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Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant
Of course sending monthly checks for the same amount should have lower overhead than a real insurance.
1% known error? So if you pay 20 bills monthly on autopay, you will somehow miss 2 payments every year? Those two mosdos will not be happy.
March 6, 2025 10:31 am at 10:31 am in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2372611Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHaKatan refers to specific sources arguing against r Soloveitchik. How do they argue? Do they use the same terms as you or do they simply argue with the viewpoint? And I hope you are using moderate sources that I am interested in. We are already established that there are extreme views on both sides that fully reject the opposite view. The question is that what is the position of the moderates, how do they think of the both extremes.
Incidently, while researching this issue, I saw a reference that r Aaron Soloveitchik wrote after his brother’s petirah in response to what he saw as disrespectful article about him. Does anyone have this article? Not sure whether it is in English or Yiddish. This would be a source that both sides could respect, even if not totally objective.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantActually, Sesame Street in Iraq may be not bad. During Reagan times, we subsidized radio propaganda towards the Soviet Block and it was a great source of information there and presumably contributed to their downfall . Maybe, you want some edgier than Sesame Street, but maybe that is the level that works for current generation …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDaas,
I think they want to have some sort of certification and, hopefully, meaningful education. They want stop you from offering a shidduch same way as hairdresser union is not going to stop movers from cutting their child’s hair (or will they?).Maybe, instead of certification, we can have disclosures of education, endorsements by rabbis, (verifiable) statistics – 100 shidduchim based on 10,000 dates .. although even that might call people to fudge their numbers … not sure about endorsements also – I asked one rav who, bli ayin hara, already married double digits of children, he shrugged: “shadchanim did not work out for any of mine”.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcoffee > Extra kneich to Aaq if GH told you not to believe me
?! cool down your coffee. GH and my posts came in the same batch. I do not get private previews from the mods. And when do I do as I am told by either hagadol or hakatan.
March 4, 2025 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2372066Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > The Ashkenazim joined the govt way before R shach . The imeri emes sent R itcha Meir levin to the kneeset. R shach came into the picture after Beagin won
you are right. they supported from outside of the government without joining. Still. R Schach’s position was a change from the previous one. Was previous position conditioned on what party was in charge? After all, Begin was still a Zionist … I am bringing this as an example that very strong position can suddenly change over time…
Note that R Schach did not have any illusions about the government. Begin offered to fully support charedi yeshivos the same way as other schools. Charedi politicians were very happy – but R Schach said to refuse full support. His rationale: you will dismantle your financial support network and when a government changes and takes away the benefits, you will have to close yeshivos.
March 4, 2025 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2372065Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > Firstly yes R kook is relevant
And ZSK similar.I am thinking it is a stretch to try to have antiZ acknowledge R Kook and similar rabonim. It would be easier to have a dialog about Rabbonim that were well known to have respectful relationships (even with disagreements) with Rabbonim antiZs consistently recognize.
ZSK > They also (incorrectly) lump ideologically secularist Zionism together with Religious Zionism
Right. That is why I would advise these guys to go open a sefer from the Rabbonim they can accept and then let’s have an informed discussion. Let them point out what exactly they disagree, how R Yoel argues on R Soloveitchik and let us understand those disagreements. I am shocked, shocked that they are not showing any signs that they opened a sefer. It is not osur to read a kosher sefer that you disagree with. Beis Shammai & Beis Hillel knew other’s halochos.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGadol, there is a yeshiva l’maalah (see Taanis ~ 20) that sends shalom to Rava before every Yom Kippur; to Abaye before every Shabbos; and to an erliche bloodletter – every day. So, I am sure there is a hashgocha l’maalah that visits most famous restaurants every year and small ehrliche kebabbers every day.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr. Pepper – as far as I understand, sawyouatsinai is a generic “Jewish” dating site with YUConnects being a YU segment of that that will presumably not match you to shiksas or apikoiresim. It provides access for shadchanim, whether professional or amateur. I suspect that many of them are just interested yiddishe mamas. I don’t think this service is used wide enough in observant communities, maybe more in more modern, but still not enough.
