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The thing is some people want to get married early, that’s what’s frustrating. I’m not even in shidduchim yet but I do want to get married young. I feel it’s what’s best for me and I’m ready for that stage of life. So it would be VERY frustrating and depressing for me to be even 24 and not married yet, chas vishalom.
So tree555, I am a positive person and obviously I would understand it’s what Hashem knows I need, I still would think about it a lot in that situation. It doesn’t sound easy,but of course G-d only gives us what we can handle
October 22, 2016 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm in reply to: How are single girls supposed to be mekayem the Mitzvah of Simcha on Chol HaMoed #1187905Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantWow lilmod, Hashem must love you a lot!!! I’m so happy for you!!! Such Hashgata Pratis
October 22, 2016 4:31 pm at 4:31 pm in reply to: Question to those who used to be older singles #1187353Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantPerson1 sounds like you are having trouble dealing with being an older single. Hatzlacha raba. I know it isn’t easy….
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantI think it also depends on the person. GoFish doesn’t want to start dating. It is more frustrating to be 27 and in the parsha for 9 years than being 27 and being in the parshah for 2 or 3 years.
It also depends on how badly you want (think you need) to get married now.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantI don’t ussually go during toursit season either…I ended up going twice. Plus I was there when this whole thing happened where they found some russian tourist with a pocket knife….
October 20, 2016 9:27 am at 9:27 am in reply to: How are single girls supposed to be mekayem the Mitzvah of Simcha on Chol HaMoed #1187887Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantMoney is hard these days and it’s hard to find stuff you like. If chol hamoed is when you finally get paid/money/coupons from chesed organazations that you did not have time to use before chag and things are on sale (pre-winter/and want buisness on chol hamoed) there’s no wonder why chareidi people do go shopping on chol hamoed.
October 19, 2016 8:12 am at 8:12 am in reply to: How are single girls supposed to be mekayem the Mitzvah of Simcha on Chol HaMoed #1187879Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantYou can buy things on sale. Anyway try learning a sefer with friends, or going out to do something with them.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantI’m going to the kosel on Wednesday. Look out for the girl with hair that looks like a lion’s main.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantIt’s great to see you eclipse! I’m so glad I just caught you! Haven’t checked the CR in ages (sems a LOT busier than I thought it would be! Shame there’s no app for the CR)
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantPninim is too modern for you? I can’t imagine than what you are because you aren’t MO and you aren’t yeshivish…
Maybe Rinat Tzipporah…
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantARWSF: WOW. I’m sure it took a lot of courage to write it down here. How is your family doing now?
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantMeno: the issue was more about talking to coworkers. My friend trusted her coworker and considered her a friend. She did not think she would repeat word by word exactly everything she said to their boss, including other priavte thoughts and details that were unrelated to her paycheck.
She trusted her coworker, the message is that when it comes to parnassah people can do crazy things, take caution even around those who you consider your friends.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantYou need to be careful. I had a friend who recently mentioned to her coworker how she felt underpaid, and her coworker managed to extract all the details about her salary than receded to go to her boss demanding that she get paid like my friend….
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantSiDi I missed your post! Welcome back to you! Its always nice to see your name around.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantARWSF: I haven’t gone anywhere.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipant29 and me are buddies. 🙂 He wants to bring back old memories, enough said.
September 7, 2016 8:12 pm at 8:12 pm in reply to: I know they are a great organization, but… #1213664Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantWelcome!!! But you never know, a lot of balei tshuva spice things up a bit. I’m sure they know it isn’t like this in every home..
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantlilmod: maybe the doctors in Israel are better…idk
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantI know the brother and sister in law of the “bamboo cradle baby”.
Were Jews…it’s not a secret…I think most people know who they are.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantSome people just arent human on less than 8 hours (ahem me) it could stem from many reasons…
ADVICE: go see your local doctor!
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantSparkly: I was in high school, she wasn’t.
September 6, 2016 8:39 am at 8:39 am in reply to: what to do with a gap year in between grad school and undergrad? #1181135Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantThere are many people who go to EY at the ae of 21,22, even 25 and 30. There’s certainly nothing wrong with it unless you ACT like a “kid” (I guess an girl on seminary age…meaning my age)
I understand you want to be treated as an adult and not looked at as a starry eyes kid straight from high school, as long as you act like an adult, dress like one, no one will think you are a kid. There are plently of people your age who live here.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantI think the main idea is don’t go to a place full of pritzus if it is totally unessesary. Unless there is a certain store, person, or thing there, or its very close for you, there’s no reason to see extra things we dont need to.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantMy role model is a special person I met in high school who is a few years older than me. She is amazing ruchniyus wise, and as a person. I look up to her and strive to be like her. She literally made me the person I am today.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantSyag isn’t always here. He’s one of those posters that doesn’t post daily. Did he say he was leaving?
