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  • in reply to: Another Reason Not to Vote Democrat #1888870
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    This might cause 1 not to vote for Obama (if he was running for office) because he endorse this person. The Democratoc Party as a whole did not make this endorsement and it is faulty logic to refuse to vote for someone who did not endorse because Obama did.
    1 just hates Dems

    in reply to: Biden’s Childcare Plan #1887650
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    @CoffeeAddict
    I objected to Trump’s plan that capped deduction for state taxes at $10K. This was aimed at Blue states. The flyover states have much lower taxes/

    My comment quoting my late father has to do with income taxes.

    I have made no comment about the Biden plan as I stated I have yet to read the plan and there are no firm details, Furthermore, I will comment after the plan is finalized and available to digest.

    That said, there is a good reason for like type property swaps, besides avoiding capital gains taxes on a direct sale. Once a property is fully depreciated for tax purposes (generally 29 years, the loss of the depreciation expense makes the same rents a taxable profit and is a disincentive to keep the building. If one swaps the new owner gets to depreciate it all over again, rents can remain the same and the commercial tenants are not hit with a rent increase if they have a triple net lease to cover the increased income tax without depreciation.

    I have clients who have used to swaps for tax advantages, often on small commercial buildings or apartment buildings of less than 12 units. I don’t generally sell real estate, but place it into trusts for future generations of the CTL clan

    in reply to: Biden’s Childcare Plan #1887049
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    @CoffeeAddict
    I have not read the proposed plan
    I do not know what ‘special tax breaks in the real estate industry for people making $400K+’ are.

    That said, the OP is mis-characterizing the Plan and how it is to be funded. I did a quick Google search and find:
    “Biden’s campaign says the 10-year plan will be paid for by “rolling back unproductive and unequal tax breaks” for real-estate investors making more than $400,000, as well as increasing “tax compliance for high-income earners.”
    The tax breaks are not in the real estate industry per se, but for those investors in Real Estate making more than $400K per year.

    I read this to mean profits of more than $400K per year from Real Estate Investments, not that one’s income is $400K+ and has any profits from real estate investments.

    Please do not worry for CTL. #1 I do not personally profit more than $400K annually from Real Estate Investments. As a Trust and Family attorney, most of our real estate holdings are held in various trusts.
    Furthermore, to quote my late father Z”L, when he’d be writing a hefty check every April 15th. “America is a great country, you’ve got to make it to pay it.”
    It is both my honor and privilege to make a large income and pay taxes on it.
    BTW, I filed my taxes July 14th. This year, I was able to restructure things due to the Trump Tax changes and restore the 25K that had not been there for Tzedaka in 2018. B”H our philanthropy increased to its highest level ever in 2019.

    in reply to: What kind of police reforms do we need? #1886652
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    @Akuperma

    “The statistics show race isn’t a big issue (black cops are just as likely to kill blacks as white cops are). The issue is police abuse of people they are arresting, regardless of race (and perhaps not regardless of class – rich people tend to get much better treated when getting arrested). There is no excuse for police to being injuring unarmed persons, even if they deserve it.”

    RACE is a BIG issue. Many police departments (including the one in my small town) have been found to practice systemic Racism. It is NOT just about Killing Blacks, or Arresting Blacks.
    Much of the systemic racism is the HARASSMENT of Blacks (and Latinos). No shooting ior arrest need be made, but get caught driving across the Town line while black…..DWB and you have much greater chance of being pulled over, having your license and registration run and checked fro an insurance card. You also will be illegally questioned as to why you are here and where are you going.

    The State of CT has sanction our police Deoartment and abiout 20 others, issuing, fines, ordering changes, including training, asked that certain top personnel be demoted or fired, etc.

    Also, you are not just as like to get ANYTHING by a Black cop as a White Cop, when your small town/suburban police force is 98% white.

    in reply to: Someone other than Trump? #1883743
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    @ Ben Levi

    “He has lost money by running for office and that is why he won’s show his taxes.”

    He refused to show his tax returns while running for office. They covered years he was not running, and could not have had a loss because he was running for office. He lied when he said he’d release the returns.
    He lied when he said he could not release the returns because he was under an audit by the IRS. A taxpayer is never forbidden to release his/her filed returns because there is an ongoing audit.

