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  • in reply to: Sensible gun laws #2092252

    ubi > require background checks for all gun sales (aka the “gun show loophole”)”

    I am also not an expert, but I smell a rat in your presentation. So, these states DO have background checks except the gun shows? Did the latest murderer buy his gun at the gun show? Are gun shows a significant source of guns used in crime?

    in reply to: Recycling #2092229

    HaLeivi, same as you do on ahavta reeha k’mocha. some actions are a brocha in themselves and do not require a brocha.
    But if you insist – she lo asani ganav

    in reply to: Recycling #2092174

    Avira > much use out of the scant resources they had

    you can see from Gemora how people used every part of an animal and broken items. for example, what is considered muktze – broken chairs, nails, combs – as long as they have some use in them. It is not just about binning things, but taking care of clothes, using Amzon boxes to store something. Once, when I started a new job and was writing my notes on the opposite side of a printout, my new boss came in, smiled, and said that he does the same. So, we bonded on that simple decent act (we did not pay for paper, of course).

    Most places I know took security, and grants, seriously. Probably makes sense to spend grants on things that do not require upkeep – fences, gates. Hiring security guards with grants may not be sustainable. Having a course on handling weapons for mispalelim will be.

    in reply to: Bashert #2092172

    yes, she left for the store two hours ago and did not come back yet.

    in reply to: Slavery Reparations #2092169

    I thinkk we should donate 10% of the proceedings we got from Mitzraim. And Bavel. And Rome. And Spain. Germany. Russia, Syria, Iraq, Yemen. As this is a former British colony, can we get at least reparations for York? Maybe New York counts as one.

    in reply to: Politizing tradegies #2092163

    Yserbius > The good: Less people dying from guns, less mass shootings, less murders. The harm: Some innocent people will loose their firearms.

    This all makes sense – in short term. What if some day, USA population would need guns to protect from either external or internal dictators? For external enemy, first thing Ukrainian government started doing when they realized that the attack is coming – started giving guns to population (obviously, untrained). For internal threats – right now half of the country think that Trump is Putin’s buddy and another half that Dems are fixing elections. So, it would seem that 100% should agree that Democracy needs protection. If you rescind 2nd amendment now, you won’t be able to put it back when needed.

    Note that USA has an impressive record of democracy in last 200+ years comparing to most other countries. So, why mess with a country of success. Obviously, some changes are required with changes in technology and politics. I would apply a Jewish approach here – that only a court that is wiser than the original can change fundamentals.

    in reply to: Politizing tradegies #2092011

    I think it would be possible to make better restrictions on gun sales based on age, background checks,etc; make that information available publicly so that locals could protest. If you build an addition to your property, all your neighbors can protest. Why not same with th guns? But the discussion is so politicized that any step in direction of the “other side” will be opposed. I don’t have a good advise here. For the Dems who are righteously worked up here, maybe they can focus on, say, Chicago which I believe has good gun controls, and make sure that it becomes yir shalom. Then, after you figure out all deails of how to do that, other states will copy the experience. When R-s were able to clean up NYC, it definitely affected politics.

    in reply to: Recycling #2091913

    This depends on how people in your environment behave. It does not matter if the whole USA is trashy, but if you live in a clean neighborhood, you would need to uphold the standard. Similarly, if you, R’L live in a country where people don’t cross on red light on an empty street, you would need to do the same.

    in reply to: Trumpism Defeated in Georgia #2091912

    Gadol,
    it is always a suspicious sign when someone articulates his beliefs rather than brings arguments.

