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  • in reply to: 2016 election and welfare #1137492
    Avi K
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    Chazal assume that a person would be ashamed to take any type of charity. Thus, the highest form of tzedaka is to provide a job (Shach, Yoreh Deah 249,7). This is best accomplished by the free market. In fact, Milton Friedman points out in “Capitalism and Freedom” that his enabled Jews to prosper in America despite discrimination.

    Unfortunately, there is an attitude among many that it is not necessary to find a permanent appropriate solution for someone as the government will take care of him. Moreover, some people like to keep others in dependency either as a means of controlling them or so that they can continue to feel good about themselves. If there were no poor people they would probably make a few poor so that hey could give them “tzedaka” every so often.

    in reply to: Dati in Israel #1204730
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    Akuperma, in a way “right” and “left” are appropriate as the leftists in the French National Assembly were republicans (every Jew decides for himself how to be holy) and the rightists monarchists (Hashem is King). However, Rav Kook (“March of the Camps”) decried the use of chareidi and chofshi (the only labels in his time) as they prevent teshuva. The former thinks that he has nothing for which to repent (after all, he shakes at the word of Hashem) and the latter thinks that as a religious term it does not apply to him.

    in reply to: Is authentic Judaism incompatible with being rich and famous? #1137033
    Avi K
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    Many great talmidei chachamim were wealthy and many were poor. Both are challenges. The Ben Ish Hai, in fact, wrote on this. An anthology has been published in English as “The Challenge of Wealth and Poverty”.

    in reply to: Gut chodesh! Are we supposed to be marbeh b'simchah now? #1137270
    Avi K
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    The Terumat HaDeshen (1, 294) says that which is the real Adar depends on the machloket (Nedarim 63a) between Rabbi Yehuda, who says that it is Adar I, and Rabbi Meir, who says that it is Adar II. Rambam paskens like Rabbi Meir but the Rif, Rosh and Ran pasken like Rabbi Yehuda, which is the general rule. You can access Rabbi Larry Rothwachs’ source sheet on the YUtorah website.

    As for ways to be marbeh b’simcha, the Shaagat Aryeh (65) says that each person has his own simcha so you must answer for yourself. However, I would go easy on the meat and wine.

    Avi K
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    Akuperma, actually according to demographic projections the religious public is going to be the majority in a few decades. As for ruling the Moslems, Rav Kahane, who was a Zionist, wanted to pay them to leave. Another possibility is simply getting them to believe that they cannot win. They will then submit to what they see as their fate. Thus, Moslems in Israel, including Judea and Samaria, were quiet until they started to think that they had a chance.

    in reply to: Calling uncles and aunts without using their title #1136757
    Avi K
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    What if the uncle/aunt is a woman younger than the nephew/niece? This is not far-fetched at all. If someone has a child at age 20 and another at age 42 and the older child also has a child at age 20 the nephew/niece will be the older of the two.

    In any case, the father Joseph saw was over on embarrassing someone in public, which some poskim say is yehareg v’al yaavor. This is especially severe in the case of a child.

    in reply to: Photoshoped shidduch pictures #1136680
    Avi K
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    What about people using pictures taken when they were much younger?

    in reply to: How Do I Know I've Ever Properly Performed Any Mitzvah? #1136311
    Avi K
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    Hashem does not want neurotic servants. We cannot be expected to do more than we can. If you really want to go at it, how do you know that you are you? Maybe a switch was made in the hospital and really you are not Jewish. Maybe really an heir to a great material fortune and the victim of a conspiracy to cheat you out of your share.

    in reply to: Sending Shidduch Pictures? #1136012
    Avi K
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    DY, the Halacha is not like you (Shulchan Aruch Even HaEzer 21,3 – and note that it is even wothy to do so). I would add that it is often possible to learn about someone’s personality from the face. This is known as chochmat hapartzuf (physiognomy) and has been confirmed by scientific studies ((Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol 4, p 44 and British Journal of Psychology, vol 98, p 111).

    in reply to: Time to leave US #1136086
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    Student, the vast majority of the killed are “Palestinians”. Those Jews who are killed were almost all born here.

    Now we have three spies (BTW, those Ephaimites tried after the decree due to the sin not because of a miscalculation). Can we make a minyan?

    in reply to: How Do You Feel the Presence of God? #1136420
    Avi K
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    Feeling His hashgacha.

    in reply to: Time to leave US #1136074
    Avi K
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    Trump said “The Mexican Government is forcing their most unwanted people into the United States. They are, in many cases, criminals, drug dealers, rapists, etc.” He did not say that, in fact, most immigrants were not wanted by their previous governments for political, religious or class reasons. Certainly Jews were not wanted by the Czarist government.

