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tumid bsimcha- you must be a girl.
actually i think that it is a problem of tznius. many yeshiva guys wont even hold a door open for the girl when going into the restaurant because there is an inyan that the guy shouldnt walk behind the girl. rather they hold it open then they walk in and the girl walks in while the door is still open. Therefore it would be untznius to walk the girl to the door.
ceasar salad gets boring but if you broil chicken cutlets and and chop it up and put it in the salad it livens it up
so if a persons parents has bad middos will they inheret??
if you are not overweight than you have nothing to lose!!!
losing weight when you are underweight is anerexia
smartcookie that is completely wrong. obviously you will get to know the person better because you are spending more time with them. i know people that went to their wedding not being so comfortable with their decision to get maried but they just assumed it will end up working out.
HOW CAN YOU SAY IT WILL WORK OUT ABOUT A LIFETIME DECISION??
its worth dating a few more times to really make sure that its for you. whats the rush???
its a matter of self confidence. but if your hair is so curly that ist like seel wool you should straighten it
i guess im outvoted
please say it
ok that makes me feel better
deiyezooger- are you talking about your childish inclinations or the baby in your stomach??
in the alter heim
1)people didnt text and drive
2)people didnt buy 5000 dollar sheitels
3)people didnt tell gedolim what to do
4)people were happy with what they had
oh how touching, ive been waiting for a thread about the alter heim thanks for starting one
i totally agree with you. when my sister started going out my mother told her that she couldnt get engaged before 6 weeks. my sister thought that was crazy, she thought she would be ready after 3 weeks. at a certain point she realized that she really did need a while to decide.
i just hope the divorce rate doesnt go up because of these hasty decisions
can a person make a subtitle or do they need a moderator to make it for them??
well you assumed i was being critical or talking about drinking, please explain how that can be good??
i know im just amazing
in a poem does every line need to rhyme or every other??
ofcourse- they go to only simchas so that they can leave a comment wishing wazal tov to their friend and because they want to seee what others said. its the only place to see the mazal tovs and get gossip along with it
daas yochid- very cute
eclipse- you always assume the worst of me
derech hamelech- im already an expert but ill try to improve
if you ralized that you dont really have anthing to lose and its just a problem of stress, go see a psycologist
but if you really feel like you need to diet try weight watchers. its a really good diet. it allows you to eat all types of food even junk but in limited amounts. i lost 20 lbs in a month on weight watchers but i really stuck to it. if you really want to lose weight you cant cheat. ever.
apushatayid obviously you are yotzei davening from a blackberry but its not ideal. if there are no siddurim its also obvious that its better to use ur blackberry than daven without a siddur
fahkert i think that it is not tznius at all. the whole world is looking at those pictures. and most times more frum people dont post pictures so obviously its not tznius
they are definately less dangerous than cigarettes but only if the pipe has a filter. if you wanna stop smoking buy one of the electronic cigarettes that dont have nicotine in them but somehow they claim it satisfies your need for nicotine. they sell them in 7 11 and in many other places
im not sure what this has to do with the sandwich generation i think it was the same in the “alter heim”
i totally agree. My grandparents built an apartment onto their house for my great grandmother and i think all the gran/great grandchildren learned a tremendous amount from the way my grandparents did it. Imagine when you are 85 you’ll want your kids to do the same for you, so it may be hard but you should really do itJanuary 26, 2011 7:33 pm at 7:33 pm in reply to: #732828
i dont think there is a problem of touching the opposite gender, you can request in advance that they dont try to shake your hand. i know a guy that was on who wants to be a millionaire and he asked the lady in advance and it wasnt a problem
anyways if they do try i think it might be mutar because in a place where there are 3 people watching it will be embarassing if u refuse.
dont rely on me ask your LOR
most companies dont work on saturdays so just find one like that. theres no point in getting a job that makes you work on saturdays and then make a big deal about it, just get a different job
as in most things with shidduchim its no biggie but its blown out of proportion. let them go out and if they like each other theyll forget about the height difference. i think thats how it should be with all small problems.
