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or a story in tanach which he is known for?
i havent gone to seminary yet but iyh im leaving in a couple of days and since ive been hearing abt seminary this past yr i can try.
one thing i have to say is abt the levels of frumkeit the girls from meohr are usually more right wing then darchi binah which is a little more than afekei torah!August 6, 2012 12:48 am at 12:48 am in reply to: Adjoining property is doing extension- beam is on my property (residential) #890097
why do u have to do anything abt it?
you ging to go to a non jewish court?!? what are you? maybe kindly use you words! dont rush to a non jewish court!
allot of pl are gettin sprint! its defiantly cheaper!
i havent read what everyone else wrote this is the halacha not sure who says it:
from the knees and up you cannot even see the form that means your tight/leggigs or whatever you want to wear…abpve the knee has to be covered by a skirt and then from the knee and down its not assur to show the form therefore we are allowed to wear tights/ leggiings etc.
and the four inches below your knee IS NOT halacha its just something ppl take on bec if your skirt is four inches then your knees will definatley not show!
i hope everything is clear now!
Omg….I’m about to cry! I wish I can do something! I feel your pain! I’m really sorry! I never really expressed to neone although I am still a teenager…and every time I see guys and girls feel and act they wy u explained it hurts me! Nothing really bothers me as much as this! I wish and Bly ish I was stronger to be able to pull these ppl out and help them talk to them and give them wat they need what they think they are lacking! I try to help my friends with my words but it’s tough cuz I’m not in their shoes and not everyone wants to discuss their issues! I wish I could do more for these ppl! I know these ppl are reaalllyyy special, they truly are! If there’s nothing I or we the ppl in the coffee room could do to help u and those who need our love nd kind words Plz Plz tell us. I’m happy u shared this with us and opened our eyes! I hope things have changed fr u and that u are able to run a new and better life! I’m really sorry!!
but i thought there was a rabbi if im not mistaken the rav of the mir in yershalyim did once ask abt a game? so then why is it assur?
i feel that everyone person should dress nicely in clothes that makes him/her comfortable and so they are not constantly looking at what other people are wearing and being all self conscience of what everyone else is wearing!
i believe there is nothing wrong with tight pants if that’s what makes him comfortable and happy leave him and let him wear it!
as long as they way someone dresses isn’t changing which will cause him to change his environment and his actions obviously in a negative way. i would say leave them alone! they are just trying to fit in which is perfectly fine!
i havent posted in awjile and u seem to be in allot of pain and stress and i know there is this number that u can call its free and they help u find a therapist which is good yet your insurance will cover i didnt read what the other ppl said but if u want i can get it for u. just let me know
there are many good boys out there yet i feel thatthey arent the ones making the decisions in shidduchim its their mom!! which is causing many problems if a guy cant schoose a girl on his own then what can he do?!?!?
getting back to the ops q
i have an answer yet this is my opinion!
facebook is a way which people can connect to ther people without having there # or know their name…i have gone on facebook and was able to find information abt ppl without having to know who they are on a personal level i just looked for their friend clicked on their name and if they didnt block themselves i would be able to see their pictures and some ppl even put their cell #.
this is a way whicjh ppl can connect with others whom they meet once in their life or sometimes never
adults mite use this wisely yet with teenagers or younger ppl they began talking to people who they dont know…and are able to convince them to do diff things or they begin talking to the opposite gender which doesnt just stop there. they beging talking then they want to meet and it never stops i can go ojn and on… but im sure most of you know what can happen.
so know its in your hand to decide whether or not u would like to go on and put your entire life on there.
p.s. it also destroys shidduchim.. women and men begin to also talk to opposite gender behind their spouses backs.
people who were not able to talk to u till now bec had no way of getting your #, can now!
i would say the first 2-3 dates is just survival getting to know the other person just like u meet someone new..nothing deep see if u enjoy eachothers company and stuff like that! after you can talk abt other stuff once it gets more intense.
no one told me that the cool with it smoking guys are bnei torah!!
why cant a smoker be a ben torah??
csar: where does it say that?
you cant ask other people what they would want bec for each individual its diff…bec everyone is different you have to look at yourself what do u have that u want ur wife to have as well which attributes do u forsure want. cuz noone has all! chap what im saying?
well then thats great!!! now u have to see what attributes u want ur wife to have?
hohalevy just by watching girls outside can say something abt them!! although ppl say dont judge…or even talking to girls once ur on a date ask the shadchan specific qs and dont forget nooo girl is perfect!!!
i didnt mean it in that way this guy is an amazing person but he smokes thats his flaw others guys have other flaws and dont smoke chap?
