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  • in reply to: Yerusha #884206
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    To explain the concept of Nachla, somewhat, it is mainly about keeping the name. The Torah wants the family name to continue. That is why the sons take over the land. Also, every Shevet is supposed to have it’s own territory.

    This is what the Benos Tzlafchad were saying. Rashi quotes the Gemara that they asked that their mother should be Misyabem. Their main concern was what will happen to the family’s Nachla.

    Just as today the family goes by the husband’s name (in most cases), then too. The idea is that women marry and get to eat from their husband’s fields, which he Yarshened.

    One thing might be different today. The arrangement of her Masei Yadayim going to him and him feeding and supporting her is not necessarily kept. Most couples work as partners. If this is established as a fact then she obviously keeps half of the estate.

    in reply to: Yerusha #884205
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    Sam, the Chachamim prohibited blowing the Shofar on Shabbos (for example). That is because of a Chashash. Don’t compare that to targeting the Mitzva directly. Besides, this is a Momonus directive. You would need a Hefker Beis Din to undo it.

    The problem is that even a will can’t really do away with the Bechor part. That is a Lav of Lo Suchal Levaker. It would help to give to his daughters.

    in reply to: Yerusha #884204
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    By the way, having multiple wives, although allowed was hardly practiced. Which Navi, Tana, Amora or Gaon had multiple wives? In the Torah, those who had multiple wives had it for a special reason and with permission of the first. In Parshas Noach the Torah describes couples as Ish V’ishto.

    in reply to: Ike You #884780
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    For the bath, he should allow the water to fall on him, which will quiet the sound. Then he can call, “OFF”.

    For the bridge, he can do something similar to what Rebbe Yehoshua Ben Karcha did. You go on to the bridge while they are inside. Before they come out you turn around and head back. They will think you came from the opposite direction and put you there.

    That $200 for Passing Go in the G of M is not that hard after all. The sentence structure gave it away.

    in reply to: What does everyone do all day? #884374
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    Anyone who is at a computer doing whatever it is that they do, can give one click to see if the three or four current conversations got anywhere.

    Many people log in with their phones. In between here and there they give a peek and a poke. You say you have some time by night and that’s when you check. People have little pockets of time throughout the day, as well.

    in reply to: Who do you find more funny: popa_bar_abba or ZeesKite? #1213984
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    ZeesKite, are you saying that No One does a better job than you?

    in reply to: Ask the opposite gender #989290
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    I figured that part is obvious. Also, the Din would still apply to ZK, but that’s a different story.

    I said only if it’s gooey, since the Gemara was specifically speaking of goo. I think Rabbeinu Chananel is more clear about the idea being that it disgusts people to be near him. Dried goo might also be included. I only meant, as opposed to ketchup or grape juice.

    I was always told that it applies to all Yeshiva, or learning, people.

    in reply to: Ask the opposite gender #989272
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    Just because there are only two genders, does that make these two actual opposites? If there would be 13 different genders, these two would probably be the most similar.

    in reply to: Ask the opposite gender #989271
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    Sam, that’s only if it’s gooey.

    in reply to: Fish and meat #977881
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    Bassar B’chalav is not really Hetter B’hetter. The idea of Hetter B’hetter not being Batul is that there is nothing to be Mevatel. Bittul is more a Din than a Metzius. Bassar in Chalav is an Issur.

    Bassar Bechalav, on the other hand, should really be Assur Bemashehu. Just as in Klaim we say that the Iruv is Assur and therefore there is no Bittul, Bassar Bechalav would be the same, if not for the fact that we need Nesinas Taam.

    in reply to: Gedolim #883711
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    Don’t put up the “Baal Shem Tov” picture. It is not him and it isn’t necesssarily someone you want a picture of.

    in reply to: The Laboratory II – Try Your HTML & ASCII Art Experiments Here #1054096
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    in reply to: CR Techies: Visual Basic #885529
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    Using VB you can start with VB.NET, and build pretty advanced applications. However, you still can’t do low level programming.

    in reply to: Tefilah of the Shelah #881768
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    The Avodas Hakodesh of the Chida has Tefillos for that, and many other things, too.

    in reply to: But what if you have water with you? #882243
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    We wash a second time because the water might have gone to a part of your hand that you didn’t wash.

    in reply to: The Laboratory II – Try Your HTML & ASCII Art Experiments Here #1054075
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    in reply to: quick silver #881953
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    How can I believe what they write about what people used to believe when they get it wrong trying to understand what people today believe?

    in reply to: I Pledge……Forget it i changed my mind #882116
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    They are getting nothing for nothing. What’s the ad worth? Every Yeshiva gives away “major discounts”. Both gain. The Yeshiva wants it to look like more people gave a lot, and the guy gets his discount.

    in reply to: But what if you have water with you? #882236
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    Without a Reviis it is not Netilas Yadayim. The water becomes tamei from your hand and isn’t Metaher it. A reviis is the magic Shiur that acts like a portable Mikva, and is metaher the hand. Once you have a Reviis, it is good for two hands, and in fact many pairs of hands.

