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  • in reply to: Tzedaka collectors in shul who stand by you till you give them #942935
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    Thank the Ribbono Shel Olam (and have extra Kavanna during Bentching) that you are not so desperate for money that you need to be Mitztarech L’Briyos, let alone embarass others into giving you, which (IIRC, I would have to look up the source and ask for help here) has the Din of Gezel.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014285
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    but the same people polled after they entered the workforce many had become Conservative.

    Of course! When they didn’t have money they wanted it from others, and now that they were making money they didn’t want to give it away!

    in reply to: Mods? Mods? #1108087
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    Thanks for taking care of what needed to be taken care of.

    G@W

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014267
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    Doesn’t sound like you actually learned in Bais Yaakov. This is simply the battle cry of any anti-Bais Yaakov.

    Suprisingly, I agree. A Bais Yaakov (such as BJJ in Israel, or (I would imagine) Bais Yaakov D’Rav Meir in Brooklyn) does not “brainwash”, as in subliminally and continuously direct/presume someone in the direction wanted with statements like “When you marry a Kollel Man…..”. That is left to the Sems.

    in reply to: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch #1014264
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    Brainwashing – It’s NOTHING compared to college.

    Which college did you go to that attempted brainwashing? What was your major? Islamic studies?

    in reply to: Why should I go to sem? #1043530
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    PBA: Based on her requirements, that is what fits. I agree that HU is not the best place for an aspiring Bais Yaakov Girl. Truthfully, as we agree, Sem is useless, overrated and damaging to Yiddishkeit B’Klal, U’Biprat. Just stay home and go to Stern.

    Thanks.

    in reply to: Why should I go to sem? #1043528
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    writersoul: The answer for you is to go to an accredited Israeli College for a year, and go to religious courses in English at night (if you so desire). You can do some research, but I would think that Hebrew University credits (from the actual college program) would be accepted by any major US College.

    in reply to: Good Communities Outside of NY #1153485
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    gavra at work- The pizza shop in denver is good but it has very crazy hours. The joke is that its open from 7:00 to 7:01.

    🙂

    in reply to: Good Communities Outside of NY #1153482
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    Chicago is also quite expensive.

    Might I suggest Eretz Yisroel (How about Haifa?) If not that, how about Atlanta, Cleveland or St. Louis? Denver also has great views and some very good Kosher Pizza.

    You shouldn’t paint the entire Five Towns with one brushstroke; Lawrence is very different than Hewlett, for example.

    Funny you say that. My relative in the “Five Towns” tells me that housing in Far Rockaway proper is significantly more expensive than Lawrence. Something to do with Real Estate taxes, and the more “Yeshivish” crowd wanting to live in Far Rockaway, driving the prices up.

    in reply to: Why should I go to sem? #1043523
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    Sem is one of the major things that is destroying Klal Yisroel today. Besides for being a waste of money, it has a large part in the divorce crisis (due to insane expectations) and not a small part in the shidduch crisis.

    That being said, “old man” is correct that it isn’t a bad idea to spend some time in Eretz Yisroel, & Torah is also not incorrect that a girl should continue to learn (Halacha, not Radak) throughout her life. But a Bais Yaakov type brainwashing Sem? Feh.

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939828
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    He has absolutely no such right. If be doesn’t like it, he can stop paying for it; but he has no right to tell us how and how not to live our lives.

    Same idea. As long as he is paying, he has a say, once he stops paying, he doesn’t.

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939805
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    He’s trying to impose fundamental changes to the nature of Chareidi society, changes that the Chareidim believe are completly wrong.

    Correct. He even has the moral right to do so, since he (as a representitive of those who voted for him) is currently paying for their society. As Health has said before, taking money from the Zionists will have its costs, and the Charaidim are now paying the piper.

    in reply to: Win for the Charaidim in Eretz Yisroel!! #939322
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    At least someone agrees with me (Please allow the link).

    http://www.cross-currents.com/archives/2013/03/20/the-coalition-plan-for-charedim/

    in reply to: Chareidi Draft #939238
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    Oxymoronic screen name for Internet use:

    Israeli Chareidi

    You made me smile 🙂

    in reply to: Separate Times For Bochurim & Sem Girls In Gateshead #1029725
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    An article in the Daily Telegraph stated that a woman was denied entry into England at some time prior to 2007 for giving her reason for visiting as wanting to go to Gateshead. “British visa officials ruled this as “not credible”.