    Have you ever been audited by the IRS?????????????
    I have, both personally and for my business returns. I was not instructed by the IRS that I could not release or show my returns to anyone during the audit. In fact I released them to banks during the audit as I was applying for financing for a real estate development at the time. The bank that provides our rolling business line of credit requires I release to them my (and all partners’ in the CTL firm) tax returns every year. The CTL Law Firms is a partnership, not a corporation and we partners are personally liable for the loans. Last year, we borrowed a large amount to buy land and construct our first freestanding NY office.

    in reply to: Someone other than Trump? #1883741
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    @som1
    I did reply earlier, but is must be lost in Cyberspace, perhaps shot down by Trump’s Space Force…..

    #1 Forbes has no more access to Trump’s financial records than you or I do. You read an OPINION, not provable facts about his net worth
    #2 Many people have seen tax increases, but many more have seen increases in state and local taxes during this administration. Not as much money is flowing to local and state government from the Feds and uit has to be made up from increased and new taxes.
    #3 I never said we should not have travel restrictions because of the Corona Virus. We should have locked the country down tight in March and had national stay at home orders and REQUIRE face masks when out of your own home
    His nonsense about 15 cases and it will be over soon, and it will be warm soon and it will go away is ridiculous. Same with the ineffective anti-malaria drug and ingesting bleach.
    #4 Incompetents on the Federal payroll, Let’s start with Betsy DeVos (knows nothing about education), then Dr. Ben Carson, who may have been a brain surgeon, but is totally unqualified to run HUD, and it is a shambles. Then there’s Don Jr’s girfriend bringing in a 6 figure salary plus benefits. Lynne Patton, an event planner who planned Eric Trump;s wedding was made Director of Region II (NY and NJ) HUD. Mabe she can choose flowers and a band, but she is not able to run this agency.
    The list goes on and on.
    #5 Putin’s Puppet………..Trump is beholden to Russia and its Putin controlled Banks for the financing that kept his business alive when no one else except Deutschebank would loan him money. CTL daughter worked fro a Deputy Prime Minister of Russia, responsible for running/provisioning/staffing his 100M super Yacht. They spent a month in Turkey in summer 2015 with all the Russian big shots at a resort, Trump and flunkies were in and out, cutting deals and receiving instructions.
    #6 I”YH, If the pandemic lifts and travel becomes safe, Mrs. CTL and I plan to spend January and February 2021 in our House in Herzyla Pituach, instead of our home in Florida. If Trump wins reeelction we might stay longer.

    in reply to: Question- what is your answer? #1883516
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    If it’s not your close relative or the closest of friends you say nothing, unless you have a doctor/[patient or Rav/Congregant relationship.
    It is not your place to discuss an eating disorder unless you are asked.
    Basically, mind your own business.

    in reply to: Someone other than Trump? #1883167
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    @DovidBT
    Biden was not my first choice, but he is preferable to Trump.
    I’ll vote for him and even made a modest contribution.
    Trump will not win my state (and didn’t in 2016).

    I would have voted for Romney if he was the nominee

    in reply to: Someone other than Trump? #1883166
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    @som1

    You are so gullible………you actually believe Trump’s net worth fell 30% since Januaruy 2017?
    He has never released financial information….how would you know.
    What has been released is how much money Ivanka and Jared have been raking in since that day.

    Meanwhile President Bonespurs is busy selling Beans…………………..

    I don’t hate Trump. I despise his words and actions.
    My taxes have increased substantially under his administration.
    Our Civil rights have been scaled back
    He surrounds himself with incompetents on the federal payroll
    His handling of the Corona Virus has been a travesty that has cost thousands of lives.

    How’s that wall coming, that Mexico will pay for? NOT
    He is Putin’s puppet and I;m not laughing at the show.Can I get a refund for my cost of admission.

