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  • in reply to: Dental Insurance #2173955
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    “However, it’s important to realize that insurance companies may not be obligated to cover the cost of these treatments. Since their primary objective is to remain profitable and sustainable, they may reject claims and requests that may be seen as not necessary in order to reduce costs.c

    Yes I realize that. I’ve said thst a few times. Thst is EXACTLY the problem putting profit above patient care

    “In that world, there are often significant wait times for tests, and appointments can be months away.”

    1. In my world I have that too
    2. Waiting for a test thst will happen (ie get paid for) is better than an immediate test thst won’t happen (ie get paid for).

    (Its easy to say if so important just pay for it for many that’s not an option)

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2173775
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    2scents

    for sure I do it all the time.
    I don’t think its a good system. that was all I was saying.

    “– In terms of payment or patient autonomy?”

    I guess both. I’m saying if a Doctor thinks patient would benefit from a drug/scan etc the doctor should be able to prescribe it and the patietn get it.
    I do not think a bureaucrat , RN etc should be able to deny treatment (I have a colleague who when on a peer to peer call, if the Insurance company says they do not think test or whatever is indicated, he asks them their name and if they are licensed to practice in NY, he explains he is putting them in the chart as a consultant who advised that the test is not necessary, he claims this always works). what I imagine is a world where if a doctor orders a test it is done and paid for. what I am less certain about is if doctor doesn’t think its indicated If by the book or guidelines Pt doesn’t need antibiotics Scan etc. but the patient begs so Its prescribed it anyway . In my perfect world should we all pay for that? I’m not sure. But this is a minor point I just threw in as an after thought

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2173613
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    2scents

    Tried
    a. didn’t work He had no symptoms.
    IVe since hinted to patients to exaggerate their symptoms, Its easy to get a CT scan in ED, though I hope you appreciate the absurdity of this suggestion, Lie, commit insurance fraud to get Health care you have paid for already

    b. It was more than 500, and no they didn’t have that much lying around. Though perhaps I should have pushed harder. Renal cell carcinoma does not tend to Grow quickly I was optomistic that they would eventually agree to pay for the scan (as they did). Maybe I should have told him to just pay and figth later to get reimbursed. I doubt it would have changed anything (as I mentioned earleir) but it is something I think about

    C. Ultrasound was equivocal

    CA
    no its better for doctors and/or the patients to decide

    DrP
    “We seem to agree that CEOs make lots of money in their positions and that high paid CEOs are needed for the health insurance companies to function.”
    disagree completely

    ” We also agree that (as unfortunate as it may be) CEOs (and companies) need to either be aggressive in denying claims (lawfully or unlawfully) to keep premiums down or they’ll either go bankrupt or put out of business by the competition. (It’s wrong, I know, but that’s the only way it can function.) ”

    Agree but while you view that as a feature. To me hat is a bug. In other words yes That is the way it has to be to function this way. My reply is: It cant be that way there fore it shouldnt function this way. we need a new system. Period.

    ” We finally seem to agree that a physician should be doing everything for the best interest of a patient and setting aside how his / her decision will affect the bottom line of the company.”
    Not sure that was ever in dispute. Though this seems to contradict your previous statement “…CEOs (and companies) need to either be aggressive in denying claims…”

    “What we seem to disagree on is who should be running the healthcare in this country.”

    Yes becasue of what yyou addmitted was “as unfortunate as it may be” If it is unfortunate, change it! It doesnt HAVE to be this way. We chose this.

    “Despite all the problems going on with corporations running healthcare as a business I still think it’s the lesser of the two evils. Just because there are decisions that are being made that are morally wrong doesn’t mean the alternative is better.”

