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I think the person in the store is behind this becc once i leave the store i see this person and i dont think this is coincedence u dont normally see a person and the place i saw her are very far apart so its getting me nervous and when i was in the store once she was giving the manager her # or email so…

ha ha not fuuny i never so this person and all of a sudden i feel like wherever me or my friend who went shoopin with me turn we see this person im just nervous seome guy is behind this and its really gettin me nervous

i feel like some one i know is behind this and im really scared

whenever im there now they try to get my att by doing wierd things and its workin the other day one of the guys did something funny and i was tryin to hold myself back from laughing but i couldnt and so i just smirked as i walking out a diff manager was watching me to see my reaction what am i supoosed to do

i got the book but i need more sources any ideas where can i listen to two halves of a whole online

jewish unity i ghave a mussar report and i choose this topic but i need sources

i was there on thurs when he came over to me when i was checking a vegetable to see which one i wanted and he said that he doesnt need the thing he asked from me and that i should tell the person forget abt it i felt that he wanted to start a convo with me because there was no reason for him to tell me that bec he has the persons fone number and he could just tell him since i gave him the fone number to go atrat through him instead of me being the middle man so i didnt even turn to look at him and siad ok and that was it on friday when i was there i noticed how he wouldnt looka at me which was good

i told my mom and she said that he is the type of guy who would talk to anyone he does scmooz with the ladies at the cashiers so therefore she just tells me not to talk to him cuz of miryas eynaym and that he is harmless and on fri while i was there a bunch of women we around him one was patting his back so my moms rite hes just that type who talks to other woman and doesnt care i guess it has to do with where u come from and how u are brought up

Today my mom told me I had to go to the supermarket cuz. She needed stuff and no one else was able to go I told her I really don’t want and looked at ne a little confused cuz she know I love to shop for her. And then she asked me if I had a crush on the guy I told her no and then she made me go I did my shopping didn’t let our eyes met yet he came over to me and said that he doesn’t need what he asked ne for cuz he already got it I didn’t even turn to look at him.

My mom will nost prob ask me to go tomorrow again what am I supposed to do ecspecially since I don’t want to and I held myself back for a whole week what am I supposed to tell my parents and how I don’t want to go I don’t want to see this guy I was abt to cry wqhen my mom told me that I had to.go life is so tough

leon normanson: i dont go there anymore so thats not an issue im assuming u only read the first couple of posts i dont see the guy anymore but he is always on my mind

does any one know where i can listen to rabbi orlofsky online cds tapes etc

thank u!

i would like something pertaining this topic maybe this is a hint from hashem that i should work on this area and then it will stop me from talking to the opp gender

thank u so much!!

seeallsides: there is only one person who lives in my area id i rather not walk home with bec. of diff reasons so keeping my mind occupied then is really hard

and at nite that is a great idea the only thing is do u know of anything specific that i can listen to regarding this issue

smartcookie: the reason why i stopped going there is bec he was a guy and he would talk to me i didnt think it was app. especially since he wasnt related to me or anything, and i think he was quite comfterable talking to me and i was also and i didnt want this to start with him and then i would continue talking to other guys also just like i did with him i dont want ppl to think i talk to guys either. whenever i think abt him its either what he said to me or the way he acts i dont think its terible but i just want to get him off my mind i never thought that at some point in my life that i wouldnt be able to go somewhere bec oof something like this now when i see a guy weird sense comes to me i feel wierd like i did the wrong thing and i ask myself why did i do that what was i thinking. i also feel that he kinda ruined things in my life cuz i always enjoyed goin shoppin for my mom or with her and i feel terrible now cuz i cant help my mom carry the pkgs or load the car its a horrible feeling that comes to me each time i think of this i always enjoyed helping my mother and i love to go out so this was one thing that really helped my mother and i enjoyed

when im in school learning then its fine but once the class is over he is on my mind or when im on my way home from school i see guys hes on my mind again whta am i supposed to do nothiing is workin

last nite i spoke to my parents and they decided that i may not go back to that store anymore.

i decided that would be the best thing for me and so im not going there anymore bli neder.

thank you so much for your help and support

we should see the mashich bimhara vymanu

once again thank u so much!!!

i gotta admit that at first i wanted the att i didnt mind it but know i wish this never happened i sometimes wish i was ugly whenever i see this guy im in my uniform as i said and if u see me in my uniform u would agree i dont like that pretty my hairs a mess…

s2021 what do u mean “playing”

it was a game of card with at least another three other ppl which means five all together

whenever i go to the store now i dont let our eyes met or anything of those sorts but for some reason he still on my mind

cutipie plz help me for some reason he is always on my mind whatevr i do im thinking abt him i cant get him off what should i do and recently ive been going there very often cuz my mom needs me to carry the packages for her what should i do and he is there all the time

plz help me

Does anyone know any books that explain and say how imp women are prefrably in hebrew english is also good

thanks!

hey cutiepie i am still going there i just ignore them or idont let our eyes met

i have two questions:

1)did u tell your parents about this ?

2)i really want to know where u live