There needs to be a “network” effect for something to work – shadchanim that talk to each other have more clients.
> whatโs wrong with creating a barrier to new entrants?
that’s an old question. In middle ages, and before, there were guilds in each area ensuring limited service to keep prices high (and, presumably, quality too). Bava Basra describes such a situation and seems to conclude that if there is a talmid chacham, then he should decide, otherwise guild members are free to establish their rules and slash the tires (skins in that case) of those who break the rules.Halakha also lists exceptions when unlimited competition is allowed – teaching and selling perfume. In both cases, benefit to customers (students and poor women) is so important that loss of income by the sellers is allowed. I would reason that shidduchim are in the same category (affecting both Torah students and poor girls ๐ for marrying people, not for providing income to shadchanim.
re: loading resumes
Advertising directly might work, but will create an unhealthy situation with shadchanim bad-mouthing the service and probably lining up rabbis who will pasken against. I am thinking of buying them out – by paying for the data or by outcome on their customers, lederech shalom.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcoffee, Z met a group of senators from two parties. I think there is a principled disagreement on policy between T and Z:
1) T proposes a new approach that has a good chance to work when everything goes well. This is better than the status quo. Except Z, and his country, are not ready to take chances as it is very personal for them.
2) the plan includes unwritten parts that depend on T’s (or US) will. T knows better what his options are. Z does not. So, there is no meeting of mind.
This is a typical game situation with asymmetric info. Say, coffee is trying to sell me his used car. He knows it is a great car that only drove around the coffee room. So, he is asking for $20K. I suspect that this car travelled to florida and back every month, got into accidents and has fake odometer reading. So, I am offering $5K. We can’t make a deal until we find out how to trust each other.And then there is VP who wants to show off in front of his boss. And feels righteousness because he “found religion”. Don’t joke in front of him about “there is a lot at stake”. He can fire up a literal stake for you.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGadol ™ > that can be done surgically and would have very widespread support. Instead, their meat-axe
R Berel Wein recommend an approach to history that judges personalities relative to what alternatives existed at the time, rather than in absolute terms.
In this case, events are fresh and still progressing, so may be too early for non-neviim to judge the outcome, still we already have solid baseline – first Trump term and Biden term that can be presumed similar (at best) to would-be Kamala’s term, lo aleinu.
So, “can be done ” and “better attitude towards Ukraine” are theoretical constructs – realistic D- alternatives are Biden/Kamala’s mindless expansion of government and giving free money “surgically” – to their own supporters (humanity students, unions, etc) and similar mindless Ukraine policy that did not try to achieve nor victory, nor peace, just to make sure there is no second Afghanistan that will hurt them politically.
Would Mitt Romney achieve better results? (1) he would not have a chance because he was not prepared to fight against such dirty allegations as “eighties calling back” (when he called out Russia as enemy) (2) even if he were to become a President, maybe he was not ready to fight real enemies who are not less vicious than democratic media.
March 3, 2025 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2371594Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWhen talking about historical attitudes, one interesting nekudah is a question of participating in Israeli government.
I’ll put it in broad terms, please correct me if I am off: initially, haredim were against participation. Then, sephardim formed their own party and started participating (presumably getting financial benefits for that), while ashkenazim said that it is impossible (essentially HaKatan’s position). Then Rav Schach changed position and formed Degel HaTorah to follow it. Other disagreed. For example (young) R Sternbuch wrote something against this. R Schach did not respond directly but wrote a letter (that was, of course, publicized) to someone else explaining his change.
March 3, 2025 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2371593Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHaKatan > Rabbi Kook and Eim HaBanim Semeichah are both irrelevant
I agree with you that the point of this discussion is not to rely on those with the most pro-zionist position. You obviously disagree with them vehemently.