also many guys who are in yeshiva smoke…should i go for a guy whos not in yeshiva which means hes home isnt goin to be a totaly torah based home? or maybe it is if im lucky to find a guy who is out of yeshiva and wants a torah home?
i guess this is all abt giving up sumthing for another!
would u make the sacrifice if u were inmy case?
you have to look at yourself and decide what you think is importatnt! what are your values?? there are many questions you have to ask yourself you cant just jump into cold water just like that. if you do it shows u have no plan for life u just take things as they come! look at urself rite now and see..do the things you do know do u want to continue or change heres an ex a boy watches movies he has to ask himself.. or even if he doesnt does he want to have a tv? does he want to watch once he gets married? once in a while? every nite? or not at all? the Q is what type of family do u want to raise?? and how u want to do it? stuff like that. then you can start looking for a girl who shares the same views and priorities as u who u can build a home with
im not dating yet but there are guys who ive heard alllot abt they are great guys but they smoke…and say they have stopped many times have allot of self control and will stop!
i am very aganist smoking but should i go for a guys whos a little less but doesnt smoke?!?!
im talking about israel if a boy/girl doesnt go to israel then next option would be home..wherever that would be for that person..
but i would like to know peoples opinion on sending childern to israel for this upcoming school year
the problem is allot of guys smoke these days.. especially those in yeshiva
he said that once he starts dating he will stop.. in other words he hasnt started dating and doesnt want to smoke near family and stuff.
everyone succumbs to peer pressure but on diff levels and that is def not the only reason why he smokes
i need comfortable shoes that i can do alot of walking in and still look nice
neone have ne advice for girls goin to meohr???
Problem is that all these brand name shirts are expensive and need ironing!!!
Does anyone know where I can get shirts that don’t need ironing and still look nice and arents soooo expensive!!!!
So back to my question does anyone know where I can get a pair of toms for cheap can be online
lol its a name of a company that makes shoes
for every family its different. it depends on each families standards and then that will depend on how they will make ends meet.
writerssoul im guessing that she would or in that case neone would wait till graduation and then get engaged
marriage is not only about being able to take care of a baby there is much more to it commitment and many more things that is definitely one aspect but that’s not the most imp. its also abt trust. you can have a twelve yr old take care of a bunch of kids does that mean she can get married?!?!? obviously not there is much more to marriage than just taking care of kids. there is much more a woman as the “builder” of the house has to take care of. im not married and so i dont know that much but it def entails much more!
mdg first of all im not the one! second i beleive ur wrong abt marriage thats not what its all abt if it was it would be pretty simple theres much more i dont have time to say what its all abt now but i will come back and tell u!
who gave me mine???
i know how to spell ever heard of texting language or shorthand.
popa u serious??? i feel in a way that not true bec when they are a bit two young they dont have their heads on straight and so they want t be the first one married
dont answer! if u dont have an answer the person knows the answer its like asking someone what skool thjey go to is there a reason to lie????
girl and still in skool
should she rush in order to be the first one????
lol im in bklyn and have the same issue!!!!
the reason why i dont like it is bec its bad for ur health even if there was food near me that i didnt like and bothered me a great deal i would either move or ask the personif not eating to move it somewhere else but with smoking he wasnt even smoking and he reeeked really badly was i supposed to ask him to move out of the room??
i totally i agree its absolutley disgusting i was in class once and a photographer came in and he smelled soo bad i was dyeing i couldnt take notes and the teacher doesnt allow us to open the windows i felt like i was goin to die!!!!!!
why was my subtitle switched?
so which one is it?
someone told me abt a dream they had which was something everyone would wish for do u think its goin to come true like the other ones the person had that did?
they attract diff crowds mochon raaya is more regular flatbush girls solid girls and out of towners bnos sara is yeshivsh from lakewood mainly and i believe more academicJanuary 22, 2012 2:25 am at 2:25 am in reply to: Those bumper stickers that say "My Kid Is An Honor Student…? #847231
haha (had to that!) there have been many threads ive been reading recently this one really made me laugh!
neone can give me more info abt this sem and if there is an open house in bklyn???
neone can give me more info abt this sem and if there is an open house in bklyn???
Does none now nothing abt Meohr and seminar I need info I have to decide where I’m applying!
whta happened who was stalking who??
the best thing to make is croutons my mom uses the a chopper that cuts the challah into small cubes then she puts in a pan spices and lets it cook for a bit not sure4 how long and it comes out really good!!
dealz:: mazel tov!!!!
are u enegaged to the duy u talked abt?