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every case is different and every ones personality is different. what works for one does not necessarily work for someone else.
plus, you said it works for you, but thats only a bedieved, you also agree had you been OTD before marriage you would not look for a frum girl to marry, and your wife would not of looked for an OTD boy to marry, because its not ideal and there are issues and problems.
she has to talk to a rav or a frum therapist that had succeeded in this field.
I suggest you speak to someone who deals with these type of issues.
i would suggest:
Rabbi Shais Toub.
Rabbi Manis Friedman.
Rabbi YY Jacobson.
There are many more. unfortunately not all Rabbis know how to deal with this.
just read an interview with Dr. Anna Novikova. seems in is high 60’s or older.
In the current situation with the coronavirus pandemic, can you advice our readers as a doctor?
YES, OF COURSE: DRINK MORE HOT TEA AND WATER. AT TEMPERATURES ABOVE 40 DEGREES, VIRUS CELLS DIE. YOU ALSO NEED TO EAT CHOPPED GARLIC IN THE MORNING ON AN EMPTY STOMACH, WASHED DOWN WITH WATER.January 15, 2020 11:57 pm at 11:57 pm in reply to: A rebbe iz Atzmus uMahus vos hot zich areingeshtelt in a guf #1823328
Mitwesterner. if you wanto understand a statement that someone made, wouldn’t it be best to ask the one who said it to explain himself etc.? obviously yes, so thats why i said that in order to understand this statement you must learn chasidus chabad to understand what a chebad rebbe meant when saying ATSMUS UMEHUS and what he meant by saying a GUF of a REBBE and what he meant with this statement etc.
this statement belongs to חלק הנסתר דתורה so in order to understand this statement you should delve in to חלק הנסתר דתורה. like any other question you have about any subject, you would ask the one that knows that subject well. and in order to understand nister detorah you should learn it with someone who already learned it because its very easy to takes things the wrong way.
BTW you ignored the 2 sources i brought the ZOIHAR and the YERUSHALMIJanuary 15, 2020 3:45 pm at 3:45 pm in reply to: A rebbe iz Atzmus uMahus vos hot zich areingeshtelt in a guf #1823163
Similarly, in משפטים and כי תשא there is a pasuk: שלש פעמים בשנה יראה כל זכורך אל\את פני האדון ה’ וגו’. it says in
זוהר חלק ב’ דף ל”ח עמוד א’: מאן פני האדון דא רשב”י.
and it says in ירושלמי בכורים פ”ג ה”ג: והוי’ בהיכל קדשו דא ר’ יצחק בר’ לעזר בכנישתא מדרשא דקיסרין.
to understand all this you must have a good understanding in אחדות ה’. a good understanding in what a נשמה of a Yid is. a good understanding in what a רבי is. you would need to learn a lot of חסידות חב”ד that discusses these ענינים with someone who is well versed in these ענינים.
When you are done, you are welcome to do the same to my garage. closer to Pesach would be the best time.
Might be dangerous in case someone gets שביעי when expecting ששי.
Ctrl Alt Del. How did cleaning the menorah go?
OIY GEVALD! I am wasting sooo much time on the computer. i could of easily learned the Daf with Rashi AND TOSFOS. i feel i am addicted to the computer.
First, take EVERYTHING out of the garage.
Then sweep and wash with a hose the entire garage.
Then -after its dry- put things back in an orderly fashion. probably, many things belong in the garbage.
Start in the morning, so you could do all this in one day and be finished before sun set.
I dont need anyone’s help to waste time. my computer is enough.
if i remember correctly (girsa deyankusa) that there is an opinion that Emuna is not a mitzvah, its a yesod prior to mitzvohs. once you have emunah you can/will do mitsvos.
Reb Eliezer you brought the Magen Avraham 204 s”k 14 that brings from Ch”m to say with a segol. but you omitted the M”A’s last words there: עמ”ש סימן קס”ז ס”ב. there the M”A says his own opinion to say with a קמץ.
when becoming bar mitzcah the first mitzvah min hatorah you become mechuyev is krias shma.
why cant i post new topics??? i see so many new threads starting
now i cant start a new topic. why?
maybe because today’s parents also changed from what our parents were. so no wonder that our children act towards us different as well.
the AR did not talk about the misnaged, he spoke about himself how he felt those few hours.
It seems to me you are more comfortable with your opinion describing something negative about a giant of a man, a godol and manhig beyisroel. so you change a bit the story to fit your claim instead of looking at the story the way it is and seeing the positive messages mentioned above.
suffering in the misnaged’s house does not mean hating him chas veshalom. but it was a very bad few hours in his house. lets say a small child hurts you, would you hate him? of course not, but you are still hurt and in pain.
The celebration is for the geula of chesidus. as its known that the imprisonment came about as a result of a kitrug lemaala for spreading Penimius Hatora into the open. and the Geula meant that a OK was given for chesidus to be taught to everyone. While in the misnaged’s house he was yelling on the Alter Rebbe for his derech etc. so the complete Geula from any hisnagdus to Chesidus was after leaving the misnaged’s house. BTW the Alter Rebbe did not leave the misnaged’s house before drinking the cup of tea he was served saying its Kovod Achsania.
Reb Eliezer, gut gezogt.