It would be more productive if you can address more mainstream rabbis (quoted above all over) who accepted interaction with zionists – to some degree, in a limited way, conditionally, with reservations – but more than Satmar Rebbe. The best way would be for you to quote their seforim and explain what you think of those. This is not too much to ask.March 3, 2025 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2371592Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantnon-political > I see parody has become the order of the day
yes, please explain me who will call himself a “katan”? I am not talking about the humbleness, just the nikudos. Nukudos are either Sephardi or Israeli, but position is ostensibly of the loshen koidesh derech. So, maybe it is just a mean zionist plot to discredit their detractors by painting them as stubborn and illogical.
A freiliche Pirem.
March 3, 2025 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2371591Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > they all held of Zionism
Chaim, maybe you need define what the “held of Zionism” means. I presume they were not members of the hashomer hatzair. Were they supporting settling EY; or said that it is better for all Jews to be in EY than die under Commies and Nazis; or agreed to join government, etc. There are a lot of gradation.
For example, R Soloveitchik criticizes both non-religious leaders of Israel (and before) and also those religious leaders who refuse to cooperate with them …
in one 1945 speech, he talks about Tzitz (head, halachik decisions) and Hoshen (political decisions) being attributes of the same Kohen Godol. That politics should be dealt with, and dealt with in torah ways, and he says unfortunately we now have Kohanim with Tzitz and Kohanim with Hoshen each dealing only in their own area and refusing to cooperate.March 3, 2025 8:53 am at 8:53 am in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2371229Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHaKatan, thanks for starting addressing the arguments.
> Rav Elchonon famously wrote then that the letterโs subjects should emigrate from Europe to the US only if they will not be going into an impossible spiritual sakana, like emigrating via YU instead of via Torah VoDaath, for example.
To be clear, I am not “blaming” REW – he was not a navi, like most other gedolim, and he tried to make best decisions he could. Let’s make a thought experiment: REW has perfect knowledge of what will happened during WW2 – what would he do? He could have (theoretically) come to NYC himself and open a yeshiva there and walked around the beach with R Herman, or maybe figure out a more effective approach similar to what later rabbis figured out.
So, if someone else happened to come out with a more helpful answer, whether by chochma, bas kol, or pure luck, do we need to disregard them?> . The topic is the lack of any sources for the Zionistsโ impossible attempt to insert their idolatry into the Torah.
Several people here brought different sources. You can go to those sources, read them, and then challenge them, or maybe agree with them. But answering that there are no sources when you shown them is not productive.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantR Steinberg passed away less than a year ago.
March 2, 2025 11:49 am at 11:49 am in reply to: The antizionism amongst religious Jews has no legitimate detractors #2370725Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> which the Zionist both caused a to which the Zionists contributed
this could be a source of viciousness. Someone needs to defend how their leaders discouraged their followers to go to EY or US or other countries, so the only way is to blame others. Beltzer Rebbe seemingly was able to face the problem directly.
February 27, 2025 12:29 pm at 12:29 pm in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2369785Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > There is no requirement in our Torah that another gadol needs to defend his hashkafa or approach.
I think you are right, and even more: when an important gadol takes a controversial position, others would surely join if they want to support him. So, if they politely stay quiet, it means they all do not agree with Satmar, just don’t want to openly contradict him.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper > I just consider it a tax that Iโm not receiving any benefit for. A small price to pay to this wonderful country that took in my ancestors with open arms when they had nowhere else to turn.
finally, we agreed. Of course, you get benefits – zechus for supporting old people, see Kiddushin ~ 30. But if you complain about it – then you might, H’V lose the zechus.
But I agree with your overall theme – consider the system as a whole. In a complex society, you will obviously have some aspects that do not benefit you personally. Same, l’havdil w/ halakha – “do not steal” is to disadvantage of people who currently have nothing. “do not commit adultery” disadvantages people who are currently looking for more partners. ..