    Do you think that Dems will have a different candidate than Biden? I think that if he is healthy and in his marbles, he will be running. Maybe Bernie or some of his younger copy will primary him. I don’t see how Biden can win re-match now when everyone saw him in action. If you know someone who voted for Trump before and will now vote for Biden, please do speak up.

    in reply to: Publicizing Kiddush Hashem #2091907

    ubi, indeed, I noticed that also. To clarify what is Kiddush Hashem here: inappropriately vengeful Gibonim asked to give them 7 bnei Saul, hanged them and left them hang for seems like 6 months. Saul’s (and theirs, as princes?) guilt was that Gibonim lost their jobs after their clients – Kohanim of Nov – are killed. Publicity of public hanging is an equivalent to modern papers or social media … So, when people saw that princes can be punished for sins against lowly gerim, then 150,000 converted to become Jewish seeing such just and non-corrupt society.

    in reply to: Is abortion Murder? #2091778

    direct quotes from R Zwiebels discussion in Tradition: note that, as I said before here, we are not supporting either extreme, and also the 3rd parthat we have to accept that freedom for us means also freedom for someone else who disagrees with us, so we don’t need to fight for every last

    decision of our Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah that we should enter the legal fray a.. o dispel the notion, conveyed by various non-Orthodox and secular Jewish groups, that unfettered reproductive freedom (i.e., abortion on demand) was consonant with Jewish values.

    we advanced three major points: (1) that Roe v. Wade was wrongly decided and should be overturned; (2) that the right to abortion should nonetheless be preserved in the extraordinary case when the pregnancy threatens the mother’s life or where her religious beliefs require that the pregnancy be terminated; and (3) that Missouri’s legislative finding that the fetus is a human being from the moment of conception, which could jeopardize the right to abortion in situations where halakha would demand it, should be struck down as an unconstitutional establishment of religion.

    protection of the right to abortion where pregnancy threatens the mother’s life or where her religious beliefs mandate terminating her pregnancy could result in abortions in cases where halakha would not permit them: …However, under the American system of law, as R. Goldwasser correctly notes, “religious freedoms granted to one faith must be granted to all,” and sometimes the only way to ensure that our halakhic rights are legally protected is to extend such protection beyond the precise parameters of halakha. That is one of the realities of the imperfect world we inhabit as we await the arrival of Mashi’ah.

    in reply to: Global warming #2091775

    Aseh > Before we start worrying about reconciling science with Torah (not reconciling Torah with science, chas v’sholom), let’s first make sure we understand what the Torah actually says.

    it is a good point, but also note that it all goes together. Not many people are completely isolated from the environment – even those who have no cell phones and radios in the car, go to shul with someone who knows someone who is watching MSNBC or Ben Shapiro. So, if they do not have skills to understand modern life, whether science or sociology, they will fall prey to someone’s opinions about those topics, and you can just pray that those will not be most destructive ones.

    in reply to: Trumpism Defeated in Georgia #2091774

    clarifying Biden’s influence based on ballotpedia:
    he endorsed 2 primary candidates, one of them just conceded
    in 2020, he endorsed
    8 senators (50% won), 33 reps (7 or 21% won), 3 governors (1 won), state reps (1 out of 5),
    he endorsed more in 2018, I am not going to count

    Trump:
    in these primaries senator (6 out of 6, 10 pending), house looks like 100 total (half won, half pending, 1 removed) , governor (3 out of 6, rest listed pending),

    Mod, please rename this thread to “Trumpism won in Amerika, Bidenism does not exist”

    Avira > chabad are the only Jews who think there’s value in getting random frei people to put tefilin on once, and that this brings the geulah.

    your mind always focusing on finding where someone is wrong. Naturally, your sharp mind finds it in any group you believe are wrong. Rinse, repeat. I know a lot of ehrliche yidden, ranging from moschihists to normal Chabad to non-Chabad to anti-Chabad who were educated by Chabad shluhim. Some were indeed first stopped on campus by “excluse me, are you Jewish”, others came to shul themselves.

    I am sure these shluchim will get their reward in olam habo, even if they obnoxious or ignorant in some other ways. I hope, but less sure, that you’ll get reward for your sharp opinions. There are a lot of opinions saying that value of Torah learning is devalued by personal shortcomings.

    in reply to: Global warming #2091737

    n0 > It was published over a hundred years ago.

    please give me a reference on what you are talking about. But then again, staying with statistical false impressions – there may be 100 books with 100 opinions printed in 1900, then 1 of them predicts something in the future – does not mean that the public opinion was really on it. But I checked google book ngram (it is like google trends for web, new popularity – but for books back to 1700): there is a indeed a short bump – there are some global warming/climate change discussions in 18th century (whatever that means, there was no man-made global warming at that time),
    then a short bump in 1870s, another in 1950s and then really up from 1985

    in reply to: Global warming #2091735

    > reconcile the teachings of Torah with the teachings of science.
    > Just because science says something now that does not mean that tomorrow a newer science will disprove and overturn it.
    > Separate the two, not reconcile

    these opinions cover a lot 🙂 I think each of them have validity.