Plus, your Vort explains why on chanuka we play Dreidel, holding it on the top, on purim we make noise with a Grager holding it on the bottom, גוף ונשמה.
Syag, good question, and maybe you are right, i was just searching for interesting topics i can comment.
BTW what does your bungalow look like?
Klugeryid. Thanks so much for pointing this out. never realized that.
I let hot water running on the wax. i do it in the sink in the bathroom because i dont know the kashrus of the wax.
I dont think yidden are hated because of the uncleanliness you have seen. plus, not all bungalows look the way you had described it.
yes in the summer in the bungalow colonies people tend to be more easy and loose in many areas.
and yes, i agree 100% that parents must be a living example of all those things they wanto teach their children.
Joeshmo, if you are getting married in order to be happy, that means that you wanto be a ‘Taker’, taking from your spouse whatever you can to make you happy. this approach is not a healthy one for a happy marriage. To be a ‘Giver’, to give to your spouse constantly is the health approach for a happy marriage.
רבותי! this thread was started with the intention to encourage yidden to improve in Torah and Mitzvos. and nice ideas were brought up above. this thread was not meant to discuss ideas of how and where we can live a safer life, although its a very important topic. some may argue that living in Erets Yisroel today is a Mitsva too. but realistically, no one will move to EY as i result of reading a post here. so lets focus on practical things that a reader might take upon themselves to improve in Torah and Mitzvos.
i’m surprised to see that no one commented on the above.
i totally agree with people being on the phone on the expense of being present for their family members or friends
some of the things you talk about i dont even know what they are. do you really need to know those things? i dont. and i got married, i have children, grand children, lots of nachas, a house, a car, a computer, cell phone.
There are Baruch Hashem today soooo many Jewish books on all topics etc. why turn to not Jewish ones?
plus, there must appear here and there some things which do not suite for us.
plus, if you like one not Jewish book you will wanto go to the library or store to get another not Jewish book, and you might end up getting one day some book that is really not appropriate at all
lets try to come up with something specific. not just in a general way. when pointing out a specific thing there is more of a chance for someone doing something good.
your suggestion might start a discussion on this topic, but lets be realistic, its is not going to encourage anyone to actually move to Erets Yisroel. lets focus on what anyone reading this might do something good today.
great minds think alike
ברוך שכיוונתי לדעת הגדולים
intersting. the maalla of using used one is that the fire catches on faster on used wicks.
the last day you posted on this thread you have woken up in a good mood. in what mood did you wake up today? (just asking)
does your family prepare new wicks every night? or use the old ones?
i personally use the same again and again.
Reb Eliezer 🙂
Never too late for brochos.
i give everyone here all brochos that start with each letter of the א-ב. mainly you should be healthy and wealthy nachas of your children, those who dont have children should be blessed with healthy children, those that need a shiduch should find soon a good suitable shiduch, you should have lots of parnasa, sholom bais, and happiness.
now i wanto get a bracha from you, yes you.December 17, 2019 5:11 pm at 5:11 pm in reply to: Applesauce on latkes is better than sour cream: Prove me wrong. #1811532
על טעם וריח
ואיבעית אימא let me first taste both and only after eating about 5 of each i can tell you. (yes you guessed right, i love latkes).December 17, 2019 5:10 pm at 5:10 pm in reply to: Applesauce on latkes is better than sour cream: Prove me wrong. #1811529
על טעם וריח אין להתווכח!
I’m not sure if it says anywhere how long chava lived. but if it doesn’t, that means that its not important to know. the Torah is not a story book Chas Veshalom. the Torah – meaning every detail that is in the torah – is to teach us something. What is not important for us to know does not appear in the Torah.
singing is called קולמוס הנפש the pen of the soul. singing touches the soul. in an expression of the soul. it can bring you to the desired mood/feelings. the singing during the tefilos of rosh hashana and yom kipur bring to the spirit of those days, and the singing on simchas torah and at weddings bring to joy.
that’s why a man should not listen to a women singing.
thats why many are carfull to what songs they sing and listen to.
when you are dating your main focus should be to see if you share the same values and if you think you would like to spend the rest of your life with her/him. yes there should be also some feelings, but the real feelings comes AFTER deciding on the shiduch and even more after being married.
you don’t marry the one you love, you love the one you married.
Yehudayona. of course a goy does not have to keep chanuka and pesach or any other mitsva besides the sheva mitsvos benei noach. but its very good when the president acknowledges and supports yiddishe traditions and in a public way. it sends a message to all Americans and to the whole world.
AND it makes those yidden that do not yet observe chanuka or other mitsvos to be proud of our religion and it encourages to get closer to yiddishkeit. for many yidden this might be a way to encourage them to keep more of yiddishkeit.
almost sure that a mikva must be in the ground, not in a כלי.
Gadolhador, i enjoy your humor, but not on the cheshbon of galus. we say THREE TIMES EVERY SINGLE DAY לישועתך קוינו כל היום. we dont wanto wait another day.
SK.of course you are right, but its not a contradiction to asking if something is good or bad. if someone is sick is it good or bad? of course Hashem made him sick and everything Hashem does is good, but at the same time one does whatever he can to become well. WE try hard for things to work out in a way that WE THINK is good. and after things happen we should examine it and decide if it was or good or not and if things have to be changed for the better. its not a contradiction.
i think that its a very good thing.