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Ya, but where does the 12 come in???
That’s not ads from YWN, it’s your computer, I know, I’m getting it to, on every site
Welcome wannabechassidish and age2!!!
Well, they listened to your advice…it seems
Also my subtitle too…
Lol, good to see you haifagirl.
Ya, I get driven crazy when names aren’t capitalized…as you can see, my username is capitalized too.
Mine last school did too…
It’s extremely efficient!!!!
This also is very helpful when a school doesn’t allow the child/teen to have a cell phone. You explain that there are family cell phones and do not belong to the child and anyone in the family can take them at any time…
Our family does not use that, since my siblings have enough fun losing/breaking the home phones…
But out family claims my cell phone is the family’s, that’s what many people do to dodge the rule that the school sets.
But I know many people that really keep on them as family cell phones, and it is a very efficient solution!
Agree, marriage shouldn’t be determined with small things.
But what bother you about the smartphone?
What is the problem with it?
When you understand you’re problem with it, you can find a solution or a compromise on it…
Is it unfiltered internet? Games? Addictedness?
All can be solved, and talked about it with the girl, your issues with it and opinions…
I believe anything can be solved through communication.
Speak to her, and tell her your concerns
What is an unlocked phone??
One that doesn’t have a code in the begining? One that can’t be locked???
Benignman, you are right.
I didn’t ask the Rabanim, my parents did.
I know they spoke to many rabanim and they knew the situation and decided I should lie.
But don’t listen to that!
Cuz every situation is different!
You need to ask your rav, maybe in general, you shouldn’t lie, I know people who added that they won’t follow the internet policy at the end and were fine.
I’m saying, we asked, were told to lie.
But we aren’t everyone and no on e should do something based on what they heard in anonymous forum, unless they took the idea and asked people, rabanim in real life if it is a good idea or not.
I think in general you need to ask your rav, end of sentence, topic, and thread.
A good solution is one-three family phones (depending on the size of the family) they are the family’s and by all right, whoever goes out of the house may take one. Let’s say there are three phones, so always give phone number one first, to whoever needs, that way many people will use it.
If davka at that time someone else is going out, so give out the second one….
Any family member is free to take it….
and look through it…
You can also see all calls and texts online…
I am very sorry, if I came across like I was putting down that school. It would not be good for me, like everyone likes a different camp, it’s not the others are bad, it’s just that the one they found suites them more.
Oomis, I totally agree with you, that is also my general opinion.
But in this case, I labeled the school as lower, since it’s easier to just use labels.
I meant, I have been there, and seen the girls, I have neighbors, I’ve hung out a few times with girls from there in my age.
I don’t think I should put myself in such a school, it wouldn’t be good for me, I think these girls would bring me down, to levels I used to be on.
My friends agree, my parents do to.
I actually went for a interveiw there, and the first thing the principal said was “This is NOT for you!!! Go to ______ (Where I am in now)and throughout the interveiw she strongly tried to tell me to go somewhere else, and at the end said “You are certainly welcome to come to our school, we would love you, but I strongly suggest for you’re benefit to go to ___________.
I am not suggesting this is a bad school, no it is a wonderful school!!!! I love how the teachers are there, and the studies, and how they work with you, but I would be iunfluenced badly there…unlike where I am in now….
1) Yes, he did! In this situation, he did
2)Internet mostly…and other things, like the babysitting rule, and wearing skirts down to the middle of the leg (I STILL have yet to see at least 1 girl following THAT!!!) many, many things…
I am tzniyus, I do not wear skirts that barely cover the knee, my shortest skirt, isn’t that short, I wear shirts that cover more than my elbow and collar (which many girls don’t) I wear =, usually 40 denar (many girls, after school don’t wear anything) and this is a BY school…
3) Ha, there is no other school, beleive me, I wish, and I’m not flying out of the country for school, our rabanim agreed it would be bad for me….
and being in a school with higher standerds…I’ve grown higher, unlike other girls who stay the same.
The the next lower down school here is the lowest BY in the country, where the whole city is aware, most girls have iphones and boyfriends.
The next higher up school is chasidish.
So where do I go then??
Like they seriously expect more than 1/16 to keep everything. Most of the people in my school ,their parents are BT, rich, american.
Most of the girls I know watch very inappropriate stuff on their iphones or labtops, even though, you aren’t allowed internet in the house at all or a cell phone, even kosher…
We aren’t going to change my whole family’s life and turn it upside down for school.
