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  • in reply to: Do Married Guys Do Laundry? #1074854
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    Considering that I forget the laundry and it sits in the washing machine for hours ready to be put in the dryer until someone reminds me…yeah, I think in my case if my hubby did the laundry, it would be almost lifesaving…

    Aries, thumbs up!

    in reply to: What is the meanest thing you've ever done? #812203
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    I still feel really bad about this. When I was in HS, I created a screen name and pretended to be a crazy guy to my friend. She couldn’t sleep for days because she thought I was a serial killer and was out to get her.

    in reply to: Cleaning Lady Horror Stories #1020236
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    Lol on the Vashti. That’s kind of awesome.

    in reply to: Shelo Asani Isha #1050852
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    Thanks for answering my question. I didn’t know that. It’s always great to learn new things 🙂

    in reply to: Shelo Asani Isha #1050845
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    None of this answers why the bracha isn’t “Thank you for making me a man.” Why the negativity on the woman? I think that’s where the issue lies.

    in reply to: annoying youngsters!!! HELP! #811258
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    Smick, lots of people have helped you. A “thank you” would be nice. JMO.

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810696
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    Yeah, I started playing Wolf again. Even though the graphics suck, there is something oddly compelling about it 🙂

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810692
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    coffee addict, I also played wheel of fortune and jeopardy, pacman, carmen sandiego. Fun games 🙂

    Toi, never heard of it, so it must not be that awesome 😛

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810689
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    Some more DOS (and early windows) games I played: Zorro, Hocus Pocus, Jazz Jackrabbit, Word Rescue, Math rescue, Blake Stone, Fox Ranger. Skunny Kart and Wacky wheels were the first racing games I ever played

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810685
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    MiddlePath, tickle toe eitus, Google “Dosbox” and you’ll see the downloadable program. Choose for Windows 7 or XP, vista, whatever your computer uses. Make sure to read the instructions that tell you exactly how to use it. If you have questions, I’ll try to answer. I’ve been using the program for a few years and it’s amazing. On my old, old computer (windows 98, I think), the sound in DOS never worked and I was so upset, but with Dosbox the sound works for almost all games.

    MiddlePath, I’ll be back to answer your post.

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810680
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    Wow, MiddlePath! This is so weird–Wolfenstein and Doom were some of my favorites! My brother liked Duke Nukem, but I never got into it. I liked watching him play, though. I’d beg him to play all the games I liked until I played them myself. My all time favorites are One Must Fall, Raptor call of the Shadows, Commander Keen, Skyroads, and Life and Death 2: the brain (a surgery game). Mario’s time machine and Mario is missing. Do you still play the old games? I didn’t think you’d know them. I downloaded a program that lets me play all the old DOS games. Oh, yeah, I loved Sonic, too. I play some on the “me”.

    How did you know my favorite is the NE? Because I’m a girl? My character (a girl :P) is a NE mage. I once wrote a story on the NE, lol…Nerd.

    Lol, Wolfenstein…I miss that! Maybe I’ll play it again soon :).

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810678
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    I’m not crazy about the whole ST franchise, but I do love some of the elements, and I love STV, although of course it’s not as popular as the other ones. I’m not that much of a geek 😉

    in reply to: Why Do the Women Get the Better Shmorg?! #820831
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    bombmaniac, lol!

    in reply to: Why Do the Women Get the Better Shmorg?! #820827
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    slap bombmaniac.

    🙂

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810676
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    Ooh, PK-OD looks a little creepy, but in a cool way!

    I thought I was picky, but I guess I’m not with games. I think I could play almost anything and love it.

    Am I the only girl who plays games?

    in reply to: shidduch dating, advice needed #810867
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    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810674
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    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810672
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    Zombies are in now. Used to be vampires and werewolves. They also make great horror-type games. Best thing to kill 🙂

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810666
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    Oh, did you ever try CI (rhymes with kitchen raiders)? I played all 4 of them. They’re kind of addicting, but I think it might be girly.

    in reply to: I put up a new song! #877597
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    Hey, MiddlePath. I just listened to the latest song. Good stuff :).

    in reply to: Why Do the Women Get the Better Shmorg?! #820809
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    Oh no!!!! Don’t you dare take the food away! My policy is that when I go to weddings, I eat. Simple. I can burn the calories off the rest of the week.

