lid to open). The city put contract out to bid with pig farmers who bought and collected the food waste weekly.
    By the mid 1960s most homes had garbage disposals so the program was discontinued….no farmers bid as the amount of waste had fallen to far to make collection economically feasible.

    My current town collects leaves in the fall. Yard waste cannot be left for the garbagemen, either mulch it back into the lawn or bag it and take it to the transfer station yourself

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    @Lightbrite
    Sideboards, Buffets, Servers, Consoles are made to stand against a wall and unfinished on the rear. They do not have storage above the counter level (usually not taller than 41″
    A wall unit is not finished on the rear and is placed back to the wall,
    An Etagere is finished on all sides and is often used freestanding as a room divider

    In addition to sofa, couch and Chesterfield, is Divan and Chaise Longue (long, not lounge).
    Shorter couches (2 places) may be called Settees or Love Seats

    in reply to: What should the Second Amendment say? #1386615
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    @akuperma
    ‘the original language back in 1775’ You need a course in Constitutional Law…I’ll be teaching one this coming spring semester.

    REALLY?????????????
    The Constitution was not drafted until 1787 and ratified by 1789. The Bill of Rights (Amendments 1-10) date from 1791.
    Certainly, the Quakers of Pennsylvania did NOT belong to the State Church and support the King of England, the titular head of the church.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tisch……………………I don’t get it #1383064
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    @Yeserbius123
    If anyone threw something at my Oma and Opa’s (never mind Grossmuter Braun’s) Shabbos table they would receive a lecture in private afterwards and might not be at the table for a period of time (until Oma or Opa decided the person was capable of proper behavior at the table).

    I did not use the word ‘bizarre’ as I think this connotes a negative opinion, ‘odd’ means strange (and to a Misnagid these customs are strange) or different.

    in reply to: Shipping Seforim from Eretz Yisroel #1382979
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    @iacisrmma
    As an attorney I tend to read and analyze carefully. The use of the term ‘whole switch’ was a giveaway that subterfuge was employed to cheat the airline. Had the poster written that he asked a friend with a lightweight carry on to carry a few seforim there would not have been criminal intent.

    in reply to: What exactly is a white supremacist? #1382740
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    Someone who thinks he/she is superior or has greater rights than non-Caucasians because he/she is Caucasian

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    @iacisrrma
    #1>>>if you are the ticket holder and redistribute weight between your own bags so each is within the allowable limit there is no problem
    #2>>>if you are a ticket holder and you have some extra weight/space and you allow a friend to place some weight in your bag (and receive no compensation) you probably have no problem in terms of cheating the airline out of revenue. You may have security issues when asked if anyone gave you something to carry /ship or if everything in you bag belongs to you
    BUT
    #3 >>>If you are a ticket holder and know you are overweight on your carry on, so you do “a whole switch with my friends carry on so they wouldn’t charge me for being overweight” you’d be stealing. This infers that the traveler falsely had the friends legal weight carry on handed to airport personnel for weighing while the friend held onto the overweight bag, then exchanged bags and took the never weighed, overweight bag on the plane.
    This is no different than having a friend hold some of your belongings, having your carry on weighed on check-in, then going back to the friend, retrieving your belongings and stuffing the bags with un-weighed goods. That’s stealing.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tisch……………………I don’t get it #1382216
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    @Geordie613

    I missed last year’s thread, and now having followed the link and read it I’m glad I did.

    I posted a civil question asking for an explanation and have rec’d some information which is helpful.
    I disparaged no one (except Trump…and everyone of the regulars in the CR knows I’m a Liberal Democrat).

    in reply to: Shipping Seforim from Eretz Yisroel #1381662
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    @GoldenLechaim

    You learned for 3 years in Yeshiva and brag about cheating the airline of its overweight charges by switching bags with your friends.

    That’s pure G’nava

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tisch……………………I don’t get it #1381437
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    @LittleFroggie
    The lawyer in me doesn’t accept answers such as the person doing a particular action knows so much, that he knows what he is doing?
    I have a need (or desire) to know why. That’s why I posed the question without making comments that may be considered negative.
    Furthermore, I was not singling out any particular sect. I watched 2 videos posted one after each other on YWN’s new feed. I mentioned Klausenburger-Sanz because I’ve been there a number of times and our family is a long time supporter of Laniado Hospital (which serves far more than the Sanzer community).