    By the way, from the story of Rabbi Akiva you see that you don’t have to use drinking water for washing.

    I mentioned walking 72 minutes because at that point, after drinking your water, you might be within 4 Mil of water.

    in reply to: But what if you have water with you? #882213
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    I agree with Itche that you shouldn’t be left without water. You shouldn’t depend on getting somewhere 45 minutes away. But, to be safe, you can do my Eitza of Passuling the water.

    in reply to: But what if you have water with you? #882211
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    i love coffee,

    Neggel Vasser of the morning is a sakana to drink or walk on. Neggel vasser from a Seuda is not a Sakana. It has nothing to do with Ruach Ra. You dry your hands before eating because you aren’t supposed to eat bread with wet hands. The Gemara compares it to eating Tamei. Rashi explains that it is disgusting.

    Some hold that drying is a part of Netilas Yadayim and that even allowing them to hang dry is not enough.

    in reply to: But what if you have water with you? #882209
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    Walk 72 minutes and drink the water.

    You can Passul the water by using it for anything. Heat up your pocket knife and dip it in the water, and you got it all to yourself.

    Also, if you aren’t alone you can be Mafkir it to your friend and he’ll let you drink from it. you might be Mechuyav to buy it off him, but since there is no water nearby the price will be more than a Chomesh, anyhow. Otherwise use your friend to be Zoche the water for a Goyeshe friend who would let you drink but you’d have to ask before using it to wash.

    Just for the record: Al Nekiyas yadayim is good for the morning, where the Takana is about Chadashim labkarim or Mekomos Mechusim. Where you need Tahara nothing will help.

    in reply to: Logged in to YWN and YWCR #881791
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    Oh, I thought I was the only one.

    in reply to: The Laboratory II – Try Your HTML & ASCII Art Experiments Here #1054043
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    Sure there’s a way, they just don’t let it. <u>underlined</u> <font color=green>colored</font>.

    in reply to: The Laboratory II – Try Your HTML & ASCII Art Experiments Here #1054032
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    Perhaps YW would be interested in making a <heb> HTML tab that would allow you to type in English mode using the keys of the standard Hebrew layout. Such as, T = א and C = ב

    in reply to: When a child eats traif. #881228
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    How did this come in here?

    As to the original topic, you should realize that most 7 year olds have the concept of Kosher and Traif deeply ingrained. Children relate very well to the untouchable concept.

    When a child has frequent contact with close people who eat Traif, he will not be able to view non-Kosher as off the map. It will be more like we don’t eat it but they may. That is why the child is sneaking a piece.

    Adding to this is the fact that most probably we are dealing with a BT, who may have the disadvantage in Chinuch of the children feeling that all this is a choice of their parents, rather than iron-clad.

    When someone has such a situation it will take a lot more effort to give over the correct attitude to the child. It is hard to give specifics, but having more solid Frum aquaintances is one idea. More importantly, speak often and a lot of Hashem, the Torah, Olam Haba, S’char, Moshiach, Kedusha, Neshama, Matan Torah and Mitzvos.

    in reply to: Non religious siblings #881327
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    Since when is not wanting to marry someone called being judgemental? You don’t marry someone because they deserved you.

    in reply to: Ike You #884745
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    Why, how do you spell Ike?

    in reply to: What's a Goy Better Off Doing? #880568
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    They can surely do Teshuva, at least enough to spare themselves from punishment on this world. This is seen from Ninvei and the fact that Paroh’s choice for Teshuva was taken taken away.

    However, it says in Pirkei D’rebbi Eliezer (IIRC) that after somee time Ninvei went back to their bad ways, since they aren’t really able to repent.

    As to Olam Haba, it says, Kol Yisroel Yesh Lahem, not Kol Haumos. Afterlife is not Olam Haba. They do have an afterlife. If they do Mitzvos L’sheim Shamayim they get Olam Haba, too. This is what I’ve heard B’shem the Rambam.

    in reply to: What's a Goy Better Off Doing? #880550
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    Far East, the Gemara says exactly that. When someone goes sour he keeps the Schar of the Mitzvos he did as long as he doesn’t regret them.

    in reply to: Why Are Men More Intelligent Than Women? #1138470
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    I have no patience or desire to verify the assumption of the OP. However, a difference of 5 points is much less thn the difference between one family and the next.

    Another point is that women don’t need a higher IQ to win an argument. They do a good job without it.

    in reply to: How Weird is This? #880712
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    So what are their weekend plans?

    in reply to: Alternative meanings for common words #892503
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    Perpetrator – One who keeps on doing it.

    in reply to: Whoever Said Nothing Was Impossible #990693
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    Well, you can slam a revolving door against your friend ahead of you, or if it is locked (not while it is revolving, though).