    I will be thrilled when he is defeated in November and gone by January 20, 2021 at noon. I can’t tolerate 4 more years….who knows, it might prompt me to spend some of my retirement in our house in EY.

    in reply to: Thanks CT Lawyer #1883043
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    Moshe from Midwood………………………..
    Both Mrs. CTL and I grew up in homes with private in-ground pools. Our siblings all have them as well as some of the married children, nieces and nephews.
    We have never allowed a child under 12 to swim unsupervised and the pools are fenced and alarmed. Our youngsters were taught to swim the summer after they were out of diapers. It is always safety first.

    in reply to: Someone other than Trump? #1883042
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    By and far most Americans are NOT conservatives. Don’t be fooled by the religious Jews and Evangelicals. The average American wants government social programs, Medicare, Social Security, equal rights, etc.

    Trump is NOT nor has ever been a Conservative. He is a charlatan who lies to the Conservatives to get their votes and enrich his family and friends while destroying America.
    A pox on the house of Trump.

    in reply to: Thanks CT Lawyer #1882739
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    @Shady
    Since it hasn’t happened in thousands of years there is no reason not to be comfortable until it happens.

    in reply to: Thanks CT Lawyer #1882376
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    @1
    It would have to be a virtual pool party.
    CT has restrictions on those coming from 22 of the other states.
    I will not risk our extended family’s health by bringing in a group with unknown health risks.
    @Amil Zola
    I am glad you were able to fulfill your original plans for the pool.
    We planned a pool when we bought the property more than 30 years ago. 5 years after we moved in and were in the midst of never ending renovations and additions (original house is more than 200 years old) the town put in sanitary sewers. Once we hooked up, the septic tanks and leaching fields could be removed and a large pool installed.
    We also live out of doors as much as possible in New England. I have a full outdoor kitchen and a smokehouse for meats and fish, as well as an outdoor pizza oven. We grown and can (or freeze) lots of fresh fruits and vegetables.
    We went solar for electricity, cutting summer bills from $1200 per month to $10 per month.
    This Covid period with all the youngsters in residence has allowed much construction, teaching them homeowner life-skills, they would never learn in Yeshiva or day school. I was very lucky that when i was in Junior High I went to Yeshiva in the morning and public school in the afternoon. Back in our days boys were required to take shop courses, and I learned woodworking, plumbing, drafting and electrical skills that have been in use for more than 50 years.

    Small town or country living is not for everyone, but it works for us.

    in reply to: Thanks CT Lawyer #1881988
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    Thank you and use it good health…………………
    It was one of the best investments Mrs. CTL and I ever made. This is our 25th summer using the pool. With all the grandchildren here since March it has been invaluable.
    Three years ago, we made the decision to heat the pool…it was $3500 well spent. We used to open the pool June 15 and close it Labor Day as schools were about to open.
    This year, we opened it in April and will keep it open until mid October. Our youngsters are not using public parks, trails, ball fields this year. Only G-d knows how schools will open this fall.
    Using only our own labor we added a trampoline pit this spring, an additional Basketball 1/2 court and yesterday, we mixed and poured a concrete strip for shuffleboard and hopscotch (potsy to old time New Yorkers).
    Our children and grandchildren have acquired useful skills needed by homeowners and have a real sense of pride and accomplishment in using things they help construct.
    We have been mocked for having a family compound, but 2020 has shown this to be a wise decision.

    in reply to: Biden is No Moderate #1881174
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    Moderate is a relative term.
    I have been a delegate to the Democrat National Convention many times over the years. I am a Biden Delegate to our state convention,
    Compared to the other candidate on our ballot August 11…Bernie Sanders, Biden is a moderate.

    in reply to: Biden is No Moderate #1881173
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    @1
    always posting LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Biden is NOT bring in 11 million illegal immigrants. These people are already in the USA. If the President brought in people by changing rules or standards, the newcomers would NOT be illegal.

    Some of us would like to cut some police funding. The police in my town are a racist bunch who profile and stop people for Driving While Black. The department has been sanctioned by the State of CT..,

    You don;t know who he’ll appoint in his administration and that they’ll be anti-Israel…you have no crystal ball,
    Certainly Satmar is anti-Israel and you are not screaming they are scum.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1880886
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    @commonsaychel
    The funds from the CARES ACT received by school districts for COVID-19 related expenses MUST be shared with private/parochial/day schools and K-12 Yeshivas.
    Make sure your associated schools have made contact and requested their shares.

