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  • in reply to: Trumpamania? #2052158
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    TSB: As the Alpha Kopfinizer in the CR, I must respectfully disagree with your bizarre perception of the state of the American political system and the choices available. I’ve noted repeatedly that there are multiple Republican leaders in the state and federal government whose policies are generally aligned with Trump but whose persona, values and principles are exemplary w/o the racist, misogynistic and narcissistic baggage. The fact that you’ve tied yourself to the latter says more about you than your political ideology.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2052127
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    AAQ: My initial understanding was the the OP was looking for one of the more moderneshe yeshivos offering a more robust secular program with AP courses etc. that would be attractive to one of the top colleges. The tuition at these “upper schools” as they are sometimes know in NYC, Washington DC, LA, South Florida are in the $25K-$29K range plus additional fees. Most offer tutition assistance and scholarships so including the financial aid would reduce these amounts depending on the OP’s level of financial need. They are still a bargain compared to the top “private” high schools where tuitions range up to $50,000/year w/o even including the cost of dorm living for OOT students.

    While not always true, the tuition at the yeshivos offering a lower level of secular programs is lower than those that do.

    Any just for the record, my initial post reference “Ivy League and OTHER good schools”. …Some Ivy schools not in the top rankings for certain fields anymore an you obviously can get a great education in a number of State schools.

    in reply to: the most delicious food ever #2052036
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    Poutine is perhaps the best reason to stay south of the 45th parallel ….if you yearn for burnt french fries covered with a greyish-orange gravy and topped with cholov yisroel cheese curds that taste like the small pink colored rubber erasers you used in elementary school than I guess you’ll have to find a chavrusah in Kiryas Tosh.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2052002
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    TS Baum….I’ll perhaps agree with respect to lawyers, but we do need more professionals who approach their disciplines with a frum hashkafah. However, I just don’t recall ever hearing a frum mother kvelling about her son, the plumber or FedEx driver.

    in reply to: Danger of Deer In Monsey – Traffic Accidents #2051935
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    RMC is the Rare Meat Company, a source of kosher venison and bison we discovered while spending 6 months in London just prior to Covid. They had hashgacha from the Federation Vaad and “shecht to order” based on customer reservations. Aside from the obvious kashruth issues in terms of meat schechted from from a cow or sheep (considered a domesticated behemah) versus the challenges of shechting a deer (a chayah). There were also UK-specific rules against domestic shechita of deer so they had to be imported from the Continent. The quality of their products were outstanding but their prices were very high in comparison to Aarons and other domestic U.S. suppliers of venison etc. we have used since we got back in 2020.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2051933
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    BY: What part of the country are you located and what minimum level of limudei torah are you seeking? As noted above, there are good yeshivos on the west coast, Boston, Florida, Chicago, Philadelphia etc. in addition to the more well-known names in the NYC/NJ metro area that offer excellent secular programs whose graduates go on to to Ivy league and other highly-rated colleges. They range from MO to more frum. What are YOU looking for??

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2051911
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    For less than $30,000/year (with tuition assistance), there are multiple MO yeshivos in the U.S. that offer an excellent secular education along with high quality limudei torah with rabbonim who are skilled in chinuch along with their daas torah. It really depends on whether you are looking to have your kids educated in secular studies to the minimal levels necessary to earn a parnassah and function in society to wanting them to have a more fully balanced education that will allow them to excel in a professional career should they decide to pursue that option. We need frum doctors, lawyers, engineers, computer scientists etc. and they will not magically appear from graduates of yeshivos who can only mimimally function in language, science and mathematical disciplines. Yes, there are a small percentage of self-taught yungerleit who manage to go on to graduate school and excel but the are a small percentage and definitely NOT the norm.