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantsomejew, you say well – but then you don’t follow up on your own pronouncements. We had here several people talking to you and referring each to a different source. It does not look like you bothered to read on and analyze any of them, while calling upon all of us to take Vayoel Moshe seriously. Why can’t you take R Soloveitchik (the one I was referring) or any of others mentioned here seriously? Why are we often having detailed discussion on respected “charedi” rabbis, but not on others? Keep it up.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantard > lets say the ben ish chai told you personally to do xyz, you would have to listen unlessโฆ
I don’t know whether any ashkenazi ever travelled to get psak from ben ish chai, but, if I recall correctly, R Akiva Eger refused to answer a shailah sent from another country, replying – go to your country’s posek.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI solve it by pressing “edit profile”, “save” and going back
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper > I canโt see the shidduch process being automated. Finding oneโs bashert is much more complicated than purchasing a plane ticket
This goes without saying. Sotah mentions an example of a matrona trying this by lining up men v women (by age? by height?). So, we need to think what can be automated. I presume most singles or their parents can handle the task of filtering out resumes by parameters instead of waiting for a shadchan to “decide” who might be a good match – based on her (often limited and biased) understanding.
Let’s take one most innocent step: load all existing resumes into a computer but not shown to anyone. All you could do is do a search by parameters and see how many matches are there. So, a girl searches for someone who is under 30, finished shas, has a master’s degree and loves skiing and gefilte fish. She sees that this generates 0 (zero) matches. So, she sobers up and can start relaxing her conditions to see what gives.
Would this be useful?
practically speaking, imetyouatsinai has interface with shadachanim, but I don’t the system is popular enough for some reason. What are the reasons?
February 25, 2025 11:18 am at 11:18 am in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2369056Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > It makes you wonder if perhaps a bully tactic of spamming is being used.
I admit I never saw them together in one room. But I think they are 2 different humans, just happened to have drank from the same source. If they tell us how is their rosh yeshiva, or their rosh yeshiva’s rosh yeshiva, you can then go and talk to the latter and see whether he actually holds everything they do or they misinterpreted their teacher. One of them is actually responsive to the arguments. but you can try asking chatgpt.
February 24, 2025 11:37 pm at 11:37 pm in reply to: Derech halimud for high school bochurim #2368949Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDaMoshe,
this generation seem to accept that everything is easy and what is not easy “is too hard” and not worth pursuing. It does not mean that they need to struggle thru complicated arguments that they don’t understand, but it does mean that they need to be presented with intellectual challenges at their level.February 24, 2025 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2368947Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantard > you have to listen/accept/follow to anything that comes out of the mouth of a gadol. UNLESS you have a mesora/gadol saying otherwise.
Listen yes, but why would someone follow a gadol from a totally different derech “unless told otherwise”?! In older times, I would happily live in the outskirts of Vilna – without ever being bothered by what Ben Ish Hai is writing – and can be a tzaddik gamur. Were I to have a question, I would go to my local Rav who might forward the question to Vilna Gaon. If I then learn somehow about Sephardi minhagim – would I need to leave my local mishna sseder and start investigating all Sephardi rulings? I don’t think so.
I do agree with you that it is praiseworthy to learn what various gedolim write – and this should lead you to uncover new questions that you then might ask your local gadol and find out what he thinks.
February 24, 2025 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2368946Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantsomejew,
I am not 100% sure that you are right about Gedolim required to prove everything they write. They typically do, but when application is to something that did not exist during Sh’A times, as it often is, that proof also refers to modern facts and also to often intuitive considerations. But, more generally, we are commanded to listen to judges of our generations. And there are circumstances (some listen in Gemora) where a psak can be given on purpose without a reason, at least temporarily. The weight of such pronouncement would depend on speaker’s reputation. So, if R Moshe says something without fully explaining his reasoning, you would weight the fact that majority of his psak is accepted by the community and take it into consideration.I am also not sure how this relates to the debate here: most poskim in our times indeed explain their reasoning, whether they are pro- or anti-zionist. For example, R Soloveitchik explains his approach in the following way (my paraphrase): we are claiming that we inherited Hashem’s Torah and have unique insights in how world is run and how Jews and other people should behave. Therefore, we should address issues raised by changes of the society with our Torah knowledge instead of “hiding in the caves” (his expression).
