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☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
ZD:
For you to have a tayna, you would need to know that the same organization is advertising that the actual chickens are going to be schechted and given to tzeddaka, yet the default is to throw them way. If it’s either not the same organization, or they try to give away the kosher chickens and the ones you saw discarded were the neveilos and treifos, then there is no fraud going on.
Saying there are more efficient uses of tzeddakah money is misguided, when, as I said, the tzeddakah aspect is not the main thrust of kapparos.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantFlatbusher, are you a master of Chassidus and Kabbalah that you can say that with such authority?
The fact that it doesn’t completely absolve one of his sins is undisputed, but to therefore claim it has no utility whatsoever is an unfounded stretch.
If I had to put a rational spin on it, I would say that the fact that we acknowledge that we deserve the chicken’s fate is itself a form of viduy and brings hirhurei teshuvah. I wouldn’t claim to know what deeper meaning it has, but won’t deny such a possibility out of ignorance.
Why would we make up our own definition of tzaar baalei chaim when there already are halachic parameters for it?
ZD, it says nefesh tachas nefesh right there in the machzor. Tzeddakah is a beautiful add on, and has become a part of the minhag, but who says the profits are not going to tzeddakah?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantZD, the point of kapparos isn’t tzeddakah. The point is nefesh tachas nefesh.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHow do you know where the profits from the kapparos went to, and how do you know that the tzedakah you gave to is run by scrupulous people?
I think next year for the seudah hamafsekes I’m going to eat money instead of chicken.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantOh, you think it’s normal for people to look away?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYes, good point Mammele. I was wondering the same thing.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantOne should ask a Rav before he decides to smoke.
I don’t think it’s any of my business if the Rav decides to smoke.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantDo married people suffer from this?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMazel tov, such nice news! May you build a bayis ne’eman b’Yisroel, and produce doros who are a nachas to yourselves, klal Yisroel, and of course to Hashem.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe possible problem is shidduch burn out.
Presumably, that’s only a problem for those who remain single for longer, which is more uncommon for Chassidim.
I have no idea where you get the incredible notion that Chassidim “do not believe in emotional personal living”.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI apologize for probably giving you that good reason.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMore multiple births are occurring (for the reasons stated in this thread). Therefore, more neshamos have to come down (or be created) for these extra children.
Or perhaps the opposite – more neshamos had to come down so that Moshiach can come, therefore, Hashem arranged, through His sh’lichim the researchers and doctors, for more twins to be born.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantPBA: Anti-Torah people saying stupid things is not a reason to do things that are potentially problematic.
One word rebuttal: cholent.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHow you store them after? They’re dead. You chuck em in a bin.
Boy, you must swing those chickens very hard. With most people, they don’t die until they’re schechted.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBut you’re attributing some problem, at least possibly, to excessive homogeneity. I’m asking what that (possible) problem is.
Also, how do Chassidim decide whom they (or their children) should marry, if they’re all pretty much the same?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIf the decision is made to get married (transition), the difficult part was already done. Whom to marry, according to you, should not be much of a decision since everyone’s the same.
Also, do chassidim, who are more homogeneous than others, have a bigger shidduch crisis?
Also, how are you defining the shidduch crisis?
September 20, 2015 2:06 pm at 2:06 pm in reply to: Has anyone used netspark that advertise on YWN? #1100276☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI wouldn’t hold my breath on K9.
You can try Mobicip or Kids Safe Browser. They work similarly to how K9 worked in that they are their own browsers with built in filtering.
Again, they are not foolproof, but if you’re just looking for a K9 equivalent, one of them might work for you.
September 20, 2015 1:36 pm at 1:36 pm in reply to: Has anyone used netspark that advertise on YWN? #1100274☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI think you should call TAG for a recommendation. They have dealt with more phones than anyone here.
I think it will depend on how tech savvy you are, and how much of a deterrent is needed (sorry, that’s partly hashkafic 🙂 ). There are ways around filters, and I’m told that that the only one(s) that are reasonably difficult to get around are not free.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSqueak, ??? ??? ??? ????.