    The above are from the Wikipedia.

    in reply to: 15yo Israeli sees vision of Gog and Magog war #1134440
    Avi K
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    Zogt, Rav Kook explains that in his hesped:

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    Rav Kook goes on to say that in the future the material and spiritual sides will unite (Etz Yosef and Etz Yehuda).

    in reply to: Time to leave US #1136071
    Avi K
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    Joseph, see Yoel 3:5 with Malbim.

    in reply to: Time to leave US #1136069
    Avi K
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    Papa,

    1. Painting all Hispanic immigrants as violent criminals (

    2. Painting all refugees as terrorists,

    3. Opposing birthright citizenship contending that the Fourteenth Amendment does not say what it explicitly says (All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside).

    Trump is a vulgar demagogue. Hillary is a criminal. Cruz is great and a philo-Semite albeit a bit abrasive. Rubio is also good. Maybe Rubio for POTUS with Nikki Haley (mainstream conservative, woman, daughter of immigrants from India, which is an up-and-coming group) for Veep and Cruz for an important judicial position (Alan Dershowitz described him as “off-the-wall brilliant and there are going to be some important cases on religious freedom in the coming years).

    in reply to: 15yo Israeli sees vision of Gog and Magog war #1134435
    Avi K
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    It is not clear from his hesped but Rav Kook held that either Herzl or the secular Zionist movement in general was MBY. In “Kol HaTor” Rabbi Hillel Rivlin says in the name of his rebbe the Gra that the job of MBY is kibbutz galuyot and the material building of EY.

    in reply to: 15yo Israeli sees vision of Gog and Magog war #1134431
    Avi K
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    After seeing the results of an investigation by Rav Avraham Steinberg Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach came to the conclusion that “The communicative method used for severely mentally retarded or autistic people (facilitated communication) should be used as a limited clinical tool but should not be abused for mystical purposes” (Assia, no. 57-58, 1996 pp. 12-13.). In fact, many medical experts consider FC to be nonsense and that the practitioners put words in the children’s mouths (see the Skeptic’s Dictionary on the subject).

    BTW, Rav Mordechai Eliahu said that WW2 was Gog uMagog. When some people came to him and tried to convince him otherwise he told them that if it did not already occur they would have to experience it. They accepted his ruling.

    in reply to: Time to leave US #1136058
    Avi K
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    Joseph, please cite the place where they say that. As for the Three Oaths, I have posted on many occasions why even if they were once in force they are no longer in force. To summarize:

    1. They are aggadata and are not brought down in any of the halachic codes.

    2. The goyim violated their part of the bargain on several occasions.

    3. They agreed to a Jewish state at the San Remo Conference so it is not rebellion (Rav Meir Simcha).

    4. The oaths were only for 1,000 years (Rav Chaim Vital).

    5. Events have shown that Hashem has called (Rav Soloveichik).

    in reply to: Time to leave US #1136054
    Avi K
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    Joseph & Akuperma, can you get eight more gilgulim to join you? Do frum Jews never stray out of their neighborhoods? Never ride the subway, never go to shopping malls? As for the reason for Israel’s survival, it is Hashem (remember Him?). He stopped Rommel at El Alamein. He created Arab disunity and cowardice in battle. He created the Arab Spring that has them in disarray. He created the Syrian civil war that has them bogged down. He is bringing about the Geula and will bring down any empire that tries to stop it just as he dismmembered the Ottoman emppire and caused the sun to set on the British empire.

    in reply to: is this chatas miraglim #1133797
    Avi K
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    DY, thye are much less dangerous than American cities and malls. however, if someone feels that another community is more appropriate for him ain hachi nami he should live there. Rav Kook said that just as Am Yisrael can only develop spiritually in EY an individual Jew can only develop spiritually in his portion.

    Sam,the boundaries of EY are a subject of much discussion. Apparently they depend in large part on settlement. The first mishna in Gittin gives Akko as the northern boundary and David considered Gat to be Chul (Ketubot 110b). However, in the time of the Tanach southern Lebanon was part of EY (Laish) and it is definitely part of the Promised Land.

    Joseph, Eilat was conquered by Shlomo HaMelech (Etzion Geber) and later by the IDF. Both were kibushei rabbim.

    in reply to: If you do not have s'micha, can you advertise yourself as "Rabbi"? #1134346
    Avi K
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    in reply to: is this chatas miraglim #1133792
    Avi K
    Participant

    Joseph, Lebanon requires US citizens to obtain a visa. According to the State Department “travelers who hold passports that contain visas or entry/exit stamps for Israel will likely be denied entry into Lebanon and may be subject to arrest or detention. Even if their travel documents currently do not have Israeli stamps or visas, persons seeking entry into Lebanon who have previously traveled to Israel may still face arrest and/or detention if this travel is disclosed. The Government of Lebanon has the authority to refuse admission to U.S. citizens and to detain U.S. citizen travelers for further inspection”.