    YES! that is where we disagree. As I said from one of my first posts

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2173624
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    Dr P longer response is pending

    My reply to this paragraph is hard to follow so I’ll reword it

    “We also agree that (as unfortunate as it may be) CEOs (and companies) need to either be aggressive in denying claims (lawfully or unlawfully) to keep premiums down or they’ll either go bankrupt or put out of business by the competition. (It’s wrong, I know, but that’s the only way it can function.) ”

    Depends what we mean by agree. Put another way it depends on starting point . Yes for Insurance companies to make a profit They have to deny claims. I a gree with that. We both agree that this is an “unfortunate” situation.
    You say too bad “that’s the only way it can function”
    I say denying healthcare is a non starter if thats the only way it can function, then we need a different way. Period If that means Insurance will no longer be the lucrative field it is (one that MADE money during a pandemic!!!) and instead we a need a non-for profit system or Government run Ok so be it. But denying healthcare a patient and or doctor* deems neccesary is a non-starter for me

    * who should “win” when the patient and doctor disagree is a good question and one that potentially needs to be worked out. I’m not certain myself. but I am sure it shouldnt be a bureaucrat or nurse who glanced a t the chart

    in reply to: Anti-Semitism refuted by Non-Jewish Philosopher #2172629
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    “In other words, Jean-Paul Sartre stated that anti-Semitism is NOT based on logic!”

    I dont understand the point of this thread.

    did you think there was some logic to anti-semitism?

    Do you think an Anti-semite will say “Oh wait I didnt realize a “highly-respected” philosphper said my views were illogical; I guess Jews are ok after all”

    I dont really get it

    in reply to: Can We Please Sing ונהפוך הוא correctly? #2171907
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    RE

    I give up. How many?

    in reply to: Can We Please Sing ונהפוך הוא correctly? #2171568
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    1) I have never heard it with a cholam, maybe a sh’va na
    2) “travesty” might be a bit much. its a song, I don’t hink there is any halachic requirment or even hiddur to pronounce the words correctly.
    3) If the vowelezation bothers you wait until you find out the passuk doesnt say “Venahapach venahapahc venahapach venahapach venapachu hu…”

    in reply to: Dissapointed #2171456
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    complaining that there is nothing new is also something that gets rehashed again and again

    in reply to: climbing is not immature #2170439
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    spot

    I assume you were talking to mentsch. while what he said was “so patently false” he was being sarcastic. He doesn’t really mean that this content if the height of maturity and not attention thinking.

    Avira didnt say anything remotely false

    in reply to: Shalach Manos – Is Bourbon a food? #2169383
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    Shimon

    why would that be a question?

    in reply to: Shalach Manos – Is Bourbon a food? #2169349
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    Why not?
    Magen Avraham, Mishna Berura say drink is ok – obviously as one min

    in reply to: Does Netilas Neshama on Shabbos Only Apply At the Organism Level? #2169171
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    Only organisms and even them only organisms that are visible when born.
    Gemra says it is mutar to kill a kinah on shabbos since it isnt born. Rishonim (eg Rashi) explain to mean they spontaneously generate though today the common interpretation is that as far as the eye can see (without microscopic aide) they seem spontaneously generate.
    But certainly there is no issur to spray lysol although it is killing organisms or take antibiotics (as far as netilas neshama goes)

    in reply to: Rabbeim- ditch the drink #2169030
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    “Since when is a rebbi off duty from being appropriate?”

    Never!

    Drinking on Purim though is not inappropriate. In fact it is entirely appropriate

    in reply to: Rabbeim- ditch the drink #2168983
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    Momma

    you ask “Are you speaking of ALL Rabbeim? Do you know ALL Rabbeim???”

    I completely agree with Avira.
    While obviously he and I do not know “all Rabbeim” Ive visited enough on Purim (and I dont think Ive gone to the same yeshivos as Avira) . NEVER have any of the Rabbeim exhibited any unwanted behavior.
    you ask “Imagine if you showed up to school drunk as a skunk? ” This is silly. surely you are familiar with Shlomo’ Hamelech’s L’kaol Zeman va’es Imagine if Rebbe showed up to yeshiva wearing slippers and then sat on the floor? Yet On Tisha’s baav that is what he does. There is a time for everything, yes being drunk on a random tuesday in school is very very inappropriate (bit of an understatement) , that has nothing to do wit h anything.

