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    Regardless of Tianamen, the New York Times, Washington Post and Reuters are unreliable and disreputable sources.

    in reply to: Will chabad be good for me? #2054965
    ujm
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    Check Yelp.

    in reply to: NYC bus ticket proof #2054771
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    RW: Where have you ever heard that they stop people who already got off the bus and are on the public street?

    in reply to: The King’s Eyes Widen #2054772
    ujm
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    33, what about 42 (not to mention 99)?

    ujm
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    America shouldn’t be the world’s policeman.

    in reply to: Why is no one talking about the uyghurs #2054727
    ujm
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    Bouncing_Yak:

    Why aren’t you out there publicly protesting against the African cannibals that murder and eat their fellow Africans?

    And protesting against the African tribes (Hutus, Tutsis, Zulus, Amharas, Igbos, etc. etc.) that are at constant unending unceasing warfare against other African tribes, killing each other mercilessly and capturing, enslaving and selling opposing tribesmen and tribeswomen.

    You only care about the Chinese perpetrators but not so much about the African perpetrators?

    in reply to: Tallis Recomendation / Reviews #2054675
    ujm
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    Just add a little glue to any fabric Talis.

    Much more effective.

    in reply to: Why is no one talking about the uyghurs #2054610
    ujm
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    The Uyghur’s aren’t being killed.

    Totally crazy comparison.

    in reply to: NFTs #2054524
    ujm
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    It is ridiculous. Likely a fad. Certainly meaningless.

    It’s like when meme traders move the market on a certain stock for a period of time before it falls back to earth.

    There’s no inherent value here.

    in reply to: The Reign of Mod 29 #2054410
    ujm
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    The trick is to know how to say what you’re trying to convey in a sufficiently subtle manner that’s proven to past muster, whereas had the same message been worded slightly differently it would end up in the recycle bin.

    in reply to: Why is no one talking about the uyghurs #2054402
    ujm
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    CharlieHall: There’s a lot more than three countries in Africa.

    Perhaps you visited those without cannibalism.

    in reply to: Why is no one talking about the uyghurs #2054357
    ujm
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    EJM: You should be more worried about the constant killings in Africa.

    in reply to: Why is no one talking about the uyghurs #2054308
    ujm
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    For the same reason we don’t talk about the African cannibals killing (and eating) each other or the other African tribes at constant war and genocide mass murdering each other.

    What’s going on in African is far far worse than anything in China.

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2054294
    ujm
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    Avram:

    1. My offer to count them was in jest, too. Though, making a point, at the same time.

    2. I didn’t think *you* are apprehensive about this topic. But I know many others are. I once came out of a shiur where the Rov discussed the importance of women dressing tzniusdik, and there was this guy outside ranting that it’s none of the rabbis business and he has no right to talk about the subject. (The same thing I’ve been pointing out happening here.)

    3. I disagree with your assessment that such discussion is inappropriate or a breach of the issue itself. Apparently, we’ll have to agree to disagree.

    4. I’m not following your differentiation of stating the appropriate way of dressing (which you’re okay with) versus the inappropriate way of dressing. A poster or drasha saying “areas x, y and z must be covered” (or a dress must be loose) is much different than if it said “areas x, y and z must not be uncovered” (or a dress must not be tight)?

    in reply to: Not thanking God #2054238
    ujm
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    “That was your sole or main takeaway from my post?”

    Wolf: That was my sole objection.

    in reply to: Not thanking God #2054163
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    Wolf: He is Mr. Please don’t improperly use a title for him.

    in reply to: post of the night: Have you ever been in a din torah before #2054162
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    “Would you follow through if it was not?”

    Are you kidding? That’s like asking would you eat a cheeseburger if you liked it. You don’t have a choice in the matter. You must follow Halacha. No cheeseburgers and yes obeying a Din Torah.