    You definitely can staple some water to a tree. In fact, you can even send it in the mail. Just make sure you seal it well.

    The football I never tried, but a hellicopter? Why not? Just pitch the blades the other way.

    in reply to: What's a Goy Better Off Doing? #880541
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    Someone who discards Judaism is a real Apikores and doesn’t have a part in Olam Habah. If he were a righteous gentile he would have a part. And, it is a much worse feeling and realization to know that you had it and dropped it.

    in reply to: What to look for in a guy #880272
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    always, maybe your magnetic field pulled the screws out of his head.

    in reply to: how many times do you dip in at a ???? #880608
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    I once saw that the Baal Shem Tov took Achrayos that one Tevila wouldn’t harm a person.

    Shticky, so is that on tevila for every Uv’shachhhhhhhb’cha, Uvishachbich’…?

    in reply to: Help me understand this #880050
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    147, The Gemara in Shabbos quotes Rav Yosef wishing that he will have a Chelek with those who died Biderech Mitzva.

    One possible approach is that Sheluchei Mitzva Einan Nizakin is a rule that means the person won’t get hurt becase of performing a Mitzva unless there was a reasonable risk involved. The person can still get hurt by any other means that would have happened regardless.

    in reply to: how many times do you dip in at a ???? #880601
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    Once is enough. However, there are certain Kavanos that work with other numbers: 3, 5, 7, 15, 72.

    in reply to: Roland HPD "Handsonic" #879881
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    If you want to drum with your hands, why isn’t a table good enough?

    in reply to: Help me understand this #880042
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    There were times that the reason for tragedy was very well known, and in fact foretold. That didn’t make it any less sad. Yirmiyahu Hanavi, after warning about the Churban for years, cried over it when it happened.

    The Mishna says that Hashem expresses a sadness when a Rasha is killed in Beis Din.

    It doesn’t make a difference what the reason is. For those suffering it is not a time for Mussar, either. But you do have to realize that the world is run by Hashem.

    in reply to: CCTV on Shabbos #879660
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    2scents, very often the Gemara does bring a Raya from practicalities.

    I think you misunderstood our point of the fact that it is being done anyhow. It’s not like I’m planting since it will be planted anyhow. I’m not doing k’siva at all. The camera is marking down the value, or a function of values, for every pixel.

    The pixel being red or blue does ot affect the question of whether or not it is writing. It is all the same K’siva, regardless of what’s there. A person is not anymore of a valid mark than a wall.

    in reply to: Shnayim Mikra v'Echad Targum #879561
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    The Satmer Rebbe used to be Maavir Sedra from a Sefer Torah. I’ve heard of other Gedolim who did that, too.

    in reply to: CREAM OF THE CROP!?! WHERE R THEY??? #879685
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    Just to clarify, what percentage of boys are the “cream of the crop”, and what percentage of girls are “best”?

    in reply to: Infertility treatments – Tzedaka?? #883815
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    Very good point, 42. I’ve heard of some people who feel in charge, that take the Oni to task for having hired a driver.

    If you really feel that bad, give him a normal donation now and mail him even more. Are the graphic designers greedy, as well? What about the printer?

    But I can be Dan Lkaf Zchus those that aren’t. It just hit them wrong. They weren’t expecting and weren’t aware that these people get paid.

    in reply to: Being an individual #879528
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    Err, the brightest of all? Not quite. It is not the top of the class that goes off.

    in reply to: Where to find Making Of a Gadol #901690
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    Getting an inside peak into the mind and growth of a Gadol is indeed fascinating. I didn’t read this book, and I doubt I would. But, All for the Boss had that element. It is a book that shows you how a determined person was unfazed by his surroundings, and how he grew and grew.

    I also enjoyed immensely the Chida’s Masa’os, Magal Tov. It gives a real insight into his personal opinions and thoughts. Although I doubt he would be so happy about people reading it.

    in reply to: CCTV on Shabbos #879656
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    Sam, it seems like you view the wall behind me as blank paper and my movement, or myself, as what’s written. The way I see it is that the whole scenery is being written at whatever frame-rate per second, regardless of whether I’m there or not. That is why I compared it to someone writing what you are saying. He is writing regardless; the content is influenced by you. Like a car that is driving, and you cause it to go left or right.

    in reply to: CCTV on Shabbos #879646
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    Why do you say there is no K’siva whatsoever? It records constantly whatever is in front of it. And that is why it is not like dictating to a computer. It doesn’t stop or go on your word.

    in reply to: CCTV on Shabbos #879640
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    To me it doesn’t seem that different than someone writing everything I say.

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