    (Wikipedia)

    in reply to: Middah Kineged Middah? #941104
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    No. 1. The fact that they don’t have a Torah education that teaches “Torah protects” is Not the Charedim’s fault -it’s their fault that these Chilonim don’t want to learn any Torah, but if they wanted to there is ample opportunity in EY to learn Torah.

    So the Truth is the Charedim learning Torah are doing more than their fair share.

    I happen to (personally) like this argument. Good luck convincing a non-Charaidi Jew that Charadim are correct because the Charaidi lifestyle is the correct one.

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939802
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    If all Lapid was worried about was paying the bills, he would be advocating austerity.

    Why should the poor working class lose out because other people decide to sit on their backsides all day and do nothing? (From the secular point of view). Why should we support Americans learning in Mir (to the tune of 43M NIS a year) when army vets can’t afford apartments in Netanya or Ashdod?

    As I said originally (and I know you disagree), had the Charaidim offered to stop taking funding (including funding that others get for being poor, since they are poor by choice) in exchange for dropping the draft of Yeshiva students, they would be in the coalition today.

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939785
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    Yeah, if the Chareidim gave up on everything that makes them Chareidim, Lapid would think about letting them in. So he has no problem with the Chareidim, as long as they stop being Chareidim.

    I’m glad that you think that what makes a Charaidi is taking money from the government. I would not have been so crass.

    in reply to: Chareidi Draft #939210
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    Troll.

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939783
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    in reply to: The CR Discworlders Club #1114407
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    where did everyone go?

    Crivens! Bigjobs!

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939781
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    If the Chilonim’s only prob with the Charedim was working -they could pass legislation allowing them to work without army time.

    And since that is what is planned, you should have no problems.

    The difference is that Lapid did not categorically refuse to be photographed on the first day of the new coalition together with Meretz, even if they acceded to his demands. He did say that about the Chareidim.

    Of course not! Everyone knows that pictures should not be taken of the Gedolim! People might photoshop in Kupat Hair or something.

    Seriously, Lapid stood for stopping funds to the Charaidim. Anything short of that (and looking like he is kow-towing to them) would be going against his word. He did not campaign on stopping funding to Meretz, and had he done so, he would not have wanted to pose with them either.

    Besides, if the Charaidim would agree to what the coalition has decided, I have a feeling that they would be “let in” (of course, with no power or money, but they would be part of the “coalition”).

    Meretz boycott = unfair!!!

    in reply to: Boycott of Meretz�Unfair!! #939777
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    Wrong; I don’t think they are liked a drop better.

    I respectfully disagree. Any Charaidi can get out of their “situation” (as per the anti-Arab, Anti Charaidi seculars) by “working”, while an Arab will always be an Arab.

    It is similar to the discrimination you find against the “petty rich” who inherited money and can now sit on their backsides doing nothing. If they went and did something (that the seculars considered) useful, they would not longer be treated that way.

    In that vein, perhaps they are looked at as worse. An Arab didn’t make the choice to be one, while a Charaidi could always get a job.

    Meretz boycott = unfair!!!

    in reply to: Rambam and Free Market Economics #943236
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    PBA: After a thread like this one:

    Is Popa Cynical?

    You have to expect that. Sorry if you don’t agree.

    in reply to: Jews Resisting the Zionist Draft #940247
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    WHO CARES what is happening, may happen etc. – Hashem is running the show, and all we can and must do is follow da’as Torah i.e. strengthen our Torah and mitzvos etc. and daven. Everything else – the politics; what’s happening; what could happen; what we’d do if it would happen, etc. is all thoroughly irrelevant, and is pure Bittul Torah for which we will accomplish one thing and one thing only – giving power to the Satan.

    Unfortunately, not everyone has Bitachon.

    in reply to: Rambam and Free Market Economics #943234
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    GAW: I disagree with you about the reading. Parak me’al tzavaro means they decide not to engage in productive activity, and rely on the community like the leviim, as I noted.