    DY, c”v. In fact, I live on a settlement. I am also in favor of settling all other parts of EY. In fact, some of my best friends do not live on settlements.

    in reply to: is this chatas miraglim #1133788
    Avi K
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    Joseph, we cannot enter Lebanon so the question is academic. Why be afraid of entering Jordan? The Jordanian authorities very much want tourism so there is a large police and military presence. This means very few terror attacks and little crime (although women travelling alone might have problems). of course, if one is a resident of EY one should know where EY ends so as not to be over on leaving for no good reason. In any case, I do not think that there is a mitzva to cover every millimeter of EY. In fact, there were anshei maaseh who never left Yerushalayim and today there are roshei yeshivot who almost never leave their yishuvim.

    Quacky, how much depends on the individual’s level. Rav Kook once told someone that the first war Am Yisrael fought was against the king of Cheshbon to show that one must get rid of his cheshbonot. On the other hand, Rav Soloveichik asked a talmid how he would earn a living. Today some people do pilot trips and most speak to counselors at Nefesh b’Nefesh.

    M.A., not to mention the fact that Ramban famously says that mitzvot are only obligatory in Shmutz laAretz so that they will not be forgotten.

    in reply to: Rechnitz Speech in Lakewood #1137770
    Avi K
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    Zahavasdad, then Rabbi Rechnitz should have made his speech to the gevirim? Actually, it might be easier to convince a few gevirim than many regular Jews. If York University pulls its mural it will be because of Paul Bronfman.

    in reply to: Rechnitz Speech in Lakewood #1137763
    Avi K
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    Health, are you paid for being a spy or is it volunteer work? Here the government subsidizes Tora institutions. When Lapid wanted to add a few basic secular subjects in order to give the kids a chance at getting out of poverty (c”v – to whom would the favored few give mattanot on Purim?) he was demonized. Meanwhile, in the UK Jewish schools must teach another religion and respect for toeva. While the US does not go that far in many states Blaine amendments prevent state and local authorities from giving a cent even for secular subjects.

    Reb Yidd, Yogi Berra said that nobody went to a certain restaurant because it was too crowded.

    in reply to: The Geulah will do get rid of the concept of "daas torah" #1133202
    Avi K
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    Sheker, so far as I know there is no source for that statement. Certainly iut cannot be according to its simple meaning. I did hear that in the time of Mashiach we will be able to live according to middat hadin alone.

    in reply to: If you do not have s'micha, can you advertise yourself as "Rabbi"? #1134288
    Avi K
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    Joseph, if someone received a benefit by falsely claiming to be a member of the clergy he can be prosecuted for fraud. If he received a tax break (and there are) he is guilty of tax evasion. The big question is who is clergy. An on-lie dictionary defines it as people (such as priests) who are the leaders of a religion and who perform religious services. It would be interesting to make a claim for a yoetzet halacha or a woman who leads of women’s Tehillim group.

    As for male teachers, at one time many were misters. When this began not to sit well with parents they were given the title “rav u’manhig”. Even someone who has “Yoreh Yoreh” may not serve as a dayan unless he also has “Yadin Yadin” (see Sanhedrin 5a that there was also a semicha for allowing bechorot).

    in reply to: If you do not have s'micha, can you advertise yourself as "Rabbi"? #1134265
    Avi K
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    Ubiquitin, all are equal before the law. A cohen gadol and a mamzer receive the same punishments for aveirot.

    in reply to: If you do not have s'micha, can you advertise yourself as "Rabbi"? #1134256
    Avi K
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    Sheker, neither was ordained. In Pirkei Avot (4:20, the former is mentioned without a title. The latter was either an ordinary mamzer (Sanhedrin 67a – uncensored version) or talmid (ibid 107b) who went OTD. Maybe both. Some historians believe that Yushki was a composite (note that Ben Pandera’s mother was Mary Magdalen[ashaya]).

    in reply to: Truth, Justice, and the American Way #1132435
    Avi K
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    WM, they opposed favoring or disfavoring a particular denomination and supported freedom of worship. However, except for Hamilton who was a blasphemer, they believed that law must be based on religion. John Adams said that the US Constitution is only appropriate for a “religious and moral people” and Washington said:

    “Of all the dispositions and habits, which lead to political prosperity, Religion and Morality are indispensable supports. In vain would that man claim the tribute of Patriotism, who should labor to subvert these great pillars of human happiness, these firmest props of the duties of Men and Citizens. The mere Politician, equally with the pious man, ought to respect and to cherish them. A volume could not trace all their connections with private and public felicity. Let it simply be asked, Where is the security for property, for reputation, for life, if the sense of religious obligation desert the oaths, which are the instruments of investigation in Courts of Justice? And let us with caution indulge the supposition, that morality can be maintained without religion. Whatever may be conceded to the influence of refined education on minds of peculiar structure, reason and experience both forbid us to expect, that national morality can prevail in exclusion of religious principle.It is substantially true, that virtue or morality is a necessary spring of popular government. The rule, indeed, extends with more or less force to every species of free government. Who, that is a sincere friend to it, can look with indifference upon attempts to shake the foundation of the fabric?”

    in reply to: Nice warm, affordable community in the US #1132523
    Avi K
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    Gavra, did you know that the “sainted” Louis in question was the one who burned the Talmud in Paris?

    in reply to: Truth, Justice, and the American Way #1132425
    Avi K
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    Queen, for that matter all American universities required their students to study Tanach in Hebrew. Hamilton wanted it to be the official language and Madison was fluent in it. However, today almost nobody fights for it, not even Superman.

    in reply to: If you do not have s'micha, can you advertise yourself as "Rabbi"? #1134220
    Avi K
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    Sepahradim use “Rabbi” (pronounced “rabbee”) as a title of honor similar to the Yiddish “Reb”.

    in reply to: Is Zionism STILL the Yetzer Hora? #1133111
    Avi K
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    Health, how is the US better? Almost every day we read about some anti-Semitic attack. Not to mention the atmosphere on campuses – and a few years down the road these will be the people in professional positions

    in reply to: Tortured shtachim boys #1126157
    Avi K
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    Health,

    1. On the contrary, this will grant them their wish to completely separate from Israeli society. It might even have other salutary results. Both Georgia (in the American South) and Australia started as penal colonies.

    2. I scream when people try to take the law into their own hands. I would also scream if some group would kidnap extremists and plop them into the middle of the Negev.

    3. That is what these aggrieved women have tried to do. However, with Chareidi control of City Hall on the basis of one tombstone one vote a court suit is necessary.

    in reply to: Is anti-Zionism the sin of the spies? #1126088
    Avi K
    Participant

    Health, there are several turkeys in the Chareidi parties. Which gobbler do you prefer?

    in reply to: Tortured shtachim boys #1126154
    Avi K
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    Tirtza,

    1. If the detainees in Guantanamo are POWs then they should be treated in accordance with the Geneva Convention.

    2. Why believe the lawyers? They also have an interest. If the court finds that the confessions were coerced they will be thrown out just as in the US.

    3. I agree that here should be an independent investigation in order to clear the air. Either way it will be for the good.

    Health,

    2. What difference does it make if vigilantes violate rights without governmental interference? This did much to keep Jim Crow in place.

    in reply to: Is Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1148543
    Avi K
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    Queen,

    1. No place is 100% safe. In America one cannot even go to a shopping mall or an office party without fear. Not to mention home invasions. The fact of the matter is that the intentional homicide rate in Israel is much lower than in the US – and much of it is “family honor” killings among Arabs. Americans, however, have come to accept their situation as normal. When the first Gulf war broke out the hevruta of a friend of mine received a frantic phone call from his mother. When she calmed down she said very matter-of-factly “BTW, last week your brother was held up at gunpoint”.

    2. Ramban says (Sefer HaMitzvot – mitzvot that Rambam “forgot”) that there is a Tora obligation to live in EY in our time.

    in reply to: Is Zionism STILL the Yetzer Hora? #1133086
    Avi K
    Participant

    Queen, Rav Ovadia said taht without the IDF there would be no yeshivot. Obviously Hashem gives them the strength but they do the hishtadlut. The Zohar says that Elisha asked the widow to borrow utensils and supply some oil because a beracha cannot come on emptiness.

    in reply to: Government programs are not tzedakah #1125930
    Avi K
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    Avram, very often grandmother herself has relocated to warmer climes (or to Israel in the case of frum Jews). In any case, what is more traumatic, relocating of having to live on charity? Not to mention the fact that the welfare state encourages break-ups of families and a culture of dependency that spans generations. Eventually it implodes as there is no one left to pay. A far better program would involve job re-training, incentives for employers and paid national service work for those who suffer from age discrimination, which is the largest cause of unemployment among those who want to work. This would also benefit the public as older workers will not leave after a few years for higher paying jobs in the private sector. Besides leading to a stable civil service this will obviate the problem in regulatory agencies of employees feeling that they have to kowtow to those they are ostensibly regulating in order to get plum jobs in a few years.