    What is a problem is underage drinking particularly when it gets out of hand. A teenager getting a shot from this Rebe and then a shot from that Rebbe. That can become a problem. But as for the Rabbeim themselves you are simply misinformed

    in reply to: The Leader We Pray For by Chananya Weissman #2168971
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    UJM

    I was literally going to say the same exact thing (though perhaps with a few typos)

    in reply to: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2167136
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    SR

    “Just because someone is married, that does not prove that he or she is “an expert”.”

    for sure true. but that has nothing to dio with anything.

    It would be weird for someone poor to give advice “how to become a millionaire” does that mean that EVERY millionaire can give such advice? Of course not some got lucky .

    similarly it is weird for a old single bitter gut to give advice “how to get married” does that mean every married person has to what to offer on the subject? OF course not

    in reply to: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2166869
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    Square

    oy you have a low bar for “accomplishment”
    Writing articles online? starting websites?

    You list as an accomplishment writing a book ” “How to Not Get Married: Break these rules and you have a chance”.” nu, so did the book work did he follow his advice?

    in reply to: Rewarding Failure by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2166823
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    now this point is better.

    in reply to: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2166820
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    “Its hard to imagine an person with intelligence.”

    Lol thats an admittedly funny “sentence”

    MDG
    I get that but it quickly turns into a long screed, with barely a coherent point.
    Shidduch resumes are just a way to keep basic information about individuals straight. Nothing more nothing less. It is not reasonable to expect shadchanim to memorize where everyone who contacted them went to Yeshiva/seminary not to mention their phone numbers. So they are written down. that’s it . That’s all it is.
    you don’t like it and want to only use people who know that stuff about you? no problem go for it. n o need to write over 3000 words about it.

    incidentally this was written in 2018. Presumably he followed his advice and got rid of his resume. did it help?

    in reply to: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman #2166803
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    did A chatbot write this?

    Its hard to imagine an person with intelligence.

    I especially like complaining that we have shidduch resumes, but also that they are too short

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2165765
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    Dr P

    The bottom line is I don;t think free market could or should be in charge of healthcare

    We have touched on many reasons here are a few:
    1) Healthcare is largely not driven by supply and demand
    2) The information asymmetry is close to insurmountable
    3) When its an emergency you cant exactly price shop
    4) Having a business decide who lives and who dies Is as you said “wrong, I agree”

    So If not the private sector who should run it?
    t o that I say it should be the government.

    The response to that is one of two things:

    A – Thats not the government’s role
    B- A government run system wopuldnt work

    To A I reply hear, I disagree but if you dont view it as the governments role. You favor “limited government” therefore havign a business run it even if it doesnt work because of the reaosns outlined above but “that’s how it needs to be ” I hear completely. disagree, but hear (though be prepared to explain why you give the government other roles like paying for education, roads defense etc I’m not saying you cant provide a difference you just need one)

    To B my reply is well Private sector doesn’t work either. so lets make the government system work .

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2165754
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    “This is morally wrong but he’s a businessman and makes business decisions. Had he approved all of the claims that were denied the company would either have gone out of business or had to raise premiums much higher than the competition and then gone out of business the next year. It’s wrong, I agree- but that’s how it needs to be in order for it to work.”

    YES!!!!!

    Though where we differ is if it is “morally wrong” as you agree then lets change it.
    It doesnt “need to be” this way. Youve been tricked. It could and should be different.

    You say it is a business. Yes I get that I don’t blame him. But I think it SHOULDN’T Be a business that is PRECISLEY my point. As I’ve been saying from the beginning. Business leads to morally wrong decisions and outcomes (as you agree). Healthcare as a business doesn’t work.

    The way you feel about the Physician who is doing his job same as the CEO. IS how I feel about both of them. Both of them are doing their jobs. Their job is to deny healthcare to people who need it .

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2165149
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    “As I mentioned earlier, they cannot raise premiums at their whim and 80% or 85% of premiums must go to providers, any additional premiums collected are returned.”