    You can live nice ehrliche life without being bothered by science. Just don’t post noreshkeit and hate presuming you know better than those who pay attention.

    Science indeed changes, and Talmidei Chachamim both made conclusions based on science of their time and acknowledged limitations, especially when masorah is different, such as argument whether the world was created from nothing (science acknowledged that 100 years ago with Big Bang theory).

    Studying and reconciling seems like a fascinating approach for anyone who is interested in how Hashem created and runs the world. Possibly, He wants us to engage in that exploration. I forgot who says that pre-flood long lives were required because of lack of writing – so every person had to live enough to collect enough astronomical data and make conclusions about how the world is made.

    in reply to: Learning on Shovuos – Got It All Wrong #2091648

    I usually find rewarding to do deeper than usual learning, focusing on a small number of subjects, maybe from different aspects (here you can bring Tanach, Mishna, etc). I once moved to a new town around Pesach. On Shvues, the Rav invited several people to his house and we had a great learning experience. In the morning, I thanked the Rav for the learning, he looked at me and said – you’ve been at multiple divrei torah I said already and only now you are saying it was good?! Tirutz (that I did not express on the spot) – difference between regular and Shvues learning …

    in reply to: Unusual occupations for frum people. #2091647

    n0 > I do not recall ever seeing a parking meter in Lakewood.

    True, me too. But I thought things changed with the growth. Glad to hear it did not.

    in reply to: Unusual occupations for frum people. #2091646

    n0 > I do not recall ever seeing a parking meter in Lakewood.

    True, me too. But I thought things changed with the growth. Glad to hear it did not.

    in reply to: Every rebbe, every gabbai – get a pistol #2091645

    If you have a gun, it sounds like a mitzva to keep in a safe place and know how to use responsibly (fence on the roof, indirect damage ). So, you should presume that a Rav who is packing, is packing it kosher. If the Rav is not, then he needs to be fired for the aveirah of not being careful based on a random inspection asking to demonstrate his skills.

    in reply to: Every rebbe, every gabbai – get a pistol #2091639

    YS > The Second Amendment is so anti-Torah it’s sickening.

    While Torah commands us to have judges and police, I don’t think there is a mitzva to exclusively rely on them. There are multiple militias in Tanach – David, Yiftach … Plishtim prohibited Jews from making metal to limit weaponry – anti-2nd amendment in action. True, hunting for pleasure is not seen as kosher.

    in reply to: Focusing on the positive side of lubavitch #2091636

    YS > Out of all kiruv organizations … or that shidduchim marred by their past?

    As we discussed, they don’t call themselves “kiruv” and others are trying to copy their approach – imitation is best flattery. But re:shiduchim, I don’t think shluchim family marry their baalei teshuva. Maybe because they know them well 🙂

    in reply to: Focusing on the positive side of lubavitch #2091635

    > you’re not allowed to expose tefilin to ervah;

    Chosid shoteh would not swim briskly to save a lady due to hirhurim. Here, they are trying to save figuratively drowning people! (I do not mean putting tefilin on ladies)

    in reply to: Focusing on the positive side of lubavitch #2091637

    YS > French national anthem a niggun which they still sing today.

    this is a fascinating moment in history – most of Polish/Litvish/Chasidishe Yidden and Rebbeim were enthusiastic about Napoleon, while Baal Hatanya saw assimilation from (1) Napoleon coming to Eastern Europe (this is like Jews emigrating to America, except the “goldene medinah” coming dictly to Jews”) and (2) did not see Russians going away – realpolitik, Kissinger’s style … We have to admit that he was not very wrong in both aspects.

    The machlokes was partially geographic, with Chabad being in current Belorus, while others being in Lita/Poland/Galicia. As we see now, his territory is still under Russia, while others are not.

    in reply to: Every Yids a safek mamzer #2091628

    > make you a mamzer for well over 100 generations.