    I say split 50/50. What’s the problem with that?

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810663
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    MiddlePath, LOL!!!

    I wanted to buy “table3”, but I bought an RPG and a mystery crime lab game instead. Is it good? I read some negative reviews, so I was hesitant. I loved NFS as a kid. It would be be really fun playing it on the other console, the “me”.

    I burned my video card a few years ago because I played games on the highest graphics. So I’m really careful now.

    in reply to: Halacha on Divorce #810483
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    Aishes Chayil, I heard that too.

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810661
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    Oh, wow! You beat me :). I figured most of them out. I wanted to buy “O” a few years back. I forgot to mention that I like games like “C” (think roman empire RTS. C3, C4. It’s a series) and I love GAR (don’t think you’ll know this one, but it’s similar to “C”). Oh, I also play on another console: SMG and SMG2 and SMB (with italian brother characters). I love surgery games. I used to play RCT and RCT3 when I was younger. Now this one is super nerdy, but I love it anyway-STVEF (google it). It’s fps. Don’t make fun lol.

    Yeah, I’m getting bored and annoyed with the MMORPG ones. My favorites are the ones that are not online.

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810658
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    MiddlePath, hm…interesting. Thanks for the info!

    Okay, since we won’t mention games by name, I’ll tell you the kinds I like to play. RPG, RTS, some FPS, some PVP. I love adventure/mystery games (like Sherlock Holmes, detective types), where you have to think a bit. Some of the old old games I like are arcade games. I have some favorite online games, too. Uhhh, let’s try abbreviations and see if the mods let them through. AOE, LOL, GW, some WOW, I checked out AOEO, I want to start playing some COD. I love WC3…many more!

    kapusta, what’s up, triplet? Thanks for the info. Maybe one day.

    mamashtakah, lol.

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810654
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    Will the mods chop our heads off (in other words, close the thread) if we start listing the names of the games?

    I don’t know about the animation thing. I know a guy (non-Jew) who majored in graphic design and he’s looking to work in game design or cartoon, or something like that. But he can’t find any jobs since they’re all in LA. Is it appropriate for a frum girl to work in Hollywood, plus video games is a male dominated industry. I’m not really good anyway. But still, you never know what will happen.

    What programs do you use for animations? And what kind of animations do you do?

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810652
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    MiddlePath,

    2) Writing. Not essays, articles, or poems, but fiction mostly. Novels. Reading, too. Oh, I used to write plays.

    4) I used to play piano. I wish I had more time to play. I do play a little here and there.

    5) Needlepoint.

    6) I love to learn new things and I love learning chumash and navi. I try to learn some every shabbos.

    7) I enjoy helping others.

    9) I like to sleep! Lol.

    11) Almost everything from your list (NOT public speaking, though. *faint*)

    cinderella,

    I have been to Starbucks a few times, but I’m not a coffee drinker. Thanks for explaining.

    kapusta,

    Sorry I already have a twin. You can be my triplet!

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810644
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    cinderella, no not really. What did he really want? (what did you explain to her).

    in reply to: Yup, the girlies thread #809486
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    The only time I’ve worn nailpolish was at a wedding when I was 12.

    in reply to: NOT TZNIUS "BUBBIES" (also some fish, honey, and vinegar) #1200219
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    I’ve seen many girls/women wearing skirts above their knees. I don’t understand it, but that could be because I’ve never struggled in this area. But I don’t want to judge them or turn up my nose when I see them. I just wish I’d understand them better (is it a fad? Or a peer-pressure thing?). And it’s not just the Flatbush women who dress this way.

    in reply to: Yup, the girlies thread #809483
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    Am I the only female here who’s not into nailpolish?