    Percentage alone isnt everything

    The Ceo’s and Presidents of insurance companies get paid multiple millions of dollars At one Point Mark Bertoloni received almost 28 million dollars in one year. while running a company that denies claims that could have saved lives. That year I had spent months trying to get a CT scan approved for a patient wit ha suspicious lesion. Renal cell carcinoma is essentially curable if caught early enough before it spreads. by the time it was approved it had spread. (Admittedly there is no way to know for sure if it spread during that delay). The patient is dead now. the few thousand dollars his company should have spent in timely error is a rounding error in his salary. This is but one story I have dozens my colleagues have more.

    The truth is I don’t fault him or the company. that is their job they profit by denying healthcare that is there entire business model. I fault the business model.

    “As far as the story you mentioned is concerned- I hope that’s the exception and not the norm”
    Thanks for reading it.
    What I was most outraged about whas the physician who just rubber stamps what nurse had previously denied. what is the poitn of having a physician reviewer if he isnt actually reviewing it?

    You say you hope its the exception . It is a lot of exceptions close enough to being the norm . It is their business model . Yes they have t pay 85% that still leaves millions and million and millions for their top executives .

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2164190
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    DrP

    I’d like to apologize for accusing you of lying I did not mean to.

    allow me to explain what I meant by backtracking.

    With a lot of these “hot button” issues I think the main neukdas hamachlokes gets ignored in favor of more emotinal “fluff” points.
    A great example of this is abortion. People get up in extreme cases of incest rape life in danger etc etc. The MAIN question is is fetus a life. Once that is settled most other points fall into place . Yet that point is often ignored, and peopel tend to jump to the extreme cases to make their point.

    wit hhealthcare the MAIN question in my opinion is what is the government’s role. Once that is settled we can discusss ways to make sure noone takes advantage. but the startign point is there. T ostart with a n extrem example of forcing Mr A to pay for Mr B is silly, Partly becasue that isnt a suggestion anyone is making and because it avoids the main question.
    THAT was my point. (I get that you were intentionally starting with an extreme situation and planning to move it towards your specific situation.

    I didn’t want to leave yo uhanging so I answered your question that no MR A should not be forced to pay for MR B . you then asked abotu a thusand MR A’s paying for a Thousand Mr B’s
    To which I replied (using my starting point) that I think EVERYBODY should pay for EVERYBODY. Even if it means raising taxes. Though a 10,000 tax increase was never going to happen.

    You said it did happen. But this was misleading. I did not call you a liar, but when yo usaid he did “exactly that” this was a mischaracterization The government under Obamacare DID NOT take over healthcare. They did not adopt what I think they should , a “Medicare for all plan” I have no interest in defending Obamacare. I realize that you were caught up on your specific point (which was about Mr. A and B) , and perhaps I was not clear. for that I apologize.

    Before going though, please do read the stroy “UnitedHealthcare Tried to Deny Coverage to a Chronically Ill Patient. He Fought Back, Exposing the Insurer’s Inner Workings”
    Its not just that it highlights “a few bad apples” it exposes as the title suggests the inner workings of one of the largest healthinsurance companies. Comlete with audio clips, depostions of the Medical directors who are in charge of denieg care (in this case for one, but generally for hundreds a week!!!)

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2164148
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    DrP

    The only point I said wasn’t true was this
    ““no politiican would dream of raising taxes that much (for the average worker who didnt get a 10 fold increase in salary .”
    Do you recall a former President named Barak Hussein Obama? He did exactly that…”

    That wasn’t true. He didnt Do “EXACTLY THAT”
    As you acknowledged in your post. I didnt say you were a liar, becasue you knew what you were saying, I would characterize it as misleading more than lying. I pointed out that what you were saying was “not true” it wasnt and isnt

    ” from my point of view this thread has run its course”
    Yep along time ago

    “I didn’t read the story you mentioned but I’ll agree with you that there can be some bad apples out there just like there is in any industry, that doesn’t mean that the insurance industry is rotten to the core”
    you should read it.
    I deal with insurance companies multiple times weekly (more often as a provider) . rotten to the core is an understatement

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2163424
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    “My point was specifically regarding the catastrophic consequences on hard working families caused by the ACA and I explicitly mentioned that.”

    Yes I know. I understand that is your point.