    Presumably, Hashem makes hidden mamzerim vulnerable to a quick death so it is rare to have 3-generation mamzerim (Yevamos ~ 78). I am not sure how the statement “did you hear about 3-generation mamzer” reflect on “hidden mamzerim” of who you, by definition, do not hear.

    in reply to: What’s with Velvet Collar Kapotes?! #2091630

    > #AUTHENTIC YIDDESHKEIT

    It is not our fault that the whole world copied Litvishe levush!

    Authentic!? I saw Rambam’s photo – he does not look like you at all. Moshe did not recognize what R Akiva was teaching, but at least he recognized him. Moshe probably would pass you on the street and go around, just in case you are a Zoroastrian magi or something.

    in reply to: TWO NAMES #2091618

    This is discussed with Moshe, multiple names reflect multiple personality traits, mahbe coming from different observers. Not a given that they all come at birth, though.

    In practice, even as parents get a navuah when naming kids, some might be better at this than others (like Manoach who could not figure out anything about the malach). So, giving the kid two names will give you two shots to produce something that corresponds to his personality and lifestyle. For example, a Bernard Feivel can be a politician with the first, or a yeshiva bochur with the second.

    in reply to: Global warming #2091598

    n0 > It’s a statistical model. And it’s been ironclad for almost two centuries.

    It is a misconception. A model is built on old data. The more parameters (degrees of freedom) you have, the easier it is to fit to the data. As one Baki told me – you can always draw a straight line through any 3 points! (as long as your pen is thick enough). So, it is no wonder that someone constructs a model that works on all historical data. The real test would be to publish the model and see how it works in the future.

    Same thing goes with stock market that most of us can not predict “shaa ahas” in advance, kal v’homer, 100 years. As financial advisor asked an economics professor – if you are so smart (explaining economics), why are you not so rich? [The retort was: if you are so rich, why are you not so smart].

    Practically speaking – we saw how one month of covid dramatically reduced economic activity in the whole world (and price of oil went below zero) and then a month of war sent oil to the roof and fired up coal … so, when global warming will start really hurting the world, we can always reduce activity, seed clouds, paint the whole globe in reflective color, bomb Chinese coal factories … Solve today’s problems today and don’t try to feed Russian monsters in order to save your beaches tomorrow.

    in reply to: Global warming #2091597

    TS Baum> you take things SOOO seriously

    nobody accused me of THIS before, even Syag!

    Avira > No group of jews ever believed that putting boxes on clueless frei people with the status of goyim or captured babies brings the geulah

    I was first bothered by your erudite criticism of specific Torah approaches, but now I realize you shoot anything that does not correspond to what people in your kevutza approve. This one is probably the most repugnant – you are not just taking on some intellectual with a different shitah, but denigrating both klal Isroel in general and those people who care about them. Skilah shnei tziporim b’ makah ahas, as they say.

    in reply to: Trumpism Defeated in Georgia #2091134

    Meanwhile, President Biden has admirable 50% success rate of his endorsements in these primaries. If could have gotten one more, this would be 100%!!

    He might have endorsed more, but somehow they were not answering phone, and he does not tweet.

    in reply to: Every Yids a safek mamzer #2091133

    > DNA test says that the child was fathered by the next door neighbor

    Yevamos discuss a case of someon who, apparently, can not have children due to a trauma, but then does – does this disprove that he can’t? response – no, suspect the mother …

    in reply to: Every rebbe, every gabbai – get a pistol #2091132

    After many such events, local police in many places parks during services. Be nice, say hello/gut shabbos, bring a cake from shul …

    in reply to: Every rebbe, every gabbai – get a pistol #2091131

    People list cases when guns did not help, but there were cases when it did. for example, there was an attack on a place of worship in Texas, where worshippers responded with precise fire preventing a mass murder. So, even as most Jews do not carry, maybe we should ….