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810642
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    Thanks for the responses 🙂

    cinderella, aries2756, can someone explain the name on coffee cup thing please? I’m so curious! (the reason I probably don’t know what this is because I don’t drink coffee or go to Starbucks.)

    kapusta, yes, I love long skirts! How did you know? I think I enjoy wearing them because I’m really short and (to me, at least) long skirts look better on me than short ones. I look like a little kid in short skirts. I don’t like the labeling because I really don’t fit in any category. The way I dress to some people puts me in the “yeshivish/litvish” category because I’m always dressed tznius (I’ve never had a problem in this area), but my hobbies and behavior might put me in the “MO” category, but people in the “MO” category would say I’m too frum. If you don’t mind me asking, where are you from, Kapusta?

    Raphael Kaufman, thanks! Maybe years ago there was a bigger distinction between NY vs. non NY, but today we’re probably all mixed.

    MiddlePath, yeah, I noticed you seem different than most posters here. We feel basically the same on all the bullet points I put up (other than the “girly” ones lol). I’m still trying to figure out if I’d like a small community rather than a large one. On one hand, you don’t have to feel ashamed for being you because there is more acceptance, but if you want to avoid someone…yeah, that’d be tricky. There are too many people I’m trying to avoid here. Also, others may be a little too much into your business. Not sure I like that. Also, if something happens (like your situation), it’s hard to escape from it, right? (sorry if I was offensive).

    I went to a small high school and I didn’t like it at all. Maybe I like it better when I blend into the crowd, but no matter what I do, I always stand out…so I’m still not sure.

    Yeah, I think living in NY or not NY has nothing to do with how I feel. It’s probably just me. This CR might not be the best place for me, but I really like that it’s a Jewish environment. It’s really the only frum forum I belong to.

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810635
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    cinderella, no I’m from NY. So am I OOT at heart…or just plain clueless? 🙂

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810633
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    Thanks for all the responses :). Sorry if I offended anyone with the term “OOT.” It’s just what I hear everyone refer to places outside NY.

    Responding to some posters:

    bein_hasdorim, LOL. How true!

    coffee addict, thanks! That’s a great example.

    gefen, I’m not really sure. It’s possible the way I feel has nothing to do with living in NY. So I’ll give some examples, though I’m not sure they portray exactly how I feel:

    A) I don’t like conforming. If I do something different than what’s considered the norm, I get the looks, the judging eyes, the “Ummm. Okay.” For those who’ve known me since I was a kid, they know that I am the way I am. But for those who don’t, I always get those looks. And just in general, people always do whatever everyone else does, even if they don’t agree. People drive themselves nuts doing what’s “normal” just so they won’t look bad and ruin their futures. Like taking a break said in her thread http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/its-all-about-shidduchim , every little decision is weighed on what people are SUPPOSED to do rather what they WANT to do. I’m not talking about halacha, of course, since that’s nonnegotiable, but just behavior in general.

    B) I’m not a serious person. I like comfortable, so I’d rather come to work looking more comfortable and less “fancy” (but put together, of course). Same with a wedding. I’d rather not have to dress up so much, but of course my mom would have a heart attack if I showed up not looking my best. I’d like to leave the house dressed as I want to be and not have to constantly wonder if the person across the street is staring at me because I’m dressed more casual. I care so much more about personality rather than looks.

    C) The whole people watching you like a hawk. Every time I leave the house I always look across the street to see if the neighbor on the porch is watching me. If she is…grrr, I have to act a certain way or else she’ll call my mom. If she’s not…breathe.

    G) Do non NYers also categorize themselves? Like Yeshivish, (chasidish is chasidish), Litvish, MO, blah blah, I don’t even know the categories. I have no idea which I belong to. I call myself “undeclared.”

    H) Please don’t throw rocks at me (stuffed animals will do just fine :)), but I feel like men in NY are a little offensive to women. This might just be me being exposed to the wrong type of people.