    Like all good Satire, PBA does a good job in convincing us that he means this (even though he is obviously incorrect as far as the words are concerned. If he is given, he has no need to be Zoche.).

    in reply to: Rambam and Free Market Economics #943233
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    akuperma: With all due respect, there are halachic ramifications as per what is “halachicly” considered “money”, even vs. “Shave Kesef” (such as the actual value of a Perutah, or being Mekadesh an Isha with an FRN, or Pidyon of Ma’aser Shaini).

    I’m not dealing with the Rambam (which I believe I have sufficently in my response to PBA. I also believe (IIRC) that the Gaon in Yorah Dayah (246.9) makes your point regarding a wealthy society.

    Besides, I believe it is Muchrach like you, as the Rambam did not deal with Tuition payments (re: the Ramabam in Talmud Torah 1:14).

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #938023
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    GAW:

    The obvious difference is that the said comment was referring to boosting the Chareidi population, not limiting the chilloni one.

    Yes, and? The point is still made that demographics is part of the conflict.

    in reply to: Rambam and Free Market Economics #943228
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    They bartered using commodities, goods, and pieces of rare metals (gold, silver and copper in particular- which are really just commodities).

    Kefirah. The Torah defines money (as per the Gemorah Kiddushin) as a certain value of silver (or gold, as per the Machlokes in HaZahav). That is “Money”, and FRNs, NIS or Wampum is not.

    Period.

    in reply to: Boss Taking Advantage Erev Pesach? #940857
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    So your saying ethics aside I am at his mercy.

    “Ethics” says he doesn’t have to pay you for Pesach.

    in reply to: Middah Kineged Middah? #941063
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    This would be particularly disastrous for Israel, whose army is largely funded the US.

    Aderaba, it would be wonderful for Eretz Yisroel and Yidden all over. Besides, the Ann Randist would hurt American Yeshivos way more than he could possibly hurt Eretz Yisroel.

    in reply to: Rambam and Free Market Economics #943226
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    PBA: If the Charaidim were on that level, the they wouldn’t be complaining about the coalition and not getting funding. They are obviously NOT

    ???? ??? ????? ??? ???????? ????? ??? ???? ??? ????

    Perhaps a select few are (such as Rav Chaim), but not the Hamon Am.

    in reply to: Boss Taking Advantage Erev Pesach? #940854
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    I get paid for the whole Pesach and don’t have to come into work. From an objective ethical standpoint, do I have to come into work the Sunday before if my boss asks me to?

    Who pays you for Pesach? The boss? The boss can change that as well if he/she desires.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #938018
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    Finally, to prove my point regarding a demographic “war”, a quote from the main page comments:

    heshy Friedman says:

    March 18, 2013 at 9:07 am

    in reply to: Is Popa Cynical? #938160
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    Is water wet?

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #938016
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    So the US promised forever the 3 Billion? Time to stop the cash cow to Israel. I think if the Frum Americans start demanding No more aid to Israel the politicians who don’t want to give foreign aid anyway will get more powerful and we can change the law.

    As a total off the topic point, I agree with this 100%. The whole point of this aid is to shovel cash to American arms dealers. Both the US and Israel would be better off without it.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #938015
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    There more I hear about it, the more I am convienced “Share the Burden” is not about the draft, but rather welfare burdens.

    I’ve been saying this all along. Welcome to the club.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #938014
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    Are you suggesting a “war” to limit the growth of particular demographic? Because I wouldn’t just call that “Paraoh”, I’d call that “Nazi”. We have a right to have children; sorry if it inconveniences you.

    I’m suggesting that is what is behind some of the non-charaidi thinking, yes. (Disclaimer: This is NOT what I personally believe). The “demographic” war is a known point between the Palestinians and Israelis, why shouldn’t in be in the mind of the Charaidim/Secular as well?

    GAW, there is a chiyuv to force others to follow the mitzvos(not chumros) if possible even though it might not be up your American alley.

    There is an old saying: You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937974
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    Before you scream “Paraoh”, note that Charaidim ARE enforcing their will on the rest of society & forcing the rest of society to pay for their largess. Once again, this would have never been an issue if not for the funding (and even now, it still isn’t, which is why the plan as put out IS a win for the Charaidim).