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2054011
    ujm
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    No, you certainly did not answer the question. You made up your own straw question to answer in order to avoid answering what was asked. I asked absolutely nothing about abusers. What I asked about was false claims of abuse. That’s all; nothing more.

    “When dealing with accusers, they must be educated about the effects of their accusations.”

    And similarly you merely say that when dealing with abusers, they must be educated about the effects of their abuse?

    “I would like to hear your suggested answer to your question.”

    My suggestion is to simply follow the Torah. The Torah tells us how to evaluate and judge the validity and invalidity of claims based upon the Torah’s and Halacha’s specified standards of evidence.

    in reply to: guys its normal for girls to go to seminary #2053967
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    The disparity in ruchinus between young men and women is getting bigger and bigger. But given that you havent left the tristate area in a decade you probably dont know that.

    EJM: Your above comment strongly implies that young women outside the tri-state area are doing worse in ruchniyus than young women in the tri-state area.

    Why do you believe that?

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2053813
    ujm
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    User176: Like I said at the outset, you are skirting/refusing to answer and claiming it is virtually never applicable. That is called digging your head in the sand. You are creating a strawman to respond to rather than directly answering the very specific question that I asked. I did not ask how to prevent false allegations in the first place. I asked what to do about false accusations when they in fact do actually occur.

    Your answer about giving Shiurim on Loshon Hora and MS”R to address false accusations is like if someone asked what should we do about abusers and you answered that to fix the problem of when someone abused someone that Rabbonim should give Shiurim that abuse is assur.

    That’s the exact equivalent of your response. Giving Shiurim on L”H and MS”R is gevaldik and necessary. So is giving Shiurim not to abuse. But my question is what should be done to protect those who are already here and now falsely accused of abuse? To protect them from the false accusation and not penalize or embarrass in any way an innocently accused.

    in reply to: Mass Transit in peril. #2053764
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    CS: And what’s your point?

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2053740
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    Reb Eliezer, are you suggesting that we should start off with the presumption that an accused is guilty until and unless he proves himself innocent?!

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2053625
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    User176: Can you repeat whatever message you were trying to say in plain English? I can’t make heads or tails out of you disjointed comment.

    To restate my question:

    What should be done to protect those falsely accused of abuse? And to insure they’re not hung out to dry and effectively murdered in public embarrassment and approbation even before any official conclusion of the allegation.

    That’s all I’m asking. The rest of the commentary you can leave for another time. Please answer the question that was asked.

    in reply to: Not thanking God #2053666
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    takah: Do you have evidence that most Reform (and to a slightly lesser degree Conservative) members *are* Jewish?

    Certainly, you’ll admit that they conduct false conversions, count patrilineal descent (with no Jewish mother) as being “Jewish”, and the non-Orthodox have a close to 80% intermarriage rate. And these factors have been the case for many decades to centuries (depending on which factor we’re discussing.)

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2053628
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    AAQ: Most CEOs and very many business owners (in addition to lawyers, as you noted) are tied down to engaging in their employment or business for an inordinate number of hours every day or week.

    Most Uber drivers, on the other hand, have great flexibility in the number of hours and, perhaps more importantly, which hours they work.

    in reply to: Not thanking God #2053626
    ujm
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    Avira, their current intermarriage rate is close to 80%. The younger generations are much less likely to be Jewish than the older generations. Even 30ish years ago their intermarriage rate was considerably higher than what you’re basing your math on.

    Additionally, they’ve been performing false conversions for well over 100 years already. I do believe they perform such “conversions” at a much larger figure than you’re counting. 1,000 in 2013 sounds like HUC alone, not counting the far greater numbers by individual Reform clergymen across the country.

    The 20% reporting to Pew a non-Jewish mother would only count those surveyed that are aware their mother is a gentile and willing to say so. Most are unaware.

    in reply to: Not thanking God #2053540
    ujm
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    Avira, why do you think a majority of Reform members are Jewish?

