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  • in reply to: Child Adoption #813060
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    There is a dispute among poskim as to whether yichud is permissible between a parent and adopted child of the opposite gender over age 6 (?). Most poskim say no, but Rav Moshe is mattir.

    in reply to: Is the chassidish way better? #1035196
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    a mamin: That still doesn’t answer my question of what do Chasidim research more, that Litvaks don’t research.

    in reply to: Is the chassidish way better? #1035192
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    What research do Chasidim do that Litvaks don’t do?

    in reply to: Only ONE Photograph of the Chofetz Chaim?? #812935
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    Nowadays many Gedolim, especially Chasidish ones, still don’t allow themselves to be photographed.

    That doesn’t mean people still don’t photograph them.

    in reply to: Is the chassidish way better? #1035184
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    The Chasidish was is how yidden successfully got married for thousands of years and is still the best way today.

    in reply to: Only ONE Photograph of the Chofetz Chaim?? #812932
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    Passports weren’t required to travel or prevalent in Europe during the CC time.

    in reply to: Kvitlach in the Kosel #1017191
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    Sam2: What are the non halachic concerns of those that you referenced (S & TA)?

    And who are the few poskim that do have halachic issues regarding kedushos of the retaining wall – and what are they?

    in reply to: Great Girl #813081
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    It means she has good middos and chein.

    in reply to: Rebbetzin Kanievsky #910290
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    Any Yid can give a bracha.

    And there is good reason that men may have policies not to see women. It is rooted in Jewish Law.

    in reply to: Kvitlach in the Kosel #1017187
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    There are shittos that it is assur to go to the Kosel. Satmar is one and Brisk (?) may be another.

    in reply to: Make sure it's right #812813
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    Hi sm29, Would you be comfortable sharing a) what made you originally think you were right for each other and b) only later realize that wasn’t the case?

    Hatzlacha

    in reply to: The impending downfall of Greece #824412
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    Or Italy.

    in reply to: The Most Ignored Law's #812620
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    What makes you say answering amen is any more mandatory than laining?

    in reply to: The impending downfall of Greece #824408
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    Argentina also defaulted.

    in reply to: Must a Baal Teshuva Remarry? #812755
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    So Rav Henkin holds children of a woman’s reform/conservative remarriage are mamzeirim? (Since there was no valid gittin for her first marriage.)

    in reply to: Must a Baal Teshuva Remarry? #812753
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    Avi: The nafka mina is that it is assur to live together without a valid halachic marriage.

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812463
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    Yissacher: What is the rakia? (Please define it in detail.)

    Regarding the idea that the scientists in the Gemorah were correct, see the Shitah Mekubetzes I referenced above.

    in reply to: Does Mesirah Only Apply To The Government… #812472
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    The law allows the IP owner to collect 10 times the alleged damages. That is above halacha.

    Also, halacha has no provisions for such a thing called IP.

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    RR: That photo does not clearly show Rav Elyashev doing that.

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812460
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    Yissacher – You are mistaken. Your questions have already been addressed above in previous comments.

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812458
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    IOW, you are saying there is no such thing as a “scientific fact”. And that anything is subject to be revised or changed.

    Well, that is precisely what I have been saying all along.

    Here are some things that were once “scientific facts” that even scientists currently admit are no longer considered so:

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812456
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    Scientific “facts” keep changing. Many “scientific facts” of 150 years ago are no longer so.

    in reply to: Does Mesirah Only Apply To The Government… #812470
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    And if the penalty IS more than halacha would require?

    Secular law _does_ impose a penalty above and beyond what halacha imposes.

    in reply to: Does every family have an element of Dysfunction? #812577
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    And some less than others.

    in reply to: PBA Officials In Ticket-Fix Grand Jury�s Sights #812718
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    There used to be (and still may be – haven’t checked) a heimish guy who you paid about $700 and your traffic ticket disappeared.

    in reply to: Does Mesirah Only Apply To The Government… #812468
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    Interesting question.

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812454
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    in reply to: The Most Ignored Law's #812612
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    Cars ARE ticketed for that if caught.

    in reply to: "intellectual stimulation" #813184
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    The Shulchan Aruch and Rambam both say a woman should not leave her house too many times. (Rambam says twice a month; Shulchan Aruch doesn’t specify a number.)

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812330
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    aries: Which is exactly why he can’t hire her.

    just.me: And the men are forewarned in that exact gemorah to avoid seeing those women.

    in reply to: Princess Dianna #812485
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    If you look hard enough you may find Stalin had some “laudable qualities”. I still don’t think you would use such “qualities” with him as the example, as “laudable” as they may be. This woman was the lowest of the low. Even when she wasn’t committing the ultimate sin, she was known to go around all over in entirely immodest fashion.

    in reply to: Worst parsha ever! #921910
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    Wasn’t the calendar set by Hillel II?

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812446
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    Medrash Tehillim quotes Shmuel as saying he is an expert in the streets of Nehardea as much as he is an expert in the ‘streets’ of the heavens. The Medrash asks how Shmuel knew all of that, and it answers he knew it all through the Torah. It then quotes a R’ Hoshea as saying there is “space” between the upper waters and the firmament, and the Medrash asks how R’ Hoshea could know this unless he traveled to space. It answers, he knew it from the Torah.