    In our town, the funds have been shared with 2 Catholic K-8, 1 Catholic High School, 1 Protestant K-12 and a non-demoninational Jewish K-8 day school. The nearest Day schools and Yeshiva High Schools have received funds from their local public Boards of Ed.
    This money can be used for masks, cleaning supplies, setting up distance learning (software and equipment, buying separation material (plexiglass dividers) etc.

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880354
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    @CommonSaychel
    Please don’t make assumptions…………………
    This daughter lives in a house in Kew Garden Hills, works mostly from home (pre Covid 19) coming to our CT office about once a week, She handles our client cases in NY Surrogates Court. Her husband heads our NY office and handles contract law.
    So she flew from a frum area in NYC to LA (which does have frum people) and return.
    None of the family living here in small town CT has contracted the virus.
    I”YH she will recover quickly. We have made no contact delivery of food and all other needs to her.

    This is why we isolated ALL of our grandchildren and great nieces and Nephews here back in March and they will stay for the foreseeable future. We don;t expect to allow any to return to school/yeshiva/college in person this fall. It will be on-line learning, the older ones teaching the younger ones and Mrs. CTL and I teaching the older ones. Not quite the ‘one room schoolhouse’ as we have multiple learning spaces.

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880349
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    @syag
    Our local health authorities have been telling us that 3 weeks is a more realistic time frame than the previously used 14 days, Especially in the 15-40 year old group. She may have been able to be tested and confirmed earlier but not having a raised temperature, she was not a priority for testing.

    She self isolated upon return, her husband has been at his parents and her kids have been with us (and all our other grandchildren) since March 12.

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880227
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    YES,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
    Thee is still Corona Virus in the Frum World.
    This past Friday, our eldest daughter tested positive.
    Three weeks ago she flew to and from Los Angeles on business (against our advice).
    She was there less than 48 hours, wore masks, used sanitzers and tried to avoid being close to people. BUT so many of the people were not wearing masks.

    B”H she appears to have a mild case, but the long term after affects are unknown.
    Keep your guard up…..we are in for many more cases

    in reply to: Invest in the Future of America? #1879836
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    @Ben Levi
    Your comment has NOTHING to do t=with this thread’s topic………………
    Did you post in the wrong place?
    Maybe you should copy and paste and use it to start a new thread about Trump, Blacks and the media

    in reply to: Invest in the Future of America? #1878807
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    I object to the OP’s premise about ‘investing in America’
    How long before we have to move to EY
    Should we rent in USA and buy in EY………………………………

    I don’t consider buy a piece of property as investing in a country. You are investing in the real estate. Governments come and go, the land remains forever.
    To quote a currently controversial piece of American culture, Gone With The Wind:
    “Why, land is the only thing in the world worth workin’ for, worth fightin’ for, worth dyin’ for, because it’s the only thing that lasts.”

    My investment in America is my participation in elections and politics. It is not my purchases and holdings of real estate (which I have in multiple countries).

    The investment in a home for your family (as opposed to continuing to pay rent), is generally an investment in your family and its future security. No longer at the mercy of landlords and rent increases, etc.
    That is the same no matter where in the world you live.

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1878274
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    @Haimy
    The question of what a reasonable salary for the founder of a frum charitable organization may be absolutely meaningless. Many were founded by volunteers who never drew a salary. You need to ask what the paid executives of the charity are receiving as salary.

    BTW>>>
    A charity that pays its CEO 100K but only raises 1 Million is paying too much,
    but if it pays 100K and raises 10 Million, the salary is a bargain

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1877288
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    @Health
    Objection
    Asked and answered
    OVERRULED

    Health is ordered to sop badgering the witness.

    You realized after I answered that the question you asked is not the one you wanted answered…that’s how novices lose cases. 40 years in I don’t fall for those traps. I;ve moved on to the next case

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1876689
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    @Health

    “nOmesorah -“He thoroughly answered your question”

    He did NOT!
    Here it is again -“who ordered The First Combat troops to Nam?!?”
    Do you have a problem with English Comprehension?”

    You have a problem with honesty. You hadn’t asked that question in the post I answered, n)mesorah validated that I answered your question. nOmesorah has excellent English Comprehension.