    “If you were referring to a different point can I respectfully suggest that you mention that ”

    Sure! in one of my first comments to you
    here it is:
    “To be clear I’m not arguing. I think reasonable people can disagree. Your examples though are designed to bias and not really to inform.
    If you maintain that it isn’t the Government’s job to get involved whether you worked out and saved (Mr A.) or didn’t (Mr. B) I understand that. I disagree (as to most people Even Trump running as a Republican promised to provide “the best healthcare plan” and Medicare is wildly popular )
    But again I think people can disagree as to the role of government…”

    I am not talking about ACA specifically
    rather about general role of govt.

    “I feel bad for you, it’s definitely not a good situation, but it seems like this issue is caused by your employer and providers,”

    Yep, not just me thats the way it is in this country. My employer chooses my plan #Freedom! And I guess I have high premiums, no its not a frum place. Is there anything I can do about it. Again, not really.

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2163294
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    AAQ

    “Competition is the “thing” that typically stops suppliers from raising prices. Econ 101.”

    Problem is after Econ 101 you need to take more advanced courses.

    Many basic tenets of Econ 101 do not apply to healthcare.

    Take the most basic tenet, that of supply and demand . In Econ 101 you are taught if strawberries are too expensive then people will stop eating strawberries and buy blueberries forcing the price of Strawberries to come down.

    If stents become expensive its not like the demand for them (ie Heart attacks) will go down. Furthermore if someone is having a heart attack they can’t exactly shop around for the cheapest care.

    Even if it ISN’t an emergency shopping around is almost impossible,. This experiment has been done. One of the most frequent reasons people go to a hospital is for childbirth. OF course there are occasionally complications, but generlaly the stay is pretty routine and predictable. Furthermore you have a 9 month headstart to plan where to give birth. You would think finding he cheapest place is straightforward. Yet it is near impossible. There was an attempt to chaneg this with the Hospital Price Transparency Law signed by President Trump, but it is still near impossible to find this information.

    Furthermore there is a Knowledge discrepancy between you and the healthcare system, underming basic economic principals (which assume a level playing field). Yo ucan easily dewtermine the difference between strawberries and blueberries. IT is much harder to determine the difference between getting a few stents vs bypass surgery

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2163160
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    DRp

    “Again- you’re purposely totally missing the point.”

    no, I’m mising YOUR point. yo uare trying to make this about Obamacare and your specific circumstance (not that I blame you)
    reread my comments, I am not discussing Obamacare.

    “Complain to your employer if they keep switching insurers or complain to your doctor if he / she isn’t in enough networks…”

    I did but they don’t care. and there is not much I cna do about it other than quit. and a system where you have to quit to keep your doctor is even crzier than finding a new doctor in my opinion.

    “Yes, that would get me on board.”

    Great We agree then!
    Medicare for all!!! Huzzah

    in reply to: How to Reduce the Cost of Getting Married #2162978
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    “If you can’t afford a chasunah, you should not be in shidduchim.”

    It is impossible to beleive that a ben Avraham V’Yitzchak could say something so insane..

    To say you shouldnt have a chasuna ie just get married in shul with a minyan is one thing (it would be wrong but not crazy) .
    But not to be involved in shiddduchim ??? impossible that a frum Jew could suggest such a thing

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2162977
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    “but my health insurance costs skyrocketed by around $10,000 a year.”

    Yes health insurance companies are greedy. I hate them too. Not sure why you blame that on Obama.

    If you dont mind my asking what was the change in benefits? Why dd it go up so much?

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2162975
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    “Do you recall a former President named Barak Hussein Obama? He did exactly that. It may not have been in income tax or sales tax but it was a forced tax on the hard working makers to pay the premiums for the lazy takers and yes, my salary remained relatively the same but my health insurance costs skyrocketed by around $10,000 a year.”

    This is not true
    The increase in tax was $695 that is ti . And it ONLY applied if you dindnt have health insurance .

