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popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’d say just get a job, and then tell them you’re shomer shabbos after you’re hired.
I don’t know if they’ll actually be able to accommodate you, though.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantDone.
February 5, 2014 10:08 pm at 10:08 pm in reply to: Why Didn't Hilni Sit in a Kosher Sukkah? #1002417popa_bar_abbaParticipanthe just said that so that slifkin would have someone to hold like.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantEither that, or the science of the time told them about it.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSays the guy who spent 28 minutes on our posts.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantYes, but because she was so powerful and was a woman, she was very machmir on anti-feminism to avoid becoming an icon.
popa_bar_abbaParticipant(can’t believe DY thinks 26 minutes is enough time to understand a popa post; what an insult)
popa_bar_abbaParticipantMaybe there was a feminist movement and she was reacting against it?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI don’t do rashi.
It’s an insult to Rashi’s depth to run though it at a million miles an hour and not give it the attention it deserves.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSo, about those iron walls.
Why is 20 amos more of a generic rule than non iron walls?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI will learn sukkah because Hashem said to.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantDY: Your post does not make one word of sense. Isn’t it obvious that the person who made the garbage should take it out?
The same way the person who made the kids changes the diapers and feeds them?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantCool!
Tonight, I also communicated: You made the garbage, you take it out.
Then I appreciated: Thanks for peeling those potatoes into the garbage.
It’s because I wanted to spend time together rather than take out the garbage.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAh, thank you Gamanit. I didn’t think my reason made much sense, but I did hear that one time. Thanks for clearing that up.
February 4, 2014 8:22 pm at 8:22 pm in reply to: Do people who are uglier have more yiras shomayim? #1002079popa_bar_abbaParticipantI didn’t call anyone ugly, and I think you are correct that it is a subjective term. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
February 4, 2014 7:37 pm at 7:37 pm in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001704popa_bar_abbaParticipantI don’t get mazel tov, because of you big fat jerks. You don’t get a mazel tov for finishing the first perek of rosh hashana plus the second through eighth of yoma.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI thought it was referring to a shin daled “shade”. And if it is 20 amos high, then the shin daled can hide in the walls.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantHand holding is not necessarily romantic. Men shake hands all the time.
Kissing is not necessarily romantic. People do CPR on strangers all the time.
February 4, 2014 4:57 pm at 4:57 pm in reply to: Do people who are uglier have more yiras shomayim? #1002076popa_bar_abbaParticipantThere are plenty of ways to measure ugliness in an objective fashion.
BMI, straightness of teeth, smoothness of face, relative size of nose, etc, etc, etc.
But that isn’t the point. Is the dictionary wrong on anything which can’t be measured through objective criteria? Would you say there is no bad tasting food, only distasteful people? Just because you can’t objectively measure whether it tastes bad means the dictionary definition is incorrect and you can substitute anyone you want?
February 4, 2014 3:23 pm at 3:23 pm in reply to: Do people who are uglier have more yiras shomayim? #1002072popa_bar_abbaParticipantAre there also no short people? Only people who have small minds are short. So the answer is no. Short people are those who have no yiras shamayim.
And no poor people. Only those who have poor manners are poor.
And no sick people. Only those who have sick minds are sick.
And no stupid people. Only those who have stupid character are stupid.
And no dictionary meanings. Only those that sound cliche are dictionary.
February 4, 2014 3:19 pm at 3:19 pm in reply to: Why did kimchis have seven sons who were kohen gadol #1001702popa_bar_abbaParticipantDone. And you’re on.
Sukka starting tomorrow.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI have no clue.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhy should the eidei yichud need to know, unless they happen to find the kid hiding in the room?
But I’ve been at plenty of weddings, and I’ve never seen the eidim actually search well enough to find a kid hiding under the tablecloth.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhy would it be the business of the mesader kiddushin or the eidim either?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAfter 6 years, if they won’t leave.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantSure there’s a source. Go to a chassidish wedding and watch.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantstreetgeek:
Actually, I think I’ve heard chassidim and perhaps others have a minhag to davka hold hands back from the chuppa to show that it wasn’t a chuppas nidda.