    I don;t read minds, I can only answer what appears in a post, not in your mind,

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1876688
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    @Health
    How could I answer a question you hadn’t asked.
    When you posted finding fault with my answer, you posted a different question than the post I replied to; the word FIRST was not in the original question.

    You don;t get a second bite at the apple

    in reply to: Buying land in Israel #1876534
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    @Joseph
    I don’t know if my aunt was cogisant of the underlying land lease, as she hadn’t bought the property, her parents did. It was left to a family trust. She occupied it at no cost, only paying expenses. She felt $500 additional land rent on top of common fees was more than it was worth, especially since she could not get a land lease longer than 2 years

    in reply to: Buying land in Israel #1876423
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    @ZSK
    You are correct that privately owned land is very hard to get a hold of unless you have a lot of money. We sold that house and land acquired by a relative in January 2020. I bought it from the relative in the 1990s. The purchaser paid us a lot of money, but wanted to own not lease land so it could be there for his children, grandchildren, etc.

    I hate land leases. In 1970 my grandparents bought a condo in Florida with a 50 year land lease. They figured they were in their 80s and would not be around 50 years, so who cares. An aunt of mine has occupied it since her retirement. This year she got a notice that the land lease was up. The successors to the condo developers, now want an additional $500 month land rental and will only give two year leases. The market value has plunges. She has no investment in it as it sits in a family trust.
    She is buying a new condo with no underlying land lease and the trust will sell the condo for peanuts.

    I would not consider buying a home with a land lease. B”H I don’t have to.

    in reply to: Buying land in Israel #1876242
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    @ZSK
    again, Overwhelming Majority is NOT the same as ALL

    The home and land we own is ours and not a land lease. The house and land we sold was not a land lease. We pay heavy taxes each year on the land and improvements and the family has done so for decades.

    Again, usually, does not mean always

    in reply to: Buying land in Israel #1876018
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    @ZSK
    NOT everything is owned by the JNF/KKL
    Please stop posting misinformation.
    Some of us own homes/land that was purchased during the British Mandate.
    We recently sold a house and 5 dunams of land in Ramat HaSharon that were purchased by a relative in 1946 from an Arab seller who wanted to move to the more Arab City of Yafo.
    We own and the family uses a house and land it sits on in Herzylia Pituach puchased in the early 1980s.

    Maybe most new development is on JNF/KKL land with land leases, but resales of privately owned land exist…they are not cheap

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1875876
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    Health

    BOTH….Johnson and Nixon were in charge during the Viet Nam War. Both were Commander in Chief and ordered combat troops to IndoChina

    Nice Try…………………………………………VBG.
    Parties change over time. The Dems of the 1850s and 60s were pro Slavery, In 1964 they paased the Civil Rights Act

    Before Reagan and the Immoral Majority and phony evangelicals, there were many fine LIBERAL Republicans, such as Rockefeller and Keating.

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1875547
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    @DovidBT
    Yes I remember that chant, along with H*ll No, I won’t go and burning draft cards.
    My favorite anti-war lapel button that I wore for years read:
    “War is good business, invest your son”

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1875545
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    @Joseph
    Pell grants came about in the Higher Education Act of 1972, after the SDS (and similar) sit-ins, takeovers of colleges.
    Pell grants are made to students, not the colleges, so it can’t be tied to allowing ROTC on campus. Other forms of Federal Aid and Grants to the institutions have been tied to allowing ROTC on campus, but at a later date than this anti-Viet Nam War unrest (Might have been First Gulf War, but I’m not sure and not interested enough to research it).

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1875178
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    @Anonymous

    ROTC has/had no right to be on any private campus, they had to seek permission from the institution.
    I never prevented anyone from associating with them or job recruiters. I mentioned reason for campus dissent and disruption.

    I didn’t discuss draft dodgers. You are accusing me of things that aren’t in my posts.

    As for that piece of garbage Daley. He not only ordered havoc on the streets, but prevented free movement of delegates and registered attendees (such as myself..too young to be a delegate) within the convention hall.