    “Once you don’t get insurance through your employer you’re not in that same group anymore.”

    right , a complelty insane system. so if I change jobs I may need a new doctor. If my employer gets a better deal I and chanegs companies I may need a new doctor it is crazy.
    what on Earth does my insirance have to do with my employer

    “I’ll mention again what I’ve been writing all along. The government should be involved in health care … Not for lazy people who want society to do everything for them.”
    Yes youve said that the problem is it isnt the just the “lazy” who get cancer . Read the recent Propublica story “UnitedHealthcare Tried to Deny Coverage to a Chronically Ill Patient. He Fought Back, Exposing the Insurer’s Inner Workings.” The fellow involved doesnt sound lazy.

    “Again, this will not work until people start taking responsibility for themselves and the ratio of avoidable medical expenses to unavoidable expenses gets flipped.”
    and Again if it got you on board, Id support increased oversight on halthier diet/excerices increased regulations on smoking etc

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2162864
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    “There’s got to be a line drawn here as well. …Where do you draw the line?”

    oh fur sure theres a line.
    Though probably more of a percentage than a real number. MEaning
    If a person makes 100,000 one year then 1,000,000 then next year yes his taxes should go up by > 100,000.

    you say “How about $10,000 – Possibly. How about $100,000 Definitely not…”
    no politiican would dream of raising taxes that much (for the average worker who didnt get a 10 fold increase in salary .

    However as I mentioned before there is an easy solution
    I pay > 11K in premiums my boss pays the same
    My boss pays me that money I sto ppaing private company. My taxes go up by 20K I pocket the remaining `3 K win win win

    Again. I f you dont think the government should be involved in health care this comment is crazy. As I said that is the starting point

    …”the money needs to come from somewhere and we seem to disagree on where it should come from”

    Exactly s Ive been saying I think it should be government run with the money coming from taxes, think of an expanded medicare

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2162151
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    DrP

    “Next question- could the government collect to the extent that a hard working family would lose their house?”

    I have a pending answer
    to be clear, this isn’t limited to Healthcare
    The Government can raise taxes for los of things that fall into their purview. If the government feels they need to raise taxes to better arm Ukraine, even if I don’t care about Ukraine they can do that.
    Same thing here IF (big IF, as I said this is THE key to all the other questions) it is the governments role to fund healthcare for all. then they can raise taxes even if an overextended few may lose their houses

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2162140
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    “Next question- could the government collect to the extent that a hard working family would lose their house?”

    No
    Though taxes will go up if as a result of that Their mortgage is too expensive then I guess yes.
    Of course some would argue that Having gotten a mortgage that leaves Them so vulnerable to a tax increase is irresponsible behavior what we would expect from Mr. B not A. nonetheless even though some would call him irresponsible I still think he should have access to affordable health care

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2162037
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    DrP

    Glad to hear things are doing better

    To answer your question
    Yes without question We should collect from the A’s (and the B’s) to fund the healthcare of the B’s (and the A’s).

    The reason for this is I don’t think there is any realistic way to ensure the B’s behave. Nor is there a real way to sepperate health costs based on “irresponsible choices” vs “bad luck” That said, As I mentioned I could be convinced to have more government oversight on behavior to ensure the B’s “behave” perhaps some financial penalty for smoking, not excercising , eating too much meat etc etc .

    I cant say I love it, but if this would get you on board I’m in. Is that your suggestion?

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161950
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    DrP

    first I’m sorry to hear about your hardship. ACA ws a while go, I hope things have improved .

    I still think you are approaching this backwards. As I think the more FUNDAMENTAL question is one on the role of government. But Of course you can approach it the other way as well.

    to answer your question, no, no one specific person whould be forced to support another specific person.

    What was the next question going to be?

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161782
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    DRP

    “..to admit that there are times when the govermnent shouldn’t step in (i.e. when Mr. A and his family would suffer the loss of their house and savings due to the shear utter irresponsibility of Mr. B).”

    I don’t think anyone here has ever suggested anything like that. that you needed them to “admit” they wouldn’t support that. T ohave one neighbor “chosen” to sponsor his neighbor ? Thats a made up thing that doesnt happen in any socity and I dont think has ever ben seriously suggested to happen

    in reply to: WANTED — Looking to Hire Immediately #2161661
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    UJM

    Azoi vi di Rebbe hut geteichet: Ut bin ich greit!