This explanation convinces me. It also, in my mind, leaves space for others to say that their priority is not to engage with the world, but to preserve their Torah. Maybe it does not convince you, it is fine. I would be interested what fault you find in this argument.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper,
I think you are complaining that social security is not doing what you’d like it to do – work as a personal retirement account. It is just not – you are being taxed to pay for current retirees. Put it in your tzedokah column, not savings column. You also have some hope that when you retire, someone else will pay for your retirement. It will be up to the congress at that time to make that decision. If they don’t make no decision, then the current system will continue and may be insufficient to pay for what you think you deserve. Maybe our children will be generous enough to pay for that, or maybe not, or maybe US will be a province of China and it will be up to Xi to decide your pension benefits. Who knows.Now, the reason you are mislead is due to you being consistently told that social security is waiting for you … their website shows expected payments … these payments are not legal obligation, they are simply an estimate of what you might be paid if future congress continues the same laws as now. Again, any congress may change the law.
If you want a forecast – the minimal age will increase a little; there will be more immigrants at some point (despite current backlash); productivity will increase; Chinese will be defeated and continue their slave labor to send us cheap stuff – and social security will continue provide for retirement of most poor people – otherwise they’ll vote congressmen out.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper,
I am just pointing out that in the history of the world, nobody solved the problem of having quality brokers.
Policing and code of ethics is a good idea, but, again historically, will lead to just creating barrier to new entrants.How about a review board where customers can leave reviews of shadchanim behavior – this works on amazon.
Another idea would be for everyone, including those who are looking for themselves or their family to also keep in mind others.But as I mentioned regarding travel agents – the problem was solved by technology, where now everyone can buy their own ticket.
Similarly, a lot of financial middlemen were eliminated by muutal funds, index funds, robinhoods, etc.
Some sort of automatic information sharing should work in our community.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWolf, refuah shleimah.
Maybe you could make it easier on yourself and arrange to partner with someone and lain every second aliya so that you can rest and continue laining for many years to come?!Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRocky, you have good points. On haskala, I am not sure you are right. Despite the efforts of some communities to isolate themselves from the modern world, intellectual stimulation is still available. It is arguably less dangerous – sciences continue to improve. And that is how science generally works by accumulating knowledge and fixing mistakes – except at major civilizational breakdowns, like dark/middle ages when Europe lost all Greek/Roman science.
So, there is less danger from secular philosophies, but (less dangerous) stimulation via engineering, computers, medicine is still available. While someone becoming a doctor can still be a talmid chochom, not like in 19th century – a secularly educated person still needs to be taught Torah at the level of the increased intellectual potential. I can compare – I have gemora classes both with a very traditional rav and with a group of highly educated professionals, and while halakha is undoubtedly clearer in the traditional class, understanding of Gemora’s historical/philosophical/science is better in the second. The Rav of the first class would be able to participate in the 2nd class discussion, but not the students .
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMy answer is A. Social Security is paid by current taxes.
You hope that future generations will be as generous to you as you were to the previous one. Of course, to quote a joke, previous generation won WW2 while the current one was challenged to sit on the couch to avoid a pandemic – and failed at that. It is now asked to defeat North Korean soldiers in Ukraine running without fire support and we are still on the fence. So, how are we sure that the next generation will respect us and pay taxes to support us? But I digress.
What _bothers you_ – is how social security is presented by media and politicians. And maybe it was like that from the beginning, maybe someone is better on history lessons here. These sources are convincing you that you have a helek in your social security taxes and then you are afraid of Ponzi scheme – because people live longer and population is not increasing fast enough.
