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  • in reply to: Banana Cake #943181
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    Is it macrobiotic?

    in reply to: Games for Shabbos #1191252
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    Any game which normally entails writing (e.g. Scrabble) might be problematic; ask a shailah.

    in reply to: Games for Shabbos #1191251
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    Wolf, I thought you would point out that Shabbos in the spring is the same length as in the fall.

    Talmud, how about chess?

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943039
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    I think every tzarah that shouldn’t come upon us is a z’chus, but we still refer to “g’zeiros raos” and daven that we shouldn’t have yissurim.

    in reply to: Brainwashing college graduates #943002
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    Are college graduates easier or harder to brainwash?

    Easier than college students, harder than BY students.

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943037
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    CAD, good point, but I assume that some colds, if the sufferer wasn’t neglectful of their health, are indeed b’ydei shomayim (and I was going with T613’s example).

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943035
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    Thanks, Sam.

    in reply to: Not hiring divorcees #943153
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    Divorced women are generally excellent employees who can spend more time with students then others.

    I would sooner hear that argument made for childless employees than divorced ones.

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943033
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    Interjection, that’s exactly what I was driving at.

    Talmud, IIRC, charatah on a mitzvah also cancels it (I don’t recall that it turns it into an aveirah, though).

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943030
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    It may prevent a worse calamity, but the cold itself is unpleasant and was not necessary for the result – ???? ?????? ?????. I would call it a “bad” gezeirah, yet still thank Hashem for it.

    in reply to: Not hiring divorcees #943149
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    Even if this is true, we would need to hear the school’s side (and I doubt it’s true).

    in reply to: Smart people and the marketplace of ideas #943126
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    There is an ultimate truth – the Torah. I think we need to distinguish between ideas which are within a Torah framework (eilu v’eilu) and those which are not.

    There’s no guarantee that one will choose the logical, truthful idea over the the false idea which is either presented better or more appealling to the person’s bias.

    in reply to: Brainwashing in graduate school #943006
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    T613,

    You should have started a new thread to respond. It would’ve made it easier to find.

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943028
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    The cold is still a gezeirah. Hashem could have arranged for you to keep your job without a cold.

    Sorry for interrupting again.

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943026
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    Decree

    in reply to: Ayin Hara/Gezairos #943024
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    but you cannot change a good one to a bad one.

    Are you sure you’re talking about a gezeirah, not a n’vuah?

    in reply to: The Rabbi who saved Passover #942950
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    Well, I found the story based on the thread title, so there was another point as well.

    in reply to: Smart people and the marketplace of ideas #943113
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    Thus is stated.

    in reply to: The Rabbi who saved Passover #942948
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    HaLeiVi, GIYF.

    in reply to: Smart people and the marketplace of ideas #943111
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    Yitayningwut, depending on what “da mah shetashiv” means, it may not be out obligation to argue at all.

    Besides, pba made a pretty decent argument for censorship. If your IHNYRP can’t understand that there are other convincing factors besides logic, maybe he’s not so IH.

    in reply to: Smart people and the marketplace of ideas #943109
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    So what you’re saying is that it’s not pragmatic to keep the halacha regarding this.

    I don’t care, I’ll keep the halacha anyways. If b’derech hateva, that means that I have fewer tools with which to do kiruv, so be it. If He made the rules, I’ll leave it up to Him to take care of His children where the amount of hishtadlus I can do is limited.

    in reply to: Macrobiotic Seminaries In Israel – is there one? #943209
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    Not going to BJJ: bad for shidduchim.

    Wanting macrobiotic food: bad for shidduchim.

    14 years old: good for shidduchim.

    in reply to: Smart people and the marketplace of ideas #943104
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    It depends, I guess, on what the topic is. Certain ideas are assur to listen to.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014339
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    Brainwashing is when the convincing becomes subliminal.

    Do you mean like, for example, constantly singing Torah Tzivah Lanu Moshe to an infant?

    in reply to: Oversupply of Shadchanim? No Need for More Shadchanim? #942759
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    Gamanit , under this username.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943497
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    Mdd, I’m in full agreement with you here, but can you please spare us the bold? It makes it seem like you need to shout to be heard, and in reality (in this case), your words speak for themselves.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943496
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    DY: In all fairness, I believe what ROB is saying is that the quantity of learning was greater, even if the number of full time learners was not

    If he would argue that way, I would accuse him of using the same type of “pure sophistry” which he attributed to mdd.

    I know it’s a mathematical possibility, which is why I used the term “difficult” rather than “impossible” (to fathom).

    in reply to: Oversupply of Shadchanim? No Need for More Shadchanim? #942757
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    I am a proponent of the age gap theory, but I don’t think it’s the only issue. There are fewer older single boys than girls, but there are still plenty of older boys, and increased efforts to match singles can help.