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161604
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    DP

    “I agree that the government is supposed to help the population”

    Great so we fundamentally agree.
    We can hammer out nitty gritty details another day, if you want the Government to deter people from smoking, deter people who don’t exercise or eat too much red meat, I can get behind that. It makes me a bit squeamish (I love government oversight but even I have my limits) but if that ‘s what it takes to get you on board, I can get behind increased government oversight on diet/exercise etc

    in reply to: Lessons Learned from the False Arrest of the Innocent Tzadik in Flatbush #2161537
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    UJM

    The post is what can be learnt from THIS scenario

    “Huh? The child was already safe and sound with the mother before she called Shomrim and the police.”

    Exactly thus my bringing up a what if is silly.
    And in this case the accused abuser was already set free. Thus your bringing up the “what if..” is equally silly. IT was a crowded room there were witnesses. The system worked.
    Again, does it always work? perhaps not. But THIS is a case where it did. This post is lessons learnt from THIS case. Not the collected musings of the artist formerly known as Joseph. THIS case is one that highlights going to the police first is the safest approach. Again is there another case that shows the opposite ? Probably but not this one

    And what’s this business about you deciding not to ask a Rov since “the Rav didnt care”? You do things, in general, without asking since you don’t trust Rabbonim?”

    If I don’t have a question of course! Why not?

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161531
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    AAQ

    Happy to help

    Explain to your kid that society needs certain things to function. roads is an easy example that he can see. We all need roads, to get to school, work fun places. Even someone how doesn’t have a car needs roads for the bus that he takes.
    Even someone who says I’ll never take busses still needs roads for deliveries to his local store, and of course for emergencies like fire department.

    so how should we pay for roads? We can’t just hope everyone will on their own understand this. Many have trouble with this simple concept. so we have the government in charge they collect taxes from everybody and use that money to pay for things that we all need including roads.

    S oalthough it feels free to use roads, they do in fact cost money, this is a cost that is paid by all of us

    where it gets a little trickier is what “jobs” fall into the governments purview.
    Many believe healthcare is such a thing. Just like we all pay taxes to be used for roads that we as a society need, regardless of how much you personally use the road. Same thing for healthcare we all pay taxes to fund healthcare that we as a society need.

    now before you get nervous that this would cause taxes to go up by a lot, keep in mind we already pay a ton for healthcare it isn’t “free” I pay 11,000 in premiums my employer (boss) pays the same for me. My taxes could go up by a bit over 20,000 dollars and I’d still end up ahead

    hope this helps, Once your kid gets it have him explain it to you.

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161261
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    “I’m not sure if you’ve read any of our conversations before but our opinions are diametrically opposed. I was hoping to start a conversation on common ground”

    I did read the conversation but you are approaching the conversation exactly backwards.

    THe starting point is a question of role of government. Nitty gritty as to what to do about free loaders who take advantage is important but secondary, since if the goverment has no buisness helping Mr A of course they shouldnt help Mr B. If you think they should help MR A, THEN we can discuss what about Mr B.

    The first question ishould be , Is it the role of government to help Mr. A. The model citizen who behaves has his insurance.

    I have no interest in trying to change your opinion and outlook. If you think it isnt the govermne’t job, then thats what you think . IT isn’t objectively wrong.

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161191
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    To be clear I’m not arguing

    I think reasonable people can disagree.

    Your examples though are designed to bias and not really to inform.

    If you maintain that it isn’t the Government’s job to get involved whether you worked out and saved (Mr A.) or didn’t (Mr. B) I understand that. I disagree (as to most people Even Trump running as a Republican promised to provide “the best healthcare plan” and Medicare is wildly popular )
    But again I think people can disagree as to the role of government.

    so make your case. no need to make it seem as if Mr B “deserves” it. that is entirely irrelevant. If Mr. B did work out , and never smoked and his insurance won’t cover because xyz. STILL not the governments job to provide

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161181
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    “my question was if the government can take money from one person to pay the medical bills of another person.”