Let us know when something comes up that hasn’t been discussed.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSeptember 18, 2015 6:27 pm at 6:27 pm in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157491☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo, they’re not married yet.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI agree, but I’ll change the terminology a bit. There is no schar, as far as I know, for not committing an aveirah for which one has no desire or opportunity.
A mitzvah, however (meaning a “kum va’aseh” – positive action) does bring schar even if it’s enjoyable. Oneg Shabbos comes to mind as an example.
September 18, 2015 10:53 am at 10:53 am in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157486☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSo just marry the first one, since they’re all the same anyhow.
That’s what I do when buying a bag of potatoes. Since they’re all pretty much the same, I just grab one without spending too much time deciding which one.
Also, you haven’t said what the problem is.
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/defining-the-shidduch-crisis#post-552349
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMy schedule was 9:35-1:15; 2:45-6:30; 7:30-10:45.
Which yeshiva has Shachris at 9:35?
September 17, 2015 8:39 pm at 8:39 pm in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157476☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy don’t the chosson and kallah have classes together?
Lack of tznius.
September 17, 2015 11:33 am at 11:33 am in reply to: Challenges of making Aliyah and how to overcome them? #1100499☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantKids often take moving to any new location very hard, and when we’re dealing with a radically different culture, it can be very emotionally unsettling and unhealthy.
Also, Joseph is right, because being emotionally unhealthy is bad for Yiddishkeit.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant“The”, or “A”?
Anyhow, there are numerous problems regarding Shidduchim, so when someone identifies the cause or proposes the solution, or denies that there is a problem, it would be helpful if they said which problem they’re referring to.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy, thank you!
September 17, 2015 2:33 am at 2:33 am in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157465☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantTLIK, boys who like technology and don’t come to minyan on time shouldn’t learn?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSo they’re not getting married? Only the unique personalities are getting married?
What is “The Shidduch Crisis” anyhow?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantOh, Bon Appetit.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHowever, neither ??? nor ?? ?? are the first and last letters of the ????, so see previous post.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat’s an interesting way of saying, “bump”.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAlso, ??? is ??????? ?? ??.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantJust proves popa’s right about seminary.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantProbably from seminary.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhether or not one’s choices can actually have a negative impact on another is a machlokes.
The commonly assumed m’halach is that it cannot.
However, the Or Hachaim Hakadosh (on the brothers throwing Yosef into the bor) seems to say otherwise.
September 10, 2015 9:22 pm at 9:22 pm in reply to: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs) #1157450☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe second reason that the two teachers should speak, is because I’ve heard of quite a few cases where the chosson is taught one thing and the kallah is taught something else which causes unnecessary tension and confusion. What do you think?
I agree that it’s an issue. I don’t have a solution.
The shidduch crisis is because choosanim are too choosy.
How are you defining “the shidduch crisis”?
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/defining-the-shidduch-crisis
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantCorrect, feivel. Look at it like defensive driving. If you know someone is about to run a red light, you stop at the intersection even though it’s your right of way.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWho said you have to forgive those who don’t want you to?
The Ramban seems to say it’s midas chassidus (depending on what you mean by “don’t want you to”).
?? ???? ???? ????? ??? ??? ??????? ??? ???? ?? ???? ???? ???? ????? ????? ?????. ?? ????? ???? ??????. ???? ?? ???? ??? ???? ??? ?????? ??? ?? ??? ?????? ?? ?????? ???? ??? ?? ??????
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/rambam.aspx?rid=150
The reason, simply, is because the Torah doesn’t want us to carry sinah in our hearts.
The meforshim say different pshatim in this difficult Rambam, but that is the simple understanding.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhich Yom Zeh M’chubad?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantPerhaps it came from there. Perhaps from Kiddush Levanah.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBy swinging a chicken over his head.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantApparently, in the times of the Gemara, they said shalom alecha.
http://beta.hebrewbooks.org/shas.aspx?mesechta=21&daf=73b&format=pdf
Since it’s a more modern innovation, it might very well be borrowed from other cultures.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantTo be honest, I “edited” it myself.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBump?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBump?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantCan someone be crucified on behalf of someone else?
I volunteer edited to be crucified for all of us.
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