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Pondira was the man who fathered him. Miriam’s husband was away at the time.
We call him by his fathers name, to remind all that he did have a father.
WOW,
I did not mean to mock you.
I was only trying to give you some un-professional advise.
I dont think that we can afford those extra calories TWICE in one year!
I feel very bad for those that are going through this.
I do not know much about your situation, nor am I qualified to direct you.
However I will offer my observation of other situations similar to the ones you described.
I have read that you have a hard time accepting him for what he is.
Let me just tell you, that first and for most, never ever throw him out of your house, never make him feel like he is not wanted.
Do not try to ‘teach him a lesson’ as this will backfire.
Children (read ‘teens’) today, are not similar to the teen you were, they were brought up in a much different environment.
even if you cannot really bring your self to FULLY love and FULLY accept him, make believe and try to force your self to accept him.
Have private one on one talks with him, go walking with him (This might not be appropriate in your area, so take a small trip someplace else).
Dont be the one that talks about him. rather talk WITH him, make him feel accepted and wanted.
Believe me, those ‘friends’ dont REALLY care about him, nor are they interested in helping him with his issues (I am sure that are a lot).
You are his Mother, you should be the one that he relies on when he needs some Motherly love!
Also, make sure to validate him.
another point ( I am sure that a lot of people mentioned all of this, forgive me if you are reading this ‘advise’ for the thousandth time..)
is to make sure that you have his laundry prepared, neatly and his suites/pants/shirts ironed.
His Breakfast nice and fresh. his lunch nicely packed with a piece of cake wrapped. leaving a note wishing him a good apatite, goes a long way.
You might think that these ‘small’ things are in vain, however this will leave the message that “you have a mother, and she really care about you”.
What I really can do is hope and pray that he should stay our of any harm and you should be zoche to see lots of Nachas from him!
there are a lot.
However in your case, i think that the best idea would be OpenDNS.
cost is very minimal. and you program your router to use their DNS.
you must make sure that.
A) your children dont have access and the ability to log onto the router.
B) they dont get their own router and bypass your filter.
Health,
I am sorry to have touched on a nerve, all I did was ask a sincere questions. No reason to get all worked up.
To answer your question, First I do not post any medical advice. second I am working on my Medic license.
You recently posted that you were a medic and an EMT, but no longer are.
This means that you served in a Ambulance Corps (not hatzolah, as you poseted). since you must have around 200 clinical hours in order to apply to medic school.
After analyzing all of your posts, I have noticed that your medical knowledge is really surfaced (besides some prehospital stuff). other posters have more than once pointed that out.
it is evident that you are investing a lot in your online persona.
You have no problem discussing personal details as your nasty divorce and issues with your childrens school.
However when asked a simple questions. you get wild. Makes me wonder..
I think that he recently posted that he has a job, I think that explains it..
Nuuuu?
Your right.
However he uses the fact that he medically trained very often in his arguments. He should have the audacity to reveal his level of expertise.
Why is this topic only logic based? Women (and Men), feel free to post your emotions!
I was using K9, it slowed down our entire network!
I have asked other people, they said that they never had a problem, we experimented it, uninstalled it re-installed it a few times, K9 was making everything much slower.
However, OpenDNS is a great idea, they claim a lot of large companies use their service.
miritchka,
I dont think that anyone was criticizing any volunteers, we were discussing the politics.
The difference is, that you constantly provide medical advice, anyone that disagrees with you gets pushed down as if your some medical professor.
I think that it is more than reasonable to question ones certification, if he speaks with such authority.
thanks for your kind words.
Did you give up (not renew) your EMT(P) license?
In a different post, he posted that he wants was an EMT and a MEDIC.
however, all he said that now he has different hats in the medical field.
more, thanks for sharing that with us! and oh.. does your wife use a and a knife, or just a fork?
Oh! Don’t forget to tip your Mod!!
I picture 42 walking around with a towel over his shoulder and his jolly smile spread across his face!
Why not?
There are standing orders, ptnt comes in with chest pain, vitals and eck are taken. Blood gets drawn and a line gets started.
Only because she needs permission from the nurse, doesn’t mean she doesn’t do it.
Why cant I gain without pain?
I could not figure out if it is slow modding, or is it slow posting?
I think what she meant, was that there were less sick people.
Ok, so I have been to two different hospitals already. I saw the ER nurses and he nurses on the ward I was as well.
Did not see any name tag that said yentingyenta.
147.
You just wrote that shomrim learnt the hard way, which means that by now they already know what to do.
Therefore calling shomrim, makes sense.
However, I personally would call both, shomrim (sine they probably have a quicker response time) and 9-1-1.
Hey, please explain what you are referring to.
Also, I am not here to recognition, rather to read funny and interesting posts.
Thank you. I really appreciate that!
Btw, it is not my joke, heard it from someone at a Sheva brachos.
Do you bring the forbon On pesach Sheini, or before, only you eat it the night that preceeds pesach Sheini, as Pesach Rishon?
I thought the same, i thought that the generator stopped working down there in the bunker.
I heard that after the 11th, it is a new chapter, Chapter 11.
Why does reading from a torah make you feel more Kovadig?
Although I was present in the CR at the time the AYC thing happened, however it did not effect me personaly, those that made the mistake, acknowledged that they erred.
Maybe it is because I never felt ‘part’ of the CR, I just come to read and air out my mind, I hardly post.
I think that it depends on what you wanna become.
just the title, then you have to be married to a Rebbe.
If you would like to be Choshuv, then all you got to do is Chushuva things, regardless on whom your Husband is.
The chulent in the bunker is actually good.
Health, the fact that you wanted to join hatzoloh, leads me to believe that you are an emt or paramedic.
Is that correct?
I just voted.
Looks like she is very talented.
Health, I am sorry, I misread your post.
never knew that people have a hard time sleeping Shabbos afternoon, I can sleeo Fri night and then Shabbos afternoon as well! (add that Chulent, and there should be no problem at all)
Mac, makes its own software and hardware.
which means that it has different hardare components and runs on a different platform.
I have both, mac and a dell (windows), I prefer the Dell. getting used to the mac was a bit difficult.
OK, this is one of the most funniest threads I have seen in a while!
Health, almost every organization has issues, this doesnt mean that the organization should be shut down.
Of course the ultimate thing would be if there were no issues, but this does not warrant a shut down.
why should we shut hatzoloh? only becuase there are bigger mitzvos?
Bigger mitzvoh doesnt mean that you can pick and choose between mitzvos, all it means that it is bigger.
I know that this might not be of much help to you, however others might benefit.
A good insurance policy for Shalom Bayis, is making sure that your husband has a Rav or Rosh Yeshiva that he listens to. so if something goes wrong, you have where to turn.
I heard that from Harav Avigdor Miller.
Dont be scared.
they know (if they are competent) that you are nervous. They make you feel comfortable.
If you are interested, I can give you a reference from someone that is located more upstate.
Remember, it really pays. You can have a wonderful great life!
it all depends on the components,
I am not all to familiar, however at work we have expensive Dell computers and servers, I would not compare these to just any other computer or laptop.
rather make sure that we are talking about the same components and same level.
Yes I sure would. That is the reason I do not want to joint the other organizations you have mentioned.
It is not that I want to part of club or have lights, its that this is something I would like to do.
WAT?