First, life expectancy at 65 is not currently increasing, hope you are happier now ๐
SSA numbers: 2000: men 82 women 85, 2010 men 83, women 85, 2021 men 82 women 85Second, each generation has their own challenges: somehow next generation will address how to deal with poverty. As productivity increases, then pensioners of the future would presumable fair better than previous. Even now, they are watching netflix, skype their einiklach, and read books on kindles. Beats what existed 50 years ago. So, have some bitachon, pun intended.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSQRT> Jews who are not Sephardic totally ignore Sephardic Rabbis.
in fact, my local Ashkenazi Rav relied on R Ovadia Yosef’s psak (and sent a shaliach to confirm details of the psak in person). OK, he could not find any ashkenazi posek that would address the problem. Part of the reason was that R Ovadia’s psak recognized authority of Israeli rabanut over marriages in Israel … As part of that story, as part of the shlichut, rav sent an obscure quote from a rishon who seems to support R Ovadia’s psak, to which R Ovadia smiled and confirmed that he saw that rishon.
February 24, 2025 7:01 am at 7:01 am in reply to: You wanted an insane dictator? You got him! #2368319Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> The claim about Musk deleting hundreds of billions of dollars in wasted government money or stopped sending checks to dead Social Security recipients is fiction.
it’s not fiction, just a guzma. Lists of cancelled contracts is posted online as part of open database of government contracts. A contract has a ceiling – how much can be spent under the contract and actually allocated money that the government customer spent. Musk sums the ceiling of the contracts DOGE helped cancel. Some say, actual saved number would be less because some contracts purposefully have a high ceiling “just in case”. This is also true, so Musk’s numbers are less than true savings that will be achieved. I quickly search the names of the contracts, and I think like 20-30% of them had DEI-related words. So, Musk’s claim that he is cancelling nonsense contracts is also true. ๐
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper > How about making Shadchanus into a profession?
Shadchanus is a type of a broker. I don’t think society has great standards for any kind of brokers – RE, finance, etc. In each of these professions, barriers to entry are low, and most of brokers are low on expertise and high on misinformation… I think what works – opening markets, being able to evaluate professionals, and to open up information.
For example, travel agents used to be hoshuve people who could magically find that needed connection. Most people now are fine using automatic brokers. Turns out any normal person could do same magic. Maybe all former travel agents went into shadchanus.
There are online shidduch databases but it seems that most people do not use them. Otherwise, shadchanim horde information and use it to maximize their profit. I listened recently about one forward-looking shadchan – he was bragging how they introduced computer sticky notes and how he is teaching shadchanim that 20th century technology. So, somehow information from eligible singles should flow into a central database that other singles or their shluchim should be able to search.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper > Even though it looks like a Ponzi Scheme
let’s separate facts from gnevas daas:
1) social security is a pension program that collects taxes from working people and pays to older people.
it is legal because it was enacted by a Congress and signed by a President.
it is reasonably logical because it reflects respect to older people that we all stand for.
it is fiscally responsible because it is paid from current funds.it is not an only possible solution.
one possible solution would be to limit this pension program to only poor people.
another – to pay everyone in the country equally.
another – leave it to the states.2) it was not easy to enact in a country that was designed to make big changes difficult and where there is a culture of independence.
So, it was designed to include non-poor people and make it popular among middle class.
Either initially or eventually it was popularized as an “investment”3) if you presume that your children will not be cruel to you, then it will exist is some form in the future
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI meant seminaries/yeshivos
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantCurrently litvishe yeshivos use (relatively new) methodology developed for elite education and apply it to teaching masses (paraphrasing R Berel Wein and others). So, other, more traditional approaches, might better fit. But you need first to define who are the students, what the goals of parents (duh) and educators are, what these students are going to do later in life – and then determine what derech they should be using.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAn interesting idea, but to use a word of yester-year, this will be “inequitable” – only rich girls will marry early. Also, punishments rarely work. How about paying (kollel, for example) to yeshiva bochrim who marry older girls? I am hesitant to suggest for them to marry earlier, because most not ready for real life at the age they marry now.