    Ironically, the head “rabbi” of the Central Synagogue in Manhattan in a gentile.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2053359
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    Wolf: In your estimation, how much more are you earning today given the Master’s you possess, than had you only had a Bachelor’s.

    in reply to: I am EJMRBro. This is my AMA #2053355
    ujm
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    EJM: I’m really sorry but I must decline you membership in Mensa. Even though this wasn’t even a close call, we do wish you the very best in life.

    Mensa

    in reply to: I am EJMRBro. This is my AMA #2053336
    ujm
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    EJM:

    1. What is the highest level of education that you’ve completed?

    2. What is your primary function in life currently that occupies more of your time than anything else?

    3. What is your most important goal in life that you’re seeking to accomplish?

    4. Which person outside your family that is or was alive in your lifetime do you look up to the most and wish to emulate?

    5. What is your IQ?

    in reply to: Not thanking God #2053319
    ujm
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    Syag, I agree almost in full with Besalel. The only exception I take to his above comment is his disagreement with HaGaon HaRav Avigdor Miller zt’l. Frankly, I can’t even contemplate how anyone could take Besalel’s position over Rav Miller zt’l.

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2053247
    ujm
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    Here’s a question no one’s answered, many have purposely refused to answer, others skirted answering and some dug their head in the sand and claimed is never or almost never applicable:

    What should be done to protect those falsely accused of abuse? And to insure they’re not hung out to dry and effectively murdered in public embarrassment and approbation even before any official conclusion of the allegation.

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2052961
    ujm
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    Avram: A small minority of them. Additionally, I’ve started very many more threads on Zionism (among many more topics) than this; should I supply that number as well?

    Why is it that this particular topic makes people nervous? When discussing Zionism, Loshon Hora, Kashrus, Kollel, or Shidduchim you never have anywhere the number of complaints against even daring to have the hava mina of even talking about the subject. I submit that this is directly because the difficulty many have (both female and well as male head of households who carry the sacred obligation of enforcing them) in complying with the laws on the issue of tznius. And that’s all the more reason to discuss it.

    “In my experience, men in the real world do not sit and schmooze together about this.”

    I can’t speak about your experience, but in the densely populated centers of Judaism, such as in Eretz Yisroel, New York and elsewhere, this topic is very much and often raised by Rabbonim in droshos to both men and women, as well as reminders placed on posted notices in the communities and is certainly often discussed among the Klal and Yeshivaleit as a topic of Halacha and Limud Torah.

    I don’t recall you objecting to discussions here of other halachic topics. Even if it applied primarily to one gender or the other. This particular topic is at least as much the responsibility of fathers and husbands as it is of female members of the family.

    in reply to: Controversial topics list #2052623
    ujm
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    HaLeiVi: The real ones the mods don’t allow.

    in reply to: Amnon’s Pizza Guy from EJMR are you here? #2052518
    ujm
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    Just get it in its original form, at its original location, in the heart of Jewish America, on 13th Avenue.

    in reply to: Free Covid tests now available #2052411
    ujm
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    Anyone successful in getting an order confirmation for the free government Covid tests?

    Not getting past the last step.

    in reply to: people who become therapists usually just want haak #2052386
    ujm
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    Lie down on the couch and tell me everything that’s really bothering you.

    in reply to: Are the Reform and Conservative Still Jewish? #2052385
    ujm
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    No. A majority of the non-Orthodox movements members are Goyim.

    in reply to: Free Covid tests now available #2052342
    ujm
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    CovidTests.gov

    in reply to: Amnon’s Pizza Guy from EJMR are you here? #2052343
    ujm
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    Would you like a drink with your order?

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2052344
    ujm
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    Yeshiva guys wear white shirts and black pants. Why are you only upset that the girls have a uniform and okay with that guys? (Both should wear uniforms.)

