Shopping613 🌠

Thank you very much!!!!!!!!!

We should be content.

Knowing that what we haver is perfect for us and the best thing should make us love HK”BH and be content with ourselves.

Good Baruch Hashem, I’m still here…more or less.

Of course, when one is not posting, he/she is lurking! It’s a known thing!!!

I also think about you too….thanks!

Thanks, I’m trying to be strong…wonder if I’m succeeding…

Enough about old boring me, how’s everything by you?

How is marrige suiting you? Your husband must be treating you like the gem you are!!!!

Thanks for showing your face (or posts I guess)

MAZEL TOV!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She got engaged a few months ago, I remember, so I guess she is married by now.

People who insulted Lord Voldemort and were turned into cats.

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+1 Goq.

I think a person needs to be:

Open minded, open for friendship, treats you like a human being and kindly, and has decent middos.

That’s really the crux of it, if you aren’t openminded or able to treat me like a decent human being, there is nothing to talk about.

Thanks, I am a very strong believer that there is no freason not to have peace, seeing we are all mature adults and can compromise….

I didn’t think at all into mine.

I wanted something quickly, so whatever popped into my head..but I couyldn’t DREAM about changing it…I’m just too much shopping613,no????

I also like expressing myself here, no one listens to me in real life, occasionally I get a comment here…I just wish I was 1) On USA time like everyone else, so I didn’t miss all action and 2) I had enough time to participate in a the jokes, the teen threads, and spiritual ones, and think of something worthwhile to write…

I really hoped on getting to know both of you, eftach and randomex more….

pity….I’m so outta the loop at this point

eftach: I also thought you were a boy….I haven’t seen most of your posts cuz high school keeps me busy 😉 though, you just seemed like a boy….

Welcomre to the CR!!! I hope you stay for a while, you seem like a very sweet person!

I like my ST, B”H, so I’m totally fine.

I am shopping613. I was, I am, and I will forever be known as shopping613.

I will miss you Good LUCK!

In Israel I keep hearing Shofars extremely often, nothing mmore though. Ussualy strange noises comes from fighter planes…but that’s really it.

Same story, but this time is was the father who paid (Men don’t get this stuff, how much to pay babysitters) so he paid her 50 DOLLARS for an hour….

Well, that is why you have to be careful.

I read a story about someone who put a camera in her house while a babysitter was there…and from there she found out the babysitter just drugged up the kids and did nothing and almost killed them…

I personally think the best way to hire someone is to:

A) Either get a recommendation, AND ask for refrences. Or just do yourself a favor and use someone you know either relative, family friend, or neighbor (you can’t hide much from neighbors when you have cardboard as a wall)

B) Make sure you know her parents, and her school. If something DOES happen, you can be sure she will get in a lot of trouble or even kicked out…

C) Always keep in mind you can trust no one fully except Hashem, always look out for red flags…and maybe hide a camera somewhere if you a really scared.

But obviously, anything in life can go wrong, anyone can betray you, not just a babysitter. If you have checked and referenced her, that is all you can do.

It’s like a shidduch, you can look, and dig, and try.

But in the end, keep in mind it’s all up to Hahsem

I believe nothing more needs to be said over THAT article and veiw on babysitting, everything in life involves risks, you can either take them or not. Even eating (you could choke) and sleeping (you could fall, sleepwalk, sleep choke).

If there is, they are smart enough not to try and contact us.

@buisness1, Thanks…I feel very ggod, that’s the 3rd person this week who told me I got much more mature and stronger…

@thechoiceismine, the first time I had a suicidal thought I thought I must be crazy, I spoke to all my friends, truns out it is normal to have them one in a while, 24/7, or more than once a day, is NOT okay!!!!

If everytime you pass something, you think of a way to use it to commit suicide, than you need to see someone immediately.

I meant that everyone is struggling, and everyone has the same thoughts of suicide, low self esteem, self pity, self hate a lot.

A lot but not extremely often….it really depends on the situation, but I repeat, if you are getting suicidal thoughts one a day or more than 4 times a week and they are strong, takes at least a few minutes to pass, than that is bad….

And about depending on other for self worth, I also beleive that it isn’t good, but sometimes there is no other option! He has no support from friends or family….

leave it alone, it’s true keepclibing must first love himself, and figure out, list the parts of himself he likes, and help his self esteeem but with no support that’s impossible. Currently this is his support, until he gets something else, like someone in real life who can help him and he can trust.

I know what I’m talking about, from expirience, you can check up past threads on me and see.

@KEEP CLIMBING, have you listened to the song keep climbing? just wondering. I’m happy to hear things are better, and remeber, don’t let anyone tell you you are not normal, its shttoyot, and keep being strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It was one sentance you could of edited out…ONE SENTANCE…!!!!!

I worked hard, and wrote something extremely long and meaningful that cannot just be replicated….something much more than the other trivial threads going right now….

I just think you mods should of taken me into account, is there anyway to restore it and edit out that sentance….or e-mail it to me and I will edit it….I practiacally cried writing it, I davened for him at the kosel…please!!!!!!

You bring back my deleted posts…

Thank you, I am waiting VERY patiently!

Sometimes there IS a valid reason to throw out a girl, not just excuses for money, or just not wanting to deal with her.

But in those cases, the girl is STILL the schools responsibility, and if a big factor of her future.

How would they like it if she told everyone that was the reason she went OTD, because she was thrown out for a valid reason or not valid reason (most times it is NOT a valid reason)

In any case, the school is responsible or warning her before hand, a month at least, giving warning before that, recommending a better suited school for her needs and helping her get in to there and explaining to that school why she was thrown out and how their school has better tools for that certain girl.

No girl should be found on the street when 2 days before she was in a school and had no warning and has no where to go.

If the girl doesn’t take the recommended school(s) her first school saw as better suited for her, it is no longer their responsibility, they warned her, helped her, and they can do no more.

Anything less than that, in just plain not decent and the principal should be fired….

Me 3!!!

I’m always doing that…

Tell me is that all jewish music??? How can I get some from you???

I am sorry, that must be so hard…

I’m sure he didn’t do it stam, there was a good reason.

And either way, he’s probobly also taking it hard…

Time is the best medicine, I’m sure that this experience is just going to make you stronger and B”H it will help you be ready for the right when he comes….

Hatzlacha!

Sorry, no advice for you!

I personally think it’s much safer here than in the USA, and it’s actually really cool to see the rockets blow up in the sky..

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Many girls didn’t get into sem, you got in, you can afford it, don’t miss this opportunity!!!