    Regarding Ptolmey himself, the Abarbanel (Shmos 12) quotes Ptolmey as being so impressed with the Jews’ astronomical calculations, that he said it proves the Jews had prophecy. In the Sefer Eretz Zvi (by Rav Aryeh Zvi Fromer ZTL, Rosh Yeshiva in Chachmei Lublin), quotes more such sources about Ptolmey.

    in reply to: Princess Dianna #812482
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    Mistake? It was inexcusable as bad as a husband she had. Such a thing is never excusable. Under both English and Jewish law she should have been executed.

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812324
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    We see already in the time of Moshe Rabbeinu women covered their hair and men weren’t allowed to see it, from the story of Ohn ben Peles’ wife scaring away Korach’s men with her hair, since she knew men aren’t allowed to see her hair.

    in reply to: Mochel Loch… time to forgive and be forgiven! #1184886
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    I request mechila from everyone.

    And there is no need for anyone to request it of me.

    ????? ?????? ???? and ? ??? ???????? ???!

    in reply to: Honest question #812084
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    Motivation of those pushing it. You can bet your last dollar they aren’t doing it because of S”A or Rosh. They are doing it for feministic reasons.

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812313
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    I would not personally look at her

    Sam: So you admit my point. You said you would not look at her. If she wanted to work for you, you couldn’t hire her without looking at her.

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812440
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    The majority of Achronim state that Chazal did not go by the scientific knowledge of their time.

    The Rama in Toras HaOlah (1:2) states clearly that we assume rabbinic science to be infallible, and ancient rabbinic knowledge of astronomy complete. The Ramah has stated that we do not pasken like the Rambam here. As do the Maharal and the majority of our Torah authorities throughout the ages, as mentioned above.

    Chida (Shem Hagedolim: “Seforim”:5:82) – There are a minority of Gedolim among us who disagree with Chazal because of their scientific knowledge, but they do not understand that Chazal had Eliyhau Hanavi informing them, and they had Ruach HaKodesh to inform them.

    Maharal (Ber Hagolah 6) explaining why Chazal sometimes seem to contradict what science says:

    [Chazal] [physical] descriptions, but rather the words of our sages refer to the essence, and have no relation to the outer, material matter.

    in reply to: Importance of Davening with a Minyan #812028
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    Sam4: Rav Moshe holds that if someone missed minyan he was oiver and it is an aveira?

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812437
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    The Chosid Yaavatz (Ohr Hachaim) says that Chazal knew science form a Mesroah that goes back all the way to the Neviim, who knew it from Hashem, without any effort at all.

    Particularly interesting is a statement on this topic in the Aruch Hashulchan (EH 13). Quote: “I will tell you a great principle: Chazal, besides their holiness and wisdom in the Torah, were also greater scholars in the natural sciences those savants (“mischakmim”) who would argue against their pure words. And someone who disagrees with them testifies about himself that he does not believe in Torah she bal peh, even though he would be embarrassed to admit it outright.” Drashos Chasam Sofer Vol. 1 p.100b says Our prophets and sages know all the sciences much better than the scientists even though all they learn is Torah. This is because the One Who created nature informs our sages of the correct facts. This is what amazes the Nations, as it says, Am navon v’chacham hagoy hagodol hazeh! An identical interpretation to that of the Chasam Sofer’s explanation Am navon v’chacham is found in the Ramak (Sefer HapPardes 13:6) regarding astronomy.

    in reply to: New Suits!?!? #812072
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    How is a $300 suit better than a $200 suit?

    in reply to: New Suits!?!? #812070
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    What’s better about a suit costing $400 or more? It lasts longer or it looks better?

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812311
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    Also, the point that Rav Moshe’s heter only applied when she is going out on a date — not when she is going to the office — is being glossed over.

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812310
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    Sam: Hypothetically, if some posek somewhere issued a heter to wear a miniskirt (for arguments sake), you would be permitted to see that person?

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812433
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    gavra: Using that argument, you can argue they could be wrong about Torah too C”V.

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812308
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    Sam: The heter is very very far from universally being accepted. So if his posek doesn’t accept it, and as far as he is concerned it is unacceptable, he can’t rely on such a heter.

    in reply to: hashkofa help! #812425
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    RK: Yet PBA’s underlying point remains. Scientific “facts” keep changing. Yesterday’s science it today’s junk science. Today’s science is tomorrow’s junk science. Why would you believe today’s science — which will be disproven in the next 100 years, just as 100 years ago science is disproven today — over the Torah’s science as relayed to us by Chazal? I wouldn’t.

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812305
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    gavra and Sam: The OP wrote “potential boss”, so apparently she was not yet hired. And if she was, we go back to my original point of him being forced to choose between breaking halacha (since he can’t see her hair) or breaking secular law.

    in reply to: Divorced woman – head covering #812302
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    Sam: It isn’t a chumra. It is the normative halacha that her hair should be covered. Her uncovering it is, at best, a heter from normative halacha. (And according above, when Rav Moshe gave someone such a personal heter, he only allowed it while she was on a date. Not when she went to work.)

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