February 3, 2014 4:29 pm at 4:29 pm in reply to: Do people who are uglier have more yiras shomayim? #1002055popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’ll be fine. Syag has already seen everything.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantThe recipe is from Fabio of Chow Ciao on Yahoo. You can google for it and find it.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhat if you found out you were Joseph?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantDid you have the cheerios and milk?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantno ketchup.
Yes olive oil. Yes garlic. Yes canned tomatoes. Yes olives. Yes mushrooms. Yes red onions. Yes rosemary. Yes thyme. Yes salt. Yes pepper. Yes flour. Yes red wine.
That’s actually all the ingredients. It’s easy.
Simply saute 6 cloves of garlic in olive oil. Add a can of whole tomatoes. Add salt and pepper. Simmer until liquid is gone. Smush tomatoes and add more olive oil. Simmer until oil turns red. Reserve.
Saute olives, mushrooms, red onion, rosemary in olive oil. Add thyme. Reserve.
Coat chicken in flour. Put skin side down in frying pan until it crisps.
Combine all ingredients in dutch oven. Simmer for 15 minutes. Eat.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt’s ok. I had your version also. But I added cheerios and milk. And instead of orange sauce I had an orange. But instead of the orange, I had some chocolate pudding.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI could certainly hear very good reasons why it is less appropriate to kiss in public than to smile and giggle at each other.
And of course there is a difference between what is appropriate to do in public and what is appropriate to do in your own home in front of your children. Why wouldn’t there be?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI certainly did. Care and respect are feelings you can and should have for anyone. But you should not have be romantic with anyone except your wife.
So yes, I reject care and respect as being insufficient. You should be a good role model for your kids in the subject of loving your spouse as well. You don’t want your kids to grow up and get married and think that it is enough for them to have a relationship with their spouse like a friend.
I’m a little confused that you don’t imagine there are ways to be romantic without touching. That isn’t what romance means. Romance is the feelings you have for one another. Romance is what shlomo describes in shir hashirim.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantChicken, hunter style.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantI would like to eat ketchup duck. But without the ketchup. And with some orange sauce.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhat are some examples of being affectionate in public in a non-physical way?
Ask your chosson teacher
popa_bar_abbaParticipantHealth, glad to have you back. My how time has flown by
February 2, 2014 1:49 am at 1:49 am in reply to: The last thing I would think of is Mayim Acharonim #1001730popa_bar_abbaParticipantAnd this is why girls don’t learn gemara.
You want to save this lady’s life, yes? So what’s the easiest way to save it?
Which is easier? Not stealing wallets, or washing your hands after gorging on lentils?
popa_bar_abbaParticipantYou see I was right. They ate there again and he brought up Ushpizin, which last I checked is a movie!
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popa_bar_abbaParticipantI’m not recommending handholding. And if you don’t know any non-physical ways to be affectionate, you should see a therapist soon.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantlol
popa_bar_abbaParticipantAs you are not advocating showing affection in a physical way, yet you say showing respect and caring does not suffice, I was merely wondering what, IYO, should be done to ensure that children see (which you feel is importnat) their parents mutual love
Oh. Ok.
I think there is a whole range between showing physical affection and showing respect and caring. There are plenty of ways to act romantic and affectionate to your spouse without hugging and kissing.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantLogician,
I definitely think very strongly that line you quoted from me. I was saying I can’t really respond to your last question since I don’t really understand it.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantJust listen on double speed
popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt’s all good WIY. I really only davened there that one time. Although, it certainly felt like two.
popa_bar_abbaParticipantGood shayla. I don’t know. Let’s look it up. Sefer chofetz chaim section 1 klal 8 sif 12 or so
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