    in reply to: Danger of Deer In Monsey – Traffic Accidents #2051853
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    Has anyone explored humane capture of the deer and contracting with one of several really outstanding chassideshe shechitas in the area for purpose of supplyingh venison to local markets. Venison is the healthiest of all red meats with less than 2% fat (that’s less than skinless chicken), fewer calories than other red meat varieties, and the highest protein content of any major meat. It would be a lot cheaper than purchasing from RMC (the only source I know of that consistently stocks venison with a glatt mehadrin hashgacha.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2051724
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    Lots of yeshivos provide good secular programs to balance their limudei torah…..are you looking for a yeshiva in EY or the U.S. …..if the latter, what part of the country??

    in reply to: weekend #2051698
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    Perhaps should have asked the OP, what is meant by a “long weekend” (i.e. 4 days/3 nights) and what kind of “vacation” focus are you looking for this time of year (i.e. skiing in New England , somewhere warm on the beach, amusement park for the kids, hiking in one of the National Parks in the southwest)

    in reply to: weekend #2051690
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    CA: There is always a minyan at the Chabad at Dartmouth in Hanover and there used to be a minyan in Bethlehem but I haven’t been there in more than 10 years so have no idea if they are still in existence and if so, are ‘seasonal” (I was there in the summer).

    in reply to: weekend #2051588
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    I’d second UJM’s Arizona suggestion. As you know, the contractor being used for the Maricopa County Audit, the Ninja Warriors, just went out of businesses after being unable to find any credible evidence of the BIG STEAL. Nonetheless, the State Republican party is pushing forward and is now seeking “volunteers” for a statewide door-to-door canvasing of voters to match them up with ballots. You and the mishpacha can earn some “public service” credits by going to their website to volunteer.
    P.S. While your out there, don’t miss Samarkand Glatt Restaurant in Phoenix. Best borscht you’ll find outside of Brighton Beach

    in reply to: Trumpamania? #2051463
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    AAQ: Moishiach will come before HC gets nominated again….sadly, I can’t say the same thing for DJT

    in reply to: Trumpamania? #2051445
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    Watch/listen to the ongoing rant at the MAGA event in Arizona and decide if you really want a 2nd term. My biggest issue right now is can the Dems find someone other than Biden/Harris to run in ’24

    in reply to: Trumpamania? #2051431
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    ” frum Jews should always be behind brown or black haired politicians”

    There should be exceptions for folically-challenged but otherwise loyal Trumpkopf politicians like crazy Rudy but they should at least be required to use a hair coloring agent that doesn’t run down the side of their face during news conferences.

    in reply to: Trumpamania? #2051215
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    Rightwriter: You are totally accurate in your observation of something really wierdhas happened to Trumpkopf from having received a covid booster shot. Does anyone remember the epic movie , “The Incredible Hulk”. Well think of the new Trumpkopf as The Incredible Orange Hulk (rather than green). Clearly there was some unanticipated biochemical reaction between his body and the mRNA vaccine booster. There are unconfirmed reports he was seen hugging a “Dr. Fauci blowup doll” at a fund raising event for Mitch McConnell at Mar a Lago earlier this week while dancing to the new Lipa Schmeltzer arrangement of “YMCA”.

    in reply to: Rapid testing for flight to Israel #2050943
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    “Are there any frum doctors in Brooklyn or Queens doing tests on a motzei shabbos?”

    The immigration authorities do NOT require a test from a FRUM doctor or nurse. If you can find a qualified galach administering the tests, thats fine. They don’t care about the hashkafah of the testing firm. There are also 24 hour tests being offered now at JFK and the urgent care near the Belt Parkway by the JFK entrance.

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2050802
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    Given that in the early stages there almost always is a question of how do you balance the potential harm to an alleged abuser’s reputation with the potential harm to victims if you remain silent? Once allegations are shared (even if done “confidentially”) the word always gets out. At the same time, delay can inflict lifetime trauma on the victims. It will always be a difficult call but after years of giving chashuvah rabbonim and askanim the benefit of the doubt, the pendulum has clearly moved in the direction of putting the interests of victims first.