    Yes I got that.
    I think the answer is obviously yes. (though not from “one person” rather from society).

    My point is that you set up the question to bias agaisnt Mr B, as if its all his fault and if only he never smoked and worked out more, he would not have had Lung cancer. while Mr A is a hero. Of course that was an question for you to answer.

    The reaility though is not like that. S that is my question to you. Should the government have society step in to help Mr A when is insurance doesnt come through (or force his insurance to come through) ?

    in reply to: Dental Insurance #2161060
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    Dr Peper

    While on vacation ponder these not-hypothetical situations:

    Use your same Family A and B only instead of Family B getting sick

    Mr A suffered a heart attack. Ambulance took rushed him to the hospital a stent was placed and he did well beiung discharged 3 days later. Unfortunately the hospital was out of network. His Three day hospital stay now costs him 250,000. (His fault for not chckign with his insurance while having his heart attack, I mena how lazy can he be!?)

    Does the government have the right to put a $250,000 lien on Mr. B’s house and seize the $10 he has in savings in order to save Mr. A?

    Or

    Mr A. gets diagnosed with Colon Cancer. It is operable but needs to be done quickly. His insurance company denies the claim because they looked bakc at hsi application and he wrote no medical condions yet as a child he had asthma (“grew out of it” and wsn;t on meds for years when filled out form)
    Does the government have the right to put a $3000,000 lien on Mr. B’s house and seize the $10 he has in savings in order to save Mr. A?
    (spoiler alert they didn’t, and by the time he got insurance company to agree to pay the tumor had spread and was no longer operable)

    We could go on. but the point is , Health problems are more driven by “bad luck” than by how prepared you are (thats not to say living a healthier life style doesnt play a role)

    So it has to work both ways if Mr B should help Mr A then the reverse is true.
    Now you could argue no in those cases too bad on Mr A. It’s each man for himself. Consistency is key

    ubiquitin
    Participant

    UJM

    “then this completely innocent Yid could very well still …”

    Again “if …could”

    And if he did abuse the kid and the mother delayed and asked a shailah and the Rav didnt care then he could abuse others.

    My point is “what if’s” are silly. We can always create all sorts of what ifs to satisfy any preconceived opinion. THIS case shows the criminal system worked. does it always work? maybe not. But this case shows if you are concerned for a child’s safety notify the authorities

    in reply to: Lessons Learned from the False Arrest of the Innocent Tzadik in Flatbush #2160941
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    UJM

    “We once again learn, the hard way r’l, the valuable lesson against Mesira. An innocent Yid was falsely accused and reported to the goyim. …”

    how did we learn that?
    don’t we see the opposite?
    He was falsely accused and walked home free that same day? You say “Something that could have potentially …” yeah but it didn’t. how do you see the opposite? IF anythign we see the system works. If concerned for a child’s wellfare report first. If in fact he was innocent he’ll walk that same day.

    in reply to: Are guns allowed to be carried on shabbos? #2159506
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    “What saddens me isn’t just that people think that the YWN Coffeeroom is a place for a Halachic discussion ,”

    The exact opposite saddens me.
    Every silly topic is fair conversation. But chas veshalom some Torah should be discussed all of a sudden “well meaning” people come running No no No Torah allowed!

    don’t worry no torah here just dreidel

    If you are genuinly worried about the “overwhelming Am Haaratzus” share, contribute correct the mistakes

    in reply to: Frum LinkedIn Users with He/Him or She/Her in their profile? #2154426
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    Avira

    As far as I’m aware the first amendment protects you from government compelled speech not employer

    Whitecar
    its a bad assuption an employee can make almost anything hhe/she wants a requirement. unless it discriminates based on a “protected ” group so cant have you profess belief in yoshke that would discriminate based on religion(same for gender etc. Unless you argued that putting in pronouns was against your religion.

    in reply to: Frum LinkedIn Users with He/Him or She/Her in their profile? #2154324
    ubiquitin
    Participant

    whitecar

    “If any employer makes you, I think you have grounds to sue.”

    under what grounds?

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