but if theres a big problem that might be a reason to not go out
daas yochid you really have a skill
you can rhyme for parnassah and bill
believe me you would make a lot of cash
youd have a whole big stash
but im not so good so ill pop a pill
pa is a very good job it takes minimal schooling and the opening salary is 90 grand. but its the same problem as a doctor, it has crazy hours and internship
i totally agree with AinOhdMilvado
another point is that people will be looking at you and thinking what a chutzpa how can this guy do this during davening(thinking you are texting or something) and it will cause them to spend their whole shmoneh esrei looking at you
out of town is much better for many reasons
5)have drivewys to park in as opposed to circling the block for an hour
limericks are hard why are we here
i opened this thread while batting a tear
i really like the poetry thread
“so ill go back” is what i said
but the poetry thread was abondoned as i fear(ed)January 26, 2011 5:04 pm at 5:04 pm in reply to: #732819
mazal tov im a too lazy to go check out the video so can you give me a summary
are you saying the cr is productive???
simchashachaim- sounds like you have something against the issur of yichud??
it depnds on whether you are a girl or a boy. an average girl should spend at least an hour a day on the phone, out with friends etc..
boys may be different
as you can tell from my posts although im a bubby i post in text lingo. i think it would really help if there was a spell check option. i dont know how or if we would be able to do that but when i use microsoft word i get the green and red lines under sentences when they are grammatically incorrreect. Mods please see if this is possible
eclipse that very impressive because they say its just as hard to undo loshan hora as it is to collect all the feathers from your pillow.
but why do we need to know this??
have you ever lost your thought of train??
popa its true speeding is also dangerous but that doesnt mean people shouldnt stop texting and driving they should work on one thing at a time.
and by the way if you ever end up killing someone because of the way you drive ie speeding,rolling stop signs,texting you will live the rest of your life with a guilty feeling and will regret it. so stop now before its too late
i think all the joseph subtitles like
definately not joseph, joseph and all the others are lame and should be removed. i think if someone is zoche to a subtitle it should be creative
SorryJanuary 26, 2011 4:44 am at 4:44 am in reply to: Please List All The Nightmares You Could Bring On Yourself #736527
i dont think it would be that bad
however when my sister got engaged i went onto her only simchas page and left a really girly girl comment like totally freaking out that she was engaged OMG and i thought i was under a different name and when i hit the send button i saw the post go up under my name. That was probably the scarriest moment in my life. it wouldve completely ruined my reputation. BH i was able to delete the post
when do we say chayavinishlivisumay
oh i just remembered my grandmother used to be a nurse and she says that it is a very hard demanding job that really cuts into the time that you have to spend with your husband and kids especially in the first years of marriage. i dont think she would recommend going into the medical field.
especially when you are interning and they make you work crazy shifts.
gavra at work- wow it seems like your a buki in shas. quoting gemaras from lo yachpor
I know a woman doctor but it could be the guy married her only because he is also a doctor. But if you plan on marrying a learning guy he might not want a girl that works crazy hours but then again it all depends on the guy.
I know a girl that wanted to be a lawyer but didn’t because she didn’t think a guy would want a lawyer as a wife so she went for accounting. She didn’t get married for a few years so she decided that’s it I’m goiing for law and later she found a shidduch so it all depends on hashgacha protis
This is a really serious issue and I think its should be discussed with a rebbe or rebbetzin that you feel comfortable with and respect. Its true it may be embarrasing but people will end up finding out so its worth approaching someone.
I personally think that you shouldn’t criticize hom for anything he does and try to be as kind as you can he’s probably going through a very hard time. But at the same time keep your distance so you don’t get influenced.
Maybe suggest to your parents that they should discuss it with their rav, rebbe, rebbetzin
I think spaced out is better then previously the goq. Mods please can I get a subtitle it shudnt be too hard to come up with one for me
Eclipse I’m glad to see that you were able to think of more topics. I thought you were done