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937973
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    cannot equate Chareidi takeover of certain neighborhoods, fueled by natural growth of that particular demographic, to attempting to “remove/destroy” anybody and everybody who does not agree with the Chareidi worldview.

    How many is “certain”? Looking at it your way, the seculars have even more reason to stop the Charaidim, as it is (in your view) a war for limited resources, which will only get worse as the demographic advantage moves towards the Charaidi side (due to nothing other than a fantasic birthrate, which anyone secular would call irresponsible). I would not be so sure that in 25 years (if CV Moshich is not here) that Beni Brak will not include parts of Tel Aviv. Even if it isn’t Tel Aviv, how about the rest of Yerushalaim? Haifa? etc.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937970
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    I am not advocating imposing Chareidi standards in Chareidi neighborhoods (perhaps we can discuss the pros and cons of that on another thread), only saying that it cannot be reasonably compared to “the removal of all non-charaidim… from the country”.

    As these standards are put into place, those who already live there and do not want to follow the standards are forced to leave (via violence and/or threats thereof). As more neighborhoods are “taken over”…

    As I said, we have seen it happen.

    Also reread “Bear”‘s statement.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937968
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    P.S. I have no problem with the “Mea Shearim” signs asking people to dress Tznius. Besides for it being a good thing, it is only right to respect the (certainly) Charaidi area and the residents’ wishes. It is what happens when someone doesn’t comply that is (for lack of a better term) disgraceful and (IMHO) Anti-Torah. Other places provide sweaters specifically for this purpose.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937966
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    I repeat, imposing Chareidi standards in a Chareidi neighborhood is very different from wanting to “destroy” everybody else.

    1: Not if it affects those “passing through” a public area, such as Kikar Shabbos in Geulah.

    2: What makes an area a “Charaidi neighborhood”? Is everyone else blacklisted out? Must you be in kollel to live there? (This might be the biggest problem, as they “decide” it is a charaidi neighborhood while the current occupants are still living there.)

    3: What about the effects on non-Charaidim, such as not allowing secular marriage, destroying supermarkets that are open on Shabbos, etc. If you want “live and let live”, you have to “let live”.

    in reply to: Everyone Must Answer: Your Favorite Song #1032894
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    Symphony #8. Shostakovich.

    Dark, like this world.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937961
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    Kanoi: I wish that you are right and I am wrong. I really do. Facts on the ground show otherwise (with neighborhoods in Yerushalaim turning over one by one, with Charaidim moving in and others moving out. “Kanoim” attacking in RBS. Busses are no longer allowed to show Tznius pictures of women).

    I’m really sorry that it is this way. It didn’t have to be.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937956
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    The Kanoi Next Door: It is unfortunate that we have gotten to this point, but the Charaidi ideal “end game” seems to be the removal of all non-charaidim. First from their towns (whom they place pressure to either act like a charaidi or leave, see Beitar and now RBS), and then from the country. As I said elsewhere:

    Had the Charaidim left everyone else alone, we would not be having this discussion. It is easy to say “you leave us alone, but we will still control you”. Chazal called that Midas Sedom.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937955
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    Why should they leave? Eretz Yisroel belongs to the Jews; the Zionists do not have an exclusive claim to it.

    No group of Yidden have an “exclusive” claim. One group is trying to remove/destroy the other. If they feel so strongly that the group should be removed (as per the post by the Bear), they can leave themselves.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937953
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    “Democracy is the worst form of government except for all those others that have been tried.”

    Churchill

    ???? ??? ????? ??? ?’ ????? ?? ????? ??? ??? ????? ???? ????? ?????

    in reply to: Win for the Charaidim in Eretz Yisroel!! #939320
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    The Chazon Ish was fiercest anti-zionist.

    And still he compromised with Ben Gurion.

    P.S. Where is HaifaGirl when you need her? 🙂

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937951
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    When the Rebbe travels to Lod Airport and shows his US passport, They stamp it with something

    That he entered Lod in Eretz Yisroel. He admits that such a city exists, and they can even use Lashon HaKodesh as a stamp!

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