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100% true
Joe,
Giving tochacha is only an obligation when you know the person will be מקבל it if you know the person won’t it’s לפני עור because the person will deride it and make more עברות
Joe,
Avi said there are multiple basherts so even if you are מקים the מצוה of פרו ורבו it seems like according to what Avi said you would come back because you didn’t marry all of your bashertim
Avi,
Why should a נשמה be forced into a גלגול just because they didn’t marry someone
Joe,
No I don’t think you should tell them what they’re doing is wrong if they’re not going to listen, what’s the point, to make them a מזיד?
You shouldn’t let it slide in your eyes either
You should realize by now you can only change yourself and no one else
Shopping,
You think only Jewish stores only want to make sales?
Neville,
Do you think you’ll change someone’s mind and have them dress more tznius because of your post
Why post derogatory things about a community otherwise?
Lightbrite,
My answer would be there is a mitzvah to put a fence on ones roof (even though the person would die according to ד׳ will, see the גמרא סנהדרין that even though there’s no capital punishment by בית דין, then ד׳ will still take care of it) because it shouldn’t be because of you
Aymdock
I know kids that talk to their parents in English even though they both speak Spanish
On the topic of clothing stores, I prefer to go to non-religious stores over frum stores.
Secular store workers or owners here me say “Yeah, I can’t wear that” or “It’s not tzniyus” or “Too short” and accept it.The reason is because if you go to a goyish store they don’t care if you think it’s not tznius, they’ll sell it to someone else who thinks it is whereas a Jewish store if you tell them it’s not tznius they will take it as “you’re selling untznius clothes which they need to justify for themselves (not for you)
He still didn’t get better?
Winter break isn’t over yet?
Bored souls
You guys don’t see that yankeleh is a troll?
Anonymous Jew
You’re right he works in the 5 towns 🙄
Move out of the 5 towns they don’t need any trolls they have a צניעות problem as is now you’re going to bring drugs too?
Why only sfardim? My father in law isn’t a sfardi and he drives a Volkswagen and my mother in law’s family escaped the nazis Ym”s
Wow, it used to be that joe was most of the posters
Now instead he says they’re all family
Exactly
Slight edit
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“Winnieh the pooh your probably right about that, another issue i should have mentioned is that we did go through our friends and my circles and hers are very different from each other. That being said, it seems that situation is the exception and not the majority of marriges. However ill try again. Avacado is right, its selfish if you might be the one who can bring two ppl who were meant to be together, but you gave up too soon.“
I was told by someone that it’s pointless to set people up if you’re not 100% sure there won’t be a divorce because if they get married and then divorce it’s on you pleitzes (I disagree though)
Joe,
Coffee Addict: I don’t think OOT is better in tznius than in-town. In fact, it is better in many in town places (i.e. by the Chasidim, as ubiquitin pointed out above) than most OOT places.
Did you read my post or only saw that I said the word (abbreviation) oot so you think I’m being משבח ooters
Winnie,
No he’s not, he moved out of ct and now is a nyer that hates ooters (brings back bad memories)
Additionally it’s not just in 5t it’s anywhere and everywhere (unfortunately) even in oot communities
To parrot t2
The problem is the tight clothing
I partially think it’s the manufacturer’s fault
Women like to feel thinner than they really are so the size they want to be will obviously feel too tight
Now that he’ll see my comment, he’s sure to ask all the kids if they’re Joseph. Since I’m going to play dumb about this, he’s going to write this all off as another silly online gag, none the wiser.
Now y’all know what I would do in this scenario.
I thought your kids have stayed at his house before and love it and don’t want to come home (as per crl)
Throw in a pink elephant and it’s a deal!
Then you have communication problems (it doesn’t show in real life and you only found out in the coffee room)
On a serious note, although it will upset some of the more machmir CR regulars, there are many MO shuls where women are now regular KC attendees with the local minhagim varying from shul to shul. And no, they don’t serve the gals flavored sugar syrup mixed with alcohol in lieu of real (big-boy) drinks….they imbibe the same stuff as the guys do with gusto..
I wouldn’t expect anything less (sadly)
Shes probably coming late becaise thats wht her mother did you need to have a serious conversation with your mil about how she raised her children.
So true
He’s upset because his wife showed up at borchu but the toddler at korbonos.
Don’t you mean “He’s upset because his wife showed up at borchu but she comes at korbonos.“
And finds him at the kiddush club
Avram in md,
Or they make sure to say krias shema before the zman, like at the table on Friday night after dark.
That works but it’s better to say בזמן during תפילה
Thanks ziongate,
I’m replying to joes question from a different thread where he asked the same thing to me
Lol @ mammale
But seriously to address the op if I kept to my conviction (not marrying someone from NY) I wouldn’t be married to my wife
If you don’t compromise on things it won’t happen IMO
As a starter, remember the origins and current role of hashkama minyanim.
Current? I don’t know orthodox people still go to shul and work thereafter on shabbos!
Additionally most shuls daven past סזק״ש according to the מג״א
People who are מקפיד daven hashkamaRav Shmuel kamenetsky?
*agree
Yes I agtgey want to start an investigation and that they already started one about collusion
Do they have such things outta town?
Joe
What does that mean?
Too true
Additionally it’s not totally the Guy’s fault
Beis Yaakov girls are taught “marry a learning boy” but that’s it, if the women can support him when they’re married, good. But not everyone that goes through Lakewood can adapt outside of Lakewood
“TryingToStayCalm makes an excellent point. Out of town people are often less energetic about religious life. Some out of towners, like my friend MDG does above, mistakenly dismiss this as merely being “outwardly religious’ not realizing or accepting that this is typically real ehrlichkeit and a truly felt and lived higher level of Torah life. But it is, despite the OOTers misimpression.
There truly is a higher standard and level of daily life of Torah, Avoda and Gemilas Chasodim in town than elsewhere.“
I anticipated this from joe that’s why I haven’t posted here
Syag, did I get it right?
My ouch was basically once you said that it was understood (or at least should’ve been) and if it wasn’t there’s a serious problem here
But as O’Keefle was being vomited out of the spaghetti monster an alien spacecraft abducted both O’Keefle and Baruch. “This will complete our research of the human brain” one of the aliens says to the other and they promptly switch O’Keefle’s brain with Baruch and send them back down to earth
Atheist ואתא מלאך המות ושחט ל
That made the spaghetti monster doubt himself
That ate O’Keefle
That split into two and rejoined