    I hope I’m not blowing things out of proportion! It’s possible, like I said earlier, that this has nothing to do with living in NY or not. It may just be a “people” thing, which is a whole other discussion. Mostly, I just want to be myself, however “strange” that might be, and not have to feel scared/nervous/ashamed of what others think of me.

    The Goq, hm…it’s possible I might want to run from a few things, too.

    MiddlePath, that’s pretty cool about the cars waiting until the woman woke up. Thanks for the examples 🙂

    cinderella, I don’t understand the name on the cup thing.

    Sorry for the long post! It probably makes no sense, but I tried…

    in reply to: its all about shidduchim #809873
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    taking a break, thumbs up!

    in reply to: OOT vs. NY #810621
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    I didn’t start this thread to prove how one is “better” than the other. I honestly just want to know, since I’m a NYer and I’ve never felt like I belong here. Maybe I fit in better with OOT, or maybe I just don’t fit in anywhere.

    in reply to: BOSCH, MAGIC MILL, KITCHEN AID?? #809428
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    Whoops. I meant knead.

    in reply to: BOSCH, MAGIC MILL, KITCHEN AID?? #809424
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    We just made challa. We kneed with our hands. It’s kind of fun.

    in reply to: Working with guys. #809167
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    in reply to: Platonic Relationships #810072
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    bpt, for once I actually agree with you! 🙂

    in reply to: shidduch crisis #808892
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    “there are numerous NYers that don’t want to marry OOTers (different mentality), and if she marries an OOTer than people ask “there are a lot of NYers why did she settle for an OOTer maybe theres something wrong with her?” I’ve heard it before”

    I’m a New Yawker and was told by a friend that she thinks it’s my type to marry an OOTer. So is there “something wrong” with me? Why do people have to make an already complicated process even MORE complicated? We should all be happy for each other 🙂

    No offense to you, coffee addict. You’re just relaying what you hear.

    in reply to: Girl wearing tallis and teffilin #809019
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    Hm…a reform Rabbi? It’s possible she isn’t orthodox.

    in reply to: JOBS!!! #809062
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    cshapiro, is this firm located in Brooklyn?

    in reply to: JOBS!!! #809052
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    I find it a little sad that a frum woman would rather hire non-Jews than Jews who really need jobs (to work for a FRUM boss is so beneficial). At my old job, my boss was a goy and he specifically let the frum women go home early due to the kids, household issues, school functions, or for yomim tovim.

    But I don’t know the situation, so I can’t judge.

    in reply to: Working with guys. #809151
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    a mamin, I agree one hundred percent. Those girls definitely attract attention, however, even those who don’t mean to can unknowingly attract attention. Just my opinion. We all have to be careful how we conduct ourselves, especially in this kind of environment.

    bpt, I don’t think it’s right to assume things about the OP, whether she did something to attract attention. I say we drop it.

    in reply to: Working with guys. #809144
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    bpt, correct me if I’m wrong, but are you saying that girls who dress a little too nicely for work will attract unwanted attention from men? Theoretically, that would make sense. But I believe some men are attracted to girls who dress very modestly (ponytail, no makeup…etc). Sometimes it’s not the dress, but behavior or personality. Maybe it’s because she’s a good worker. It can be anything. I don’t think it’s fair for a girl to purposely dress plainly just so she won’t attract unwanted attention. Men are equally responsible to watch how they behave, and not blame the girl because she happens to be attractive (in dress, behavior, or personality).

    in reply to: Need a push #807998
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    dandelion,

    Thanks so much for your post. It’s really helpful. I’m going to try to daven shema and shmoneh esrai every morning. Yeah, taking upon davening after so many years of not davening is really hard. I hope I’ll slowly get back into it.

    am yisrael chai,

    Thanks so much for sharing.

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    I like them all, but nature’s is really creative! 🙂

    in reply to: Girls learning Gemorah?? #810322
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    One of my high school teachers told us that girls can take on any guy in chumash and navi.

    in reply to: Retail Establishments with Forbidden Imagery #807865
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    Thanks for answering me, HaLeiVi 🙂

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