    I appreciate your response, but hope someone can provide a more concrete answer.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tisch……………………I don’t get it #1381317
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    ZD………when I was in 7th grade I was taken by a local Chabadnik to 770 for a tisch. Afterwards we lined up to get Sharayim from the Rebbe…a small square of cake and grape juice. The line was long and orderly, men were getting portion to ship to loved ones around the globe. There was no throwing of food into the crowd by the Rebbe.

    in reply to: Moving to the suburbs to escape the Orthodox ghetto #1380617
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    My parents left Brooklyn more than 65 years ago to own a business, a house and raise their children in a Connecticut city.
    They did NOT move to the suburbs.
    The poster writing about Cleveland is not writing about moving to a suburb of the city with the ghetto. Waterbury, Rochester, etc. are not suburbs.
    These are all cities that have had orthodox communities for decades, dating back to the 1800s. Young families are encouraged to repopulate these communities and make use of the infrastructure that exists and was paid for by earlier generations.
    My parents raised their children in Connecticut, we raised our children and they are raising their grandchildren. Day schools, yeshivos, mikvaos, cemeteries and shuls exist. The buildings are long paid for. It is much better to repopulate the neighborhoods that suffered white flight in the 1960s and 70s and the decreasing birth rate among non-frum American Jews than turn these buildings into ‘Black’ churches or charter schools.

    Rav Miller’s words were very specific and they applied to direct suburbs of the large city frum ghetto, they should not be extended to cities that have had long standing orthodox communities and institutions.

    in reply to: Driving in the left lane at the speed limit #1380434
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    @Joseph
    Why would someone cut off a car instead of passing/overtaking it?
    #1 Lazy/ignorant/self entitled driver
    #2 Realize you need to be in the right lane soon to exit…you are in a lane to the left, since you won’t be retirning to that lane it isn’t passing/overtaling
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
    People who speed up to prevent your changing lanes are disgusting

    in reply to: Driving in the left lane at the speed limit #1380194
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    @Joseph
    Passing or overtaking a car>>>you are driving behind that car in the same lane. You signal a left lane change and move into the left lane, gain enough speed to get ahead of that car to the point it is visible in your inside rear view mirror. Signal right, switch back to original lane and resume driving at safe speed.

    Cutting off a car, you change lanes quickly to get in front of a car in the other lane and continue driving in that new lane,

    in reply to: Crendenza! #1379851
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    @Golfer
    The Chesterfield Sofa was originally designed in the mid 18th century. It has rolled back the same height as its rolled arms and is usually button tufted.
    The main section of the CTL home was built in 1803 and has many period appropriate pieces. Our 2nd floor has only 7 foot ceilings. There is a Chesterfield in the sitting room. A high back sofa would be out of scale.

    BTW>>>>I also own a Chesterfield Coat for winter dress wear.

    We don’t keep Silver in the credenza…it’s in the foyer and holds gloves in the top drawers, and attaches, brief and mah jongg cases in the lower cabinets. Silver is in the breakfront and butler’s pantry.

    in reply to: Crendenza! #1379733
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    Credenza
    Sideboard a/k/a Buffet
    Breakfront a/k/a China Cabinet a/k/a Hutch
    Sofa a/k/a Couch a/a Chesterfield
    Etagere a/k/a Room Divider a/k/a wall unit

    The fancier the name the higher the price

    Originally, these words meant different things: e/g/ A Breakfront has drawers and/or cabinets below and glass fronted doors to shelves above. The lines of the front are broken…the center section may protrude several inches further from the wall from the side sections. A china cabinet will be all the same depth and usually only one (or one set) of doors. A hutch will be open shelving on top. But today they are used interchangeably.

    Mrs. CTL is a designer. I have education by osmosis

    in reply to: WHY IS IT HARD TO stop smoking? #1379726
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    Nicotine ADDICTION…………….
    Smoking is not a habit, but an addiction. It takes a serious commitment and medical and psychological help/support to beat the addiction over a long period of time

    in reply to: Driving in the left lane at the speed limit #1379338
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    @Meno
    Nowhere in my post did I say it is legal to drive above the posted speed limit. Please don’t put words in my mouth and then state I said something was legal.

    Many states have a ‘fair and reasonable’ doctrine that can be used in defense of a traffic ticket. For example:
    ‘Your honor, there day was sunny and clear. There was little traffic, tghe car ahead of me in the right hand lane was only going 55 in a 65MPH posted zone. I accelerated in the left lane to 68 MPH to overtake the slow car, returned to the right hand lane and resumed a speed of 64MPH.’

    Police radar guns clock a diriver at an instant in time, there is no recording of how long you exceeded the speed limit to decide whether or not to issue a citation.

    in reply to: Driving in the left lane at the speed limit #1379327
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    Joseph…………….
    It is illegal to drive in the left lane of a multi-lane highway in CT at the posted speed limit or any speed for any appreciable distance or length of time. The left lane is a passing lane, It is to be used for overtaking slower cars in the right lanes, after you have passed the slow car you should be returning to the right hand or middle lanes for driving,

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