    In shul, you need some safety measures, of course. No guns during kriya, for example, so that bad reading and corrections do not trigger anyone.

    in reply to: Yerushalmi #2091130

    great idea! I thought of doing Shekalim, but kids reminded me that – by mistake – I did it when I was learning Bavli! So, I’ll take Kodashim.

    in reply to: What’s with Velvet Collar Kapotes?! #2091127

    another type of inflation. If everyone goes back to wearing triangular hats and turbans, then Rebbes/Chacham could just wear black hat/multi-colored turbans. Otherwise, soon yeshiva ketinah will introduce velvet so that kids do not feel lower, and the Rebbes will have to go for gold …

    in reply to: Every Yids a safek mamzer #2091121

    > sofek mamzer is worse off than a known mamzer.

    if everyone is sofek mamzer, then nobody can marry nobody, except those who are mamzerim vadai. In such, invesrted, world, hasan and kalla would need to bring kosher witnesses to certify that their parents were brother and sister, or bring a ketuba with other than a father’s name, and beis din need to investigate date of kesuba being before the birth. I am sure, there will be fakers, who will not reveal that the husband gave a get, trying to fool this opposite beis din.

    in reply to: Global warming #2091114

    > Hashem gave us plastic,

    No, he did not. Hashem gave us daas and hishtadlus to develop science and technology to make plastics.

    in reply to: Solution to the Shidduch Crisis #2090576

    n0 > A serious learner should always have what to say.

    R Salanter had a different opinion: you should always preach Yiddishkeit. Sometimes even with words.

    in reply to: Solution to the Shidduch Crisis #2090575

    Syag, thank you! “I learned the most from my students”, best learning is achieved by teaching (including by preparing to teach).

    in reply to: CAN THERE BE ALIENS?? #2090567

    interestingly, Greeks (Aristarchus) figured out that Earth runs around the sun and approximate distances to sun and moon, but his theory was rejected because they could not see any parallax from the stars. They did not figure out that stars are too far away.

    another interesting question of antiquity – where visible stars (about 1000?) are all that is there, or there are more. Bava Basra talks about it.

    in reply to: Is abortion Murder? #2090544

    Look at Yevamos ~ 66 discussing whether a kid inside a goat designated for karban is a separate entity, connected to a case of a pregnant geyores, This should lead to opinions of whether a baby is a separate person before it is born, including for non-Jews

    in reply to: Recycling #2090312

    Important to have priorities straight. Having a lofty mushy goal creates a lot of place for mistaken priorities and opportunities for enemy propaganda. Look at western Europeans who decided that thermometer is a bigger enemy than dictators. Now others are paying for their aveiros that they thought were mitzvos.

    in reply to: Solution to the Shidduch Crisis #2090095

    n0> everybody and their uncle discourages new kollel wives from continuing their studies.

    That makes sense as someone needs to earn a living! But a good learner should be able to share (the essense of) his learning with his spouse while driving her to the store and eating dinner. If I can do it, he can do it. And don’t tell me it is easier for me as I learn less! It is easier for him as he has the whole day – learn for half and think how to summarize for the family the other half.

    in reply to: CAN THERE BE ALIENS?? #2090093

    Avira, yes, this seems like a chazoka – most people I met so far were not aliens (upon verification in case of doubt). So, if someone presents himself as an alien, he needs to prove it.

    in reply to: WHY DO LITVOCKS ALWAYS SAY TACHNUN?? #2090092

    disagree – Litvakim do not say tachanun and have a l’chaim on all yohrtzeits of all litvishe Rebbes! the rest 355 days of the year, they say tachanun and learn.

    in reply to: Losing weight? #2090091

    is your goal to lose weight or mass? If the former, just move to the Moon or at least Everest.

    in reply to: Glorify Learning on Lag Bomer Night #2090001

    Well complaining that learning does not poll well is equivalent to admitting that “we, the people” determine what is and is not popular. Start with YWN – if more people would click on an article about learning instead of hadlakos and physical altercations between whomever, I am sure YWN staff will oblige with corresponding content.

    in reply to: Food shortage #2090000

    Re: shmurah matzah – if anyone is in the business, I suggest ordering shmurah and regular matzah from Ukraine now. They are overflowing with grain that Russians are blocking in Black sea. So, making matza or any other long-lasting product would make economic sense for everyone.

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