    Go attack someone who has actually posted what you pretend I did, I’m through wasting time ansering your false accusations.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1875069
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    @AnomymousJew
    It’s been years since Mrs. CTL and I had yeshiva tuition bills for our kids, BUT Mrs. CTL always worked. She was a builder/Realtor/designer for 35 years. Her office was attached to our home (just as I have a professional office attached with a client entrance.
    All of our daughters and daughters-in-law work, albeit most in the family law firm
    All of our grand children and my siblings’ grandchildren summer here in the compound. Two couples (our children, nieces and nephews and spouses) are in residence each week to lend a hand in supervision.
    We’ve done most of the improvements and facilities buildings ourselves over the years, This spring we dug and added a trampoline pit. It is far cheaper than summer camp and much safer on many respects. Great family bonding time as well.

    It’s not about how much money you have, but making what money you have go the furthest. We could be house poor in Brooklyn or have a compound in Southern CT for less money. We chose small town living within an easy drive of NYC.

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1874970
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    @Anomymous
    I have no idea what you are talking about…………………
    I never mentioned Bush or Draft Dodging or teacher deferments from the draft.

    The major reason I remember campus takeovers or demonstrations was to:
    A. Get rid of ROTC and/or military Recruitment on campus
    B. Stop research that aided the munitions/chemical industry
    C. Protest the draft when IIS deferments ended

    BTW>>>I wasn’t going if my number was called. I would have left the USA

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1874930
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    @Health

    NO>>>>>>>>>>>>>>it is NOT obvious that the OP was specifically talking about Race Riots that followed the assassination of MLK. In fact the OP NEVER used the term Race Riots. He used the term UNREST.

    I remember the Watts Riots (saw coverage in LOOK, Life and Time magazines) I attended my first anti-Viet Nam War protest in 1967.

    I was at The 1968 Democratic Convention in Chicago and experienced the terror of the Riots…Thank you Mayor Daley. Heroes of the Chicago Eight included Abbie Hoffman, Jerry Rubin, Tom Hayden, Bobby Seale (also tried in New Haven 1970 Black Panthers).

    So, what may be obvious to you is not to me. I had far more political exposure in the 60s than you did (so it appears).

    in reply to: Straw Borsalino hats? #1874902
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    Not Borsalino, but I wear a Navy Blue straw hat with my navy blue summer suits. I have posted before that I don;t wear black suits…many years ago a Superior Court judge told me that Black was for the judges, lawyers should wear other colors (Navy, Charcoal, Dark Brown).

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1874870
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    @Health
    The OP never mentions the killing of MLK in 1968
    There were Race Riots in the 1960s that predated this, such as Watts (LA) 1965.
    Race riots didn’t end in 1969.

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1874739
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    @Health

    I was a teen in the 1960s, I participated in the race protest during the Black Panthers Trial in New Haven n 1970
    I was profoundly affected by the Kent State Massacre by the Ohio National Guard. That Jewish kid lying dead in the street with the young lady kneeling over him (that won a Pulitzer Prize) was my 3rd Cousin Jeffrey Miller. No you can;t identify me from this because the connections wre all on mothers’ sides for several generations.

    That said: There were MANY Race Riots in the USA in the 1970s, to name only a few:
    Asbury Park, NJ Race Riots July, 1970
    Camden, NY Race Riots 1971
    Escambia HS Riots Pensacola, FL 1972-1976
    Boston, MA Busing Race Riots throughout the year 1974
    Boston Busing Riot April 1976
    Humboldt Park, Chicago June 1976

    And these don;t include riots such as Attica Prison Sept 1971 that was very much a race riot as well as a prison uprising.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1874537
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    @Joseph
    There is no requirement that she wear a face mask in the compound. It is considered a private residence. Even out of doors people residing in the same household do not require face masks. It is only upon entering private businesses or public buildings or outside when meeting people on the street, trails parks who do not reside in your household that a mask is required.
    So, as soon as she gets here and is unpacked (last year’s room and bed await her) she is free to enjoy her summer without a mask. All the joys of camp without the bugs, plus air conditioned comfort, no uniforms, no tipping and no bill for you and Mrs. J.
    BTW, we dug a trampoline pit beyond the tennis court as a surprise for our grandchildren and will open it on Sunday July 5th…I think your daughter will love practicing her gymnastic routines on it. Mrs CTL wants to know if you and the rest of the family want to come for a week or two in August. We have acquired the house behind us with its furniture from the neighbor’s estate and won’t start total renovation until October.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1874415
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    @Joseph

    I agree with you 100%
    The lawsuits are a feel good PR move by Agudah. So they can say we tried and failed. The decision is within the executive powers of the Governor.
    The CT overnight camps are closed as well this summer.