Are family already moved way up higher than we used to be…
We weren;t going to change…
Slowly I hope one day I’ll be in those standards really, but right now….it seems like it must be a chasidish school the crazy things they ask.
Not to go out after 9 pm.
Before you babysit, ask if the family has any secular music, books, or media, or internet, if so, I’m not allowed to babysit….
Exuse them!!! That is extremely rude? You think the rabanim made such a rule?
Mazel Tov!!!
Wev’e had alot of experiences, haven’t we?
I still remember the day you joined…just a regular ordinary boring old day….
Til….
I’m happy for you LF!!!
I love my subtitle, and I wouldn’t let anyone change it…
Mods, if for dome reason you every want to change it, just add on to it….
Cuz we needed good schools, and anyway most of the people in my BY high school have much worse things than internet…they are lucky all I do is go to the CR, my e-mail, and watch disney movies with my siblings…
Thanks so much (in advance) for giving me a answer…
Post it, write, dear mods could you please change my sub to _____________
Maybe they will, maybe they won’t
maybe I will, maybe I wont -79
You think I went to ask a Rabbi if I could lie and say we signed the contract with permission from rabbanim instead of not signing or intending to keep it instead of saying that we really did not sign it or signed it with the intention of keeping it just for fun?
It makes sense to have that, but it’s so normal now everyone just lies.
We actually asked many prominent rabbeim and they told us for me and my siblings future that we are allowed to lie and sign it knowing we will not keep it at all…
Totally agree. I had to beg like not normal for my first one…
You forgot ME!!! I’m pretty old…2 and 1/2 years…
SiDi, what’s with?
What has gotten you down?
No you aren’t, Iv’e seen you try to have a fight…
Just cuz you can beat girls dosen’t mean you can beat him!
Yup,I havta agree.
Pity you guyz can’t meet in real life…
Uch, the newer generation taking over…
funnybone, why so serious?
This IS a serious matter, though I think having suicidal thoughts is 100 percent normal in anyone in their teens and depending also in their pre/after teens too.
I have yet to meet someone my age who doesn’t…
Have you seen the amount of homework we get? And tests? And find ourselves and fit in, have self esteem, find our own connection with Hashem and judiasm and this is all for a regular typical teen. What if that teen is also the oldest at home? Or is having something going thru her life or is in a not-norm environment…???
Allteens have suicidal thoughts…so whaty is your solution?
Everyone should take pills???
I think if someone is so serious that everything they see, they think of a way to use it to kill themselves, that is dangerous….
But a passing thought that lasts no more than 3-5 min. in normal…
I’m really sorry you are feeling this way, I davened for you at the kosel twice these past weeks.
You need to find help.
Stay strong
I’d rename this place the chocolate room.
Why?
I have no idea, just sounds cool.
Ya, that isn’t right.
You could try and talk to her, or write an e-mail to her about how you feel…
I’ll go red, I don’t know if I’ll be available to actually be in it, seeing I can only be on here when my parents don’t see…
Hopefully I’ll be in most of the games!!!
SO GO RED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Were gonna win 4 sure 4 sure, were gonna win 4 sure….
Well, I can first hand tell you that I had K9 and I broke through it so well that it was under my own password and I could unblock any site for like an hour and no one would know.
I found out how to break thru on the internet, but if you think whoever it is won’t go through the required steps to break through that took a half an hour, go ahead and install it.
Well, I canfisthand tell you that I had K9 and I broke through it so well that it was under my own password and I
OOOH!!!!!!!!!!1
I LOVE camp songs!!!
I know Tonz…..!!!!
Please do.
If the mods won’t allow something it IS for a good reason and for yours and everyone’s own good.
They don’t take random people as mods…They davka take people who won’t be biased and sometimes they won’t allow something cuz it’s getting too personal.
C.I. boy, I have to agree.
But I tend to go against society, and try to just remember what Hashem thinks of me…
You see here? I don’t stop posting just cuz it seems no one reads it….
Everyone knows, accapella is only during omer…not the 3 weeks…
Never heard of hearing any type of acapella during the 3 weeks…
Wow, I am really outta sync here.
Seems like no one even read what I had to say….
Buisness1, sounds like you know alot, chaval you weren’t around here when I was….you sound like you could of been pretty helpful, and now I stooped posting personal info here, so ya…
Well I wish a lot of hatzlacha, and I guess the CR just isn’t for me anymore…I feel so out of it…like my opinion dosen’t much count here since I stopped posting so much…
mystatetrooper: Be lucky they are accepting you back! I wish my school was that easy to agree!!!