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantPerhaps the frum people in the world want kosher drama. I’m sure instead of seeing which hollywood couples are together, some people come here and see who is arguing with who today.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantDon’t many chassidish people have long hair? It’s fine as long as it’s tied back and doesn’t stand out.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantIs Do not feed the drama the new do not feed the trolls?
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantapushua- just because you are sure (or almost sure) one will not be hurt, it’s assur to hurt a fellow Jew. Never does it say in the torah “Don’t say loshon hora about other unless they don’t mind”
August 28, 2016 7:13 pm at 7:13 pm in reply to: Caution -danger ahead! My response to Barry #1171258Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantWell lilmod, if you start a new thread and not refer the context…most people would be thinking what I was.
August 27, 2016 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: Caution -danger ahead! My response to Barry #1171248Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantlilmod. Kudos on a wonderful post. I hope bezrat hashem I can help klal yisroel be zoche with what I can do. Unfortunately it’s almost impossible for a writer to live without internet. Especially in a foreign country where there is little books to research on topics in your native language.
Besides for that the only other problem I have with your post/opinion is that although this place is the Yeshiva World forum, doesn’t mean that what’s posted on here reflects the views of YWN. It’s a known thing at this point that forums are open places. I agree with your thinking about the fact that even if we don’t live up to the gedolei hador’s expectations that we shouldn’t be against them nor come out against them.
But unfortunately neither you or I can control anyone else, there are people with differing views and rabanim. Let us not attack them but hug them and say “We don’t agree with you, this is not YWN, but we still welcome you, as does Hashem.”
I’m not sure exactly who/what this was a response for but that’s life.
I believe YWN writes somewhere that the opnions and veiws voiced here are not theirs.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipant@Happygirlgirl: Happy early birthday. I too just turned 18, but I doubt I’m voting. Seems like shlep to vote from overseas. 😛
Well at least confirms that I’m not the youngest of the CR family, I always though I was. I guess that position goes to you. I’ll have to suffice being just the president of SUC.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantThe comic relief of the CR
August 25, 2016 5:46 pm at 5:46 pm in reply to: would religious jewish women be interested in joining a book club? #1170794Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantProbably a good post for soferet. I bet more people would be into it there.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantlilmod, no. I’m going to seminary bezras Hashem. Many posters forget I’m the youngest here because I’ve just been here for so many years…
🙂 It’s a good thing. People take me more seriously than a high schooler (or at least I hope they do)
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantTeens, female, single, charedi
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantk9 doesnt really slow things down/
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantlol, then they would change their screen names every year. I’m in my teens
August 24, 2016 4:35 pm at 4:35 pm in reply to: "Boy," "man," and "guy," "single," "married," and #1174640Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantMemo-gals is said in the midwest and south of the USA. I used to live there, so I would know 🙂 We say many interesting things over there.
Bananot is not a typo. I believe there is a term for boys that is based of the work kof. So not demeaning at all 🙂 Not sure where it comes from…
I says guys a lot and also peoples….
August 24, 2016 1:21 pm at 1:21 pm in reply to: "Boy," "man," and "guy," "single," "married," and #1174623Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantDude is acceptable for friend to friend. That’s about it.
lilmod- bananot is common in Israel. You would say “I saw a bunch of girls I know”
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipant#lol #Howoldismod-29?
August 24, 2016 11:20 am at 11:20 am in reply to: "Boy," "man," and "guy," "single," "married," and #1174618Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantIn the midwest we used the term gal. I have found in other places they don’t. So we say “guys” or “bananot”. Another thing I’ve heard a lot is “peoples”, me and my friend use that a lot too. But this is off topic from the OP
August 24, 2016 11:18 am at 11:18 am in reply to: Is there only one person whom you can successfully marry? #1174864Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantYou have multiple zivugim at any given time. Based on your actions one of them is more matim than others, but still, don’t worry.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantlol. I remember this…
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantThis thread looks like broken telephone.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantThere is stuff coming out every day. Dovid Lovy, Yehudah, Avraham Freid, and many more people have come out with a new album. Singles and albums really do come out every day. I sugget you check the new arrivals on mostlymusic.
A few places I check for new music is jewishmusicreport, thejewishinsights, and chasidinews (that last one is in hebrew).
Mods, these technically aren’t links…just names of sites so I hope it goes through.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantWhy wouldyou boy want to give yourvchild a meaningful lovely nam. That helps praise Hashemn and is in his holy languag? Why wouldbt you want to remember hashem every time you call your child’s name? Why wouldn’t you want to have a reminder of your purposr and your child’s purpose in this world?
Yes there are some very pretty non Jewish names,why not put it as a middle name. Or a nickname. why label this neshomma with anything but a Jewish label as the main way it’s known by.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantThat was not why I started the thread memo
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantI was referring to the posters in general lol, not you.
Shopping613 ðŸŒParticipantLilmod, when I hear a bochur smokes I don’t think short term. When someone says they smoke in my head that means it’s a longterm thing. I don’t know about other people. I don’t think smoking short term is that bad.
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