Another consideration – maybe definition of the “community” is part of the problem? Do people prefer t marry within the same chasidut or “yeshiva velt”. How about going out a little bit – looking at girls who did not hit important seminaries, but might be coming from ehrliche observant families?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantard > yes you are obligated to listen to the satmar rebbe, you may have another gadol whom you follow but you still have to listen to the satmar rebbe, thats like saying i dont have to listen to rโ ovadia yosef since im not sefardi
Ard, what do you mean by “listen”? I personally think we should listen to a range of opinions from Satmar Rebbe to R Soloveitchik and in between, especially on issues of national importance. Think how Jews confronted modernity 200 years ago – with confusion and, as we see now, inadequate response (not to blame those who were confronted by the enormous challenge, of course). By now, we are better prepared, having several ways to respond. Which of these ways is the best and do they need further improvement? We might be able to answer that in another 200 years, or maybe the answer is that Satmar derech is right for some and Breuer derech for others. So, at minimum, we need to be seriously aware of that the options are.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantBachur,
this is part of the discussion. Shutaf works for democracies and he is not sure as you are whether holding citizenship is enough. I am not sure why.
Say, you and I open a partnership and there is a clause that one can leave the partnership and stop paying his part of the mortgage. Then, if I choose to move to another country but not formally leave the partnership, I would be obligated to pay. Same with marriage – can you leave without a get and let her figure it out that you are not interested any more?BUT, he also has a 2nd part about power of government that applies to kings and dictators – that we lived under for centuries. Then, the fact of international treaties that US can use to get you or you bank account matter also.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDr Pepper > Are you opining that Social Security isnโt legally a Ponzi Scheme
Maybe we are confused by the term itself. Geniva daas is illegal. Taxing young generation to pay for older generation is not illegal, but even be a mitzva under Kiddushin discussion about respect to zakenim (especially after they make eligibility age halachik 70 ๐
Or, maybe the power of the government makes Ponzi scheme legal? After all, if I personally come to you and “tax” your income 10% under a threat of my gun, it will not be legal. But the government can do that.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDaas,
there are several points in the lecture:
1) idea that you are a shutaf in the country and this clearly applies to those who actively participate – go back to the country, file taxes when they can get child credit. He is less sure if you left forever or even a citizen who was born in another country. He asked R Schachter and he was not sure, and he says some other anonymous rav thinks that this binds. I personally think that any conscious person who is aware of the laws can make an effort and denounce his citizenship if he really wants to.
2) one reason for dina d’malchuta is that government has a legitimate power over us, not necessarily democratic (see sources below). He quote a case of a Canadian court recognizing extradition request of the US citizen who owned just 8 mln dollars in US taxes. US can also fine bank accounts via international treaties. So, they definitely have that power and you should submit instead of waiting for Musk to uncover your account. By this theory, there seems to be a limit: if you move forever to North Korea outside of US treaties, you don’t have to pay US tax forms
3) in the last 5 minutes, he addresses the accountant problem. He seems to suggest that you at least owe your client an explanation and encouragement to file the forms and pay if anything is due.here is from PDF attached to that lecture:
Responsa of the Geonim (Asaf) #66 (Less extreme in Ramban and others) ืื ืชืืืืื ืืขื’ :ืืืชืื ,ืืืจืฉื ืืืืคืื ,ืื ืืฆืจื ืื ืืืืฉื ืืื ืื ื ืืืื ืืข ืืืืืฉื ืื ,ืืืืืขื ืชืืืืืืื ืชื ื”ืืงื ‘ืื ืืฆืจื ืื ืชืืืืื ืืืืฉืื ืืืืฉื ืจืฉืื ืื When G-d gave power to the kings in the world, he gave them control of peopleโs money, to control them as they will, even those of the Jews, as it says โover our bodies and our beasts as they please.โ10. Rabbi Shimon b. Aderet (Rashba), Nedarim 28a ืืื ืืืฉ ืฅืจืืืฉ ืืืชื ืฉืจืื ืืชืืฆื ืืฉืขืช ืื ืื ืืื ืจืื ืืฆืื ืืืฉื Because he can say โif you donโt follow my commands, I will expel youโ, for the land is his.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantpekak > In a Secular Marriage aka Civil Union the โwifeโ
an interesting point. What would be in Israel without Rabanut weddings? Would they be in the same state as Americans and Russians? Maybe different as Israelis will have less problems with intermarriages. Still, do you NOT think it is a good thing that millions of Jews were married correctly? I am not talking about some card-carrying communists who addressed their sheva brochos to Stalin, but about normal Israelis who have certain Jewish feelings and will cherish the memory of their wedding thru the years, maybe affecting them and their children through their life.