    in reply to: Vaccine Mandates #2050107
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    “According to VAERS data, which granted may be misleading for a variety of reasons, approx 20k died from the Vaccine, with tens of more thousands seriously injured…”
    Not only is the so called “VAERS data” misleading (as you acknowledge), it is entirely false and being used as part of an intentional misinformation campaign by anti-vaxers and those for whom vaccination has become a political wedge issue. However, by initially overstating vaccination benefits, the Dems have only themselves to blame for creating a fertile reception for these anti-vax lies.

    in reply to: Hours of sleep per night #2050003
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    AAQ: Azoy….I guess I was following the segulah backwards and in a slightly difference hourly allocation.

    in reply to: Tomorrow Segula for Parnasa, Saying Parashas Haman #2049876
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    “I think it’s a great hoax…”
    The entire issue of “segulahs” and their legitimacy is a really grey area in our hashkafah with some holding strongly by certain segulahs associated with very narrow and specific actions (i.e. being machmir on a certain mitzvah at a certain time/location) or more generally “buying a segulah” by giving tzadakah to a Rav/Mosdos to daven on your behalf for one/multiple segulahs, sometimes linked to a yahrtzeit at the kever of a big tzadik. There are frequent ads on all the frum media an websites promoting various segulahs linked to financial donations.

    Bottom line is that some segulahs appear to have strong foundations simply based on their “sponsorship” whereas others appear borderline new age kefirah. I guess its all based on the emunah of whoever is seeking the segulah, the credibility of the sponsorship and their willingness to pay.

    in reply to: Tomorrow Segula for Parnasa, Saying Parashas Haman #2049967
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    MB: R’ Dovid should find some way of electronically screening emails for segulahs and ranking them by authenticity. He is one of the more “tech savy” rabbonim I’ve encountered (online of course).

    in reply to: Hours of sleep per night #2049887
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    Does anyone have a verified segulah for 6 hours (Ambien-free) continuous sleep, assuming one has followed all the usual pre-sleep protocols (i.e. limit caffein/alcohol, dark, cool BR, limit screen usage etc). I’m not a big segulah fan but might make an exception.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049523
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    The Dems have –and continue to–misstate the purpose and efficacy of the Covid vaccine. It was never meant to provide 100 percent (or even the claimed 90+ percentages cited in the EUA authorizations) against infection. The objective was to REDUCE infection rates in the context of communal spread, and REDUCE the severity of illness and rate of hospitalization for breakthrough infections. It has clearly succeed in both objectives although the metrics of that success can be debated. Yet every time we read about the infection or death someone who has been vaccinated we get the usual response of “they don’t work”. Sort of like denying global warming every time it snows.

    in reply to: David Sondik (Flying Rabbi of 13th Ave) #2049460
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    There was also another eccentric yid in Brooklyn years ago nicknamed as “Mendel the Coat Rack” who also may have been niftar since he was quite old when I remember reading about him. Its interesting how back then, we had much greater tolerance and were considerably more supportive of individuals who did not fit within the “norm” of the stereotypes we created for various segments of the tzibur. There were also some really colorful characters who were regulars at Landau’s minyanim for whom words could not fully describe.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2049447
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    Time to close out before it gets either silly or disrespectful.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2049314
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    AAQ: Brilliant protocol in its simplicity and elegance…one could always build on R Kaminetsky’s approach to use a superscript R2, R3, or R4… so as to show how incredibly “chashuvah” you think a particular Rav really is. More importantly, the news page editors could probably save two valuable lines of honorific prefixes when referencing an especially chashuvah and heilege Rav simply as R7 Gavornliker etc.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2049169
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    So I guess there isn’t any consensus on WHO is the “gadol hador”,”gadolei hador” nor is there even agreement that the terms have any relevance or real world significance. Yet, in some cases, there still seems to be a competition as to how many honorific prefixes we can put before the name of a Chashuvah Rav as if that will somehow endow anything he says/does with greater prescriptive value.

    Shabbat Shalom or a gutten Shabbos or whatever….