    Additionally, when everyone is wearing the same uniform, it creates a more tzniusdik environment. And dark is less noticeable than “COLORS”.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2052022
    ujm
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    Rav Moshe Feinstein ZT’L denounced college in a Teshuva, and in a famous speech delivered to his students, published under the title “The Counsel of the Wicked” (Vaad LeHaromas Keren HaTorah, New York, 1978). There he reiterates that everyone has an obligation to become great in Torah, we should not care so much about Cadillac’s (yes, this was said in the “olden days”), and that learning Torah is what we should be pursuing, not secular stuff. He says in America you do not need college to make a Parnassa, and we should be willing to live on little, not a lot, for the sake of Torah, and that R. Nehuray’s statement of abandoning all skills in favor of Torah applies all that more today that we live in a country where you can make a parnassa without college, with no miracles needed.

    There is a tape available in many Seforim stores called “The prohibition to learn in Colleges” (Yiddish), which contains addresses by Rav Moshe Feinstein ZT’L and Rav Aharon Kotler ZT’L condemning college.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2051995
    ujm
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    Regarding secular studies in high school, the only reasons it is allowed is either because education is mandated by State Law (in New York it is until age 17), or simply because if they did not have high school education in the Yeshivas, parents would simply send their kids to worse places to get it.

    But it is definitely looked upon not as a l’chatchilah, but rather as something that is annoyingly necessary in the current environment.

    Today, there are a number of High Schools in America – particularly in Lakewood – that do not teach English. Also, many Yeshivos do try to reduce the amount of secular studies as much as possible, through knocking out the last semester of English, and a number of kids are leaving HS early to enter Bais Medrash.

    Rav Chaim Segal ZT’L, the Menahel of the High School at Yeshiva Chaim Berlin was once told by Rav Shach ZT’L that if possible, he should not be teaching English studies. In Eretz Yisroel, almost all Chareidi Yeshivos do not have English at that age. Rav Aharon Kotler ZT’L made some kind of commitment not to allow English studies on the HS level in Lakewood. The exact details, and if this was actually a Takanah or merely a preference, is not clear and depends who you ask. In any case, Rabbi Elya Svei, Rosh Yeshiva of Philadelphia and a student of Rav Aharon’s, was asked why he allows English in Philly if Rav Aharon was against it. What difference can there be between the town of Lakewood NJ and Philadelphia PA? Reb Elya answered that he has no choice, and that currently, the Baalei Batim would not send their kids to the Yeshiva except under these circumstances.

    Is any of this the ideal? No. It is not. Is it justified? The schools say it is, as they have no choice. But the point is not what the Jews do, its what Judaism wants. Everyone agrees that it would be a higher level, a preferable situation if we would indeed not learn English even at the HS level, at least not beyond what is necessary to survive. Nobody claims it is an ideal.

    in reply to: Highschools with Secular Education #2051731
    ujm
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    Because Yidden are focused on a Torah education. Secular Ed is done, at most, to fulfill governments mandates. Otherwise we’d spend even more time on Torah and less on secular.

    in reply to: Chug Chasam Sofer Petach Tikva #2051648
    ujm
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    Avira, are the sure about your first comment here? hello99 is a choshuve long time Rov in Eretz Yisroel and has an excellent handle on these issues.

    in reply to: Rapid testing for flight to Israel #2051632
    ujm
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    Shimon, what resolution worked for you?

    in reply to: Chug Chasam Sofer Petach Tikva #2051631
    ujm
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    Hebrew National has been under Triangle-K for many decades, already.

    in reply to: weekend #2051629
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    AAQ, if I’m reading the map correctly, New Orleans, Louisiana is on this side of the Mississippi.

    in reply to: weekend #2051553
    ujm
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    Arizona

    in reply to: Chug Chasam Sofer Petach Tikva #2051536
    ujm
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    Avi: Would you eat Triangle-K meat (i.e. Hebrew National)? Triangle-K dairy?

    If not, what are they doing wrong?

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