Incidentally, status of publicly known long-term marriage as non-marriage is not that pashut, even as it may be pasken l’kula. Also, when was R Moshe’s teshuva on non-recognition of non-O marriages issued? I think somewhere around 1970. Not sure it affected non-religious weddings also, but if you are thinking as you were in 1950 – you could presume that in the absence of Rabanut non-O marriages will be eventually imported and become a problem.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantas we discussed in another thread, look at long-term effects. Are graduates of this school ehrliche menchen who treat others with kavod? Can they apply their learning to figuring out how to properly work and honestly pay taxes? If yes, this is the right derech (for these students).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantBachur > Not every law passed by a country comes under its chiyuv
absolutely, I listed some above. None apply here. And, again – these laws apply to US citizens, not to anyone in the world.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMy explanation why SS is not a Ponzi:
SS is (1) a tax and (2) payments to elderly.Both are structured in certain way to make it attractive to the voters. For example, SS pays non-poor so that voters do not revolt. Despite that, Congress/President can vote new formulas for SS or eliminate it completely at any time. There is no lockbox, don’t believe Al Gore.
You seem to be confused only because you typically pay this tax when you are young and get returns when you are old. Similarly, you pay medical insurance when you are healthy (and typically young), and get money back when you are sick (and typically old). So Ponzi is in your head and maybe you can blame politicians and newspapers for confusing you.
Your real concern is the “shortfall” – that SS is “losing money”. Something will need to happen due to, B’H, people living longer and, unfortunately, people having less children. It will be up to the voters to decide – increase age, reduce benefits, etc. Like everything else in a democratic country.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantNeville & Daas
>> โdina dMalchusa does not meanโ
> Give me a proof that it means you have to follow the laws of another country in which you donโt even live.I am not sure what the issue is: being a US citizen obligates you. You can stop being a citizen at any time. If you were a Soviet Jew behind the iron curtain, then you would have an argument not to follow their laws until they open the borders! Maybe one needs to look closer at igros Moshe and other responsa to see if they give an exemption if you are out of the country.
Here are a couple of relevant sources:
https://www.yutorah.org/ lectures/889411/Expatriate-Taxation-in-Halachah
https://en.globes.co.il/en/ article-new-immigrants-will-need-to-report-income-and-assets-abroad-1001472163February 18, 2025 11:55 pm at 11:55 pm in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2366472Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHaKatan > The โReligious Zionistsโ have also hurt the chareidim and other Torah Jews in multiple ways,
I am sure there were arguments going both ways. Would you agree that they are primarily responsible for Israel having government paying for religious education; religious marriages; observing shabbat; having official kashrus; official rabanut? You may consider many of these below your standards, but do you see value that these are provided to several million Jews? Picture yourself Israel that is fully secular, shabbat as work day, secular marriages w/ resulting mamzerim, etc – would you prefer that?
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