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049032
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    Pekak: Its not a matter of “kedusha” of a building…its the significance of what happens in that building as it affects our country and political system. . If you believe the Capital or WH have the same significance in real world terms as a post-office in Portland or a courthouse in Seattle, thats your opinion.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049027
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    100 percent true that vaccines DO work if you define “work” correctly as we have for every other vaccine in history. The public description of the vaccine efficacy metrics were screwed up from the beginning and continue to this day. They work in terms of what they were intended to do, the fail miserably in terms of what everyone from the CDC to the politicians said it would do. Worst communications in the history of public health outreach by a government agency.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2048983
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    I try to never allow anyone to find room on my left in matters of politics and social policy AND I agree that most of your points are true at at a high level….BUT, my progressive friends have OVERSTATED or MISSTATED some key facts under each of your big lies. For example, its 100 percent true that vaccines WORK but from the very beginning under Trump and continuing through the very recent past, they never should have been characterized as providing as nearly 100 percent effective against “catching covid” as compare to a proper characterization of reducing the liklihood of infection and severity of illness if you were infected. Likewise, January 6th was a violent attack on the capitol conducted almost entirely by a wierd and eclectic band of Trump supporters including many white supremacist and right wingnuts (not Antifa or a false flag FBI operation) and reflects a dangerous cancer and polarization in our political system but it was not a pre-planned and coordinated “insurrection” directed by Trump and his meshughah band of “stop the steal” supporters and not on a level with Pearl Harbor, 9/11 etc. Same with virtually your other ponts. We live in a world where there aren’t 50 shades of political grey or even one. Everything is black/white, taken to an extreme and tempered with adjectives adopted to fit the political narratives taken by each side.In a world of 15 second sound bytes, it takes too long to provide an accurate and nuanced description of reality.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2048916
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    UJM: When you aren’t engaged in your usual misogynistic trolls, you are actually one of the smartest guys in “the room” (Starbucks, not Enron Trading) and inadvertently offer really insightful and informative responses.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2048828
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    “I once met a farbrenteh satmar bochur”

    What, pray tell, is a FARBRENTEH satmar bochur

    I checked my YWN thesaurus and it too, had no clue.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2048793
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    SN: Wrong about WHAT??

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2048735
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    “The idea of Gadol Hador itself is very questionable, and has no source in Jewish tradition…”
    Tell that to the editors of this site and other frum sites who consistently use the term in what you apparently deem a form of journalistic kefirah.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2048723
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    I think UJM makes the crucial point that all of these honorific titles are relative. Not l’havdil to compare it to sports, politics or other sectors but absent objective and universally agreed upon metrics, there really is no way to “prove” who was the “greatest” or “most important” anything. That doesn’t preclude frequent media efforts to use such honorifics or even promote readership around readership surveys. Several of the above posts are really informative and educational (at least for me) as to how the concept has evolved in the past several decades.

    in reply to: Gadol vs. Gadolei Hador #2048719
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    Interesting the YWN and other frum media, have been using the honorific title of “gadol hador” for the past decade or so with respect to several of the rabbonim mentioned above as well as some post-War gadolim such as Rav Moishe, etc. Most appear to be Litvish, but Chassidim would presumably consider their own Rebbe as “their gadol”

    in reply to: Golem of Prague #2048339
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    TSB: Sounds like a frum superhero from a new Marvel production

    in reply to: Politics in US #2048330
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    AAQ: some good points but you also miss the growing trend in some deep Red jurisdictions (state and local) to actually engage in their own perverse cancel culture by enacting legislation that would literally “neutralize” discussion of slavery in the same way that stupid Texas school administrator insisted her teachers had to present “both sides” of the holocaust. Its one thing to avoid indoctrinating younger student with “guilt” for the embedded racism in America’s founding and lasting to some extent through today but to restrict teaching of the basic facts of slavery and post-civil war racism in U.S. history is the functional equivalent of Holocaust Denial to Black Americans (and I’m usually the one complaining about using the Shoah as a analogy to anything).