    Also, some have claimed that the 22, 23, 24, & 25 test old boys all want the same 19-20 year old girls. If that’s true, then more effective shadchanus should get the boys married younger, thus reducing the age gap.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943488
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    ZD, How could things have been worse than the holocaust other than every jew wiped out.

    You assume that there was enough talmud Torah to protect, yet it didn’t. You too are guilty of denying the words of Chaza”l, and making up facts to bolster your position.

    ROB, in other discussions, you claimed that kollel en masse is a new innovation.

    Would you choose army or kollel?

    I am sure you know that throughout the centuries, wealthy jews always took as their sons-in law talmidei chachomim and helped them for years to study. (until they got a position, by the way). What people object to today is the blanket acceptance that everone should learn in a kollel “le-olam vo-ed”. THAT- for sure- was never the case and that, for sure, will bankrupt us. Take selected individuals- help them for a number of years and to that, no one would object.

    (other places as well, IIRC)

    Now you claim that there was more learning then than now (which would be difficult to fathom if so many fewer people were learning full time).

    Your facts seem to change depending on the argument.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943482
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    ROB, you do realize that your position is against Chaza”l, don’t you? And then you invented history to prove your point.

    in reply to: Best Brand of Pickles #942677
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    so I threw it out

    That’s okay, they were probably ??? ???? ????? ????. 😉

    in reply to: The incredible Star-K #987570
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    Popa, their job is to make sure the products they certify are indeed kosher. If they don’t promptly publicize which ones are okay even without a printed symbol, they’re not necessarily doing themselves or the Boston Beer Co. any favors, but that’s their business.

    in reply to: Tzitzis in or Tzitzis out? #984353
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    Yeshivah world should not become not your mora dasrah.

    Welcome, Yosef. That disclaimer has been oft repeated here, but a reminder can’t hurt.

    Without taking halachah l’maaseh, many of us do enjoy and gain from the discussion.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943471
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    Avi K.,

    You probably do think that way. It’s a product of your negative view of Chareidim, but divorced from reality.

    in reply to: Tzitzis in or Tzitzis out? #984348
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    Rabbi Perfect, Veltz was being facetious.

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943467
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    anyone who goes to Chareidi neighborhoods (outside) and public libraries during seder hours knows that many of those registered are not killing themselves in the tent of Tora.

    What do you think you’ll find in the Beis Midrash?

    in reply to: Pesach is over! CHAMETZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #1074728
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    147, Torah Sheba’al Peh.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014313
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    VM, the whole world suffers from low self esteem, the frum just don’t mask it with gaavah as much.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014312
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    At least your brain will be washed before you donate it. (That’s about all I could make out from your last post).

    in reply to: Tzitzis in or Tzitzis out? #984346
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    Only goyim wear their tzitzis tucked in.

    Nah, goyim wear the ones that drag on the floor, with techeiles.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014309
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    So you think Bais Yaakov likes to cultivate low self esteem? That’s ludicrous.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014301
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    So it seems that your complaint isn’t against the “system”, it’s against a few insensitive individuals.

    in reply to: How many times did you take the road test? #942809
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    Gamanit: ?

    In other words, popa wiggled out of it very nicely.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014298
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    Aha. That’s what you meant by brainwashing?

    in reply to: Is Israel bent on losing their protection? #943463
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    The terrorists are rashaim, period.

    They are indeed reshaim. There are reshaim who seek to destroy us in every generation – ??? ??? ???? ?????? ????? ????????. How unsuccessful they are is related to our zechuyos. You can scrap the “period”.

    I don’t like the OP’s seeming attitude of “I told you so”, and I don’t know that we can point at any particular tragedy and blame it on the plans of the Jewish reshaim’s plans, but I am scared for the security of the inhabitants of the Holy Land, and the rest of the world’s Yidden as well, with the decreased zechuyos.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014293
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    Vogue, that was vague.

    in reply to: Tzitzis in or Tzitzis out? #984337
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    ‘???? ????? ??? ?’ ???? ?

    in reply to: Tzitzis in or Tzitzis out? #984336
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    Yanki613, yes, that’s why it’s only towards the mikveh.

    in reply to: Good Communities Outside of NY #1153508
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    GAW,

    My relative in the “Five Towns” tells me that housing in Far Rockaway proper is significantly more expensive than Lawrence. Something to do with Real Estate taxes, and the more “Yeshivish” crowd wanting to live in Far Rockaway, driving the prices up.

    It’s true that Far Rockaway is more a desired location for the “Yeshivish” crowd than Lawrence, but the rest is not true AFAIK.

    in reply to: Tzitzis in or Tzitzis out? #984331
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    Crisis, that’s why when going towards the mikvah, one does not cover oneself.

    Truthsharer, just because it may make some sense to connect them doesn’t mean they’re the same. Also, those who put their payos behind their ears are not hiding them. They are still visible.

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