    That said your daughter wants to know when she can arrive at the compound for the summer? Our granddaughters miss her. The pool is open (with heater on), the first vegetables of the season are ready to be picked and eaten, the nets are up for tennis and volleyball and a second basketball half-court is in for the younger ones.
    With everyone working from home since March 12, my sons, sons-in-law and older grandsons have been a captive labor source for improvements and expansion of the compound.

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1874320
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    We follow the law and Executive orders issued by our Governor in CT. #7TT

    At this point a shul can only be at 25% of capacity or a MAXIMUM of 100, whichever number is smaller.
    Outside gatherings have a maximum of 150 people.

    Our shul has 300 seats, so a maximum of 75 people could be at Yomim Noraim services.
    Thus, our BOD met and announced that no tickets will be sold or made available to non-members this year (including relatives of members).
    All members must let the shul know by August 13 if they intend to use a ticket/seat this year.
    A shul cannot hold additional services in the social hall, Beis Medrash, auditorium, etc. They are considered one place as they attendees may use a common lobby, coat rooms, rest rooms, etc.

    If There is proven to be more need by the August reply deadline, the local firehouse closest to the shul has offered their hall at no charge for our use.

    We will hold our own services at the CTL compound, setting up outdoors under a canopy with a wooden floor. We expect to be about below the 150 outdoor limit, and can accommodate some of the shul’s overflow if need be. The health department has ruled that we may not use tents with walls as then it would constitute an indoor space with the lower capacity limitations.

    Again, all can change as restrictions ease up, but shuls have to make decisions by a date certain. Unlike the articles we read in YWN about shuls and yeahivos ignoring the laws/regulations, we’ll follow them

    in reply to: Yidden out in the nature #1873273
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    Back in the 60s I was a member pf our shul’s Boy Scout Troop. We were taught to leave this place as if you had never been there. No changes to nature, no garbage, no destruction.

    The old adage we were taught in 3rd grade by our reading teacher:

    LET NO ONE SAY TO YOUR SHAME,
    THAT ALL WAS BEAUTY UNTIL YOU CAME…………………..

    Sums it up perfectly

    in reply to: Are Law abiding minorities affected by police racism? #1872314
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    @som1
    Unlike you, I am not glued to my computer all day lurking in the CR. I worked today preparing for a child custody hearing to be held via Zoom tomorrow.

    I suggest you google CT Annual Racial Profiling Report and see the results of the 98 municipalities for 2019.

    I WON’T identify a specific policy by name, number or statute, because that would help you locate the town I live in. There are 169 towns in CT, you can narrow it down by the fact I have stated over the years that I live in Fairfield County. That is as much personal information that I choose to share.

    When you google you will find an interesting article in the CT Post newspaper (covers Bridgeport and area) about the 2019 study and it names municipalities still racial profiling, especially at dusk.

    in reply to: Are Law abiding minorities affected by police racism? #1871764
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    @Shady
    The finding of racial profiling and stops for Driving while black was found by the CT courts to be systemic racist policy of the police department in many towns (including my own). It is not my anecdotal observation. The departments were fined, ordered to institute new policies, Required to retrain officers and to wear and use body cams.
    A number of top brass were forced to resign or take early retirement because they had instituted this racist profiling as part of department procedure.

    in reply to: For Anyone who was a Teen/Adult in the 60s #1871369
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    The madness of the 60s slowed down as:
    Civil Rights laws started to be enforced
    Public School integration (busing) went into effect
    Housing discrimination laws were written and enforced
    Redlining by banks was stopped
    Equal opportunity protection in hiring and college admissions
    ERA became part of some state Constitutions (including NY and CT)
    Voting age and national drinking age lowered to 18
    The Viet Nam War ended in the mid 70s and minorities ceased to be conscripted and used as cannon fodder, while the wealthy such as President Bone Spurs could buy their way out by paying a friendly doctor.