    in reply to: Golem of Prague #2048307
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    If these stories somehow provide some relief, stress-relaxation, emunah confirmation or whatever, then go ahead and believe them, along with some of the more outlandish promises of segulahs and other new age stuff you see advertised on frum social media sites. In most cases, they do no harm and may actually provide a positive for some. At times, they strike me as borderline kefirah but I’m not one to judge.

    in reply to: David Sondik (Flying Rabbi of 13th Ave) #2048315
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    Was he the Chabad moishichist who went around singing and engaging with guys on the street to acknowledge the rebbe etc. etc. Last I heard, he was moving to EY but perhaps Covid slowed him down

    in reply to: Politics in US #2048223
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    CA: CRT is a great social wedge issue invoked by a lot of really mindless Trump waanabees who have no clue what it means and even less awareness that it is virtually nonexistent in curricula of most public schools at the elementary and high school level (even in Blue States). However, as we have seen in recent elections in Virginia and elsewhere, it WORKS to generate both campaign contributions and votes.

    in reply to: Penniless #2048174
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    When was the last time you paid cash for anything besides a babysitter?

    Are you a Luddite?? All the babysitters in our area prefer to be paid through one of the ACH transfers like Zelle or Venmo. Most would not know what to do with “cash” anymore.

    in reply to: Penniless #2048093
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    They remain “legal tender” even though the Treasury is gradually taking them out of circulation. Some merchants may decline to accept them but all federally chartered banks by law will continue to accept them and covert to other forms of currency (coin or paper). The $2 dollar bills were withdrawn very quickly but remain legal tender.

    in reply to: Baba Sali #2048092
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    “The baba sali was the real deal..”
    So whats with the ads running on many frum websites soliciting donations for segulahs?

    in reply to: Is the enthusiastic sholom aleichem a new thing? #2047955
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    follick: So would you agree that a GREETING of “Aleichem Shalom” would not make the GREETER a Ganov under Rav Hunah’s pshat?? Either combination of the words would appear to satisfy the obligation of bestowing peace on the other party although not necessarily in proper grammatical format.

    in reply to: 🦠😷Raise Your Hand if You’re in Quarantine!😷🦠 #2047952
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    Is this the world-famous CR where ehrliche adult yidden exchange deep thoughts on lamdus and hashkafah or have I somehow dialed into my grandkid’s instagram stream with colorful emojis and mindless diversionary chit chat??

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2047856
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    When the SAME posters keep regurgitating variations of the SAME musar-posts on tzinius (moving from sheitels to neckline, to sleeve length to skirt length with an intermittent gevalt about sightings of “form-fitting” garments and starting over again with snoods, tichels or shpitzels ), mockery is an appropriate response. And no, the “mocker” may well be shomer shabbos and kashrus.

    in reply to: Is the enthusiastic sholom aleichem a new thing? #2047774
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    Its a relatively “new” thing. In the Alte heim, one yid meeting another might inquire ? וואס מאכסטו or other variations of “How are you doing bro? or”How are you?”.. What might be interpreted as a perfectly innocent question in English could simultaneously be deemed a provocation in Yiddish, a lashon which does not lend itself to happy talk. “How SHOULD I be?” might be a fairly neutral answer to the question. While theoretically possible to say “gants gut”, I don’t think I’ve ever heard that response.
    If you are a non-conformist, perhaps initiate the greeting with “aleichem shalom”, leaving the bewildered respondent to figure out whether he should revert with a “shalom aleichem” (which should have been your initial greeting” OR just echo your aleichem shalom and continue on his way trying to figure out whether he had just been dissed.

    in reply to: Putting Back Sfarim #2047719
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    Alternatively, evolve into the shul of the future in a yiddeshe metaverse, get rid of the seforim (properly), install a high speed wireless connection with hot-spots in each of the 11 rooms and create a virtual library with all the most popular seforim available on the new “Shtenderextender.Com” App (download on Apple Store). For davening on shabbosim, they will have new Apple shabbosdik virtual reality eyeglass where in lieu of siddurim, the tfillos appear before your eyes and the text moves with your eye motions. (Note: Currently available only in nusach Sfard)

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