    Gavra,

    in reply to: Tortured shtachim boys #1126151
    Avi K
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    Health, the laws are supposed to be the laws of the state. However, a vigilante group is trying to prevent women from walking on certain sides of certain streets or stand in certain places. They are turning Bet Shemesh into a version of your pronunciation – Base Shemesh.

    in reply to: Is Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1148538
    Avi K
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    Joseph, Rambam says the opposite about the Hasmonean state. Kal v’chomer our beloved medina.

    in reply to: Is Anti-Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1126085
    Avi K
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    It’s either denial or an attempt to soothe a guilty conscience for not making aliya.

    in reply to: Is Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1148525
    Avi K
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    HaKatan, more nonsense. In fact, if not for the British the Zionists would have been able to get out all of the Jews in Germany who would have been willing to come as well as large numbers of Polish and Romanian Jews. Up to almost the beginning of WW2 all three countries were only interested in expelling their Jews but there was no place to which to expel them. This led to the victory of the faction in the Nazi party that saw Zionism as part of a plot for world domination over the faction that saw it as a movement for separating Jews and gentiles.

    in reply to: Tortured shtachim boys #1126149
    Avi K
    Participant

    Tirtza, TY for the clarification. There is a dispute among those “in the know” as to whether there was actual torture of “special measures” (e.g. sleep deprivation) which were only used because of the severity of the charges (in “price tag” attack they were not used because these were only property crimes). These were not only used with the approval of an AAG but also with the approval of courts – and it is the “Jewish way” (see Baba Metzia 24a – which I quoted in a post of two weeks ago). If you find that scary, what do you think of what goes on in Guantanamo?

    Health, as they are attempting to enforce it is an abuse of basic human rights.

    Moi aussi, the Left says that they are racist right-wingers who persecute Arabs. YAWN!

    in reply to: Tortured shtachim boys #1126146
    Avi K
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    Tirtza, did you ever stop to think that maybe, just maybe, they are guilty. Documents have been found containing plans for terror attacks.

    Health, basic human rights? What about the rights of women to walk on certain sides of streets or stand in certain places in the ultra-Chareidi sections of Ramat Bet Shemesh?

    in reply to: Is Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1148511
    Avi K
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    Joseph, Iran is a tightly controlled totalitarian state. No one is killed without official permission. Is this the kind of state in which you want to live? If so, all you have to do is join the US Navy and ask for asylum after you are captured.

    in reply to: Is Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1148502
    Avi K
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    HaKatan,

    Stuff and nonsense. The Jews in EY were constantly at the mercy of some ruler’s whims. Just to give a few examples, Ashkenazim were forced to wear Sephardic dress as the Moslems would grab any Ashkenzai they could find for the debts on the Hurva synagogue. During the Peasants’ Revolt under Muhammad Ali of Egypt’s occupation, Jews were targeted in the 1834 looting of Tzefat and the 1834 Hebron massacre.

    You can fulminate in denial all you like but the fact of the matter is that the establishment of the State of Israel has not only been a great blessing, and was greeted as such by almost all of the gedolim, as a restroation of national independence (see Rambam at the beginning of Hilchot Chanuka regarding the Hasmonian state, which after the first generation was largely controlled by the Tzaddukim) but, as Rav Soloveichik noted, pulled Am Yisrael out of the national depression that resulted from the Holocaust (which according to Rav Teichtal in “Em HaBanim Semeicha was caused by opposition to the return to EY brought about by the sin of the spies, a sin which apparently is still reverberating).

    in reply to: YU Bochrim #1139198
    Avi K
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    If its good zivug so she changes her sheetot as the wife takes on her husband’s minhagim. BTW, Nechama Soloveichik, granddaughter of Rav Aharon, is a BY alumna and she is a freelance media consultant for conservative Republican candidates, which sounds pretty modern to me.

    As for mainstream, it depends on which stream.

    in reply to: Government programs are not tzedakah #1125914
    Avi K
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    Avram,

    Almost forty years ago there was a program called CETA which paid municipalities to hire welfare recipients for clerical jobs. At the time I worked for the City of NY (I was civil service) and I personally knew CETA workers who eventually took exams and became full-fledged employees. Of course, if there would not be welfare recipients the bureaucrats who administer the programs would then have to work for a living.

    As for relocation, people in America do it all the time. I knew several people who left NY for other areas in order to advance their careers.

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