    Outside NYC, white flight brought Jews to the suburbs. Unlike the 1920s and 30s, now their money was welcome by home sellers

    The protests of the 60s and 70s were not anti-government as they are now. By and large they were anti-war/draft, pro civil and equal rights for females, pro-abortion and birth control. These laws changed and the country moved on. Now the media exposes every bad action of a cop and the people react. Far different than when there was 15 minutes of national news on TV at 7PM. The first anti-Viet Nam War demonstration I attended in New Haven was largely white middle class people who were horrified by the body bags and nightly death toll being shown on the supper hour news,
    There was no general fear that the USA would not continue. Now there are calls to remove the President and his cronies by force. I don;t believe it will occur. I think he will be removed at the ballot box.

    in reply to: Are Law abiding minorities affected by police racism? #1871353
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    @som1
    You post has nothing to do with the topic of this thread: :”Are Law abiding minorities affected by police racism?”

    This white, Jewish lawyer has had black clients as long as I’ve been in practice. If the client has enough money to warrant, a trust, adoption, divorce, guardianship, child custody or any other part of our practice, then the only color that matters is GREEN…can they afford our fees? We are a for profit law firm. We do XXX hours of pro bono work per year, usually child custody or parental rights cases as assigned by our local Probate Judge. In a mostly white community, most clients are white.

    We do not practice criminal law or personal injury or medical malpractice or landlord/tenant/housing cases.

    Unlike NY, CT does not have District Attorneys. We have States Attorneys who prosecute cases. They are NOT elected (like a DA in NY) and don’t get to choose to take cases involving minority defendants. If a States attorney is assigned to a specific courthouse, the senior States Attorney and clerk assign most cases based on workload availability. The exception are major felonies which go to the most experienced trial attorneys in the office. Every few years the states attorneys are rotated geographically. So after spending three years in a city court with majority of minority defendants, they may find themselves in a rural court that almost never sees a minority defendant,
    Also, different is that we do not have a Grand Jury system to issue indictments in CT. The police make their case to the states attorney, and he/she decides charges and whether to prosecute.

    in reply to: Are Law abiding minorities affected by police racism? #1871115
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    ABSOLUTELY……………………..law abiding minorities are affected by police racism

    I live in small town CT. It is 85% white.
    Our cops are notorious for stopping black drivers who cross the town line. Usual excuse…’you have a tail light out. They humiliate the driver, pulled to the side of the road for all to see, call in two additional patrol cars. After running the license plate and drivers license and finding no wants and warrants, they say, your tail light is working now, but wasn’t before. You need to have it checks by a repair facility.

    The actual truth: The driver was stopped for DWB. DRIVING WHILE BLACK

    A few years ago our town was cited (along with many others} for this racial profiling.

    My wife grew up here. She told me there were only three black families in town when she was growing up. I listened to a 55 year old member of one of those families at a recent symposium on out police racism. He is a Yale graduate and a local physician. When he was growing up, police would stop him all the time, asking why he was in the area. His father was followed home by a patrol car one night right into their driveway. The cop pulled a gun and wanted to know what right dad had to be on private property in town. The father replied, I own this house and live here.
    Because the requirement to be a police officer are so low, it often attracts gun happy, racist red necks. All you need is to be 18 years old, have a high school diploma or GED, pass the easy entrance exam and then 16 weeks at the state police academy. Many positions go vacant and towns desperately hire any who apply and pass the background checks of no felonies or major misdemeanor convictions.

    Untold amounts of money has been paid out by area police departments who have lost race discrimination lawsuits.

    BTW>>>Driving While Hispanic is almost as dangerous

    in reply to: African-American Role Models #1868881
    Ex-CTLawyer
    Participant

    @Anonymous
    Not all Blacks are in NYC schools, most aren’t and the UFT has nothing to do with their education.
    Our little town is 15% Black and the role models mentioned above by me are all taught in US History and Current events classes. NOT ALL BLACKS LIVE IN INNER CITIES

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